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delishpot:
So, only pastors do such in your area?

Who else does such in YOUR area?

Freeze is trying to copy Apostle Suleman.
And those pastors he so dearly criticizes.

Someone should tell me that his money no reach their own.

One Small girl breaks up with him and he's heartbroken.

This guy doesn't really have arsenal in his blood

passyhansome:
Because others or EFe is doing it doesn't make it right, in giving what matters most is the heart but nowadays People do it to win people or play to the gallery, but anyway you can stick to your Myopic thoughts

My thoughts are not myopic.
Don't misuse the word.

your opinions are judgemental and small-minded. Petty even.
It is the action that matters, as long as the people in need get the things they are given, pictures don't matter.
Are you GOD that can see the heart? why are you bringin in something that is not within your power to evaluate?

It's people like you, that will be wondering what the pastor is doing with your tithes instead of focusing on the fact that you have given to GOD and letting GOD deal with the pastors.

passyhansome:
Nonsense, This is the world we live in the picture below says it all, firstly all those things there are not up to #100K you can give and not give adequately, am not saying he should give #1million or #25million but give something substanctial and above all stop using media to donate...

everybody wants to form intelligence and being upright.

Obviously you have never donated to the orphanage before.
If you have then i'm sure you'd have pictures of the occasion. it's normal.
Since EFE is now a national celebrity, obviously someone will take pictures and in the age of social media those pictures must find their way onto the internet.

It doesn't take anything away from the good deed he has done. Those children still have those food items.
If he hadn't gone, nobody will beat him.
Meanwhile you are there a faceless dummy on the internet using your eyes to calculate the amount of money he has used in purchasing those items. GROW UP

wiringdpt:
Nope, me and girlfriend had sex on first date and still going strong 3 years

I bet you she has cheated on you before

manny4u:
well i really trust her, just that it easier for me to manipulate when she nags; i prefer the nagging ladies cos dy are easier to deal with than the quiet ones.

Op
share your wisdom on how to manipulate nagging ladies

Another #TeamTboss That's how you know them

ILegend
How can i get all the Parts of Your "Female Sextapes Series"?

Is The Tecno Camon C7 the best phone to buy on a Budget of 40 to 45 thousand Naira?

13mp Camera Front and Back
Iris Scanner
2gb RAM
Light, handy Design.

Does anyone have any other suggestions for a better phone in this Price Range?

After MTN Xtrapro..

You have Airtel Trybe.

But Airtel Trybe has no daily Charges

If Eve was a Naija babe
She would have been eating the Apple for full two years and Adam would never know.

She would be sewing clothes and if Adam had asked "What are those"
She would have told him, they were just "ideas and that God had blessed her with new creativity.

If Adam had asked her whether she knew why God was not visiting them again, she would have told him, that perhaps God is really busy now.
Maybe even attending to his other Gardens of Eden..



If Naija babes wan lie for you ehn, e no go be here.
My brothers una no agree?

greatnaija01:
Buy a printer and a desktop computer and start printing/photocopying i.e if your typing skills are fast and accurate then this is your biz o

Bro,

Concerning the typing business. How lucrative is it?
What kinda returns does it yield?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

The Reason sexual Expicitness did not Save Coco Ice was because it happened on a Saturday when Voting lines had closed.

Most of the interesting things happen on Saturdays when the voting lines have closed. Leaving people to make their votes based on other things that have in the house during the week.
which is more Drama than Sex.

HARDDON I greet you bro

Been a long time

I saw your post on scenarios and i tried to post something but i was unable to post it since last Week I have seen a lot of Weird and unusual non-stereotypical scenarios in my time out
here is one i remember.

I am walking through a mall past the makeup Shops, yea the ones that usually have pretty girls wearing full makeup on their faces all day
But on this particular day the shop is empty and there is only on girl standing at the entrance with her two hands on each frame of the dooor beside her and it looks as if she is bored and looking for something to happen

I didn't make a move because i was hurrying to be in the line for Bread..

How would you have handled such a scenario

Freecocoa

Can you prove to someone that an atom is made up of Electrons and Neutrons?
Have you seen an atom before? You haven't seen it with your two eyes.
You can point someone to a book but you cannot prove it infront of that person...

