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adrainuche:
If I talk my own una go cry for me ...

Talk am

konklud22:
okay
buh bliv me most ladies would still cheat even if u chop off ur head for emm
I av been wit some good ones too
just dis two cases DAT seem so strange to me cos I Rilly saw us happenin
buh it is wat it is
cheats will always be cheats
and dey would always tryna justify it by claiming u are not doing enof

You didn't finish what happened with the first girl..
Did you confront her with what you found out?
What did she say about it?
Come finish up jor

What kinda of rubbish talk is this Vinshu saying?

The girl cheated and it's the guy's fault for not doing something right?
That's the problem with majority of your females. There must always be one exact way to handle them to make sure they don't cheat.

Either you give them, just the right amount of attention, or you give them money, or good sex or whatever and if you don't do that, they will Cheat.

There is no perfect guy out there. Forget all that nonsense about striving to perfection. At the end of the day she will get married to someone that is no more perfect than he is.
If there are things he lacks, why didn't she bring it up with him? Discuss and them adjust knowing that she too isn't perfect.

What do you mean by you weren't romantic enough?
How old are you?

You want him to be laying our a red carpet with roses when she goes on dates with him eveey single time?
The girl will still cheat!

Fkhalifa:
chai, i fear women o
she already joked shes gon have a boifriend after a while she said its just a joke that i shouldnt be bothered, but from her pre D.E school days, she was loyal and often gist me about her toasters from supervisors to lecturers atc even her friends attest she isnt randy buy decent
Anyways i'm hopefull and thanks a lot.

One year later... Did she change or are you guys still together?

Women taking over the game!

benjsniper33:
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Wacky I have done all you've said, I disciplined myself and for like 3-4 days now I haven't spoken to her on phone or whatsapp, the last time we spoke was 4 days ago, I texted her around 9pm to asked how her day was and if she's fine , she replied "Yaaaa" then I asked her if she is live on whatsapp so we can chat, she said "No" (that was unlike her cos before she is always waiting for me online) . Then I got angry, controlled my anger and texted back, I said "Ryt , gudnyt, don't bother to text or call back forth" (that was a rather confusing message)

Then I tot she sensed fire in the mountain then she texted me on whatsapp and tried to chatup but my response was monosyllabic, I didn't even show any interest of wanting to talk to her anymore. She sensed this and then went ahead to call me , she tried to discuss but I was monosyllabic in response once again, then she said she wants to go to bed, I said "goodnight" And that was it, since then I didn't call neither did she.

Your brutal criticism and advice I need Wacky, hoping to hear from you asap. Thanks

I didn't see this earlier. I wonder whether to have talked to her since then.

I understand that you want her to show you attention like it used to be before and validate you that she still wants you and wants a relationship with you.

But the truth is that girls are confused creatures. Capable of doing unbelievable things and confusing us with their erratic behaviors.
She still likes you and she still respects you. But that's no longer exclusive to you as before, in the sense that, she is also enjoying attention from other guys and enjoying the company of other guys.

Now this might be difficult to do, but next time when you Call her, just chat her up and be lively with her, make her laugh and basically enjoy the conversation with no thoughts at the back of your mind. A simple 7 mins call will do. Then don't call again.

It will be very difficult to do and you will feel pains doing it. But it is like withdrawal syndrome.

But you have to do it.

Jealousy is also a good technique so make female friends and use them as your dp on whatsapp. Let it seem like you're having fun with your life..

liljboy:
smiles.... nailed it

Too brief jor..

Are you still with her or you broke it off after nailing her?
For how long did you nail her?
Was she banging other guys too while you were hitting it?

The irony is that one day you will stop those things without any girl telling toy to do so..
Because you have to be a Man!

Since you stood your ground as a man then she had to leave as a woman. If you loved her more than life itself, atleast you would have reduced the weed smoking or did it in her absence.

You valued your addiction more than you valued her and she left.

So stop bit.ching

OP

Learn to say no..

Don't be afraid..

Highest postpone her..

And try and make some moves..

ClassCaptain:
I can validly confirm to anybody that wishes to listen that the best place to get hoes, oloshos and all that is on Instagram....

