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princetom1:
Like seriously. Not grave under the ground though, but grave emotionally. Mine i found out, i first maintain bcoz i was gentle than BOSS, but wen i took action, the lady wanna commit suicide.

Baba no leave us hanging, drop the tip. How you take run am so tay she wan commit suicide ?

That girl cannot go like that.

Her apology is just too weak.

She left BOSS and went to his new relationship to say he is impotent!!! TF!!

No VULTURE cannot go like that.

fpeter:
I did some very stupid things that cost me serious partners.

Elucidate

Bros, if your story is not cooked up, then there is a great deal of stupidly and low self esteem between the two of them.

And you, how can you be bringing this story to this forum?

After giving a potential olosho free money..

I'm beginning to think you're lacking basic street sense.

LePrezident:
Sorry but do you know that your comment does not add up. I am of a strong conviction that you do not have a comprehension of the tabled story. You probably rushed through it all in haste to comment.

Mr Smart man. You probably saw the word "Married" that I added by mistake and rushed to the conclusion that I didn't understand what was written by the OP. And in your haste to mention someone to show your "conviction". You failed to see that the word married there was included by mistake.

Very likely that this story is cooked up.

Because no girl with respect for said boyfriend and common sense will allow another guy to drop her off at her boyfriend's place first and foremost.

Talk less of even giving him a kiss. Even if it was a peck sef.

A lot of Guys have met girls that are like this.

And it takes only the grace of God and the desire to be a true Christian as well as deliverance and discipline to be able to stop the lifestyle.

Mujinho4b:
Hmmm.. I 'm speechless.. I no even tink go dat Syd.. According to d guy, he said he no want marry am..
And he his going to give ha conditions.. Dat she should go for std's test.. Way do u tink??

5 months later. What happened between the guy and the girl?

post=50307511:
And believe me there are many girls out there

Under torments from maybe different but

Similar experience

Making wrong decisions each day as they hallucinate their past

True..

Truest part of this post..

I am a regular subscriber to the Airtel night plan offered by the Trybe tarrif plan, especially the #25 naira for 500mb bundle that is valid between the hours of 12am – 5am. On the 16th of this Month, I wanted to subscribe for the plan but I was told upon dialing the code that the plan was already active. I called the Customer care service and I was asked by the agent I ended up talking, whether I subscribed for the plan the previous night and I answered that I did and then he told me that normally the system is supposed to reset by 5am everyday to enable me to be able to subscribe the next night should I decide to do so. But that because of an error on their system that I wouldn’t be able to do that but that I Would need to be patient for 24 hours in order for them to fix the problem and as such I wouldn’t be able to subscribe for this night. I had to agree.

Pardon the Long story but there is a point to this.
I used it very well the next night which is the 17th and I wanted to use it again tonight, only for me to see the same error message. I called their CC in order to report the error and this time I was told that I needed to wait for 24hours in order for me to be able to resubscribe for the plan. I told him what i was told by the CC agent i called on the 16th and he said that, what he just told me was how the plan now operates.
I was told by the customer Care agent that i had subscribed by1:54 am and that i should try it again by 1:55am.

I asked him "Does that make sense? that if i had subscribed by 4am the previous night and i wanted to use it this night, that i would have to wait till 4:01am tonight in order to use it?"

His reply was
"Whether it makes sense to me or not doesn't matter"

Why such inconsistencies in the services being offered by Airtel?
and they don't care as long as No one complains about it?

Anyone else also experienced something similar to this with Airtel?

TSOM:
T-blak's much publicized escapades with random girls is enough to make any man stop taking women in relationships seriously.


By the way, Lalasticlala, if you push this to the front page, I hope you realize Nairaland can be indicted for dealing in child pornography?

Who is T-blak and where are the much publicized escapades?

adepeter26:
You're right bro. I learnt later how to treat ladies like her. She took my meekness for granted.

And how did you end up treating her?

Did the treatment make her stop keeping in contact with her ex?

