no one forced you to marry/date single mums. Your choice is not my business. I just said I am yet to find a tangible reasons for the stigma towards them.


You call her choices dumb,I call you dumb for your analogy

Granted.

his analogy wasn't exactly suitable for the point he is making but you need to understand that this isn't about stigmatising single moms/baby mamas.

NO ONE IS STIGMATISING THEM. Please be clear on this.

Single guys are simply refusing to date them. That's all.

AmuDimpka:


This is why Yoruba land is called brown roof republic...you keep showing it


Tufia

Please,

Take a second and read my post once again. Read it with the goal of 'seeing' my point.
Try please.
You totally misunderstood what I wrote.
I'll give you a hint. It isn't about economics nor buildings in south western Nigeria.

AmuDimpka:



As your name goes....oji amu ejighi ego....

Yoruba are smarter dealing with women
Igbo are smarter dealing with money


Division of labor...case settled

have you ever heard of a saying that goes like this?
"A fool and his money will soon part ways"

It goes without saying that if Igbo men will rather be smart with money than with women, then their wealth might not have going concern.

It is good if Igbo men will be smart with both money and women, laying an example for other Nigerians and not creating a spirit of entitlement in Nigerian women.

I reckon you are now able to see the flaw in your "economic strategy" of "division of labor".

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

You sir are a reptilian sociopath.

You might not even know it.

Advice: You need to transform into a human being first and receive the love of Christ.

Good luck.

Lamanii22:
Awwwwwn... I'm really sorry about what you had to go through ma'am.... If your landlord keep humiliating your husband and he retaliates, your landlord would spill the beans... Maybe you should try and tell your landlord you'd appreciate it if he wouldn't harass your husband anymore....



Mehn I wish you had done it with another person entirely... Not someone that lives close.... Not even your landlord...

Your Logic is legendary. Female logic. Hoe Logic.

tot:


But some of the corrections you made are alternative words or phrases to those he usJed, doesn't make his incorrect.

Indeed.

In those instances, the writer wasn't incorrect in his communication- he got his point across quite satisfactorily. However, his choice of words made his manner of expression superfluous and his write up, unengaging.

The beauty and strength of written english is established by accurate communication, using appropriate diction and phrasing.

Veebliz:
Some grammatical mistakes you make and things you say wrong.


Hello, everyone. Before I shoot, I’d like you to read this:

After learning some Spanish and having to correct a lot many of English errors in WhatsApp groups, I’ve I discovered that some of us say some things wrong incorrectly. Some like saying things like[b]-[/b]“English is not our language”,“Who English epp? (Who does English help?)”, “Does it add money to my account?”-especially when you correct them, but Most of these these statements are saidmade out of ignorance. If English is not your language[b],[/b] why do you use it? English has helped a lot many of people. YES! It has. Why else do we use English to teach at school is it taught in schools? In As a matter of fact, more research has been done in English than in any other language,and 98% of published scientific materials published today are in English. I’m not saying that other languages are inferior, but the truth is that, some people do need to stop being ignorant and face it realize that English really DOES matter… and YES, – it can add money swell to your account. in so many ways; you[/s]. Think about it.

Yeah Also, I feel like it’s important for me to add this: I’ve come across some Nigerians who speak English as their first a native[/b]tongue; [b]and I do as well ,. So, the idea of saying notion that English is not our language doesn’t make any sense at all isn't sensible. I have no problem with anybody speaking any indigenous language.

The English language is not a foreign language to in Nigeria,. It has, over timemixedintegrated with our cultures vernacular in a unique way, and has therefore has become ours – one of our languages. Even though I don’t speak the language of my indigenous tribe language, I still have some of their cultural values instilled in me, so that I cherish and respect them.


Thanks for reading.

Veebliz.

Just thought I should make some corrections.
I didn't do all of it but I'm sure you get the message.

revolt:
I'll give my life and whole savings for some good boobs. God really thought well while creating those sexy things on some women. Cup em from back pesin fit pour
...

Simping isn't easy.

Most women are NOT as beautiful as they portray to the world. They are very selective with the angle and features of themselves they want you to see.

Most women would not last up 30 seconds in the mind of a man, without make up.

Most women don't look nice when naked.

Most women women are not fine, plain and simple

A truly beautiful woman is hard to find and if you do find her, she wouldn't be on an electronic screen, consciously displaying fake beauty and tired tits.

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

IF this write up is true...

Not to be sexist nor generalising but this is the reason why (if it were up to me), young women would NEVER go to the University.

