₦airaland Forum

DeltahArmy:
This is really nice and should motivate other graduates looking for jobs. I mean, instead of wasting 2,3,4 or more years at home because of unemployment, you can look for small capital from friends and relatives and start selling food at construction sites, market areas, schools and other busy locations. With determination and the grace of God you just might become the owner of another Jevinik and the likes after some years. Kudos to the guy.

All I can say is , "may God help us." . It's sad seeing something like this !

Sanchez01:
That's one mistake some job seekers make. They revel and delight at their new job that they forget certain documentations between them and the company they're employed to serve. I might love the company I work with, but I'd never rule the possibility of a legal path in the nearest future. One should always go the extra mile to request for this. If the company refuses in the end, that should serve as a pointer before anything else.

It's desperation that causes it....

greatnaija01:
maybe i should first clear your MIND and EYES on the differences that exist apart from age

1- I.Q difference... even at the same age... Ladies have more I.Q than guys cos they have alot going on already from a tender age of their first menstral cycle flow...

2. CAREER difference young dude if u have no HIGH PAYING Job simply snap her pics n use it to fantasize cos she may like your face but will never be PROUD OF YOU.

3. VALUES.. Its so obvious you are only FALLING for looks and you barely know what it takes to HOLD a TRUE relationship thru thick n thin... MY YOUNG BOSS... LADY LOOKS DECEIVE o

4. FINANCES. CAN YOU HANDLE HER NEEDS? DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SHE NEEDS? CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF A BABY? ALL IN THIS RECESSION... if you are not financially BUOYANT kindly walk away.... oops if you are WALKING meaning you gat no ride then don't consider it.

5. SPIRITUALLY SAFE: In these new year... no matter what you do.. secure your destiny.. no matter how good your game is.. she will always be ahead of you mentally...if not experientally... DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH... DO NOT JUMP UNLESS YOU HAVE SEEN WHERE U WILL LAND ON BOTH FEET. THIS LIFE IS MYSTERIOUSLY SPIRITUAL.

6. ARE YOU READY TO MARRY? at her age she aint looking for a dude to get laid... she wants commitment and marriage... and if you HURT her she can place a CURSE you will never be able to break. do not underestimate the power of words release from BITTER HURTS.

GO FOR A LADY THAT WILL LOOK UP TO YOU IN EVERY WAY... NOT ONE THAT IS NOT EVEN LOOKING AT YOU. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE TESTING WATERS IN THESE DAYS WHERE KNOWLEDGE IS EVERYWHERE. BE WISE O... ELSE WHEN IT HAPPENS YOU MAY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO TYPE YOUR STORY ONLINE.

How do you know what she's looking for
Op, proceed with your feelings, but keep an open mind. Don't put your expectations too high.

AjayiWrites:
For voicing their opoinion and you want to cage them? Well, I leave that to you guys...


Lalasticlala

For security reasons they should not do such.

overcomer123:
How do couples with different spending patterns cope

my partner is driving me crazy, we have been fighting about everything that has to do with money, she is kinda of lavish and i am prudent. It is really frustrating, she sees me as a miser. She has this idea the higher the cost the more quality, but i know this is not necessary the case. at least from experience, i know how people inflate prices , i try to spend on actual value. I have sat her down and explained to her. How we should nt waste, she promises to change but next thing she is back to the basics.

I also think i may be partially responsible for this, during our courtship, i use to lavish her with very expensive gifts. which to me shd nt be a crime, I wasnt spending beyond my means and there is nothing wrong in giving your woman some exclusive treats once in a while what now bothers me is she expects the cinderella story will continue forever.

There was a day the argument got so intense, she began to say very uncool stuff, on hw she know i hate spending on her and always complain. i really felt hurt. She never looks at the big picture, it is always the most expensive stuff she wants, whenever we do anything.

Our counseling was rushed and proper attention wasnt given to finances and all, everyone just believes she is a well behaved girl. We just got married, I really dont know how i missed this earlier during courtship, but it really causing alot of whahala in our home. The funny part is most of this so called expenses are usually to be solely footed by me. My wife has not for one day called me to say she too will contribute this amount for this or that. I dont complain, or expect, where i have problem is when i decide to pay and she complains it is nt good enough. Am sure if her money was involved she would understand what i mean.

Currently i earn more than her, i found a temporary solution which is to keep her out of the financial decisions, Whenever. i want to buy stuff for the house I dont consult her anymore, i just go and buy the stuff and return home showing her i bought it, instead of the normal asking her which is better and she picks and we begin to fight and argue. This is temporal and actually not the best but what can i do? The fights are just getting to me.

