r231:

oya now....

what time should i pick u up

Erm, i think i will fly solo. Tho the last time I did, it didn't work out well, a guy propositioned me. The idea is to be comfortable doing things without guys.


@RR: I'm more of a hips don't lie kinda lady. I do a little of the rest except krukere. I can't do krukere outside my room. I can't afford to look like an embecile while i'm dancing.

r231:

TGIF!

Dusting off my dancing shoes, I'm in the mood for a lot of fun this evening, like, getting on the dance floor and sweating it out.

r231:

na me kuku ban myself cus of laziness

cant be bothered to go upstairs

Hmmmmmmmm, ok.

r231:

I slept on the chair

Why? Who barred you from the bed and what did you do?

*brings out her pen and writes somethings down*

God bless you, Debrief et al.

Chillisauce:

Don't take it to heart. I apologize for the pity party thing since you are clearly offended, but learn to move on when ppl say they are happy. That's all! Case closed.

There is nothing to be offended about. Clearly you misunderstood me. I didn't say anything about her engagement. Clearly she is happy but to think i'm not happy for her is ridiculous, cos i am.

I just pointed to a trait which she exhibits in all her threads, which has nothing to do with her getting engaged, all you would have done is check them out first before you attack me.

Case closed.

Amelian, i'm serious about what i told you. you might not see it but it exist in you or atleast a version of you here on NL.

There is nothing wrong in marrying a rich man, i want that too or its raw material. There is nothing wrong in working hard and being successful. I may or may not be as successful as you are but what I'm telling you is not out of jealousy as dimwit- chilli whatever implied. If anything, your handwork is very inspiring.

Maybe i'm the first to notice this cos i have a way of relating with people, i dont know but babe you have to work on it.

Or

you can play the "she is jealous" card all you want, you won't be the first.

I remember a certain beautiful lady who went down this road in the Romance Section. I saw it first maybe, and advised her like i'm doing to you now. Dimwits like chilli-whatever told her i'm jealous of her cos i'm not as beautiful as she is. Not too long, other people started seeing it too and things escalated. Now she hardly visits Romance Section cos she thinks people hated her.

But again, you can discard this advice. After all i live a sorry life ask Chilli-whatever.

your call.

Congrats once again on your engagement. May your union-to-be be blessed.

Chillisauce:

No one boasting here. If you see it as boast clearly shows your complex. She described something for ppl to get a feel of her story. You come down and labeled her as being materialistic.
As for my life, don't let me get you started. Cars are nothing, but you bringing it up in the discussion clearly shows that you think it's something. Hence on your being materialistic blah blah blah...

Why didn't you just say how you suffered to get to your status, why did you describe the job you did, etc. clearly, you want to tell a story,
Goodnews, not everybody has your own story, not everybody see your own view in life, get over it and let the girl be.

Don't be a joy killer, frog head!

You see why i said you are a dimwit? Don't argue with me if you are dumb.

I don't know how old you are but you reason like a 5yrs old, so i'm gonna explain it to you like a 5yr old you are.

I read all her threads, but this is the first time i'm commenting and trust me this happens in all her threads. I still remember how she tagged people whose posts didnt go down well with her as being jealous of her. All her threads revolve around material things and I for one would call a spade, a spade. She can admit it or not. It can choke the life out of you, I don't give a rat's azz.

Now a wise woman told me "no matter how old we are, we must continue to work on us, on our personality." Advice na curse?

Now you ooze in like a stench that you are, saying how i'm jealous of how because I have a sorry life. How people like you who have it don't complain. Now have what exactly? Ewu!

Now you are even dumb enough to bring a questioned I answered in another thread here, how dumb can you be this girl? Yes, I still remember that thread where i said i left home at 17, and a certain lady; Tasha asked me how I did it and I told her. The job I told her i did, i did at 17, not at 20, 22 or 25.

I have a story to tell? Honestly no. Cos it doesn,t matter anymore. While those stories shaped who I am, they are not who I am. And yes, when i see people giving up cos they look at me and think my life is perfect? I show them that I relate to them, to their feelings. I know a dimwit like you might not understand that, and its not your fault. Maybe you got lucky, others didn't didn't and it ain't their fault either.

I could be very strong but I dont consider people that i feel are less strong f...ools nor to have a sorry life. Why would I write anybody off when God is liberal to all?

Complex issues? I'm in awe of substances, very tangible things and not of the chaffs you dispay here, do you understand me?

How dumb can you be?

Like I said earlier, you life compared to mine is non-existence.

And if I have to explain all these to you, you should lock yourself up in your closet and cry for yourself.

I'm done replying you, i'm done stooping to your level. This is obviously your play ground, while i can't play with you, i could buy you toys to play with.