One would think that the so called citadel of learning were a kingdom in which actual self development may be fostered but not for a lot of ladies. Take your time to read this post and try to imagine how deelply committed this lady is to developing into a hoe during her prime years of feminine power. Observe her words and how her soul oozes of sensuality. It's fascinating and tragic at the same time. By the time of her graduation, she might be unable to bond with an actual husband.

Tragic.

1stola:

You have no point!
You've made no sense.

Ok. Fine.

This thread is for people who have faith in the Christ and the Bible. People on this thread genuinely believe and want to get it right.

Your post communicated in no uncertain terms that you don't believe in the bible. Your tone even bordered only mockery of the bible.

If you don't believe in Christ nor the Bible, why were u commenting in a message thread for Christian believers?? You could have either remained quiet or been absent.

1stola:
[s][/s]
If you can not make your point without facts and without saying "THE BIBLE SAYS", then you're only making stupîd assumptions just like the people who wrote the "story book".

You're on the wrong thread pal.

Quite frankly.

Grandamante:
Married women don't always ask for money. So, many of them are doing it for the pleasure not for financial gains. Those of them who are good financially, especially older ones, would even pamper the boy finish.

If a married woman makes herself available to u for sex, and it is not against ur principle, f@ck the hell out of her. U don't ve any moral obligation towards her husband. Karma won't affect u. It is her who took an oath of faithfulness to her husband infront of God and man not u. U re only a passerby.

Wow.

You sound like Satan tempting Jesus in the wilderness during his hour of fleshly weakness.

"If you are the Son of God," he said, "throw yourself down. For it is written: "'He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.'"

The Poster is also saying...

Put fire on your laps, it won't burn you...
Go close to the venomous snake and pick it up, it won't bite you?

Get behind me for a moment Mr. posterMr. Satan so that I can save some men from you.

Young men, listen up

Proverbs 5:3-9
For the lips of a strange(whorish married) woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell. Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them. Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth. Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:

Proverbs 7:24-27
Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

So far 217 people upvoted his post. Most of them are probably young men. That is scary and sad. I feel bad for this generation of men. Men who will prefer to throw their lives away to death than make basic fleshly sacrifices, delay gratification and enjoy later.

This poster said there is no Karma for this behaviour and the scriptures above say there is.
Which one will you accept?

You don't know the poster nor his life trajectory but you know the scriptures and the time tested principles and rules they provide. You also have seen many men on the internet who slept with married women and paid heavy prices for it.

Which one will you accept, young men?

I strongly suggest you follow the way of understand and life.

karma = law and order = sowing and reaping = God in heaven.

Young men, the poster is telling you to "throw YOURSELVES down"!!! Will you do it? God won't catch you. I assure you. You can't mock nor test God. A fool says in his heart, "There is no God". I'm not calling the poster and his 217 upvoters fools, but the shoe actually fits and they are all rocking the same pair.

Proverbs 21:16
The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall remain in the congregation of the dead.

I'm not a pastor and this is not a preaching. This isn't religion. This is success and life.

Master the beast and be GODREADYMADE.

Scaredd:
Good day everyone,

I'm the guy that likes to flirt with women (trying so hard to change). Sometime last year November, I hand some sex encounters with 4 different women (2 unprotected) and by first week of December I started experiencing some symptoms which include;

1.White tongue
2. Occassional diarrhoea (watery, oily and formy stool ever since then. I feel sudden need to ease like twice or thrice a day).
3. A gradual weight loss (I eat very well, mainly fruits and proteins with carbohydrates on average)
4. Occasional hand tremor.
5. Occasional body vibration and fast heart rate.

I used to smoke marijuana and take alcohol, but stopped. I also masturbated for about 5-6yrs, then stopped last year which added to flirting with women. I've not masturbated since then, but still take alcohol (mainly vodka).

I went to a university teaching hospital, met with the consultant and explained to her just as I'm doing here (she was wowed!). She then directed me to do HIV test (came back negative), H. Pylori test (also came out negative) and another test (I've forgotten the name).

She then prescribed, nystatin oral suspension and vitamin B Complex which I've finished taking, yet no change. Meanwhile, I've taken fluconazole, antibacteria and probiotics of late.

I'm waiting for the lockdown to be lifted to go back, but before then, (who knows when this whole problem will end) felt i might get some help here.

Please Doctors, what could be wrong with me. Especially this diarrhoea and white tongue. My stomach is always rumbling after eating. Please help.

Thank you.

