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Your wife is not doing well.

Sai Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, one of the male Feminists I know in Nigeria.

Penis Size shouldn't matter, what matters is how to use it plus other tools like his tongue and fingers.
You said he is caring and a nice guy, I bet he is handsome and he is rich.
Trust me, your pussy will get used to his size with time, if finger can make a woman cum, any other thing will make her cum, do not leave him for a broke, ugly, cheating man because of dick, you will regret it.

I can relate with Madam's action towards sex. It's psychological and she will live with the fear for long until she is psychologically ready.
Do not sedate her as you won't enjoy it and it will seem as though you are raping her. Allow her mother do the most talk and prepare her mind, she will come around.

The handsome 32year old played you, sorry you were too naive to realise that, but at least I thank God on his behalf that he left you, your kind of anger will kill him one day and his innocent wife and kids.

As for your baby, what makes you think your parents don't already know you have a child and waiting for when you would tell them with your mouth?
Open up to them now, you can't do it alone, you should be ready to face the consequence of your actions, everything will fall back in place at the end.

Everyone will be alright lastlast.
I think, I prefer a Sanusi Lamido Sanusi without the turban and heavy robes.

I hope they scrap this traditional system of ruling off, it makes no sense if a Governor can dethrone a traditional ruler, it makes no sense.

1. NYSC certificates are mostly obtained before the degree certificate atleast for most schools, prospective corp members go to camp with statement of results.
2. Grade, no one wants others to really know the grade they graduated with to avoid unnecessary trolls.

Stop running and own up to the boss, look for a plan to pay back his money. You stole his money, stop justifying it with what you did with the money.
I don't even understand why you will marry on a private school salary. You had nine whole months to plan, all you could come up with is stealing your boss's money.

crackkhaus:
I don't get why anyone should lock/hide their phones from their partners, I have never understood it.

I'm really old-school.

Even if I'm going to cheat, why on earth would I need to be having chats with the person or saving pictures of her?

Just a call here and there to agree on a time for a meet-up, and that's all.
Don't text me EVER and don't call me when I'm home, I have a wife.

The operation will seem smooth to you until the sidepiece begins to fall in love and ignores all cautions by calling you at wee hours, sending you messages and pictures.

You think you are doing me, you are doing yourself.
I just checked the zealnut, yeah your advert paid off.

The scare is getting alarming.

You had better run for your life.
I don't understand how someone will get aroused by inflicting pain on others. If it's that easy, he should inflict it on himself first.
Animal.

If you didn't listen to your late sister of blessed memory, is it total strangers you will listen to?
I gave up on your kinda case long time ago.
I don't even care if a woman still stays with a man that beats her, I can only wish sense locates her someday.

pocohantas:
Your problem is not spiritual, your problem is “lack of sense”. You think you can fix a grown man?

If he has problems as a man, he should go meet his parents! I DON’T FIX MEN!

Have you ever seen a SANE man praying for a cheating, unsubmissive woman? Have you ever wondered why most crusades are targeted at women? Because women are obsessed with fixing FCKED MEN. You want to be the woman that made a BAD BOY good! Lmao!

They call you fish brain when it suits them, then virtuous women when they wanna activate the stockholm in you.

There are good men out there, you left them and be giving toto to one ediot. Godforbid!

If he doesn’t have money and sense, you can never find me chatting with him sef. Every man wants a woman to give him peace, respect and love. I would only do that for the best I can find. Ain’t fixing any modafucker.

Dump that bagger!

Preach on baby, preach.

Allow your wife draw a budget of what you will be needing for the whole month including bills, I mean everything, I mean list everything.
If your own income can't cover it all, you can both drop certain percentage of your monthly income, ensure it covers everything and whatever change left should be used for other miscellaneous. The other percentage left of your incomes will be for you to do whatever with it.

This is subject to understanding and agreement between you.

TruthTella:
May I ask why you think its abnormal?
If your wife doesn't mind then there is no problem, I saw a thread where a man came to complain that his wife wanted him to moan during sex to show her that he is enjoying it.

