IyanuDeb:
Lmao, almost everyone must have some sort of good quality,the reason for many failed marriages today is because of the ability of people to show only their good qualities before marriage and after it, they reveal the bad ones which will overweight any other good quality

Exactly.

This is the expertise of the female.

She pretends to be valuable without having any actual value. E.g Make up for a bland face, push up bra for a pair of tired tits etc. Good marketing for a falling stock.

She is like a black widows (spider specie) that attracts the male into marriage, with her web of lies and deception only to destroy him with her venom later.

fyzaila:
I'm a gem, diamond, my kind is so rare.

be specific. What is so rare and valuable about you?

Do you know the amount of work that goes into acquiring diamond?

Work builds value into a person, place or thing.

What work has been applied to you to be so rare?

immortalcrown:
Your question is very necessary but should not have been directed to only the female gender. Brothers also need to say what they will offer their wives.

If not bias and hate for a balanced judgement, why are people attacking me because of the above paragraph?

People are attacking you because you said a foolish thing. Now get wisdom. A stick for the back of fools...

1. Women choose men and not the other way round
2. If women choose and not men, then men are the prize.
3. If men are the prize, then women who see the inherent value in the man should value up in order get the prize. To get any prize, you must be better than the competition. Therefore, women should work to get the best man for themselves.

Normaly, If a man is useless, no woman would want him. Therefore, he won't get chosen.

Men work and become the prize to be chosen. Women never work for anything, they simply show up with ass, tits and make up. Work generates value. So men are more valuable between the two genders. MEN ALREADY ARE THE VALUE BEING OFFERED. WE ARE THE OFFERING. Women don't offer much in comparison.

Your answer is all the more poignant, seeing that you're a male.

Repent.

Trueigbo:
Hello Nairalanders

My mother was diagnosed of brain tumor about 3 years ago though she is old we are skeptical about going for surgery.

The sickness affected her muscles as she finds it difficult to walk and chew food. It takes her time to eat food and end up eating very small quantity.

What can we give her to increase her appetite because I strongly believe she will get strength if she eat very well. We have spoken to doctor who insists we do the surgery as the only way out.

You will struggle with what I'm about to say:

The last thing your dear mother should be doing is eating. That brain tumor is simply her body speaking. Her body is saying 1. My lymphatic system is severely clogged up (from all the mucus forming foods that has been fed to me for years) and needs draining. 2. My way way of dealing with this (in order to survive) is to excrete all the mucus into the brain in sac of acidosis that doctors call a brain tumor. It's in a sac to protect the brain from high PH of the acidity that will fry the neurons and cause other complications and progressive death. This so called tumor will affect my well being but creating it is much more better than dying. However if I don't correct the thing that caused it in the first place, death might follow.

Read this is till you get wisdom.

Solution: please pay attention brother.

1. Have your mother go through a 7-day herb and juice fast.
2. Get some Herbs and astringent fruits that do nothing but open elimination pathways in the body and drain the lymphatic system. Get herbs that support kidneys, liver and nervous system. Get on net and do the research. Pay the price by seeking wisdom.
3. You will definitely see her get better
4. Continue for another 3 weeks and she will be healed.
5. CHANGE HER DIET into one based on plants and fruits and whole foods.

A surgery will drain your pockets without guaranteeing her survival. Also, extracting the tumor artificially might tamper with her neurology and this might affect the quality of her life post surgery. You don't want this, trust me.

To doctors and the medical pharmaceutical industrial complex, your mother's health is nothing but a business opportunity. Don't indulge them.

God made herbs and fruits for the healing of the nations.

You've prayed in Jesus name and this is the answer. Now get to work.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Live and lets live moda fuckkers
Flog any of my female relatives and watch me knock your head off your neck

These are some of the things that come alongside civilization
Accept it or fuckkk off

That is how I was walking with my two baby sisters in New Benin markets and one idiot was about to cause awareness and call them names because they were on a skimpy, diaphanous and translucent outfit
I walked up to the moda fuckker and looked him straight in the eye and say I' mma punch someone in the face..balling'up my fist right 🤛 about now...no one fuckkk with my baby sisters and go scot free

I work in an office and habitually appear in a corporate attires during the week.

When people see me, they recognize me immediately as an executive who works in an office.

If I were to, all of a sudden, appear in a police uniform; those whom I know would immediately request to know if I've begun a new career with law enforcement, upon seeing me.