2dugged:
I answered your question before I saw bamisepeters telling you not to get angry, which I find very offensive, considering the fact that your question has no correlation with the topic, if you say I am secretive then you must be very temperamental to think you even have the right to get angry over my refusal to answer a personal question

No one is angry.

I don't know how one can detect anger on a faceless forum. Without even exclamation marks.

It is your right to choose whether you want to disclose your age range or not.

And you have exercised that right.

2dugged:
of what impact will knowing My age at that time have on your comment?

Looking at your other comments.

You're so secretive.
No one is asking you for an exact figure.
That is why I asked you to specify the age range.
Early twenties, mid-twenties and Late twenties.

If you cannot do that. Don't bother.

2dugged:
meaning

The age you were at when you faced that same scenario and you didn't act the same way.

2dugged:
I don't know about other people, but I have experienced this before, but that didn't push me to cheat, infact I will advise women that if it seems like you are struggling for the attention of your lover simply because his attention is divided between you and his so called female friends, the respect your self and remove yourself from the equation, I always say no man is really just friends with a woman, it's like having a chicken you don't intend to eat, i learnt the hard way when female friends because bed mates, it's like when you keep a player on reserve bench, that's what female friends is to guys, simple

Early or late twenties?

kaycodes:
She met the guy in a different school, and the next time they saw about a month later she DID IT.

She denied enjoying it claiming the dude forced her, but the whole story she told me was simply a matter of the guy being sharp, and she being willing case closed.

Smh Girls. I can Imagine your disappointment

kaycodes:
Well, we don't talk the last time I heard from her was when she was about getting married last year.

Funny thing was that when she was about getting married everyone was surprised I wasn't the one, and when her sister asked her what happened, she made up some story that my mother was the cause. Only me and her elder brother really knew what went down.

Bruh. You guys didn't talk for a long time.

kaycodes:
Problem is there is no better candidate, it's just a matter of time, chance, and circumstances.

Mehn Same thing happened to me.
You even had used the same phrase,
A guy she "barely knew"

Mine is still as recent as Aug 28th.
She didn't sound remorseful. So I stopped calling. She has called twice to try to form talk with me by asking obviously stupid questions.

Did she tell you whether she enjoyed it or not because that's what I tried to find out.
(To know the likelihood of her doing it again)

And how long did she know the guy for it to qualify as barely knew?

5 years is a long time to have had to let go of.
Do you guys still talk?

harnnarh:
have done that....spoke with three of their agents ....no solution

What was thier reason for refusing to refund the money?

kaycodes:
I'll be frank with you, that girl to me is childish and doesn't know what she wants.

Personally I've learnt a lot, and till today I still find it difficult to trust a lady, even the slightest red signal is enough to send you parking. Now to fall in love is like an herculean task, I can't stand the chance of being vulnerable ever again.

You have tried to have tolerated this lady for that long, if na me she suppose know where her space dey for my life by now. Any girl I am dating cannot keep contact with her ex, talk less of being close... The fear of an ex is the beginning of wisdom.

Seems like before that your ex did it. You had so much trust and hope in her.

And it seems she did it with a guy she told you not to worry about.

At which year did she do it?

The Promotion List for the Civil Service commission Just Came out recently

My aunt's applied for the Promotion and I downloaded the PDF for her to check her name

With the link here: http://www.fedcivilservice.gov.ng/?p=3628

On Page 38, There is a name there

Onuagba Ngozi Ngozi Victoria

Now my aunt's name is First name is Ngozi, and her middle Name is Victoria but with a different Surname.
Add this to the fact that Ngozi was repeated Twice, I am wondering whether there was a typing error in the names?

Is there an Onuagba Ngozi Victoria? or is it my aunt's name with an error in the Surname?

If there is any nairalander who knows Onwuagba Ngozi Victoria, Please indicate.
Of if there is a Nairalander that has access to the Federal Civil service Headquarters in Abuja (or knows someone that does) that can help clarify the Error please indicate or PM me.

r231, Freiburger, 1forall, CrazyMan
Seun, Lalastilala

I would appreciate if this was taken to the Front page to enable more Nairalanders see this.

wins18:
you are right bro, but remember, relationship is like a game, if you miscalculate, you lose. So I still stand with #commonsense

don't forget to give us update! How things go.