Too much pornography is making people have the wrong ideas about sex and believe that everyone should act a certain way while being intimate.thats just wrong, do what works best for you both.

Thank you.
Some are even complaining on his behalf as if a man is not human and not meant to make any sound at all or show emotions.

ANGELMARVE:
Hmmm at body of evidence.
One of my favorite by Madonna.

Have you seen basic instinct part one and two by Sharon stone.

Have you seen the unfaithful.

By the order of the Peaky blinders.

I saw both.

Unfaithful, hmmm, I don't wish to be Diane Lane in that movie or ever be married to a man like Richard Gere.
It isn't exactly old though, atleast it is a millennium movie.

Not without my daughter
Body of evidence

bukatyne:
@bold%

My sister,

Thank God it is fiction o!

Happy Sunday.

Oh, Sunday is gone.

Happy new month .

Lol, the woman should count herself lucky, it's the sidechick's loss in the end.
When the effect on anals starts on her, the man will still go back to his wife.

proclinician:
Na ur type be the real reason why God regrets creating human beings.

The entire female in your lineage are the actual reason God regrets creating the earth as a whole, you lack manners and the leaf does not fall far from the tree.

Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

Hot sex, 20000naira?
Hmmm, I'm sorry for your husband.
Anyways,Ask him to send the video first so you can be sure he has something tangible on you.
Call his bluff and let everything scatter if it will now, everything will fall back in place in no time.
If you don't call his bluff now, you will remain his sextoy and you won't get a dime for it.

...but they always say the sidechick is just a sidechick and the wife always have full benefits.

The same lie aunty nurse believed that made her dead even while she was still living.
The same lie many other women believe that sees the sidechick getting an iphone11 while wife gets Nokia torchlight, sidechick flying everywhere on business trips with hubby while wife becomes prayer warrior praying for their journey mercy always.
Worst of all is this same lie has seen women meeting several other kids of her husband from sidechicks especially after his death, those kids that always show up when wills are read.

It is an old story though but i hope the woman made sure his randy ass was denied the trip in the end while she also divorced him and moved out with her kids.
It wouldn't be an easy ride esp with the four kids but she is better off without him.

I don't understand why stupid boys keep springing up on this section year in, year out.

Someone is talking about his finance and you are condemning his babe saying she is humble because of age, like is someone not suppose to grow sense as they age?

Ok she is humble because she is old, should he dump her for you?

This is the funniest shit I've read in a long time, how can a woman give her pyant to her married son to wash not to talk of son in law.
Thank God it is fiction.

Gosh, some things you read on here make you just sick.
Like, different people from different background coming to write shits and project rubbish.
I can't, I just can't.

Imagine the effontry, the dude is even asking if her husband bleeped her overnight, he is getting jealous over what does not belong to him.
Useless man.

Everytime Sex Sex Sex, una no dey tire?

The nurse is giving you steady because she is not yet your wife, wait until she gets comfortable, you will know she is worse than your wife.

My pain is the numerous STI's you are exposing your wife to, do you even know how many more guys are fucking that nurse? Gosh !
Busuru.

crackkhaus:
Your problem is lack of sex and the power you've given her to use it against you.
Forgetting your anniversary is just a by-product of the real issues in your marriage.

The day you start begging a woman for sex, you start losing your self-worth and she will gradually start believing she can get away with anything since you will still meet her at night to beg for punny.

Just let her be sexually.

Continue with your duties as financial provider of the home generally, but reduce whatever she personally gets from you in a noticeable way.

As for your sexual needs, I won't hold it against you if you get it outside. That's exactly what I'd do in this scenario.
Sex is too easy to get for one person to use it to imprison me.

By the time you don't kiss, touch, or even breath on her neck for the next 5months, no one will remind her to receive sense.

To think you claim to be an adult with sense, is this what sensible adults advise others to do?

You are such an ungrateful man, read what you wrote and judge yourself.

So he worked his ass out in Libya with all the stories we hear about Libyans and how they treat immigrants, he hustled to send home something and even when he is not yet dead, you want to inherit him.

You should be the one to move out with your family, the owner of the house is back.