Someone that simply asks you to prove it while he or she is standing right in front of you and you can't but you believe it becaue you have been told the same by scientists who have actually Experienced it (And even those scientists for a long time believed that the Atom was the smallest indivisible particle that makes up matter until they were proven wrong), but you point to their works and then you believe it too.

Man at one point thought the world was flat. Man at one point thought that the Vatican church was the center of the universe. The truth didn't change only man's perception of the truth.
Now girl believes that these things don't exist.

Secondly the man asked you about thoughts and emotions and you simply replied that you know they exist because human beings come with those abilities. That is not a very enlightened answer and i don't know if you deliberately missed the point that he was trying to make.

Your brain is a mass of tissue and chemicals, very physical things, How then can they produce the intangible things called Thoughts and emotions?
A man once asked a question in a video, if your brain is a random collection of chemicals formed by chance over billions of years how then can you trust your own reasoning processes and the thoughts that you think?

Like Ben carson said in a book, it takes faith to believe in whichever one you want to believe either superstition or science.

These things do exist,
They are realities for some people who can no longer deny it based on the boundaries of their own intelligence.
You want to take the absence of evidence as the evidence of absence when common sense even in science does not take it to be so.

You are actually being closeminded.

luchee:
@Op, the general belief is that a victim of rape would probably hate men or sex after the incident but the truth is that it can also have the opposite of that effect. Some rape victims get satisfaction or sort of build their self esteem knowing that men lust after them and that they can call the shots for once.

I don't know if what i typed made sense to you but i am 100% sure of what i just typed.

Yes i was told as much by a close female friend of mine.

Homguy:
Bro these are the options.
1. YOu are dating a psycho. Cause after the 1st 2-3 experiences she should have learnt her lessons. She has no business being with boys when shez got you even tho you are not around her.
2. Shes just a wayward kid. You might have to wait shes 25yrs plus before you start to have rest of mind.
3. Its possible shez not satisfied in yiur relationship and she keeps getting close to other guys to see if she can find that thing, or thrill.
4. I just want you to know this girl might just be a serial cheat. Times spent with boy(s) alone in his room isnt spent reading or picking beans. The boy wiuld want ti smash, and she wiuld have to like him enough to visit ab initio.
5. Shez just playing you which is least unlikely. PLus may i add shez not so smart...why,? You cannot love a dude and keep doing and also telling him thibgs that would hurt/irk or make him question your relationship.

My advice?

She comes across as a very young girl who just wants ti catch fun if you really are cool with that you have no business posting this topic otherwise, DRAW THE LINE. Set some rulez and attitudes you wont put up with. You dont want to keep wasting your time and resources on a relationship going no where.

Her spending time with different guys does not have any benefit to her life, yours or your relationship. Tell her uts got to stop.

I believe number 4 is right. From information revealed to me yesterday by same girl. She has been sleeping with a guy once every time we broke up.. I wasn't the first after her de-flowering rape and there was even another incident after that, that she downplayed.
Her body count is 11 from what she told me.

Samstradam

I appreciate the mature comments of some people on this Thread

Vorpal, Samstradan

samstradam:
I think the OP was looking for people to give him true life advice and not to be telling him he has been decieved.

This is true, I want the matured minds here who have been in such a situation before or have had contact with such a situation and have had unique insights to come and share their insights here on this thread.

Not for babies and Kids like
Elshehzad to come and be dancing around here and kiss Makydebbie's arse

Makydebbie, I appreciate your first comment but you derailed the thread with the rest of your Kiddish friends.
Take your dairy talks elsewhere.

theslyone2
You have decided to misunderstand my story.
She had several near rape experiences when she was a kid. I did not mention that she was also sexually abused by a family member.
She got into school and she was raped at a guy's place, she was too trusting and then she met me.
The second near rape experience and the last since that time happened one year later.

A friend told me that there are two reactions of people that got raped. One is that they hate men and avoid sex and the other is that they have a large appetite for sex.
Many people have different experiences and no one view is absolute. Check out Vorpal's post.

She might have a rape fantasy, but she has not admitted such to me. She might not even want to admit same to me.