Pictures of my tongue before and after brushing

Listen to me carefully.

Ignore every clown in this thread.
Ignore every uninformed person on this thread
Ignore every person telling you to go for tests.

Most importantly, ignore every doctor here too. Their medical training (not their fault) will simply lead u to purchase ineffective drugs that will prolong your predicament.

Your body has already told you there is a problem
Our bodies have a very intelligent feedback system to point out the mistakes we are making and how to correct them.

If you knew how your body works, you would know what to do and your desperation would never flow into this thread.

I have your solution. DM me asap. it is free but knowledge comes at a price.

Don't wait up.

Preshieben:
have u ever had passion for something??
Okay see me in the next 3yrs
I'll be a successful model

I don't know u but I will do you a big favour.

So Good they can't ignore you by Cal Newport

Go and get this book and read it. If u can't, send me Ur email and I will send it to you.

Please read this book.

Preshieben:
So i was actually thinking about peagantry and modelling
I decided to try when the opportunity shown up on February
Picked a form
Contested for face of valentine Akwa ibom
Tried my little best
Surprisingly,I came second out of 22 fine babes
I was thrilled
And the experience was wow so I decided to go into modelling fully maybe after this lockdown
Collected the price and sent it to mom

I asked for her permission to go into modelling
She said no
I have passion for that stuff and I can't disobey mom
Any Advice from my elders??

If your mom says not go, why do you still request the opinion of people who don't matter to you??

Are you seeking validation and attention?

Do you want people to confirm to you that you have what it takes to be a model?

Will nairalanders' validation of your good looks assure you that you can go for the modeling career and that your mom is simply playa-hating?

Did you send the prize money to ur mom to manipulate her into allowing you to do what you want?

Do you think getting runner up position in ONE face modeling contest proves that you have all it takes to pursue a career in modeling?

If the answer to all these questions is a resounding YES, then it's safe for me to say that you have self esteem issues that you need to deal with asap. You also need to develop more self awareness to know your, strengths, weaknesses, purpose and where you fit in the grand scheme of things.

You most importantly need to understand what a modeling career entails.

A modeling career will utterlly destroy you because you are unaware of what it takes to succeed in it. Most models don't make enough to take care of themselves. The ones that do, signed up to take numerous dicks through all their orifices and to do other unmentionable things. If you are prepared to do likewise, then you Indeed have self esteem issues as I conjectured and you need to take my advice and become more self aware. Your mom probably said no for this reason. Even if she had other reasons, she did the right thing as your veritable elder and better. My guess is she knows that women who model have questionable morals. Regardless, she wants the best for you.

Get some skills, valuable skills. Create multiple streams of income and do something meaningful with your youthfulness and power. Be an asset. Get married, have kids. Your 30s, 40s and 50s will thank you. Trust me.

Forget about modeling and stop soliciting advice and opinions from people who don't know you nor care about you, especially regarding critical things like career.

MadeINchenzen2:
There will be global shortage of food. Hunger is coming !!!

Mark my Word

Hunger is coming to where. Nigeria? Because of a global shortage of food?

Really?

You are quite uninformed. Have you been to local markets around this country? There is a food glut in every state and this will last forever.

Why?

Nigerians are not hungry because of a food shortage. They are so because of purchasing power and the lack of it. Most Nigerians have weak purchasing power because they have weak value creating/producing power, so that they depend on the benevolence of relatives and benefactors. The money supply in Nigeria is already excessive. If 60% of Nigerians go to work and engage in value creating activities while the Government closes the borders from importation, the quantity of money would then flow optimally and purchasing power would improve across all social strata. More importantly, farmers would farm more and supply more food to more people who now have stronger purchasing power. The cost of food would increase in the short run and stabilize over time.

This is an ideal situation.

In reality, Nigerians wont still be affected by the global shortage (should it happen) because we have too much land and too many people who will farm with comparatively smaller resources that their foreign counterparts. Things would still remain the same and poor Nigerians will continue to be hungry if they don't get into productive work. Be that as it may, people who are productive in Nigeria will still feed those who aren't and they won't stop because of culture and religion - 2 things most would rather die than contravene.

Eulalia:


Bless your soul bro. I'm blessed allbover again by your words.
God bless you.

A quick one here.
Salvation is instant. Not a process.
[b]Salvation comes upon us the moment we make a decision (genuinely) to turn from our sinful ways and accept Jesus as our Lord and savior.[/b]At that point salvation is instantly given. Like you rightly said, sanctification is a process which takes time to shed our old habit or adamic nature so we can be presented spotless, fully regenerated and Holy to God on the day of rapture. This which is done by the Holy spirit to those who will yield themselves after salvation.

