DJHANDSOME: We met a year ago at a shopping mall, we got to really like each and i decided to introduce her to my grandmum(retired doctor). After just few weeks i noticed that they were getting along very well, she visits my grandmum often . Grandy likes her very much and talks about how helpful she is.
Few months ago my girl complained to my grandmum about her school fees ,she studies LAW at uniuyo, 200L. When i went home from my work (my grandmum stays in ma house), I got to know later that she collected 98,000 from my old woman as 2nd semester school? I was shocked, does a federal uni charge that much ?
Today, i was discussing with grandmum and she revealed she had collected huge amounts on occasions for school stuffs
My grandy further inquired if i took the money she was looking for that morning, that is when i immediately proceeded to the place were grandy keeps her cash, only to find out to my suprise the money had reduced tremendously.
Why would someone i love ,adore and respect so much take advantage of a woman in her late 70 s . I am thinking of what to do next....
If she can steal, she's most likely a runs babe too. Drop her and warn her never to come to your place again.
Isaacmacdon: Hmm, there you go again. As much as I know that if Steve was poor it wouldn't have changed anything. That's the kind of money you want? Typical of Nigerians. What's the essence of making money when all you want to do is to flaunt it for ridiculous reasons? Been wealthy is a privilege with a whole lot of responsibilities. Even if I work in shell for 30yrs, I can never be worth more than $20m? Is that how you think?
I might be wrong with that. It could be possible for a few top management staffs to make such amount. My point is that, it's better to be rich than to be poor as long as you don't trade your soul for wealth.
kitaatita: PDP should not play politics with the death of the innocent boy. Rochas and Imo State government should be held accountable. If PDP gets involved in the fray, there will be tendency for supporters of APC to take a position that is at variance with civility; thereby reducing the importance of the situation.
Isaacmacdon: It's obvious you didn't deeply understand my post. There are some certain things that has been said in other to keep us in check. The good book says, 'Human wants is like the world of the dead'. Human wants is insatiable. We should not make acquiring wealth the most important thing in our lives. There are a lot of things that deserves to be taking the front seat in our lives, e.g Family. Besides, being wealthy doesn't guarantee happiness.... Try to reason before you try to make a point.. Steve jobs had all the money in the world, but he couldn't save himself.....
If Steve Job had been poor, would it had changed anything ? No The only problem is if you trade your health, family or peace for money. But I don'"t think Mayweather did any of this. That's the kind of money I want. Even though you work in Shell for 30 years, you can never be worth more than $20m.
abbey621: Let's face it, the man has a point! If we are to believe that the average life expectancy of Nigerians is around 50 then it is only wise to get married early on in life but the pastor failed to acknowledge one important factor, IMMATURITY! In advanced countries, by 18 children are independent, they can get a decent paying job and even live on their own but in 9ja even at 26 they are still free loading from parents, aunts and uncles. By 30 most men are still trying to put together savings because of the high demands by the women and the over bearing society.
Getting married early should be encouraged but that should not be a measure for maturity or spirituality. Marriage is a personal thing.
admax: Arsenal players are poorly paid compared to their mates in the other top 4 club in EPL and they expect them to win the EPL or Champions league anytime soon....lol.
Arsenal match tickets is also the highest in England, they make money also in sponsorship and TV rights! The board is making all the money while the players are poorly paid and fans are unhappy so don't expect them to sack Wenger anytime soon!
dangotesmummy: a decent and conducive House for starters is 120k for a couple o and that's just a neat and habitable self con .so op supporters respect yourself.marriage is not your priority now if you're earning 20k
That's it. 120k that depends where you live. In Abuja for instance, you will need to go far away from town (where things happen) to get such accommodation. And if you go far away from your place of work, you will spend more on transportation. You will be lucky if the company you work for provides you with free bus.
SirMichael1: I can't help but get marveled at the rate in which some blacks do condescending and stupid things for the whites.
Whoever cares to look at that photo again will notice that the tattooed man is a Caucasian male and the bitch is what she is. Black, stupid, senseless, juvenile and naive.
It wouldn't be any surprising to find out that this shitty thing is done to secure herself a green card.
If unfortunately the otherwise happens, she'll be blemished forever to whomsoever keeps the bitch as a wife. The nigga has to wake up to the sight of a tat of a man on his wife's neck who isn't him and then some persons will dare argue with me that blacks are not the cause of their misfortunes against the whites
I don't think he's Caucasian. At best, he's mixed race or probably Hispanic.
Essentials1: Let me advice you with my experience, other people's experience and the NYSC experience...
You are right to be paranoid and the fact that you are means you don't trust your girl so much and that means she is not the kind of person you can say is very faithful no matter what...
I wouldn't advice you looking for another alternative right now... I will advice you to get ready for whatever happens, in fact make friends with this so called guy, incase any thing happens he will be able to tell you and so that you will know..
The reason why I wouldn't advice you to seek for another alternative is because it is better to solve a problem (trust) immediately than postponing it. If you think you girl cannot keep her legs closed long enough, then it is time you know.
I am not saying that your girl is a cheat or a hoe, all I am saying is that if you are paranoid it means that there is one part of you that don't trust your girl completely and it is time to kill that part forever than giving your all into this relationship and finding out that she is the worst for you...
I hope you understand
I don't think the issue has to do with trust. She's just exposing herself to unnecessary temptation. Let's reverse the case. A guy going to stay with a lady. Won't my gf have any cause to be concerned ?
gentle136: He is not wicked but heartless. I understand ur pain
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The Op did not factor in transportation. This post is unrealistic although the Op means well. 30k a month is not enough for me talk less of 20k for a family. Na suffer head be dat. Abi which house person fir rent with 20k a month you come talk say make him pay tithe.
SalamRushdie: This is the type leadership Vacuum those opposed to Buhari's indefinite absence have been talking about. There is reason why a country had a Vice President, God forbid but just imagine if Osinbanjo plane crashes on this trip there will immediately be a complex leadership vacuum which can brew a lot of other complex problems but Buharist have refused to heed common sense on this issue
engrkaz: I found some guys with this cat on my way to work yesterday...Along Lekki-Epe express way. I bought it for 7k.. It has since been processed and chilling in my freezer...
StephDamielola: This is going to be the most goriest video you get to watch today! And your discretion is advised!
A Jamaican Slay Queen broke her neck in a club while Twerking in the air.
She lifts her legs into the air and as soon as she feels she’s found her balance, she raised her legs higher and began to Twerk until she rolled over and her neck snapped painfully.
Ngokafor: Charly boy the anti-Biafran charlatan is simply iddiotic who cant see beyond his ring-strung nostrils never chi chumtin..It is acts like these that can harm Igbos in the north sef not Nnamdi Kanu's IPOB strategy..but foolish anti-IPOB Igbos will never see that
i expect Charly boy to head to Sokoto,Zamfara e.t.c for his next 'anti-buhari' protest.
Silly people.
You can't win if you are fighting different battles. I wonder why you guys are attacking Charlie boy for fighting a just war even though he does not support Biafra. Biafra is complex cos many Igbos in the diaspora are at risk. You can't predict what the average aboki will do to those in the North. As for Lagos or the West, Igbos will always be safe.