Regardless, i appreciate your insights on this thread.

So I dated this girl Quite sometime ago

She lost her virginity through Rape when she went to visit a guy in his place just like that
(Doubters Union that will say it's not true and that she lied to me, Hold your peace, I know why i believed her)

She is young and she has only been with me after the guy
She was very naive then, hence the willingness to just go to the house of a guy she barely knew.

One year after we started dating, on what was supposed to be our anniversary,
She called me and said she was almost raped by another male friend, this one she had told me about before,
That she screamed and neighbours started knocking, and that was how she was able to make it out of there
The guy was already holding her down by the neck choking her and ready to penetrate.

She was shaken up and it was her room-mates that consoled her.
She even had nightmares in the days after.
That incident would make it her third near rape experience, the first happened before she was actually raped and started her depression issues.

The thing is, she still likes to go to guy's houses where she will be alone with the guy!
She is a student.
One incident actually baffled me was when she just met some guys and within two weeks she was spending time in their rooms, watching movies and all.
it baffled me because anything can happen and she still risks it..

Last Week after some serious thoughts
I confronted her that she goes to guys houses because she liked the attention she gets from guys. She likes the attention she gets from guys that she knows want to sleep with her.
She then said that she knows it will sound stupid but she feels powerful when she is in those guys' rooms, and some she can control even though she can't control others and in those moments She doesn't feel vulnerable.
(She has an issue with vulnerability, she is afraid of getting hurt emotionally).

Pardon the long Post..
But i want to ask the wise and insightful people in the House..

What do you make of this?
Is the reason she gave all there is to it, or in your experience is there more?
Is she an addict?
Have you had any experience with girls like this?

Thanks for the matured comments.

HARDDON:
Sure! Thanks for your lucid flow Wacky!

i think u should become my editor cum public relation officer on here! what chu say?

Sorry for the late reply mehn. I have been off for a while

Sure I wouldn't mind

Tho you'd have to give me some more coaching (hopefully private) if you have the time

alex81:
don't know which game u talking abt. but ds is d game I was referring to.( see pix).


as for d rest , I don't know if ur for or against sergey? cos ur previous comment was full of hate for him and now ur giving kudos to him. am confused.

I'm neither For or against, I just know that he couldn't have taken the title from Carlsen.

That was the blitz battle , I was talking about the Bilbao Masters 2016, ,His first round loss and first ever loss to Nakamura in a classical Game.

That Blitz battle (and the Paris Blitz leg of the GCT) proved that if it ever entered blitz, Karjakin would definitely lose.

So what is the summary of everything? Is the phone worth the buy? Or is buying the phone taking a gamble that the phone will not develop a fault two months after purchase.

I wish this topic can be taken to front page for more views

alex81:
u mean carlsen was not at full strength during d match

oh pls spare me doze excuses. for somebody dat crushed Nakamura barely a week b4 d tournament... I think he's at full strength...

u need to see his face when sergey had d first win...lol

me rooting for sergey doesn't mean his better, I just admire d effort n hardwrk he invested in making d title a little bit hard for carlsen.

and finally show some love to d underdog, u don't have to wish him bad na ... lol

Someone that crushed nakamura? You mean the person that lost to Nakamura for the first time before that match? Before he then went on a Crushing spree.

He had Sergey in games 3 & 4 but failed to convert. The Loss in Game 8 Jolted him back to reality.

Sergey has always been a great defender but he didn't put in the work needed to beat carlsen. He came in there with the let's survive this mentality. He only won because Carlsen pushed too hard trying to win. The match was always Carlsen's to Win or Draw.

At a point i even said that Wesley so in his current Form would have been a better match than this and I was proven right because Wesley So just joined the 2800 club.

However this match has crowned Karjakin the World Chess Defense Champion.

Carlsen needs to up his game if Karjakin could hold him like this. Wetin for happen if Caruana Jam am?

alex81:
Hi chess luvers! just tot I shld update d house on latest chess ratings.

as at December 1st dz are d FIDE latest chess ratings.


happy for my guy anyway, (karjakin). Despite the dissapointing turn out of event at ds yrs WC, he rose 3 places up to b in 6th position. (from 9th o)

if u ask me, The WC event wasnt a total failure IMO!!!