Greetings in Jesus name and bless you too.

Let's be scripturally accurate and have sound doctrine

2 Timothy 2:10
Therefore I endure all things for the elect’s sakes, that they may also obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.

Romans 13:11
And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.

Hebrews 1:14
Are they not all ministering spirits, sent forth to minister for them who shall be HEIRS of salvation?

Matthew 24:13
But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved.

Look at these 4 verses carefully.
Salvation = our souls/life getting saved. Saved from what? From death(sleeping and not rising again). Salvation comes definitively when we die by way of resurrection INTO LIFE with Christ. We INHERIT/OBTAIN salvation at the end (not the begining) -;look at that boldened verse 10 times.

Ephesians 2:8
For by grace are ye saved(being saved - Literal translation) through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:

2 Thessalonians 2:13
But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth:

Romans 10:10
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is (being - literal translation made) unto salvation.

Look at these 3.
The first says salvation is a gift from God and Jesus says we get it after this life when he resurrects us to life with him. The second says we were chosen to be saved and we are being sanctified/made without blemish(while alive), until salvation at the end (of the life in the flesh).

Look at it this way.
At the begining, you hear the gospel and the Holy Spirit convicts you of your sinful nature and you accept/agree with Him and believe with your heart that you need salvation(when you die) so that you won't resurrect into judgement after this life. This kick-starts your CONVERSION or SANCTIFICATION. Then over the course of the rest of your life, the Holy Spirit will be helping you put away all your sinful ways one by one until you are without blemish and ready for immortality or salvation. By the way, this is a HARD journey that will involve much suffering.

This is why I said salvation is a process/journey. There's no such thing as 'getting saved once' WHILE still in the flesh. Salvation cannot happen in the flesh because it involves literally putting away the flesh at death. Corruption will give way for Incoruption. Also, according to what u said, salvation comes when we make the decision... not quite so. Salvation begins when Christ through he Holy Spirit makes the decision. Look at what Christ did with Paul. Salvation is in His hands, not ours.
What happens in the flesh rather is a back and forth process/journey meant to burn off the old self or the flesh or sin nature, after which we really put off the PHYSICAL flesh at death. This is the road/process to Salvation.

Finally

Think of the Israelite nation going around mount Sinai for 40 years. They didn't get to the promise land until all the generation of people who left Egypt (excepting Caleb and Joshua) all died off. This a symbol of the life of the chosen faithful in Christ.

Consider.

Israelite nation = you and me (believers in Christ for our salvation)

Caleb and Joshua = our status as chosen of Christ and remaining with the faith until the end

Promise land (flowing with milk and honey) = Salvation or immortality or deathlessness or resurrection into life with Christ. Entering into our rest from the burdensome life of being in culorruptible flesh.

Going around mount Sinai for 40 years = journey of sanctification and putting to death the man of sin in us, hindering us from getting into salvation.

Meditate on this.

Eulalia:


Exactly my point.

Most girls are looking for a means to an end and so it is easy for them to adjust their life style so the unwary bro can wife and take care of them in the mean time but when it time to support the ministry of the so called bro, they weary out easily because that was not their purpose (to support the husbands ministry) but to get a temporal relief from societal and financial pressure at the time.

The Bible says, by their fruits, you shall know them. These sisters and bro are not always blind to this things but because of the lust of the flesh or material things, they go ahead feeling "I can change her/him" see the case of Samson.
Samson is a very good biblical example here.
Once you're set apart for God's work, you can't but stay and chose according to the will of God. Even as a regular brother or sister, your destiny matters a lot especially your eternity when it comes to marriage choices.

Amen and amen.

successmatters:
The blood of Jesus Christ can wash the most dirty runs girl to become a strong Christian evangelist who can win millions of souls for Christ.

A leopard never change its spots is not when the spots jam the cleansing power of the blood of Jesus Christ.

Read your bible more.

Let me correct you in the love of Christ.

Read your Bible and get wisdom; salvation is a process, sanctification is a process, regeneration is a process. They all take time. Why do u think patience is a fruit/result of the infilling of the Holy spirit? The blood of Jesus is the solvent for sin BUT it takes time and a process. For anything that will happen over a passage of time, you will need a lot of patience, proving Indeed that the Holy spirit is working in you.

