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kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

So you've gone to tell everyone in NL what we discussed in the ither room . Ok. I have broken up with you.

doctokwus:
This Deji has been a arse hole,but this protest is supported.
PMB,d senate and that useless CBN governor dont go to d market one day only to go the very NEXT MORNING,and find that price of d same item has gone up.
There are some food items that have consistently had their prices going up every 4days,since this year began.

That's why we should hold this government accountable. Some people were even abusing 2face for planning a nationwide protest. Everyone is being affected, whether Yoruba, Igbo or Hausa.

How tall are they ?

3rd pic looks like they're being scolded.

softwerk:
We didn't need a soothsayer to predict these predictions of yours Mr Freeze!

But come to think of you freeze, Na who you don epp?

If your nanny was considering investing in MMM then maybe you are not paying her enough to even dream of a better life for herself!?

MMM maybe Ponzi and unstable as all its participants knew but they changed the lives of many Nigerians!

Please let's see you CHANGE the life of your beloved nanny by selling one of your EXPENSIVE wristwatches to upgrade her life and maybe Nigerians will start taking you serious!

Unapologetic!

What sort of change ? There is positive change and negative ones.

mavelos1o:
my tax monthly is between 45-85k. and my salary is 80k. working every weekend gives me overtime work 55k. tax alone removes my overtime and i work in the engineering department where i must work weekends. so it's technically free work

The tax is too high. Tax is supposed to be 30% of your income after some allowances are removed.

Ifeconwaba:
Sometimes all this job interview, unemployment this and that want to make me regret going to school

Don't regret. It's just a matter of time.

Appswheel:
You are very correct in your views. Most employers reward employees who are intuitive, innovative, creative and entrepreneurial.

[Intuitive - You dont always wait to be told what to do. You take initiative.
Innovative- You suggest ideas of how to increase company profits, improve company products and services.
Creative - Improve on the company existing methods of getting things done.
Entrepreneurial - You take ownership of your job. Work as if its your own business. Take full charge and responsibility.

However, some people do all these and still do not get promoted. This happens in organisation that do not care about their staff or management that favour staff that are grounded in "eyes service". Again, some employees do not let their Manager or management know what they bring to the table, while it is not advised that you blow your own trumpet, employees must find a way to show their Managers and Management what efforts they are making to make the organisation better. Let them see your effort and the impact it has on the company.

Finally, there is politics in every organisation. Open your eyes and learn the robes. Get close to the people that matter in your organisation, the decision makers. If you put this advise to heart, your name will be top of the list of employees for promotion.

In the last organisation I worked with, I got promoted twice within a year. Not minding the recession, when people are being laid off and salaries been slashed.

I invite you to subscribe to my series - The Memoir of a Job Seeker, a monthly publication where I'd be sharing my interview and job experience with you.

Nice points...

LekkiHost:
I keep wondering why most employers do not promote their employees and this came to my mind..The reason why employers do not promote their employee is that most employees do only what they are told to do..they are not willing to do more, think more or even go the extra mile.
They lack initiative and professionalism.some employees are not willing to learn and develop soft skills needed for them to succeed in their career. they do not do things that exceeds the management expectation and most of all they don't think like a manager but like employee......what else do you think could deprive an employee from being promoted?





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While some of the things you say are true, you should also note that many employers have their own issues. For instance we have Indians and Lebanese who exploit their workers. I don't know whether you've been hearing of poor working condition.
Or may be you are a teacher in a private school. You are an engineering graduate looking for a job. You are asked to teach maths, physics, further maths, intro tech and/or chemistry. How can an employee function well.

Lordsocrates:
I thought Ben Murray Bruce bin get common sense... it is a pity to know....


during GEJ oil was sold At Just 76dollar per barrel and the naira was already nose diving,
Nigeria exports just one thing and imports everyyyy other thing, so when the price of the one thing we xport declines,and we fail to hv a decline in what we import what does anyone with common sense think will happen ?

even Saudi Arabia in all its glory is feeling the bite of the fall in oil price, all oil exporting countries has been brought to its knees, and Nigeria, with the war on BHT, the attack on pipelines by militants et all is supposed to hv been sold of at Amazon by now..

but we are still standing, and we are almost moving towards self sufficiency in rice production...people are leaving their dependence on politics and cheap money, to do things with their hands...

and Ben Murrey bruise dey supose get common sense dong dey follow smol pikin dem play jus to get likes.... shamefull

What is Buhari doing better ?