When we started i used to expose her to how much I had and all and plans to maybe get a land and all and maybe start bulding. She knows how much i earn and all. but i dont think she is matured to handled some of these things. And i guess cos she knows of the money available (my saivngs) this is why she just goes for the most expensive and all and just acts lavish.

I had to lie to her that i was scammed of several of millions through MMM to make her forget about the available cash.

Just imagine the rubbish i have to go through.

See me see whahala , me and my own wife again.

Is anyone dating a partner with an opposite spending habit.

Can you share and let me learn how you overcame this problem.

Is that how she spends the money she WORKS for ? If she spends her hard earned money the way she wishes, that shouldn't be a problem. But if it's only your money spends like something out of fashion, then something is wrong with her. .

Allow her to spend the money she works for and work on a strict budget with her.

amoduganja:
During the traditional dress display, one of them wearing a female masquerade attire had the effrontery to address the public in Ibo language claiming that 'Mmanwu Ada' does not speak English. People were even clapping for her. What rubbish!! She should have known that guests from other tribe were present.

. Nonsense

JideAmuGiaka:
Nigerian Girls can't answer those questions because it's not their area of calling.

Just ask them these;
When last did you Bleep?

How many times do you Bleep in a week?

What's your favourable size of dick?

Can you show the world your breasts?

Can you suck mr dick?

What's sex?

Etc.

I went to submit my jamb form years back, this beautiful girl came to me to help her check her form if there's any mistake. I was surprise that in the space where she should indicate her sex, she boldly wrote "three times a week", i ask her what do you mean, she said "i thought they wanted to know how many times i use to have sex in a week". I was shocked.

Yeyedeysmell.

darknetcom:
this are definitly not poor people..

look how they are dressed!...

they ol place is full
....

which poor person has time to show off ...

Runs girls full there oh.

ochuski:
The guy is right when he said "if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife". Waiting to get the whole world can be frustrating most times.

Marriage is money consuming oh !!

Those guys giving tickets made a lot if money.
Imagine the crowd, while Alpha beach was empty

kenonze:
It's only in Naija u hear people calling someone Billionaire... ..
His name is Mr. Tony Elumelu.
Have u heard white man calling Billionaire Bill Gates or Carlos Slim?

Billionaire Kenonze is now a mother of tripplets . This happened after her fling with Flavour. Say Amen.

Estharfabian:
Uhm....Trust Me Guys...I've Seen Quite A NumbEr Of Football Obsessive Fans...(mostly Guys)...A girl Liking Football Well, It's Just Like Saying I Eat Poop! LoL...it's socially Unacceptable! I'd do anything To Live In A ''Football Free World'' Well..Ur Entitled To Ur Opinion...

So, you want your husband to like telemundo...

lovat:
The SW is a civil service state so the recession will affect everything there unlike the SE where civil servants make up 12% of the employed

. Recession is affecting everyone, not just civil servants.

erico2k2:
A bit awkward

Very awkward

profmallory:
Putin is a super Villian if such a thing exists. The man is very mean and has a personal vendetta to restore the soviet era glory of Russia. Obama should never have allowed the following.
1. Leaving Iraq and Afganistan so easily
2. Laying back and watch the middle east being taken over by the Russians
3. Spied on their friends and create so much distrust that their friends have begun to look towards allegiance with Russia and China.

Obama took America down this lonely road and he himself knows it.

I agree with those 3 points, most especially no. 3. Obama stooped so low to do that to Germany. Now they're crying wolf when Russia is doing same to them. Obama fccuked up the Middle East that's why we have ISIS now.

awelekiti:
Imagine the way you talk. Did they hack into our election database? They're a world power so they had a right to see to it that everything went well. America didn't impose buhari on us, neither did they come to polling booths to give us dollars to vote buhari. What Russia did was a cyber crime and it was a game plan between trump and putin, his close ally. Trump had understudied American electoral flaws and so had been planning for the d-day. He had all the money to throw around so, sponsoring cyber crime is nothing to him because he knew what he was going to gain in return. You can't leave the oval office and be poor for the rest of your lif intact, your third generation won't taste poverty. Have you ever wondered why trump was self-funded and clinched the nomination of the GOP,against the party's wish? Since that time, I knew he was up to something. A day preceding election night, I was attending an evening event in which the 95% of the population was white, where a prof from the UK was a guest speaker. At the end of it, the prof said for the first time, America would be ushering-in the first female president...everybody believed Clinton would win meanwhile, putin and trump had perfected their game plans. Please let's leave sentiments out of this. Americans won't appreciate obama now, until after 4 years of trump's rule, if he's fortunate to escape impeachment before that time.

