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gofyourself:
Hahhajahha yh gudluck with that

Do u know what I mean by broken??

Women with tatoos are broken women.

fuzzywuzzy:
Men these days are just useless. The situation OP described is taking place in almost every home today just that the wives are hiding it because they don't want to look pathetic. Listen closely to their convos with best friends and you'll hear them complaining bitterly about their husbands' irresponsibility......... Marriage has lost its value. Men don't want to do anything at all these days: housework they won't help with, children they will not take care of, cook they will not cook. Ok provide money which is the only thing they are generally expected to do and still they cannot do it, they will rather spend the money on women outside instead of their own kids. Very useless people.

Such men were forced into marriage.

Having said that, if you feel that way, dont marry. Remain single.

Marriage is not a holiday for u woman. It hard work and responaibility on ur part as well. If u want a holiday, go to the bahamas.

Rhemmymatician:
If you prove to be a good girl, i'll try not to be that kind of husband to you

Well said bro.

A woman should prove herself before she should be considered for marriage.

They should ask themselves, "how can I make him happy, how can I bring value into his life?"

Alas, they ask this rather "what is he going to do for me?"

Let me be emphatic here: Men dont really need this type of woman. Life is usually simple when single, not need to make it worse marrying.

Men DO NOT marry if shes not adding to your life when you marry.

This is some red pill truth right here. Swallow it NOW.

urchbarbie:
Oh dear me! I was just goin to stay ghostmode n enjoy dis thread till I came across dis shittyyy comment. Ure educated, yes dat I can see from ur writeup. Wat I don't understnd is why u ceased to comprehend d bible passage u quoted. Kai! The woman is d asset of her husband? Yes we gree. But whr u lost me is in ur intial argument whr ladies feel a husband is a workhorse and a woman remmitting her earnings cos she is her husbands "horse"
My dear, if ure a christain as u quotes d scriptures well, try rembr d encounter in d garden of eden.
A man is the "workhorse" of any home, dat was y God says Adam wld toil d earth ..............and d woman wld labour to bring forth her young one.
Nna! Take up ur responsiblity. Its been dere since d time of old

I'll take u up from that garden of eden rhetoric.

You see, Adam was already working before eve came along to help him (helpmate) and to keep him company. He was working but not toilsome work. Notice that he was to eat by the sweat of his brow AFTER when he LISTENED TO HIS WIFE, to do evil before the Lord. If you're going to compare everyman to Adam then, it is safor me to say that it is because of women that men have to do toilsome work. We like Adam didnt have to do it initially. Toilsome workhorse work is not a badge of honor it is PUNISHMENT for listening to a woman's evil idea. Thats why the woman wasnt meant to help him to do the toilsome work. Share the love AND punishment.

Who is a wife?

Go read proverbs 31
she is hard to find
she lives to please her husband
she works hard to keep her home
she entrepreneurial
she is agile and not lazy
she helps people
she fears the Lord
,
What an asset, what a wife. No shes not a workhorse, she is a wife.

All this talk of responaibility is overated. We men would move heaven and earth to make a woman like this the envy of other women.

We men dont need help all the time because we are strong and resourceful in our youth. When were old thats when this wife shows herself to be proverbs 31 material...but rome wasnt built in a day. Being like her takes years of practice. No man will cheat on this woman, ever.

Therefore, responsibility rests on the shoulders of the man and the woman helps him bear it. If as a business man, I leave the entire responsibilty of my business to my workhorse, would my business not fail quickly? If I leave it all to my wife, the entire responsibility to run the home wouldnt she get exhausted and my marriage head to the rocks?

Marriage is purposed to achieving goals, husband with support from his wife. Responsibility is for both, not one.

Most ladies on this thread feel like marriage is equivalent to earning a workhorse (husband).

Stop feeling like that.

When a man maries to himself a women, she now belongs to him. Yall aint gone like this but its true.