In society, we are first identified by our 'uniforms' (since most of us are decent enough not to go out naked). We are addressed as we are dressed- many would say.

Your passion and protectiveness about your sisters is commendable. However, if your sisters are wearing a 'uniform' that conveys to the world that they are women of questionable morals, should it surprise you that people would see and treat them as such? If the provoked person whom you almost pummeled, instead of reacting the way he did, proceeded to proposition your sisters for a sexual relationship, would your disdain remain? Afterall, we are in a modern age as you put it- this supposedly gives everyone the liberality to dress how they like and to approach women as they like. I assure you that all the people who saw your sisters appearance that day, probably felt the same way as the man you almost punched or were moved to lust after them. None of these outcomes will favour their reputation as ladies.

I don't know you but I am sure that you don't want anyone harassing your sisters for indecent dressing as much as you don't want them being treated like prostitutes.

Advise you sisters to dress in a way that inspires respect for them from those who behold them. This will help their fragile self-esteem far more than your nod of approval to their provocative sense of fashion. Also, it would have been a superior and proactive demonstration of love and protectiveness to them, than any form of reactive belligerence from you in their favor.

P.S This reply is meant to be constructive.

OmoGomesIlorin:
I meet this lady in December 2019 and by 2020 we had the opportunity to connect with each other on a friendship level. From my interactions with her and observations, she is cool-headed and calm, intelligent and ambitious. Her skills match someone I dream of marrying. She is from Anambra, state - Umuoji

However, as a low-budget guy, I am weighing my options due to stereotype of demanding for a gargantuan bride price.

I want to know if what people are saying online is true or exaggerated


Editted

Check for the following:
1. Is she a virgin? Like a virgin virgin. She's not been so much as kissed by another man.
2. Is she young? Below 24.
3. Is she from comfortable home. Doesn't come from poor and greedy parents.

If it's a yes for all three point, do anything to marry her. Get your money up and marry her.

If you can't get your money up to marry her Deceive her and get her pregnant. You will PAY a heavier price though.

Go and get your money up. If you do, you might not get the quality of girl you need as a man.

Men with money never find great wives.

Women with money don't make great wives.

Teeroyzimma:
Ok Americana

Don't be dumb

Nigerians just don't give a damn about this, clearly.

ChatGPT has improved my work by a great measure.

illicit:
It's a white pool party

Only 2 black people were invited

That's rascism

Elite

Still got it?

Kobojunkie:
1. Who is "mocking" men? And yes, even in marriage, man, woman... replaceable.

2. Again, the fact is not all women desire to have children, nor want them. Same with men. Not all men desire to have children not want them. And your ignorance of this simple fact has nothing to do with God since He, over 2000 years ago ,also informed you of this Truth..

3. I know enough about you to know you don't even know the God you claim to speak of and this because commonsense which He revealed to you over 2000 years ago, you don't even know of nor understand.

This is really funny.

Seriously, I really want you to understand. People are NOT replaceable. The world was designed and ordered in a set way. Everyone is unique, with a unique purpose. If people were replaceable then you might as well just farm people like cattle, with the sole purpose of reproducing. No purpose, no hopes, no dreams. Think.

Yes, not all desire to have children but most people DO. It's how it was designed. It's called procreation. 98% of men and women want to have sex and make children. This is why we are over 7 billion on earth and not 100million only. If you are asexual and don't want to have children, that's ok, but something caused that. You were not born like that.

You keep emphasizing my ignorance of what happened 2000 years ago. If you speak of Jesus Christ and his birth and death, and how he didn't have children, then I will tell you that he came to this world for that purpose to achieve it and he did. It is a good thing to deny yourself for the Kingdom and there is no error in that. Having children is not the end-all be-all. Granted. However, not many people will go down the road of the Christ. In fact, most won't. If the Creator, had a problem with His own system of procreation, I'm very sure he is powerful enough to do something about it, without our input. After all, He himself created it all.

Kobojunkie:
I think many of you go in to marriage thinking you become gods by it.

When you lived as a bachelor, did you not provide and at the same time take care of domestic chores? Why do you now pretend that marriage sets you above doing the same domestic chores, only this time, for your own home that you build with your wife?

I guess the problem is not entirely yours but also that of the self disrespecting woman who will allow you marry her as house help. Way too many women with very low sense of self out there.

You're really out to get me aren't you?