Mkpi.

Chillisauce:

Yes am high on ganja and chillisauce. Encourage who u wanna encourage and let her do her own.
If you have gotten enough why was it bothering you about her write up.

We that have it all, don't see anything wrong with what she is saying. True story.
Now go back to your sorry self.

Let me laugh first buaaaaaaaaaa . That laugh is on you. I'm not here to declare what I have or don't have, you know why? That's not how I define myself. A superficial life like yours should be laughed at, cos its an empty life just like you sound.

And sweetheart, your life compared to mine is non existence, i promise you that.

Wait a minute! So in this day and time people still boast with cars? you must come from the land of the dead where a one eye man is the king.

Now run along, airhead.

This 2buff guy no fit kill me with laugh.

Sissie:

Morning, my sleep was short. I feel cranky already.

Sorry dear, pls try and get more sleep when you can. Your body needs it, especially your skin. Sleep keeps you young and we all wanna be forever young.



@Bellong; ah ah, what if i peep? Peeping only? I really need me some TLC jare.

Chillisauce:

Let her blow if she wanna blow the trumpet, not any bodies business. Weren't you the one describing the way you suffered to get to your status . Did anyone say anything about that

Let her express her self, she has it, let her flaunt it. No body got time for pity party.

Who is this one? My friend move to the left joor. Was i talking to you or you are high on crack? Or has the hot pepper disorganised your brains?

Yea, I told someone that was almost giving up in life a little about me, so did others and that was purely to encourage him more. What has that got to do with pity party? You must be very daft to bring that in here.

Has what exactly? What others hasn't gotten before? Would she be the first or the last?

Abeg, carry your busy body pack one side jare.

same here! Blanket ain't doing it for me anymore. I need human contact; a strong and veined-body human contact. *lips sealed*

Amelian:


My dear, it's ok abt your view....but material things for me, go a. Long long way to make life comfortable , that's y , I strive to be successful in my career and dread failure and poverty like crazy...but that does not mean, it's the only thing I look out for in a long lasting relationship... Is it a crime to want to settle down with a rich guy? ....God knows av taken broke guys serious, but unfortunately, the desire to take one as a maga or mugs, comes up , after a while....so y shud I put up with such destructive tendencies from such guys? ......all to prove wat?.....so pple will hail me and say I try for marrying a struggling guy who takes me as maga?....Abeg o..... I ain't cut out for such....am happy and thanks for bn happy for me

Babe chill, I'm not asking you to marry a rich guy or not to work hard. But blowing your trumpet all the time seems rather childish to me.

You can always tell us the guy is successful without describing to us how massive his jeep is. And you can always tell us you were just going out without telling us how you decided not to drive and took a bike bla bla..............

Your self blowing trumpet is what i asked you to pipe down a little.

Amelian:


My dear, it's ok abt your view....but material things for me, go a. Long long way to make life comfortable , that's y , I strive to be successful in my career and dread failure and poverty like crazy...but that does not mean, it's the only thing I look out for in a long lasting relationship... Is it a crime to want to settle down with a rich guy? ....God knows av taken broke guys serious, but unfortunately, the desire to take one as a maga or mugs, comes up , after a while....so y shud I put up with such destructive tendencies from such guys? ......all to prove wat?.....so pple will hail me and say I try for marrying a struggling guy who takes me as maga?....Abeg o..... I ain't cut out for such....am happy and thanks for bn happy for me

Babe chill, I'm not asking you to marry a rich guy or not to work hard. But blowing your trumpet all the time seems rather childish to me.

You can always tell us the guy is successful without describing to us how massive his jeep is. And you can always tell us you were just going out without telling us how you decided not to drive and took a bike bla bla..............

Your self blowing trumpet is what i asked you to pipe down a little.

morning beautiful people, how did you all sleep?

gree-die:


vivian!!!! welcome back. where have you been?
erm...how did you do it? i want to change my handle too.
we missed u

Lol, thanks my dear. How have you been? Nne, Romance section doesn't do it for me anymore. Here used to be fun, but not anymore.

How i changed my handle? Its now possible. I wrote to Seun Via Sexkillz and he changed it.

I read that a certain man is crazy about you huh? wanna fill me in on that? *winks*

Ujujoan: Nawah oh . . Change my outfit co someone else was wearing it? For wetin? I don't see myslef doing that, it's silly really. As far as it's not a customized outfit then a lot of other women has the exact same attire.

Me I no dey send that kind thing jor . .

My sister i tire o. Me sef no send.

I'd really love to wear same attire with hubby sometimes when the time comes.

