Jokay07:
i will go for 'efficient' . Why? Because being an effective staff makes someone's capacity and capability concentrated in a section or department. A staff might be effective in adminstrative work while he won't be effective in finance. An effective staff is not flexible in terms of transfer of work. But an efficient staff is capable of doing different works, he is not effective in the adminstrative work alone but efficient enough to handle both adminstrative and financial work. He is efficient enough to perform very well under any given work condition. This would be my reply if I am being asked in an interview. Just my opinion

I think you kinda babbled too son.

An effective staff achieves goals period. You could be in any department.

An efficient staff does what an effective staff does USING minimal resources.

Which is better for a capitalist organization?
Effiency of course.

You would want to be an efficient staff because an efficient staff is effective as well. Effective staff are not always efficient.

Looking like a black Hitler

Masturbation:
Obasanjo/Atiku had 8 years but couldnt fix power!!!
Fashola and Tinubu had 16years in lagos they
couldnt fix all the roads in lagos and couldnt give
lagosians portable water to mention few.
GEJ has spent 5years + as President of over 170m
people and they want
him to overnight turn Nigeria into a paradise. They
call him names,
Clueless, Foolish, some even said he is silly
e.t.c. But...
(1) He built 150 almajiri schools.
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(2) He revived railway that was comatose for over
28yrs. Lagos-
Kano route,Lagos-Southern Ogun air condition
train route,Ajaokuta-Warri standard gauge route,
PH-Enugu airconditioned train route, PH Maiduguri
train route, Kaduna intra- city train
routes,Makurdi-PH airconditioned train route,
Abuja- Kaduna standard guage route. Work on
Lagos-Ibadan standard guage route ongoing. And
about to kickstart Lagos-Calabar coastal railway
route. Yet Goodluck is bad.
(3) He established 12 federal universities.Yet
Goodluck is bad.
Massive road reconstruction across the country
(25000km). Benin-
Ore road, Abuja-Lokoja expressway, Enugu-
Abakaliki, Onitsha-
Owerri road, Kaduna-Maiduguri road, East-West
road, Parts of PH-
Enugu road &Lagos-Ibadan 8-lane road ongoing.
Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(4 ) Construction of 2nd Niger Bridge is
ongoing..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
( 5) He dredged River Niger..Yet Goodluck is bad.
(6) Improved power supply from 2500mw to
6000mw and
implanted 10 new power plants..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
( 7) He revived the automobile industry with the
new automobile
policy spurring Nissan&Hyundai e.t.c to assemble/
produce cars in
Nigeria and the emergence of Indigenous
automobile company the
INNOSON group now producing locally made in
Nigeria cars, SUVs
and trucks known as the IVM motors First in the
history of Nigeria,
She joined the commodity of car manufacturing
countries..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
( He remodeled airports to international
standard,built five new
airport terminals in PH, Lagos,Kano, Abuja &
Enugu. First in the
history of Nigeria, the East now have an
international airport..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(9 ) He signed freedom of information(FOI) bill past
leaders refused
to sign..Yet Jonathan is bad.
(10) He revamped the agricultural sector. Nigeria
now the largest producer of cassava in the world
with 45million metric tonnes-FAO, the largest
exporter of cassava chips to China and have
unprecedented 60% sufficient in rice
production.Yet Goodluck is bad.
(11) He gave women 35% affirmative to women
participation in
governance which saw the emergence of Muktar as
the first ever
female Chief Justice of Nigeria..
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(12) He was able to contain the outbreak of Ebola
disease..
Yet Goodluck is bad.
(13) No more long queues at filling stations..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(14) Nigeria manufacture her first ever locally made
drone..
Yet Goodluck is badj
(15) He signed local content act. Nigeria now have
400 tankers
transporting crude oil.Previously it was 60 tankers.
Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(16) His government recorded an unprecedented
achievement in
sports, best sporting performance in the history of
country..Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(17) Nigeria is now the largest economy in Africa
and the
3rd fastest growing economy in the world after
China and Qatar--
CNN..Yet Goodluck is bad.
(18) He made it possible for Nigeria to conduct the
most free, fair &
credible election in the history of the country (2011
election). Yet
Goodluck is bad.
(19) He does not interfere with the electoral and
judiciary
system.Elections in Imo, Anambra,Osun, Ondo and
Edo are examples. In the
history of Nigeria, is only in his government the
opposition
controlled large number of states and controlled
greater number of
seats in the National Assembly..Yet Goodluck is
bad.
(20) Under his government,political assassination
and
assassination of high profile Nigerians is now a
thing of the past.
Who killed Dele Giwa, Bola Ige, FunshoWilliams,
Marshall Harry,
Aminisoari Dikibo,Alfred Rewane, Ken Saro Wiwa,
Kudirat
Abiola,NBA chairman Barnabas Igwe and his wife
Abigail Igwe? In
whose governments were all these murdered? I
can go on and give
you about 100 high profile political assassination
in Obasanjo's
civilian rule alone..Yet President Goodluck
Jonathan is bad and so
unacceptable to you.
(21) GEJ approved 2,564 vehicles for police for free
and fair elections and some bad eggs still complain
that he is not working.
I HAVE A DREAM THAT ONE DAY NIGERIANS WILL
BE JUDGED
NOT BY THE DIALECT THEY SPEAK BUT BY THE
CONTENT OF
THEIR CHARACTER. I hereby challenge anybody to
bring forward
the achievements of Buhari, Babangida, Abacha and
Obasanjo.
GOD BLESS NIGERIA AND PUNISH THE ENEMIES OF
NIGERIA.