I like your conspiracy theory. Do you have any proof that Putin or Trump is behind the hacking ? The Democrats are sore loosers. What a shame. The Democrats should rather blame themselves for not fielding a stronger candidate. Hillary Clinton had too many baggage. Using private email for a classified discussion is very unprofessional. Don't forget what happened Benghazi.
Everyone expected Clinton to win cos they underestimated Donald Trump. He did his homework well and here is the result. I don't like Trump but I'm beginning to respect him.

profmallory:
Russia has already done what it wanted to do, this is all Obama's fault for being too weak over the years. Now Russia can no longer be tamed and America has landed themselves a "puppet" from Putin as their President.

What should Obama have done ? Fight Russia ? I don't know why they consider Putin a villain

nnannaidoko:
Some people here are so gullible. They fume whenever Obama's name is mentioned because they are very sore losers trying to blame everybody for GEJ's loss. GEJ lost because he was incompetent and ineffectual. Deal with that. The IPOBs dominate all forum posts because they have no life, and are typical nonsense sore losers. They are as gullible and stupid as typical racist, sexist, xenophobic Trump supporters. So please you should all forget about them. As for President Obama, like him or not, he is one of the great American Presidents and he is leaving a strong America for cheeto Jesus in terms of economy etc. Far stronger that he found it. IPOBs can continue their chronic anger because of a two years old election. We await the puppet minority president (Trump).

Wetin come concern GEJ

But America can poke nose in other countries election..

fineboynl:
but what then results in the burning down of mosque?

Same reason churches have been razed down in the North.

KidsNEXTdoor:
It's not fair to say Ali was killed and a mosque was burned down because of 100 naira
It's as a result of accumulated anger in the land
All thanks to Buhari and his gAng of thieves
The country is a British mistake
Which must be rectified by us

Yeah. It's bottled up anger. And these abokis are not helping matters. Just imagine stabbing someone to death in his own house Look at the insolence. Now, one fool will start telling you that Fulanis are the victims.

Rollwitu:
v. Abeokuta

Located in Ogun State, Abeokuta is the ancient city of the Egbas, the Ijebus, and others descended from a common ancestry. The Olumo Rock is the main feature of Abeokuta, and the name literarily means “under the stone/rock” to depict how its ancient people hid in rocks during ancient tribal wars. It is a very traditional place to live in with lots of fascinating attractions to delight the eyes and mind.

Living in this city is cheap because of abundant houses and food supplies, and it also hosts a people warm toward one another. The road network is averagely good and power supply is stable. The security is also good and there is very low rate of crime in the city, with everyone acting as vigilante to the other.

There are hotels and guest houses to cater to your lodging, and recreational facilities to meet your needs. Business opportunities here could be drab just like in Ibadan, but the people manage to get by. There is no major airport, but transportation by land is never a problem

Calabar is not even in that list or at least Uyo
If not for bokoharam, Jos should be on that list too. But, hey. You even forgot to mention Bonny kingdom.

Why lekpa people like things wey big pass dem...

These people can lie.

dollyjoy:
I think you should man up and tell him how you feel,if you can't then please allow sleeping dog lie.


About the phone he bought I don't think that should be a cause to worry about. You are a man, take care of your responsibilities abegi.

Are you sure you're not the girl in question ?

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Some guys dey fall mugu. There's nothing you can do about it. Probably you don't hve a job and having to depend on your brother. It sucks. Just allow him enjoy himself. Learn to accept what he accepts and make peace with her. If not, it's best you leave.
Financial power matters a lot.

My babe dey kill cow sef !!

adonbilivit:
Nairaland please allow MMM to die before you bury it na. Nairaland crashed sometime last year And came back stronger. Linda[b] ikeji's blog was shut[/b] down by google few years ago but she bounced back. let's atelast wait till January 13th...

the coming back of MMM depends on how many people are willing to provide help when the mavros are unfrozen. will you provide help in January if you are matched on the day MMM returns? likes for yes, shares for no

Did NL or Linda Ikeji blog collect money from you ?
Btw, this scheme is not about MMM . Relax. Abi, how much you put inside ?

mediocre:
Chiwetelu's sister

No, it's Zain Asher that's his sister.