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crackkhaus:
Well male or female, although I'm leaning more towards female (e get why ), it's at best imaginative writing.

Someone who was raped will hardly be so detailed.

bukatyne:
The male monikers will list all their faults and still wonder at the wives' reactions:

1. I don't bath,slump all day in front of the TV and have bad breath: I don't know why my wife refuses sex. He goes to bed by 3am on a work day o'

2. I flirt, cheat, stay out all night and jobless. I don't know why my wife is 'disrespectful' or a 'nag'.

3. I cheat on my wife and feel betrayed my wife does same.

The female monikers are pristine married to demons:

1. My husband suddenly changed, he doesn't talk to me anymore

2. My husband just wakes up and beats me

3. My husband keeps malice even though I don't say anything.

At this rate, keep us entertained.

Dupalmer:
The truth is that rape is barbaric. Gagging you is another thing altogether.
So sorry for the sad encounter. But waito:
1. I really don't understand how a nun should be living with a Hot oversexed groin and be expecting a monk treatment.
2. Forget about going to the police. There's a whole lot of burden of proof to look into especially considering the fact that you are leaving with him. Also you MAYBE robbing yourself of a great RELATIONSHIP and Happy MARRIAGE.
O yes some blessing come in disguise. Hard fact.

3. It hurts to have your treasured virginity taken away in a way you didn't bargain for. GAGGING YOU IS THE MOST WORRISOME, it shows he has violent and CRIMINAL Tendencies.
4. You may reconsider taking it as one of those things. try and match his good qualities and make up for his weakness. There's no perfect person anywhere.
5. Most girls lost theirs in a more horrible way only to later become sex champions.
6. Pondering over the pain of what happened may cause you depression and unnecessarily mood swings.
7. Console yourself with the fact that virginity and balloon has one thing in common. "A pick and it's all history"

8. If you see genuine remorse in him forgive him, get the both of you go for medical checkups, free your mind and continue with him. You'd see he will treasure you forever.
9. If you have made up your mind to forgive him then close your ears from sorry loser feminists. Their counsel will bring you more horrible pains.

9. You implied that you guys loves/loved each other. Well, love endures and there's no love without pain. Love heals.

crackkhaus:
That we think teenagers/kids are already knowledgeable about certain things does not mean parents should encourage access to age-restricted content.

TV shows and movies always come in ratings - FAM, PG, 11, PG-13, TV-14, 16, NC-17, R18, R-Rated, TV-MA, etc.. I think there might even be more in-between and far apart.
The point here is, there will always be something interesting, educative and fun, to watch together as a family which is not R18, R-Rated, or TV-MA.

That said, how anyone goes about raising their kids is really their business at the end of the day as long as they're not breaking any laws.
No one can really dictate for another what/what not to do with their children.

truthsayer009:
Well, an original Durex isn't 100 naira sha, It's 800

Jostoman:
am ashamed of you

crackland:
Shey I hold you for waist ni?

You think a married woman will want me around her and she no go ever think of collecting my gbola? She dey test her resolve then. My sensual energy is off the charts
I have stories...

I've learnt to make myself as scarce as possible around ladies I want nothing more than just friendship with.

Gilbertase:
All this back and forth English ehn..my view on this has always been clear. God who ordained marriage, brought the man and his wife together. Nothing or no one should put asunder. If you now so choose to move halfway across the world in your marriage leaving your significant other behind even with the noblest of intentions, then live with the consequences of that decision. But from experience of others, there certainly will be consequences. You may not know until later, but you will find that there will be. There is a being called the devil and he doesnt joke around. As for me, wherever i go, IF IT WILL BE FOR A SIGNIFICANT PERIOD of time, my wife/family goes with me. It cannot be God's will for me to be separated from the same family he gave to me, for ANY REASON. Call it whatever you want, you cant be across the world from your family and still assume you are together, that a void wont be formed, that the devil wont make moves (both ways). 20 million video calls wont suffice.

Ximenez:
What's your point? And have you already confirmed the kind of generator he has? Maybe you don't know that some Bimbo are so allergic to technology that they can't even press a simple button to start a plant and change switches.


And who told you the generator is not of the modern type that's so easy to put on, but it's the woman that's using that as an excuse to lure the man?
Just a little detail and you already "broke shaming" the husband

HiFreda:
Send her money to buy a bigger, better generator that would only require the press of a button to start.
Problem solved!!