This. Period.

Nigggas need to stay away from crazy ass biitches. Hands down.

Bevista:
Are you telling me that GMB has not travelled out to US since 2011?

Are you referring to the same GMB that US Secretary of State (John Kerry) flew all the way down from US to have a meeting with in Nigeria?

Rubbish. Go get a life!

#TeamGMB2015
#SaiBuhari

Wait...before spilling vitriol over him, know that meeting up with the us sec of state isnt the issue... the ish is that GMB doesnt want to be hounded and harrassed by the nigerian community there. Hes afraid of the hard questions he will be asked upon his arrival. He is trying to avoid that. Read the article again pls.

135 people liked her post.
136 people support GMB without substantive reasons.

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

Number 1 point is solid. Thanks for that but....

so if I sleep with a girl and end up marrying her, I will be damned to hell right? Please show me scripture for this.

Btw

Sexual immorality and fornication (pornea) doesnt = sex before marriage.

Lusting after someone attracts judgement. You dont even have to sleep with them in reality.

Herein lies the solution to the sex before marriage: strive not to lust. Remove your eyes (very hard to do). Keep your inside pure.

ritababe:
the only reason I form is to know if the guy is mature enough

Im curious. How would you ascertain his maturity by forming? How would mature guy respond?

liberty300:
mr. English, you don't know you're wrong Abii? Op was correct..seems you didn't write jamb to see this kinda questions. The last "s" in blasts means continuous tense..which is wrong. Correct yourself Mumu man

Present continuous tense: nigerians are blasting.

NIgerians blasts: incorrect

Hope you are corrigible.

Peace.

emusmith:
Every Lady, I mean ALL are emotional and thus likes to be appreciated and loved, even the ones with seemingly loud mouth.

These things I'm about to mention are SUPPOSED to be usual but as time flies, men throw away their first love outa thin air. How pathetic!

I'm Single but I do believe (without apology or contrary opinions) that my future home will be Heaven on Earth because I'll make it work

I believe in love. I believe men ought to love their wives first, then upon her will come the inner strength to respect him unreservedly (some ladies be like, Now You're Talking )- okay

I have a vision of still being romantic to my wife at 80 and beyond.

It's easy only if a guy and a girl can settle down to plan at courtship how their home should look like. I have seen a few homes like that and that made me feel like getting married almost immediately

I'm not a Woman Wrapper... But even if I am to one Lucky woman, it's worth it.