Please, try not to let your ideals and emotions cloud your understanding of how things actually work.

Men function (optimally) a certain way and so do women. I briefly described this in my post, if you cared to read the whole thing.

Many bachelors will confess to you that it's very hard to make a lot of money and concentrate on doing house chores regularly. Men are mostly 'out there'. Our first love is our work. We would rather 'go out' than remain at home, even if there is nothing wrong with doing our own house chores (in the absence of hired help) Please understand this. This is good, normal and self-respecting.

It is not likewise with most women.

You are different in the sense that you would opt not to go out there in favor of staying at home if you had the choice. A woman will always opt for the easy way out, the path of least resistance so to speak. If all is provided for her, her natural inclination is to take care of the home front and perform domestic duties like house chores. This is good, normal and self respecting.

If both parties, within the context of marriage, understand these basics and play their positions accordingly, only peace and happiness will ensue. The man will be optimized and provide optimally, seeing that he is in his natural habitat. Likewise the woman.

Somewhere along the line, someone lied to women and changed all the rules, as well as the natural habitat of both parties:

1. Women now think they should compete with men in the work place. Outside their own natural habitat.
2. Women now think a man should help them in their own natural habitat. Outside his own habitat.
3. The governmental system declared that women can survive in men's habitat and incentivized their migration.

Humans excel when they work in alignment with their natural configurations and within their natural habitat. A fish cannot climb a tree more than a monkey can dive and swim in the belly of the ocean.

This is why you and I are arguing today and right now.

Any wonders why marriages were happier and lasted longer than they do today?

Kobojunkie:
Leave God out of your foolishness abeg!

God talk say He created some Eunuchs from birth, some were made Eunuchs in this life and some chose to become Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom... if you believe the childless are somehow cursed, then you know nothing of God but delusions you have likely been fed with about Him.

Oh, because God made some eunuchs out of some men, you can come out here and flippantly mock men for being replaceable tools? Really?

You are a woman. A woman was designed to have babies. I don't know you, but I'm sure you want to have babies someday. To have a baby, you need a man- this is very important. If you feel men are replaceable objects then you really don't value having children, seeing that you wouldn't want to have them with just any man. Therefore, if men are replaceable, you may either decided to sleep with any man at all and have babies who will not know their father or you can have intercourse with yourself (which you can't). Either way, you're not moving forward really.

Men are not replaceable tools.

You said I know nothing about God. That's ok. You don't know me, so I won't comment on that. However, I know God gave you something called common sense and quite frankly, I feel like you're not making the best use of it.

sanchell:
whatever type of man you are . you are not doing me any favour . you are replaceable thank you

How disrespectful.

I hope God forgives you and you don't die childless.

However, if you are incorrigible, feel free to go Bleep yourself.

Kobojunkie:
Isn't it of importance to consider important the reason why many women are driven into this manipulative attempts at correcting issues in their marriages to begin with?

Take the OP'S given example. Imagine both the man and woman agreed from the beginning to sharing the house duties as a couple. But somewhere down the road, OP'S began neglecting his part, leaving the entire burden on his equally stressed wife to bare alone. Frustrated and stressed out, the wife, maybe after numerous attempts to talk to him about the importance of doing his share of the chores, and for fear she might turn into her worst nightmare - a nagger- resorts instead to 'training' the OP by denying him sex as a way of getting him to comply with the agreement they both made from the start.

No two marriages are the same, and so this needs to be considered on case by case basis ofcourse.

Why on God's green earth would any self-respecting man take himself through this hellish experience??

Why would a man GO OUT and be a provider for his home and return to it to perform domestic duties with his wife, all in the name of marriage and homemaking?

Disgusting.

No man can live long, going through what you're counselling men to do. That, I assure you.

The home is a woman's office, let her operate it. Why would she get tired of doing what she was designed by the creator to do. Conversely, the office of a man is outside the home in the 'competitive market place': where he creates value to earn purchasing power. Notice how we don't get tired of going out there to 'grind' on the daily. This aptly describes the unspoken agreement man and wife come into, within the confines of marriage. Let each play the role they are configured for.

In other words, stop asking monkeys to swim in the ocean. Stop asking fish to leave the ocean to climb trees.

To make a bad situation worse, she denies him sex, not because she's tired, but because she wants her honorable husband to assist her in her domestic duties. It's funny how she might even decide to lay on her back and do nothing while the man engages in more 'work', should she decide to acquiesce to his sexual advances.

