₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
These are the things some ladies tell themselves in order to remain in their comfort pod and avoid having to actually do something definite about a disrespectful husband.

did her prayers turn the gender of the baby in vivo? and why couldn’t so called prayers stop her husband from philandering? Instead the prayers chose to punish a baby with birth defect?

Her prayers did nothing. Side chick had a case of false scan results. That’s even if this story is true.
Sounds like something a suffer head wife cooked up to console herself.

As in ehn, I get weak sometimes.

The Prof has worked with Buhari before so he knows what to expect.

So we should fry guguru or what?
If he was bad to you, that's your personal beef and it shouldn't concern others.
Badbelle.

My able Senate president, congrats to you too sir Bukola Saraki.

We said they would.
Their nightmare has been confirmed.
Congratulations to the able diplomat, may your reign be a Blessing to Ilorin Emirate, kwara state and Nigeria as a whole.

It isn't a bad thing for someone to love you because of your wealth, it is one of the reasons to fall in love.

You should only ensure he is in love with your wealth so he can have a comfortable life with your kids and not because he wants to steal your money and jilt you in the end.

They will still announce it, they are still in shock by Buhari's choice.

Wow, this is impressive.
I like his determination.

While using Orthodox medicine, you should try Herbal medicine too.
I hope you get the cure you seek, sorry.

In real life, if she had gone to the hospital as soon as she was raped, she would not get pregnant.

Acidosis:
Seriously??

Have you seen such and if yes, how often do those cases occur?

Those six Police men would swear for this IG, I mean, how does he expect them to get extra tips?

Gerrard59:


@OP: Apologies but I have to ask, you later bore another child? I thought she did not want it or una be adopt ni? How did you cope with the birth/adoption of this second child?

I saw the kids part too but I thought I didn't read well.

I have not seen where a wife's father will go to her matrimonial house to as little as pass the night.
If this does not happen, how on earth would her husband pick fight with her father, how will they know each other's weaknesses?
The fight between MILs and wives are mostly born out of over-familiarity.

Everytime a woman leaves a poor man or reacts badly to him, the man always end up having a well paying job and the woman always want to come back...
Op, you forgot to write the part where she is willing to come back and live with you in Lekki .

The Lord will help you two sort your matter if this is true.
If your wife is smart though, she should suspect it is you, some of your words gave you out but what do I know.

sassysure:
U were not wrong.
The poster put that headline to sensaionalise it.

That woman is in obvious pain and I wouldn't want to watch that video again.
U will get to agree that she is right about her claims towards the end of the video.

The man loves that boy more than her and her children. It's very obvious even if u don't understand what she is saying.

Hmm.

My heart breaks for the kids.

As for that mullato, one day, he will meet his doom.

It's quite unfortunate, the husband must be a user, he would do things to annoy her and when she reacts he terms her bitter, very typical.
I hope the woman finds the strength and leave him and his toxicity.

Who videos and posts all these family feuds? I mean it happened in their home, who filmed them in their home?

TheStorier:
Then she should be the first also. Thanks.

It shouldn't matter who brings in money for food, everyone should eat equally whenever they feel hungry.
Wahala dey this NL.

You have automatically assumed the man is the breadwinner, what if the woman is the breadwinner?

Make more money than they have.

Hollywood
Wentworth Miller(Micheal Scofield) in Prisonbreak.
Robert Knepper(Theodore Bagwell) in Prisonbreak
Joseph Sikora(Tommy Egan) in Power.
Natori Naugthon(Tasha St Patrick) in power.

Nollywood
Toyin Abraham, no matter the movie, I will automatically like her character.

The same people that call Adesuwa barren are the same blaming Mercy Johnson for having many children.
I wonder when people will start minding their own business.

Blyzz:
you're not in Nigeria system, or you probably replace sim every weekend.

My sim is thirteen years old and its been active all these years.

mcdokwe:
Hanty, we're together o. I come dey ask myself, shebi if them dey share money, na so me too no go follow collect.

Lol, my main concern o, shey the money go reach me so .

Beautiful.
Am I the only person that never received any message from NCDC? I heard some people receive more than 10 messages.

He must have seen one of you throwing things at the other person when angry.

The belt you used on him is too much for his age, he may not even understand your reason for beating him.

Once he wakes up tomorrow morning, go to him bed and pet him, be responsible for him for the day that is, bathe him, take care of his room and make his cereals, smile at him and tell him you are sorry, all these is to win back his trust.

Next time, get a really tiny "pankere", threaten him anytime he errs and watch him adjust, he will adjust as he grows.

At 31, you don't have a stable relationship, I wonder when you intend to get married when your mates are about becoming grandfathers.

He must have been dropping housekeep money in hundred of thousands monthly..

Op, ensure your mom is really fine health wise.
Whoever cooks among you should ensure all food finishes before your dad comes in so when he comes he won't have anything to eat, but if you feel you can spare him some, then dish his own somewhere.
There is nothing you can do about your mom leaving right now because none of you is financially buoyant yet and yoruba people will say ti owo eni oba ti te eku ida, akin bere iku topa baba yan.
You will pull through and its on you to make your mom eat a good fruit after all her labor.

Femsyn:
This is a very typical story of many Nigerian homes. Later in the man's old age, when children and wife ignore and treat him like trash, one stranger, in the name of a fiance, who has no idea of their history, will become judgmental and share blames.

Another uncle will encourage other women to endure abuse, just because his own mother barely survived a marriage with an egotistical and insensitive man.

How you treat this man later is completely up to you and your siblings, as we all have different tolerance levels, and no one has any right to question your decision. Good or bad. However, I will suggest not to pay evil with evil, as these people have a way of getting hooked in our conscience, especially after they die.

In cases like this, I wonder if women deny their own families, as soon as they get married.

OP, where are your uncles, aunties and grandparents?

I was looking out for this.

If the first wife is ok with it then that's her own problem.