What Are Some Sweet Usuals Every Man Is Supposed To Be Giving To Her Wife?



1. Pillow fight


Many marriages lack this game. Pillow fights lessens Real fights. It unites two people together. Have you ever played a video game with a crush before? If you have, you'll understand what I'm saying. Guys, hit her softly sha o......



2. Hold her hand in the street.

You may wonder why this is included... Except for some new couples and a few elderly ones, some men have gotten too familiar with their wives that they feel so " I dunno" to hold their wives hands on the street. As a matter of fact, this means a lot to her. It tells her your love for hasn't diminished a bit.



3. Be initiative enough to always take her out on special days.


Perhaps, you have grown up kids, take your wife out alone... The wife of your youth ... It's Valentine's Day, go on a date with her to re-enact your love for her. Your company's party? Take her along even if she's pregnant unless she refuses...


4. Open the car door for her.

This isn't ancient. Doing it makes her feel really special. You treat her like a Queen, She treats you like a King, remember?
Do all you can to keep her smiling all the time- She is your wife o
Who says it's wrong to buy her flowers...?



5. Wash her clothes even when she didn't ask

Some men are like King Kong. They so hold tenaciously the school of thought that doing such things for a Lady you're in relationship with makes her belittle you...That's Low Self Esteem! The Normal Ones respect and love you the more...You're helping her. 90% of women love this... Some will Form they don't but they do. Not when she is pregnant o, when she's okay and even lazily walking around...


6. Buy her little things she adores like her favorite chocolate etc.

Have you witnessed a lady in tears before just because she is trying to convey her feelings for you?
What makes this happen is because you're helping her. Money isn't everything- it's important but not in this context! The gold diggers, will say otherwise. When you buy her those little things, you're telling her how THOUGHTFUL you are. An example is: After many weeks, I called a girlfriend just some hours before her exams and her reply was, "So you still remembered". I sensed something. Small things makes her let out the Big things.



7. Help Her In The Kitchen

Helping your wife in the kitchen does not mean wanting to show your cooking tech... Mba! It's not forming "I can do it better". In fact, hide your cooking skills! Don't get her to feel like the 2nd best...hype her, tease her...that she cooks excellently even if she sucks at it. If she's smart and wise, she'll put more effort to improving her skills if necessary. Your wife owns the kitchen. You own the yard. Help her cut onions, peel the yams and slice the tomatoes. Work as a team! Your mummy visiting you guys shouldn't try to lord it over her in HER kitchen... unless there's an understanding



SUMMARY: This thread is my belief system. Other threads might not totally agree but... I believe strongly this is how ME and every other guy aspiring to be a Father, Husband and the Head of the home some day ought to comport ourselves with our wives.



Ladies: You can add more.

Guys: What do y'all think?

God said women should be HELP mates to men not the other way around.

You might as well tell all men to simply hand over their balls to their ladies.

Nova

loifez:
Guys, instead of washing the ladies, create your own style and let us be

Pls sharrap and obey

NEROSKY:


Sms or call

Bbm pin pls

Put up ur bbm let's talk

Still got it?

AmINotHuman:
Well, for all the "nice guys" out there, no one owes you a relationship. A woman is not obligated to date you because you managed to fulfil the basic requirement of being a "nice guy". The real question is, what else can you bring to the table? As shallow as this sounds, are you good-looking? Rich? Smart? Talented? Funny? Any thing more than just being a "nice guy"?

Being a a nice guy is nothing but the bare minimum. Saying "if I were your boyfriend, I won't treat you like that". It's not always about what you won't or don't do ("At least I'm not like the other guys", "At least I won't break her heart" ... and several other reasons while you're not a bad person).

What can you contribute to her life? Women invest too much into themselves (appearance-wise and so on) to meet a certain standard and you have to meet up with that standard, being a "nice guy" just isn't enough.

All in all, you can't force someone to fall for you. If a woman isn't romantically interested in you, there's no need to force it or pressure her or guilt trip her into dating you. It'll only make you her doormat.