The OP is right on all counts. The theological line of reasoning on the part of the Christian brother he spoke of was in error. This was why he ended up with a runs girl for a wife in the first place. He was focussed on fleshly cues while looking for a Christian wife. He was also trying to do the work of the spirit himself by forcing her to conform to his ideals of a Christian wife. Another error.

Needless to say that the spots on a leopard are a component of its DNA, our character flaws are not exactly part our DNA system but are human weaknesses we have fed and maximised over the course of time. The blood of Jesus cleanses us from all unrighteousness and deals with our sin only when we feel disgusted with our sinfulness. When we CONFESS our sins (say and feel the same way God feels about it), we activate the sanctification process. The blood of Jesus through the Holy spirit frees us from sin by first convicting us of it or having us see that sin is destructive to us and displeases God. All this takes time. Therefore the proverbial leopard spot doesn't just jam the blood of Jesus and sheds. No. They get cleansed over time until they are invisible.

The woman in question hadn't gone through this and the brother was unaware that this was an important cue (given his scriputural beliefs). Had he had a talk with the OP first, he probably wouldn't be regretting his decision today.

AnalQueenluci:



Eastornprince ,see 4 yourself
And stop creating several accounts Coronavirus boy

What are u talking about

husbandsnatcha:
...................Hello ,Bros are you insulting me indirectly ? Shuuuu!
4 ur info I have 4kids now ok...all dis ur typings is so stereotypical ,Don't call me a harl0t next time maka ndugi cos is obvious u are still an indomie kid ,

I'm not insulting you, just stating the obvious. However, if the shoe fits, feel free to lace it up and wear it.

If you are a senior woman as u claim, your moniker and post depicted you as an infantile person.

Husbandsnatcha

Did you snatch a husband for real? Is this how you built your home and got four kids? Do you have daughters, or girls who look up to you? Would they be proud of you if they saw your posts?

Most Nigerian ladies present themselves in sexual terms and are sexually loose because of the kind of training they get from women like you. They have no value to bring to a man beside their sexuality. Your words and posts reflect your real lifestyle and girls are watching and learning.

Poor and lousy parenting will be the death of this generation.

husbandsnatcha:
d wonderful n scuntillating point i made is dat every aspect of power ,Men ! Yes MEN ar behind we ladies ,do u knw i speak in tongues 2!


1. In life span aspect' u die lyk chicken .

2. In Bed u pass out withen minutes

3. Spiritually u cower wt empty soul hahahaha

I was going through this thread and saw this your post and frankly it aroused a deep sense of indignation within me. I pondered for a while, whether or not to quote/reply it. I scrolled down further to read other comments but that feeling wouldn't leave. I decided that I would educate you and your kind a little bit.

You spoke of three things. Life expectancy, sexual stamina and "spirituality"(conflated with speaking in tongues). You basically commented that men are weaker than women in all these areas and you cackled(laughed) like a which in mockery at the end.

First, let me ask you, are both your parents alive? If not, is your father alive? If he isn't are laughing in mockery at him because he could outlive you mother. Understand that a lot men in our society don't outlive their wives because of the compounded stress of bearing the duty of taking care of their families as well as having to deal with ungrateful and disloyal wives and daughters (like you). The sad part is that these men are actually good men who want to do right and care for. Women generally instinctively abhor men like this and will prefer to be in the arms of ruthless man who will not care for them. You are attracted to evil and not good yet you say you and ur ilk have more power than. Men. It is not how long you live but how well. Quality over quantity.

Secondly, did you know that a man doesn't need to pound on you for hours before you climax during sex? You said most men have no sexual stamina and get tired after 20 min. Listen. If you need a man to pound at you for hours before you orgasm, YOU HAVE A SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION. You've had too many men and your uterus has been desensitized to to normal sexual function. This means that more and more men will have to sleep with you until find the one who will satisfy you indeed. This is the reason why men use drugs and enhancers in the quest to please whores. This is why a man becomes a loaf bread when he sleeps with women like you. So, the one who will unaturaly pound on u for 1hr plus would have taken enhancers, to please the likes if you- only to be weakened further down his life in every way. Any wonders why men like this don't live long? Yet you laugh at them. Again, if you are normal in your sexual experience, the emotional connection you have with any man you share mutuality with will deeply satisfy you in every way. I speak not only to you but for the many women like you in this thread.