You're rooting for someone that was facing a Carlsen that was not a full strength?

He's going back to his normal number 9 position tho with the current LCC in London.

hottest111:
Bro, you're totally right. There's a way n manner of doings things.. Thanks gee

My sincere Apology to HARDDON n everyone.

That's better. I am happy you have taken the conciliatory route. We're all brothers in arms here.

Baba HARDDON, what do you have to say? Apology Accepted?

EverestdeBliu:
infinix phones are great, just get the original one.

What do you mean get the Original one? Are you implying that there are fake Infinix Hot S being sold and that everyone that has made a complaint on this thread is using a fake one?

So you just came here OP to drop specs without talking about Availability and Price?

hottest111:
" You were tired of seeing stupid advice been dished out to guys by people that hv no dea about d world of women"
And this thread as passed 50 paged n yet at the 54th page someone he still asking for advice to get a girl.

See bro, m not derailing dis thread. You're just worried about loosing your status, because u think I'm competing with you. Pls don't attach ur ego or self-worth to this thread. It's all vanity.
Some of dis other guys don't care if m derailing dis thread or not,.. They're just interested in seeing what I CAN OFFER
Bro If u'r really interested in help dis guys, you wouldn't give a Bleep if other guys comes to give their own advice even if theirs is different from yours.
Don't worry about ME, lets the CORE secret i want to offer speak for me.
If after dropping my own drills n it didn't av any effect on guys then I'll be kick out of this thread in shame. But I'm totally confident in d secret m about to gives dis guys because i was once like them. If i was able to change my cousin n few of my friends who was bad with girls, then i can do it here..
Mr horddon, bone this nairaland, we might be friends in real life. let stop tackling our self here.
So weda anybody likes it or not I'll continue with what av already started. I don't need anybody permission to do what i want to do.
Guys forget about the messenger and get the message. Remember we LEARN every day

Bro. I am interested in what you're saying

BUT
Your approach as regards to the originator of this thread has been dis-respectful. HARDDON is someone that brought this thread from Day one to page 50+ and he deserves the utmost respect as a result of that. There are guys that have benefited from this thread regardless of whether or not they are coming back for more tips, Person no dey go school graduate in one day.

We guys are territorial in Nature and you have come to another man's territory to pitch your tent however temporarily, The man himself does not have a problem with that but the way you came in is confrontational and divisive.

Take a look at some of the words that I have bolded in the post above
First you're implying that HARDDON is concerned with loosing his status on this thread. Many things wrong with that implication. Firstly You have wrongfully assumed that HARDDON has attached much importance to status on this thread. He created this thread to help guys and helping, has been his primary motivation. Secondly, "Ego and Self-worth" attached to this thread? That implication is insulting.

Again, you say if "he was really interested in helping these guys", so are you saying that he just came to nairaland, opened this thread, takes time off from work to update it and respond to the inquiry of Guys that need help, for 5 months till the page got to 50+ pages because of Status seeking, ego and self-worth? After all that, the proof of whether he wants to help guys lies in allowing you, someone who came in just days ago, to provide his own advice and "Drills"? I say again, that is insulting.

You have even shown subtle disregard and disrespect for his own method and drills. Refusing to see even a tiniest bit of similarity in what two of you are offering and constantly pointing out the fact that guys are coming back to ask for more advice as a sign that what he does is not reslly working.

You have come into the thread on a confrontational Note, made wrong allusions to the OP personality and then made insulting assumptions, questioning the original motivations for this thread. How would you feel if it was done to you?

This is not about what you have to offer, but about diplomacy. Sure there are guys that want to listen to this secret you have to drop (Which by the way, in my opinion, you're wasting time dropping it especially with your seeking for followers) but nobody will be happy with you if HARDDON decides to leave the thread for you. You want to act like a Real G then act like a Real G towards a fellow G. There is a way things are done. After you do the right things then We'all be happy to see what you have to offer and even further discuss might be encouraged between you two.

I suggest you apologise to HARDDON.

Drop your own Ego and do the right thing