I recommend this article for those who want to face the harsh realities of life: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

Did any one read this?
Have a read and save urselves from the friend zone enigma.

got my kindle fire hdx all the way in Jos.

Thanks team Lagtech.

Is it only me or is there anyone else who think the entire story is one immense pile of horseshiit?

A cleverly constructed fable being used to promote a certain man of god and his ministry.

Think hard folks.

God is love
God so loved the world that he GAVE...
Not felt
Love is doing good
To people who do not deserve it
Ergo, Most women r incapable of real (unfailing) love.
True love is defined by sacrifice, not feelings.
If it doesn't hurt, its not sacrifice.

MizMyColi:
Hmmm OP
Clearly, I'm about to blow my trumpet and that of my comradesses.

Y'see, some of us are Oceans and fountains and springs of Love.
Azzin, the kind/amount of love flowing thru' us is simply out of this world - amazing and almost too good to be true.
You can tell by the way we treat those around us who are strangers or haven't even attained boyfriend status.

Y'see, in our circle, we don't play nice, just to catch that guy's attention or get to him to bed us or return a favor. No.
The honest to God truth is - Nice is who we are.
We don't know how to be any less.

So, it's inorder for us to ask the guys too;

"What are you bringing to the table"?

Signed: Mizmycoli (f)

What a load of horse shit

To women, children are like hostages to a hijacker or a kidnapper. The more children, the more the man is likely to remain to keep taking care of her. Its all for her interest not the kids.

Do you have Sony Xperia Z ultra?? Im in Jos

Attention whoredom

Ladystewie: Nigerians are just fun loving people and the ability to find fun in a rather serious situation in a bid to reduce the tension is genius to me. I think such 'jokes' tend to calm the people down and I don't really see anything wrong with it.

Any reason why we never accomplish much?

MarkMiwerds: Where does your Bible tell you that God requires you to tithe your Naira? Can you post the verse?

There is NO VERSE commanding this. The tithe doctrine taught in 'christendom' is falsehood.

Votukpa: For all those mocking God, your spiritual eyes are simply closed...and rightly so...for your own good. You will 'see' one day...that day.

For those supporting the tithe doctrine blindly, take your time and read this...know the truth and believe it. http://www.bible-truths.com/tithing.htmlhttp://www.bible-truths.com/tithing.html

This puts the final nail on the coffin of the tithing confusion.

http://www.bible-truths.com/tithing.html. sorry

For all those mocking God, your spiritual eyes are simply closed...and rightly so...for your own good. You will 'see' one day...that day.

For those supporting the tithe doctrine blindly, take your time and read this...know the truth and believe it. http://www.bible-truths.com/tithing.htmlhttp://www.bible-truths.com/tithing.html

This puts the final nail on the coffin of the tithing confusion.

No one who dies goes anywhere!!
They go to SLEEP!

THERE IS NO SUCH PLACE CALLED HELL IN WHICH PEOPLE ARE BEING BARBECUED AND TORTURED IN AN INSANE MANNER FOR EVER. GOD WHO TEACHES TO LOVE ONE'S ENEMY WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO HIS CHILDREN.

AFTER DEATH (SLEEP) COMES JUDGEMENT. AFTER JUDGEMENT COMES KNOWLEDE. AFTER KNOWLEDGE COMES BELIEF, AFTER BELIEF RIGHTEOUSNESS COMES SALVATION AND AGE ABIDING LIFE (IMMORTALIY).

EVERY knee will bow. EVERY tongue will confess.
ALL will be saved. EVERYBODY!!!
Hitler, Stalin, bokoharam members, abaca etc. All.

Think I'm crazy. Ask me for bible verses.