Finally, regarding spirituality. Needless to say that speaking in tongues for hours nor praying for hours has absolutely nothing to do with being spiritual, your ability to speak in tongues for hours (a spiritually redundant activity) more than men only shows how spiritually ignorant you are. Children of God are called such because they are yielded to/led by the Spirit of God by faith in Christ. Deeply spiritual people deny their own will and OBEY God. Why do you think Jesus came to earth as a man? Why do you think all the prophets and law-givers in the Bible were appointed as men? All the authors of all the books in Bible were penned by the spirit through the hands of men, did you know that? Only few women were notable in the Bible and they can be easily counted on two hands. I bet you don't know them. Why do you think God chose men to lead in every area of life? Let me tell you the answer. He made men spirituality STRONGER than women. Observe Adam and Eve. Satan got Eve to disobey God FIRST. Adam OBEYED God until Even showed up. Remember that spiritual strength doesn't lie in speaking unintelligible words for hours, thinking God is pleased with that (women are good at choosing the easy and useless things and mastering it). Spirituality is ability and willingness to obey God above self. Most men are willing to die and feed women and children. This is love and Obedience to God, yet women like you mock them because they are inherently self absorbed and inordinately love the pleasure of life above God and his will. Think of Lot's wife.

You are a young woman (from ur profile pic). Time is coming for you when men will not desire you like they do now. When men don't like you anymore, what power will you have over them? Even if you get married, how will any man be happy having you as a wife when u think the way you do? If you marry a mindless fool of a man who loves you inspite of your opinions of him, how will you be fulfilled in that marriage?

Please change your mindset.

SultanOfPuna:
Contagion is a 2011 movie which is weirdly predicts accurately the ongoing Coronavirus Pandemic..
How did the director know this will happen in 9 years time
Here are some clips


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UkXOj8u1Fo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcD2B8ilArM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdedwD2ZZiU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLUzF8HRwUI

It's called predictive programming.
Check out 'Eyes of Darkness' by Dean Koontz. In this book, there's a virus called 'wuhan 400' that will supposedly show up in 2020, disappear and then return in 2030 again and then disappear indefinitely. Mind you, 400 = 20x20.

This corona mania was planned and executed for this time around by the powers that be, that shouldn't be.

Don't be scammed.

ambivert27:
thank you for this relief from corona case

On a serious note, you only showed that you are man enough to handle that girl. When interrogated, just prove your manliness once more to the panel.

Las Las you go dey alright

Since when does allowing a woman publicly disgrace a man, prove that he is 'man enough'? The OP clearly didn't get proper training from his father and Instead of you to correct him, you are here glorifying his foolishness.

Didn't want to comment, but what you just said here is cringe worthy.

nwamabo247:
HE who kill by gun will die by gun

Die by the BULLET

Finallydead:
True in some sense but even reading the scriptures to see jesus in them doesn't necessarily give the impact of eternal life. Until you make real-time, vital, tangible but spiritually discernible contact with Him through His Spirit in you, which will automatically be evidenced in outcomes of your life, youre just as good as those pharisees searching the scriptures for eternal life.

The thing is, the Spirit chooses you, you don't choose the Spirit. If the Spirit chooses you, you won't be able help living the life of Christ.

It is the Spirit that first chooses and then causes you to see Christ in the scriptures, movies, novels, nature, experiences and circumstances.

BabbanBura:


For 15k?

Nah. Sorry. Totally ignored that.

sauvage

Christian Dior

thank me later

Osagyefo98:
I reserve my Judgement on this because there are distortions.

But let me quickly correct this


4. Anambra State
Anambra is a state in southeastern Nigeria. Its name was inspired by one of its Northern and riverine clans Anam but merged with “branch”.

Language spoken: Igala and Igbo are the major languages of Anambra state



Please and please Igala is not a language in anambra state, let alone been a major language.

There is nothing like Igala language in anambra state pls.

You and all those who liked your comment do not know History. Get some education.

Know today that the original inhabitants of what you know today as Anambra where Igala people- Back when they held the mantle of leadership over the historical Apa Kingdom. The Igbos/Hebrews migrated from Jerusalem, through Egypt and settled in the Eastern part of what we now call Nigeria. By that time, Apa Kingdom had already given way to the Kwararafa kingdom (already weakened by internal crisis and external threats from the Fulanis). The Igbos settled in that area and quickly dominated and occupied by rapid population growth and commerce.

You will never learn this in school.

[quote author=estyvino post=82725066]They didn't know that it's eatable[/quote

kestolove95:
I need a guy DAT will not demand sex till after wedding..

No sex?

Hope you won't demand for money.

Are you a virgin?
Yes or no.

If No, you are a scammer.
If yes