Valdblngx:
shut the hell up ass.hole. They supported Trump imbec.il.e

No mind the zombie

realone2012:
You people should go on, and turn this to a religion war!
Una eyes go clear..

I have some questions to ask;
Are all Fulanis Muslim?
Because you people are making it seem as if its one religion against the other.
Is the population of Southern Kaduna 100% Christian?
Because SD is a predominant Christian area doesn't mean there are no Muslims and people from other religion being affected by this senseless attacks. Or do they ask them if they are Christian before attacking them?
No matter what, violence should be condemned!
I'm surprised people are trying to turn it to a Religion thingy!! War doesn't determine who is right, it determines who is left.
Religion leaders should know better!

But Buhari and El-Rufai no try at all. Their nonchalant attitude and in-sensitiveness to this matter is the reason why it's escalating like this. Haba! They really are disappointing people who believe in them!

Well, what do I know?

So you see the reason why pst. Samson is making such statement ? A Deeper Life woman was killed up North because she politely asked a Moslem not to do his ablution near her shop. And she got killed. Do you know what Buhari said ? He said we should respect each other's religion ?

Another woman was killed because she was carrying out morning cry. Some people say that she has no right to disturb the peace of neighbours. But does that justify the murder ?
The truth is that Christians are the major victims of this crisis. If any moslem was killed in Southern Kaduna, it must be collateral damage. No one wants war but what do you do when they bring war to your doorstep

Lagban:
Accepting the truth is nt easy. Despite the warning from friends, CBN and the likes, i fell for MMM. I lost 300k : my school fees, money i got from a scholarship board & my hard earned money. I hated any form of gambling ryt from time until the MMM surfaced. I have gat Zero naira in my Bank account as I type. I had several suicidal thoughts in the last 2wks but i realized that I will make more than the Money i lost Thru MMM in no time when i Start working and more importantly, i will end up dissappointing my parents despite their effort over the years to make me gr8 in life. I have learnt my Lesson the very hard way! I love doing things the legitimately way but i could nt withstand MMM temptation. My only regret is the fact that I allowed greed to cloud my thinking

Sorry for your loss. Many people won't admit they've made a mistake. MMM is pure gambling. It's a scam because there are no regulations. If there were rules, you just can't freeze people's money. We kept hearing the promoters say that the banks are envious of them. So funny.

emmanuel596:
In Nigeria when something tragic like this happens we tend to laugh and feel happy about those who were affected by it. You hardly see people rejoice about things like this in other part of the world... Let truth be told
Most of the people who come online to rant and make noise about mmm are members too who are just looking for a means of easing their pains or those who regretted not participating in mmm when it paid and help saved soo many people during the hardship of recession....in Nigeria and africa we are happy at each others downfall... Aside of the fact that mmm issues draws traffic to nairaland I don't see any other reason why nairaland won't let mmm rest... Nairaland has lost competence and credibility since December last year..... Watch out for a new forum.... Www.ogashub.com. ng

When someone close to you looses more than a million naira to thus scheme, you won't laugh at him/her. You would be angry. MMM is just pure gamble. It's just that poverty and desperation made people close their eyes to this scam. Abi who has been paid now ?

carzola:
Please let them go alone..
Because they have never felt
What Nigerian sun does to us.
March my butt... They think is to wear
Gold chain and jump around in the name of performance go and see what sun does to people brains in Nigeria.

May be you are enjoying the change. I'm sure if it was match against Gej, you would be the first. These artistes have made more money than you and they are comfortable. It's for the common man.

Statsocial:
Nice one. The only reason Nigeria is not on that list is because of Christians in the south. Hopefully, Marie le pen would get in and do the same in France too. The reason why most Christians in the west are naive enuf to allow Muslims in is because they do not understand want we face here. Just 0.7% Muslims in USA yet they create so much havoc that ppl are now scared now imagine what Nigerian Christians are going through sharing an almost equal population with them.