Having said that, this not all will believe this.

tokiniofficial: OMG!!!! Like seriously
I'm the FTC hehehehehehehe
Wait I'm blushing..........
Ok here's my speech

I thank God almighty for the wisdom and insight to see dis thread as a FRONT PAGE thread

I also thank the OP for writing or pasting this topic

To my special friends on NL Amefrica, Slimdel, missbon, onihaxy chizzy01 etc una too much

And to everyone hoping to be FTC someday ; hold on ur turn dey come

To all my First To Comment (FTC) predecessors I hope u guys give me a standing ovation as I take my bow

God bless Nigeria
God bless d OP
God bless NL

Honestly and no offence bro, u sound like a man-chick drama queen auditioning for a role in tinsel. Man up dude.

matify: The woman can be a very enigmatic species to decipher.

Once upon a time, the man had complete control over his enclave to which he bestowed the woman the commander but what did she do?

She craved for the man's office and wanted to explore the man's world. She made advocacy to the high heavens and called the man callous for keeping her subservient to him.

She strove to reverse every word or phrase that had any inkling of masculinity adherent to it e.g. Chairwoman, spokeswoman etc.

She invented a FEMINIST club which had a war chant of " what a man can do, a WOMAN can do better"

Now some men have succumbed to their antic and allowed them to prove their metor but alas they cry blue murder.

What on earth does our women really want?

We love them too much, we are woman wrapper; we are strict, they say we are insensitive; we gladly provide their needs and even wants, they say we inhibit their independence ; we then abdicated our manly office and previleges and KASALA DON SHELE!!!

On point bro.

Women want to be superior to men
They want power but no responsibility
Feminism should be recognized a deeply satanic ploy to undermine society by destroying its core pillar which is the family. Women have bought into the lie of the serpent and refused to heed to men.

Men, in turn, have responded by LISTENING to their women and allowed them to go haywire. The poster's post is nothing short of the loud cry of a spoiled brat who doesn't only want it all, but wants more. She wants to take all what the man has and emasculate him subsequently. She wants him to play her own role and his own at the same time.

Be that as it may, men are the instigators and perpetrators of this madness called feminism. Some effeminate men with money are making all the other men bow down to women because they hate anything that smacks of masculinity.

Women now believe that they can do without men. A wise person should ask this then:why then is the poster crying and complaining. Back in the day, gender roles were clearly defined- men run the show and women support and depend. Period.

I wish women pipe down and see that they are fundamentally wired to submit to and depend on men for their basic needs of food, clothing and protection. Anything contrary to this relationship will only leave women depressed, obese and suicidal. Let me make myself very clear at this point, women need masculinity like they need air. Women are physiologically, mentally and emotionally different and weaker than men. Let them leave men to the task of building society and controlling the affair of life.

Women, u want men to be men??
Be women!
Be feminine
Be helpmates not whores
Fear God
Be content with what is given you
Show grace and virtue in speech and action
Be helpmates.

All these character strengths will arouse the masculinity in men and you will see more real men around u. The poster made it clear that real men don't exist anymore. Could it be that women stopped being women? Instead, attention whoring, promiscuity, laziness, sexual liberation in conduct have become the order of the day.

WOMEN!!

U ARE THE PILLARS OF THE HOME AND SOCIETY AND HUMANITY. NOT MEN.

MEN RUN THE SHOW BUT YOU HOLD IT TOGETHER.
WHY DO U THINK YOU ARE THR TARGET? Feminism, serpentine deception etc.

Repent and reverse this cycle aimed at destroying us all.

Man and woman can and should never be friends.
Man and woman can never be equal
Women friend zoning men equals women turning men into their emotional sponge girlfriends. Women should not do this, because they r not ready to make a commensurate emotional investment.

Men who get friend zoned are either stupid or gay. Men don't function on the same mental league as women. They are entirely different.

Man, u cannot be friendzoneed because she will never look up to u nor respect u. She just wants someone to talk to when she needs it.

Women, go and friend yourselves. Men need to be building themselves and things so as to have some sense of accomplishment in life. We can't waste time being our friends.

We would rather own you, and rule over because u will prefer that on deep instinctive level. We would rather give u a sense of being a woman by giving you the gift of being masculine and playing our roles in your life.

Friend zone is tantamount to emasculation.