Pathetic.

You're right when you say she is training him. That's the female imperative in case you don't know. Her objective is to have full control over him until he is worn out, while doing as little as possible.. If he gives in to her 'training', the stress of living with that witch he calls a wife, will sooner of later take a toll on his vitality and bring him close to his death.

Make no mistake about it: A good woman is indeed hard to find. She will bring a man good, all the days of her life.

My conclusion:

Leave poor girls from poor families alone. They CANNOT relate with humans without seeing them as some sort of benefit or opportunity to come up. Their poverty has made them too greedy to be righteous. This behavior will only birth an attitude of entitlement, lack of accountability and self-delusion. At the end, they will blame you for bringing yourself close to them.

I blame that married man for being foolish and investing his money in a poor girl and her family. If the OP tries to say she isn't poor and didn't stick around for the fringe benefits, I would in turn ask her, "what made you act so immorally to the point of dating a married man for 4 years, while your immediate family was ok with it?"

Poverty.

If you had your own resources and was contented, and you still did what you did then I would say that you acted selfishly and wickedly, because you HAD A MAN WHO WAS INVESTING IN MARRIAGE WITH YOU ALREADY!!

Bear your burden.

Men, leave women alone. You will be alone anyway.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Salutations,

The other day, some lady I barely knew, asked me to give her some money. I responded by demanding sex from her in return. She asked why I would do that and so I responded by informing her that I felt objectified by her request. I proceeded to tell her that the way a woman feels when men ogre at her and desire her for sex only, is the same way I feel when women like her look at me and desire me for money only.

Objectified.

Women shame men all the time for not being capable of meeting their needs. Why can't we do the same to them? Having sex with many men destroys a woman's ability to pair-bond with a man to build a family with him. It is therefore essential that a man knows a woman's body count before considering being in a long term relationship with her. Also, did you know that a woman absorbs the semen of a men she's sleeps with so that it becomes part of her DNA? Imagine marrying a woman who has slept raw with more than one man. Scary and disgusting.

If women don't want to be slut shamed, they should discipline themselves not become actual sluts.

Slut shaming is a GOOD thing. It stops sluttery and immorality. Women are the gate keepers of sex and healthy marital relationship. If all women opened their legs to their husbands only, the world would be a much better place and you wouldn't have to write a whole essay, exhorting men out there not to judge and slut shame sluts.

doggedfighter:
This right here's arrant nonsense !

Superstitious, myopic, religious fear induced and meaningless balderdash.

Sex is just sex.

Whether with married woman or single lady.

There's nothing spiritual or dire consequences there in.

The only risk is being caught by an an angry husband or insane boyfriend.

Hi

What you said now shook me. I was shaken some more seeing that so many people agreed with you.

If you listen to the radio, do you see the 'things' that transport the voices from the transmitter to the receiver? Do you see what moves the sun to rise and to set?

You are a woman. Do you know life comes through the doors of a womb? Note that life comes from somewhere even if the actual child is knitted in the womb. Life is indeed sacred and can only be expressed through your womb. UNsacred life, likewise can find expression through your womb, did you know?

There are things we cannot see that cause the things we see to be. If sex is the system that initiates the entrance of the most sacred spiritual (unseen) thing such as life, into this world, so that the womb HAS to open for it to have expression, do you not think sex should not be a thing to be toyed with?

Try and consider this logic. You don't need to reply. Simply think on these things and consider how very real they are.

Thanks.

Duplexxx:
Because girls deserve it they are gods they are the one who can kill you easily they are the one who can make frustrated they can make you behave like little baby they can turn you like house boy even they controls you

If you're not the caring types they will drop you


They are really powerful

you are right, women like this are powerful in a destructive way, especially to those who fall into her trap.

I discovered that a seductive woman is a trap more bitter than death. Her passion is a snare, and her soft hands are chains. Those who are pleasing to God will escape her, but sinners will be caught in her snare.
Ecclesiastes 7:26 (New Living Translation)

Men of principle are immune to her though.

Mrsoft3:



Grace to go and suffer? Grace is attached to positivity and ease,I don't think it is attached to sufferness

Grace to BEAR the suffering.

FatherOfJesus:
Story, we are talking what happens in reality, you are here giving motivational speech.
Go around and do research on what me pass through in marriages.