You can imagine

These governors are fools. And they want to create grazing reserve for these foreigners

nairaman101:
I suppose that there are lots of child prodigies in Nigeria as this lil boy, gifted with an amazing barbing skills, has been discovered. The 10 year old boy's name is Olakekan and he charges 1k per barbing and is the most sort after in the salon where he works.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BPqXa6qjpDX/?taken-by=chygoz101

He wrote;

Meet OLAKEKAN the wonder kid barber responsible for my cut. He's 10 years old, in JSS1 and he earns atleast 5,000 naira daily from barbing..... Parents please stop training your children like toys. Those little kids you see at home have more in them than you can imagine... Help their future, give them a chance.

[img]http://1.bp..com/-DJmngGVw2v0/WIiQCQYiM8I/AAAAAAALfXQ/I6BgPrUMC5McywwSCzVPgit3POB2FUsnwCLcB/s400/3%2523.jpeg[/img]

http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/01/meet-10-year-old-barber-who-makes-at.html

I hope he goes to school..

dingbang:
The Bank Manager, the tellers, the security men and in fact, the customers are all silly....


First the customers saw what was happening and they all kept quiet... Shows how deranged some persons are..


Are you now telling me that the oyinbo pauper will stand up for a black man in his own country? We need to go back to stone age

I wonder why this guy is defending the bank. If I was the one I would report them to their head office and other related agencies. This is bullshit.
Let him tell us the name and branch of the bank....

FastShipping:
Did you read it at all? He made legitimate points. The earlier students in higher institutions realize that education doesn't guarantee you a good job, the better for them. Every students keep believing government owes them jobs. Government has no business creating jobs. Private sector is there for that purpose.

I'm not a fan of Fayemi for the looting he did in Ekiti but he made some good points.

Some of you should learn to read before making comments on things you haven't read. The moment most of you read the headlines, you start making contributions that a learned fellow wouldn't have made.

If the bolded is true, what moral right does he have to advise the youths. Alternatively, if he had not looted and other politicians like him don't loot don't you think think the youths would have been better off.
I used to ask myself if Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg were Nigerians they would be able to achieve what they achieved.

ilynem:
Contrary to popular belief, tithing is not an old testament thingy. Jesus spoke about it in Matthew 23:23.

If you analyse it closely, you would realize that Matthew, Mark, Luke and John were not yet New Testament/covenant because Jesus had not yet died. Hebrews says that a will is only enforced when the testator is dead.
Jesus was speaking to the Jews under the Old covenant. Sincerely speaking I've not seen anywhere from the books of Acts that tells us to pay tithe.

lovat:
Fulani Herdsmen will kill and destroy lives, nobody will come out and condemned them but when a Pastor speaks out about Christian defending themselves that's when you will see Swine, idiots, dimwits and scallywags yapping about and condemning the Pastor for speaking out.


May all of them have a family member that will be a victim of this herdsmen carnage.


What comment did Freeze made when Council of Ulamas blame CAN fpr Southern Kaduna crisis?

I can Never be a victim of Political Correctness. Yorubas wake up, it's getting too close to call


As for Tonyebarcanista, we all know he would soon sing another noisy song when ECOWAS youth stop paying

Don't mind Freeze. See him quoting scriptures as if he practices them.

234GT:
If this woman is not jailed after four years of Buhari's rule, then I know that Buhari is a toothless dog.

Jailed like that ? We dey democracy oh ! Besides, let the EFCC do their job well to come up with facts.

ritababe:
200000 in new York that's good, I for like to join self.

U fit do am for US embassy. Make you and your friends remove una shirt and bra then begin a walk to the US

2shur:
if u live in benin...or a place with less traffic.
buy manual.
if u live in lag..and mahor cities with huge traffic.
my guy u go geh muscle pull...frustrations...gear shifting and clutch wohala.baba avoid manual.
feel likay boss and use auto

mumu..dem dey see range rover manual.
some fools dey see automatic is old school.
recent cars are all auto.
well r dat kind of scrap mercedes sef..na manual go fit am .abegi

Automatic as old school keh ? That's the problem when you come to NL gir advice.

hopey8088:
Pls I want to buy a mercedes benz c180 and I am wondering which one I should go for, manual or auto transmission. Pls experts give your advice and reasons pls.

I would prefer automatic cos it's mire convenient. Only disadvantage is that if gear box issues when it gets older

SirAweezy:
Pray one day while speeding your "Machine" won't fail to the extent of losing control to meet an incoming petrol tanker. Say Amen to this!

May be you should have asked the right speed. I know the car I use and the right speed. But that does not mean road construction should be going on at the wrong time. Even the best driver could have an accident.