Her ability to produce wealth isnt for herself anymore but for him. If I buy a horse to help me do work, of course im gonna feed the horse, care for it, be nice to it and make sure its strong and healthy. If it produces an income, do I not have all the rights to all of it?

Most ladies think marriage is a cakewalk, a blissful bed of roses and a holiday.

No it isnt.

U women were created for men to help them.you are meant to be an asset to men , NOT the other way round. As men we are to derive all sorts of benefits from having a wife. "He who finds a wife finds a GOOD things and Obtains blessings, favour benefits..." dont forget ladies. Men dont actually need women for much but the feminine imperative has made social conventioms to trap men into thinking that the almighty pussy if not had, will bring sjame loneliness and desperation into his life.

Hogwash.

This not women bashing so conceal ur weapons. This is the truth. If you dont want to give ur self sacrificiallly in love to a man and children., please remain in your father's house permanently and watch your flower wither away into oblivion, never to be desired by a man, not even for a cheap bang.

You mad? Sorry. That's the way it is.

Some may ask why does it have to this way? Well, it been given to men to rule over women. Nuff said.

bigfrancis21:
The Roman Emperor, Justinian the Great, who ruled basically from 527 - 564 C.E., 500 years after the time of Yahshuah, had engraved on a coin, the image of Yahshuah with woolly / kinky hair and "BLACK" features. On the obverse side of the coin there is an image of Justinian but with straight hair.

The Cambridge Encyclopedia has this particular listing about that image on the coin.

https://realhistoryww.com/world_history/ancient/Misc/Crests/Jesus_coin_2.jpg

"Whatever the fact, this coin, with the straight haired Justinian on the obverse side, places beyond doubt the belief that "Jesus" was a Negro (black-skinned)."

In the coin image, the front side shows the image of Jesus having 'wooly' or 'kinky' hair i.e. black features, contrasting the image of Justinian on the other side showing him having long, curly and wavy hair.

Read revelations 1 vs 1 - christ wasnt LITERALLY burnished bronze

I take this back.

Jesus = black man

twinskenny:
Thanks so much but ur nlumber is not complete

Apologies 07037913006

holatin:
sorry to tell you, you are a bimbo.
what has he been doing since 2011 ?
[s]am sure if you ve loosed maybe friend or family[/s] to insurgence you wount type those trash of yours.
shediot

I'm sure, if you LOST a friend or family member.

Go easy on the lady brah.

twinskenny:
yes it America AT&T 6.3 inches

Today is ur lucky day.

I had the same problem and I had it fixed.
Here my whatsapp 0703913006.

Il give u a walk through on to enable higher speeds.

Is it an american at&t mega? 5.8 or 6.3 inches?

Girl got more facial hair than some baby face fellas on nairaland. They are secretly jelly.

naijainfogalery:
Thanks Grandma for your advice as usual, like you rightly said peer pressure pushed you to watch it and after seeing it, you gave your verdict,

I promise not to let peer pressure force me to see this movie, I will willingly determine to go and see it, then after i will come here and give my verdict.

Realize that your comment was intentionally cynical and unfriendly....and directed towards one with positive and good intentions.

kay1one2:
What terrorists want with innocent people's hard work is what I find difficult to phantom.

Fathom

This thread is very informative of the penchant Nigerians have for textbook definitions of very ubiquitous concepts. Concepts such as effectiveness and efficiency.

For those seeking employment in large capitalist organizations, you are to refflect your ability to keep things simple while being focussed like a laser beam on the task at hand. This means you have to learn how to think on your feet and not show your potential employers that you're pretending to know what you're talking about.

Unfortunately, the university system doesn't teach the skillset needed to think on your feet to reflect the potential for efficiency in the work place.

Jokay07:
i will go for 'efficient' . Why? Because being an effective staff makes someone's capacity and capability concentrated in a section or department. A staff might be effective in adminstrative work while he won't be effective in finance. An effective staff is not flexible in terms of transfer of work. But an efficient staff is capable of doing different works, he is not effective in the adminstrative work alone but efficient enough to handle both adminstrative and financial work. He is efficient enough to perform very well under any given work condition. This would be my reply if I am being asked in an interview. Just my opinion

I think you kinda babbled too son.