Fair enough.

Are you married?

Marriage between a man and woman is the MOST powerful social institution in the cosmos. It can literally create life and nurture life, which the most impossible task on Earth (without marriage). If marriage can do this, then there is NOTHING it cannot acomplish. Any wonders why there is great warfare on that terrain?

This warfare became increasingly pronounced, starting from the turn of the 20th century until now and I don't need to go into the historical details. However let me emphasize that our lives here on Earth is spiritual. Life is spiritual and more so than we think. Marriage is spiritual. This simply means that it has its foundation (manual) from a place we cannot see.

Consider the following:
1. Women are spiritual gates. Every woman. This is the reason why life can only come to earth via the womb of a woman.

2. Everything on Earth (effect) has a spiritul origin (cause). This is a universal edict we all know. This Nexus is based on LAW or legality, and this established the workings or design of anything created.

2. If women are spiritual gates, life is not the only spiritual thing that comes through them to manifest physically. Other things may follow the same pathway.

4. There is good and evil in the world (see) because there is good and evil in the spirit (unseen)

5. The EASIEST way for these to have expression In the world is women. Women are very important, especially to Kings (men) as well as spirits. They can be destructive too. Depends on how the 'horse is mounted' or 'gates are opened'. I say they are the easiest way because women are numerous in the world and so good or evil spirits can manifest en mass through women. There are other gates as well but this is about women.

5. The right way to mount the horse is marriage to good woman. A good woman first of all is a woman who fears God i.e principled and as such is trained as one who will be. She is also a gate that has not been ilegally opened.

6. A woman who has been ilegally opened becomes a doorway for evil to come into the world to find expression. Any man who goes into her or marries her is greeted by evil and death in their varying magnitudes of manifestation.

7. A good woman will bring ONLY good to her King, all the days of her life. This is a Law.
Why? She was trained to be a good woman and was legally opened. Only a good fruit can grow and fall from a good tree. No woman can pretend to be good at all. Is she principled and acts it out? Is she still 'closed' and seeks to be opened legally? She is a good woman.

8. There are few good women because there is much to be gained from the evil that can come out through these numerous spirituals gates called women. To birth evil into the world, the numerous gates (women) in the world MUST to be INVERTED or corrupted, sexually and morally.

9. Men of wisdom and knowledge are men who understand that life is spiritual and behave accordingly. These are the Kings. Kings know that the world is predictable and they work the predictability to their advantage.

Woe unto the rest.

godlessmind:
it's your opinion, i don't believe in the sh#t

Doesn't matter.

You don't need to believe in the sun rising and setting for it rise and set.

godlessmind:
lol karma will not do anything ....the looters and murderers in our government why has karma hasn't gotten to them?

Wrong answer.

Right answer: 1. seed time and harvest time (karma) NEVER fails. Believe it.
2. Karma has visited many of them already but it would probably never be disclosed to you. karma WILL visit every last one them for sure.

sapphiere:
Good!

See fine gal were one ediot wanted to use.
Thank God she was wise.

The FUTURE is FEMALE

There is nothing 'fine' about a young girl who took it upon herself to meet a man at his dwelling place, whom she met over the internet.
Why did she go in the first place??
Was she expecting that the man wouldn't at least TRY to put the moves on her?
Would she have departed without getting anything in return?

The only reason her story came to light is because she didn't 'feel' him. Otherwise, she would have slept him, received payment for her service and acted like nothing happened. Chop and clean mouth so to speak. I can bet money she didn't even trek at all. She only announced her sadness because she got nothing for her 'trip'. She was defeated. The guy turned out not to be an idiot (as she expexted).

Then enter in the SIMP Who gave her money....

Here is a young girl with zero self respect who cried because she didn't get transport money for taking herself to a strange man. Upon not getting paid for visiting him, she resorted to trekking and demanded attention for her 'suffering'. Then a an idiot, twice as foolish as her decided to 'reward' her. Heavens.

May God forgive all three of them.

Mercisharelove:



Mr perfect dumbest idiot, what have you ever made perfect in this world? you are fully imperfections.


What's the �

Take it easy. No need to be emotional and combative.

His response to your post might have been a little uncouth, but it is the substance of his response that you should consider.