Those Familiar with her pictures will know that the picture on the left is the original Toolz


Abeg why will she go and photoshop away the hips she is know for?

harnnarh:
i don't know how to vent my anger at glo,they really made me cry this evening.Their customer service is whack....i tried to subscribe with the last spare change i have for the month,the 1k subscription ish.You guys might think "she is is the social media freak that cant do without data plans",but am just a student trying to get data plans for her school work.I download videos related to my school work and materials,the wifi i use before is currently not working and its few weeks to exams.
that aside, i made mistake and dialed *223# instead of *123#,then they offerred me the most annoying plan ever! who am i going to call with 1k for 15 days?.They made things worse by refusing to pick my calls for more than 30 minutes.after picking self nko ?all they could do is nothing! they just added salt to my injury.
I dont know how to just vent my anger so i came to nairaland,you guys might take sides with them,but 1k no be joke oo.infact! they brought tears to my eyes.But why have a customer care that can do close to nothing? they should return my 1k ooo before what happened 3years ago repeats itself
Am just fed up.... i hate everything about this crazy country!

If you have already subscribed for the plan and you haven't used anything from it.

You can call Customer care and tell them to Refund your #1000 so that you can subscribe for the correct plan.

If you have a twitter Account, then you can also tweet at them or DM them there.

Love is a balance.

You must generate more positive emotions than negative for your relationship to thrive.

Most especially in a long distance relationship.

How long have you two been dating?

How long has the relationship been a Long distance one?
How often do you guys see each other?

Is she a student in school where ever she is?

How often do you guys quarrel in this long distance relationship?

Testimony time!

I'm the one that purchased the HP DV6 and today I just got the shipment from Lagos.

I'm in Asaba Delta State.
He made several tedious trips in order to get the package delivered.

The package came in as advertised and he even included two batteries for me as a sign of Goodwill.

Aril is Genuine.

Thumbs up Man.

Interested... Still available?

What is this country turning into God?

SlazzyK:
WackyJ1, Thanks, that was comforting.
You would not believe she did it with a married man, yuck! Does she wana get married to him?

Its not like I dont love her, I just made her know I cant manage a very serious relationship for now. I dont wana lose her because she is a Golden jewel. Her type is very rare, But why she would bleep with a married nigga is what is driving me nuts.

What's your definition of an unserious relationship?

Have you guys talked after your discovery?

The issue is how she would be sleeping with someone else while claiming that she loves you?

She is opening her legs and enjoying sex with another man meanwhile she is claiming that she loves you.

Is one thing if she is keeping the guy but refusing to do intimate acts with him.
When a girl loves you and she's sexually satisfied by you, she wouldn't have another man touching her. Especially since you have explained why you cannot be serious with her which I'm hoping are tangible reasons.

She's lying to two people and she's sleeping with both.
What kind of character does that look like to you?
If she truly "loves" you then she wouldn't feel so comfortable lying to you.
She's deceptive and a Hoe and her "Love" has no value.

She's just using your reasons to justify herself.

I mean, if she loves you then why is one guy somewhere enjoying full benefits without the obligation to be serious with her?
Do you know whether she has told him the same thing about loving him?

Forget what she has told you about loving you.

Tell her what I have typed up there to her face when you talk to her next.

It's up to you now to decide what you want to do.
If you want to Drop her, make her understand why. After all it has become a self fulfilling prophecy, she did what she did because she thought you could leave her at any time. Now you're leaving her because she did what she did.

The tool away double chance and over. That's the end for nairabet

A lot of Girls are Hoes these days

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep/2#31101469

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep/3#31104077

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep/3#31104420

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep/5#31108073

https://www.nairaland.com/2167719/should-confront-shut-up-keep/6#31125405

Nothing in the thread about being funny..

Girls love a man with a good sense of humor.

*starts looking for my sense of humour*