An effective staff achieves goals period. You could be in any department.

An efficient staff does what an effective staff does USING minimal resources.

Which is better for a capitalist organization?
Effiency of course.

You would want to be an efficient staff because an efficient staff is effective as well. Effective staff are not always efficient.

Looking like a black Hitler

Masturbation:
Obasanjo/Atiku had 8 years but couldnt fix power!!!
Fashola and Tinubu had 16years in lagos they
couldnt fix all the roads in lagos and couldnt give
lagosians portable water to mention few.
GEJ has spent 5years + as President of over 170m
people and they want
him to overnight turn Nigeria into a paradise. They
call him names,
Clueless, Foolish, some even said he is silly
e.t.c. But...
(1) He built 150 almajiri schools.
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(2) He revived railway that was comatose for over
28yrs. Lagos-
Kano route,Lagos-Southern Ogun air condition
train route,Ajaokuta-Warri standard gauge route,
PH-Enugu airconditioned train route, PH Maiduguri
train route, Kaduna intra- city train
routes,Makurdi-PH airconditioned train route,
Abuja- Kaduna standard guage route. Work on
Lagos-Ibadan standard guage route ongoing. And
about to kickstart Lagos-Calabar coastal railway
route. Yet Goodluck is bad.
(3) He established 12 federal universities.Yet
Goodluck is bad.
Massive road reconstruction across the country
(25000km). Benin-
Ore road, Abuja-Lokoja expressway, Enugu-
Abakaliki, Onitsha-
Owerri road, Kaduna-Maiduguri road, East-West
road, Parts of PH-
Enugu road &Lagos-Ibadan 8-lane road ongoing.
Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(4 ) Construction of 2nd Niger Bridge is
ongoing..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
( 5) He dredged River Niger..Yet Goodluck is bad.
(6) Improved power supply from 2500mw to
6000mw and
implanted 10 new power plants..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
( 7) He revived the automobile industry with the
new automobile
policy spurring Nissan&Hyundai e.t.c to assemble/
produce cars in
Nigeria and the emergence of Indigenous
automobile company the
INNOSON group now producing locally made in
Nigeria cars, SUVs
and trucks known as the IVM motors First in the
history of Nigeria,
She joined the commodity of car manufacturing
countries..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
( He remodeled airports to international
standard,built five new
airport terminals in PH, Lagos,Kano, Abuja &
Enugu. First in the
history of Nigeria, the East now have an
international airport..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(9 ) He signed freedom of information(FOI) bill past
leaders refused
to sign..Yet Jonathan is bad.
(10) He revamped the agricultural sector. Nigeria
now the largest producer of cassava in the world
with 45million metric tonnes-FAO, the largest
exporter of cassava chips to China and have
unprecedented 60% sufficient in rice
production.Yet Goodluck is bad.
(11) He gave women 35% affirmative to women
participation in
governance which saw the emergence of Muktar as
the first ever
female Chief Justice of Nigeria..
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(12) He was able to contain the outbreak of Ebola
disease..
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(13) No more long queues at filling stations..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(14) Nigeria manufacture her first ever locally made
drone..
Yet Goodluck is badj
(15) He signed local content act. Nigeria now have
400 tankers
transporting crude oil.Previously it was 60 tankers.
Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(16) His government recorded an unprecedented
achievement in
sports, best sporting performance in the history of
country..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(17) Nigeria is now the largest economy in Africa
and the
3rd fastest growing economy in the world after
China and Qatar--
CNN..Yet Goodluck is bad.
(18) He made it possible for Nigeria to conduct the
most free, fair &
credible election in the history of the country (2011
election). Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(19) He does not interfere with the electoral and
judiciary
system.Elections in Imo, Anambra,Osun, Ondo and
Edo are examples. In the
history of Nigeria, is only in his government the
opposition
controlled large number of states and controlled
greater number of
seats in the National Assembly..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(20) Under his government,political assassination
and
assassination of high profile Nigerians is now a
thing of the past.
Who killed Dele Giwa, Bola Ige, FunshoWilliams,
Marshall Harry,
Aminisoari Dikibo,Alfred Rewane, Ken Saro Wiwa,
Kudirat
Abiola,NBA chairman Barnabas Igwe and his wife
Abigail Igwe? In
whose governments were all these murdered? I
can go on and give
you about 100 high profile political assassination
in Obasanjo's
civilian rule alone..Yet President Goodluck
Jonathan is bad and so
unacceptable to you.
(21) GEJ approved 2,564 vehicles for police for free
and fair elections and some bad eggs still complain
that he is not working.
I HAVE A DREAM THAT ONE DAY NIGERIANS WILL
BE JUDGED
NOT BY THE DIALECT THEY SPEAK BUT BY THE
CONTENT OF
THEIR CHARACTER. I hereby challenge anybody to
bring forward
the achievements of Buhari, Babangida, Abacha and
Obasanjo.
GOD BLESS NIGERIA AND PUNISH THE ENEMIES OF
NIGERIA.