What he is essentially pointing out is that men should not be ignorant and flippant about the past relationships and sexual contacts of the women they are considering for marriage. This is because he and all other single men who are self aware, deeply understand that a woman with a 'past' lacks the emotional work ethic to be a wife. In other words, the aspects of her nature that enable her to bond and devote herself to ONE man have been seared on account of having sexual experiences with numerous men.

The hard and cold truth that all women should come to terms with is that having so much as one body count, immediately disaqulifies them from being a wife to a high value and self respecting man. This is why most women end up settling for men they don't respect and end up having children for other men in their own marriages. The tonality of his response to your post was simply a reflection of how he values himself as man.

In plain English: no self respecting man will wife up a woman with a past and he will thoroughly investigate a woman's past before considering marriage with her.

In the same vein, no self respecting woman who values herself will sleep with a man who IS NOT her husband.

Many women sleep around but still want marriage. Therefore they necessarily have to cover up their past in a desperate attempt to deceive an man foolish enough to marry them.

That's it.

A virtuous woman is indeed a gift from God.

Mercisharelove:
Young girls, especially women are very great instrument to change this world or destroy it.

They can actually control men. You know men feel they are leaders, but not to a charming queen he truely loves with all his heart he can actually go any mile to protect her.

So with your favour, beauty and strength bring men to him - your heavenly master and father God Almighty.

Woman took man out of God‘s presence before, man - CHRIST JESUS brought man into his bossom and gave the woman - mary - the harlot to bring in his brethren.

I‘m begging you girls, common bring the world - men back to your heavenly father God Almighty who craves to fellowship with us.

By the wisdom of a woman the family is built. Build our family around the world.

Listen closely because you won't learn this stuff in church:

Power is not ability to do work, nor to control anything, nor does it have to do with anything physical. Power is a spiritual thing. Power makes you super normal because you know higher (super) laws and apply them. Period.

Women have power not because of their beauty, but because they are doorways into the spirit realm. Every woman is a door way into the unseen. Life (spirit) comes from the spirit realm and every life comes through the female. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and gets favor from God. God is a spirit and is in the spirit realm. That means it is not only children that a man can get from a woman's 'portal'. He can get favors. Favor = stuff you get without exerting physical force or ability to obtain. Favor comes from the spirit. Favor is spiritual but manifested in physical things. . By implication, it is also possible for a woman to destroy a man from the spirit realm of darkness, where evil things emerge from. Women can be doorways, unlocking good or evil to a man. Women are doorways through the spirit. This why they have more power in this world than men. This is the real reason why many men worship women.

Nevertheless,

Men are called to serve God and not women. Women. Are called to serve men. A woman cannot bring a man to God. Only God can bring man to himself. Women have power to bring good things and evil things to a man, depending on how he relates and deals with her.

This is why women have more 'power' than men in this world. Women are spiritual doorways, but men have better access to God that women. Both were designed as such.

Men will find God if they stop making women their god, because of they power the represent on this earth.

Reachable:
Hi all, I noticed I started developing body ordour under armpit in particular.
First time I noticed it was like more than a decade ago, then was in my 20s.
So I started using medicated soaps and deodorants, at first it was a big challenge getting the one that worked for me because once I start sweating I notice that it will overpower most deodorants I used but one worked for me which is (sure for men the long one).
After some years I noticed I always have boils under my armpits as a result of high usage until a nurse adviced to stop using deodorants that it can lead to skin cancer, at first I didn't knew the cause of my constant boils was the deodorant until she told me and I stopped I noticed the boils just died off.
So I started using them again but this time sparingly, until I stopped using them like some years ago.
I was fine especially if I didn't sweat much during the day, the only thing I noticed was that if I don't shave on time I will have armpit odour or after shaving my armpits the odour will come again for some days then stop.
I was managing it like that, but was making sure I bath at least twice a day or as much I can in a day.

Recently, I was more of staying at home these days unless I have job to do outside.
Only for me to start noticing the armpit odour again, shaved and bath as much as I can yet it won't stop.

My armpits always smell like a per boiled onions some moments after bathing, I have been managing it with explorer sometimes it works depending on my activities for the day.
But it's peeling the skin under my armpits and it's hurting besides it give me boils.
Please help, what can I do?

Baking soda
Two fingers on each arm pit after bath or shower

Thank me later

PrimadonnaO:
That feeling is merely fleeting.

For most people, it gets to a point when you simply don't want to be alone... you want someone you'll call your own.

Only women feel this way.

Men shouldn't

Men in touch with their feminine do.