I miss the oldies:
Vicky
Badosky
Itsmodella
Lalaosky
Sanb
A version of D-EX
Gree-die
Bennyraz
Acid
Cdamsel
Nikkyshyne
There is this guy that used to organise an NL party for us every friday, can't remember his name but I miss him.
My first NL love; Ikekings
Trying to remember other people so the list goes on.........

Menh...... we ruled this section, set it on fire!!!!!!!! And i miss that.

yay!!!!!! Congrats! I'm so happy for you.

But babe, on the other hand I have noticed a trend with you; you attach so much importance to material things. Its obvious in all your threads. While I rejoice and celebrate you for your achievements, I guess you are smart enough to know that there is more to life, love and marriage than 'I have done well for myself,' 'my car,' 'here he comes in a massive jeep,' etc. You can't define life this way and definitely can't build a solid relationship on this. So just pipe it down a little.

No kill me o, advice no be curse.

I'm really happy for you, pumpkin.

Lmao! Sorry for the long essay o, i no know say the thing long like that.

@Bellong: sure! Whatever i set my mind on, i do it. Have always love being an Accountant/Auditor, just that the Law bug caught me recently and I said why not? I,m definitely gonna preactice these two professions, but Law would come later. Would love to settle down first jare.

@YPP: chei, obu so mu nwe aha nile? Nwa ada ibe m ekelekwa m gi. Dalu ooooo

bukatyne:

Very interesting.

God will be with you always. Try to fellowship in a local church, it uplifts.

You will meet your own man who will love and cherish you soonest

Amen dear!

I'm Vivian, almost 26, from Imo State, single and still mingling. Was born in Anambra State, lived in Aba for a short period of time but grew up in PHC, and now I live in Bayelsa State.

I'm a part time student of University of Portharcourt, reading Accounting and in my final year. Looking forward to being an Auditor soon, then go back to school and study law.

Aside almost having a B.sc in Accounting, i'm also a very creative person just for fun. I bake cakes, do venue decor, braid hair, make beads and would love to go for fashion designing when i have the resources. All these i do is just to make myself a better woman.

Does believing in God makes one a christian? Ok, I believe in God but i don't do religion. Dont believe in church; hardly go to one, not holy and spiricoco, neither do i fear eternal damnation. My morals come from listening and believing my conscience.

I describe myself as a smart, principled, strong and compassionate woman. I'm homely, a good cook, caring, honest to an extent, a hard worker and a perseverer. I'm neither quiet nor loud. I love having fun; it doesn,t matter what i do, it just has to be fun. I,m sociable, hospitable, go to clud once in months, don't drink anything alcoholic. I,m crazy in a decent way, i'm spontaneous. Most times i play it safe while sometimes i just close my eyes and leap, fall, hit my head on the ground, get up, dust myself off, deal with the mess and move on. I'm romantic, very emotional, and sensitive. I cry alot, i cry when i listen to emotional music or watch emotional movies.

I'm a firm believer of love even tho it hasn't been fair to me. I'm not giving up on it.

My fav food is garri with ofe olugbu/oha or Afang. Hardly do ice cream, sharwama etc cos i like being in shape. I also work out alot cos i tend towards being plus sized.

I'm not really a sports person, not that into soccer either. I do more outdoor activities than indoors'; swimming, Badminton.

I love watching movies; strictly American. I could be a fire dancer or a terrible one; it depends. I love music, I also sing sometimes or used to sing.

I look good in black and fab in red. Fashion doesn't trip me, i wear what i like. I'm addicted to bum shorts, not so good.

Vivian has been through hell in life but in all it has made me a stronger person. Hardwork, determination and perseverance are my mantra, so for me there is no shortcut to life, and there is not get rich quick syndrome.

I'm the first child of the family, my mum is the most important person in my life. My dad is the reason i struggle everyday, i love seeing that proud look on his face when he would say to someone "that's my daughter." My kid bro is my partner in crime, my 2 kid sisters dont like me that much, yes, i'm always the 'bad cop.' My other 2 brothers are my pests, it doesn't matter if i eat or not "sister must buy me this......" This is my family, the only people that love me unconditionally.

I have few real friends. A gf whom I love so much, and 2 other amazing ladies that i met here, on NL and i love them too.

I believe in marriage and family. Would wanna get married someday and maybe have 3 kids.

Weaknesses: Don't ever get me angry. Impatience, intolerance, stubborness and a perfectionist.

I'm not wild or wayward, but i'm neither a good nor a bad girl.

My best quote? "who are you when no one is watching?"

That's all.

deols:

I am fine. How are you too?

I'm fine too.

deols:

hi

Hi dear, how are you?

Nashville:

Ur signature is one of my all time favourite songs!

yea? I love the song too.

Sup?

I love this thread.

Hi lovely people..........

Pls fly away from that woman!