This. Period.

Nigggas need to stay away from crazy ass biitches. Hands down.

Bevista:
Are you telling me that GMB has not travelled out to US since 2011?

Are you referring to the same GMB that US Secretary of State (John Kerry) flew all the way down from US to have a meeting with in Nigeria?

Rubbish. Go get a life!

#TeamGMB2015
#SaiBuhari

Wait...before spilling vitriol over him, know that meeting up with the us sec of state isnt the issue... the ish is that GMB doesnt want to be hounded and harrassed by the nigerian community there. Hes afraid of the hard questions he will be asked upon his arrival. He is trying to avoid that. Read the article again pls.

135 people liked her post.
136 people support GMB without substantive reasons.

ireneidiva:
Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

Number 1 point is solid. Thanks for that but....

so if I sleep with a girl and end up marrying her, I will be damned to hell right? Please show me scripture for this.

Btw

Sexual immorality and fornication (pornea) doesnt = sex before marriage.

Lusting after someone attracts judgement. You dont even have to sleep with them in reality.

Herein lies the solution to the sex before marriage: strive not to lust. Remove your eyes (very hard to do). Keep your inside pure.

ritababe:
the only reason I form is to know if the guy is mature enough

Im curious. How would you ascertain his maturity by forming? How would mature guy respond?

liberty300:
mr. English, you don't know you're wrong Abii? Op was correct..seems you didn't write jamb to see this kinda questions. The last "s" in blasts means continuous tense..which is wrong. Correct yourself Mumu man

Present continuous tense: nigerians are blasting.

NIgerians blasts: incorrect

Hope you are corrigible.

Peace.

emusmith:
Every Lady, I mean ALL are emotional and thus likes to be appreciated and loved, even the ones with seemingly loud mouth.

These things I'm about to mention are SUPPOSED to be usual but as time flies, men throw away their first love outa thin air. How pathetic!

I'm Single but I do believe (without apology or contrary opinions) that my future home will be Heaven on Earth because I'll make it work

I believe in love. I believe men ought to love their wives first, then upon her will come the inner strength to respect him unreservedly (some ladies be like, Now You're Talking )- okay

I have a vision of still being romantic to my wife at 80 and beyond.

It's easy only if a guy and a girl can settle down to plan at courtship how their home should look like. I have seen a few homes like that and that made me feel like getting married almost immediately

I'm not a Woman Wrapper... But even if I am to one Lucky woman, it's worth it.


What Are Some Sweet Usuals Every Man Is Supposed To Be Giving To Her Wife?



1. Pillow fight


Many marriages lack this game. Pillow fights lessens Real fights. It unites two people together. Have you ever played a video game with a crush before? If you have, you'll understand what I'm saying. Guys, hit her softly sha o......



2. Hold her hand in the street.

You may wonder why this is included... Except for some new couples and a few elderly ones, some men have gotten too familiar with their wives that they feel so " I dunno" to hold their wives hands on the street. As a matter of fact, this means a lot to her. It tells her your love for hasn't diminished a bit.



3. Be initiative enough to always take her out on special days.


Perhaps, you have grown up kids, take your wife out alone... The wife of your youth ... It's Valentine's Day, go on a date with her to re-enact your love for her. Your company's party? Take her along even if she's pregnant unless she refuses...


4. Open the car door for her.

This isn't ancient. Doing it makes her feel really special. You treat her like a Queen, She treats you like a King, remember?
Do all you can to keep her smiling all the time- She is your wife o
Who says it's wrong to buy her flowers...?



5. Wash her clothes even when she didn't ask

Some men are like King Kong. They so hold tenaciously the school of thought that doing such things for a Lady you're in relationship with makes her belittle you...That's Low Self Esteem! The Normal Ones respect and love you the more...You're helping her. 90% of women love this... Some will Form they don't but they do. Not when she is pregnant o, when she's okay and even lazily walking around...


6. Buy her little things she adores like her favorite chocolate etc.

Have you witnessed a lady in tears before just because she is trying to convey her feelings for you?
What makes this happen is because you're helping her. Money isn't everything- it's important but not in this context! The gold diggers, will say otherwise. When you buy her those little things, you're telling her how THOUGHTFUL you are. An example is: After many weeks, I called a girlfriend just some hours before her exams and her reply was, "So you still remembered". I sensed something. Small things makes her let out the Big things.



7. Help Her In The Kitchen

Helping your wife in the kitchen does not mean wanting to show your cooking tech... Mba! It's not forming "I can do it better". In fact, hide your cooking skills! Don't get her to feel like the 2nd best...hype her, tease her...that she cooks excellently even if she sucks at it. If she's smart and wise, she'll put more effort to improving her skills if necessary. Your wife owns the kitchen. You own the yard. Help her cut onions, peel the yams and slice the tomatoes. Work as a team! Your mummy visiting you guys shouldn't try to lord it over her in HER kitchen... unless there's an understanding



SUMMARY: This thread is my belief system. Other threads might not totally agree but... I believe strongly this is how ME and every other guy aspiring to be a Father, Husband and the Head of the home some day ought to comport ourselves with our wives.



Ladies: You can add more.

Guys: What do y'all think?

God said women should be HELP mates to men not the other way around.

You might as well tell all men to simply hand over their balls to their ladies.

Nova

loifez:
Guys, instead of washing the ladies, create your own style and let us be

Pls sharrap and obey

NEROSKY:
Sms or call

Bbm pin pls

Put up ur bbm let's talk

Still got it?

AmINotHuman:
Well, for all the "nice guys" out there, no one owes you a relationship. A woman is not obligated to date you because you managed to fulfil the basic requirement of being a "nice guy". The real question is, what else can you bring to the table? As shallow as this sounds, are you good-looking? Rich? Smart? Talented? Funny? Any thing more than just being a "nice guy"?

Being a a nice guy is nothing but the bare minimum. Saying "if I were your boyfriend, I won't treat you like that". It's not always about what you won't or don't do ("At least I'm not like the other guys", "At least I won't break her heart" ... and several other reasons while you're not a bad person).

What can you contribute to her life? Women invest too much into themselves (appearance-wise and so on) to meet a certain standard and you have to meet up with that standard, being a "nice guy" just isn't enough.

All in all, you can't force someone to fall for you. If a woman isn't romantically interested in you, there's no need to force it or pressure her or guilt trip her into dating you. It'll only make you her doormat.

I recommend this article for those who want to face the harsh realities of life: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

Did any one read this?
Have a read and save urselves from the friend zone enigma.

got my kindle fire hdx all the way in Jos.

Thanks team Lagtech.

Is it only me or is there anyone else who think the entire story is one immense pile of horseshiit?

A cleverly constructed fable being used to promote a certain man of god and his ministry.

Think hard folks.