You donmeanit

rose54321:
While i agree with you to some extent, i equally don't fault your exs. i will also not be comfortable with my guy having close "Pretty" female friends. Its only natural that who you spend time with you get fond of, that's the human nature.
All around the world, not exclusive to Nigeria, no lady will be fully comfortable or even tolerate their man (except his job mandates it) to have close female friends, it just gives room to temptation.

Its unfortunate, as i also have many close guy friends, but understand that the closeness will have to reduce significantly once i enter a serious relationship. So if you want relationship success i would advice you to do same.

So now I want to ask you. Are you saying that nothing has ever happened between you and any of your close males friends? Even if it's just a kiss that you pulled away eventually?

liljboy:
just what I am doing to someone..... the OP's scenario just happened to me not long ago, and the most annoying part is when you were 100%,loyal to that girl, babe wey be V before, I beg she no open, I act good boy pack well, we had a Lil misunderstanding, she open for another nigga with the lie that he forced her, trust me na I said no shit, I will just do you NUMBER TWO, cos once a cheat is always tempted again like what your NUMBER ONE said....... I learnt the hard way, never give these rachet hoes ya all

Come give me update. What finally happened between you two bro.

You have refused to reply me

Account number?

What other Laptops do you have?

Do you have laptops with 750gb to 1TB HDD and above 4gb Ram?

Still available?

Do you have other Laptops from overseas?

Never giving up...

Nice..

What bank do you use?

HARDON.

Well done on this thread. I haven't gone through all the pages but I follow and keep it as sort of a reference thread.

I noticed that many of the words you use or lines involve having a teasing mentality. I'm not really too good with that, I end up sounding serious or generic or I don't want to tease in an area that will offend the lady, especially If it's a lady that I don't know before. If I get comfortable with the lady I can be quite funny but being funny and teasing in the first convo is not really easy. Any pointers?

benjsniper33

Yes She is a pretty girl and she is most likely double dating.

She has lied to you and showed you that, that is the normal type of behavior among young pretty girls. They like to have fun, be with different guys who give them attention and make them laugh and make them feel good about themselves.

And this girl is getting comfortable with you and that is why she is returning to her old habits or should I say normal habits. Familiarity things.

What you should do.
Familiarizing yourself with other girls will do you good in helping you to get your mind off this girl but without doing the following things, you will find that your progress is slow.

1. Your mentality: Tell yourself she doesn't love you because she doesn't. Many young girls don't know what Love is, love for them is just infatuation. Love is not infatuation, love is commitment. This girl has shown that she is not willing to be commited. Fun is of a greater priority for her. Never believe her from now on when she says she loves you, no matter how much it appears to show on her face and no matter how much you want to believe it because of how good it makes you feel.
You will not die without her. Yes this is a truth that you must force yourself to accept. Your self worth is not tied to her and if she moves around with other guys, it does not mean that those guys are better than you. This leads to number 2.

2. Starve the feelings you have for her.
Feelings need to be fed and nurtured either through the other person's actions or through your own personal self delusion. Number 1 will end the self delusion while this particular point deals with her actions.
Decide not to call her or pick her calls for a day or two. This will be painful for you to do because of your feelings for her and because of the anxiety about her activities that will happen, but no pain no gain. The pain must correspond to the pleasure you felt or feel, whenever she kisses you or tries to please you. Like an addict going off his medication, you must Starve off the source of these feelings for you to be free.
Go without her company for a while, tell her you're busy, do some stuffs alone, don't see her for a while. You can even make it that you saw her only once in a week.

3. Self Esteem comes from within:
It's called Self-esteem not Other-esteem. Encourage yourself. Make sure your thoughts always have a positive view about you. Remind yourself of your abilities and what you have accomplished so far. From what you have said here, you're going to graduate with a very good result, don't let this stop you from that. Pick up a hobby or something that can fetch you money, learn it and success from it will boost your ego.
Never compare yourself to other people or other guys that she might be going out with. Never let yourself do that.

4. Other girls: Have female friends. But only after you have done numbers 1 - 3. They help distract you and give your someone to talk to.

I hope I have helped in whatever way I can.

I don Jam this thread. Baba God when Money go dey o!!

Wesley So wins the Singuefield 2016 tournament after Topalov missed a win to take the tournament into tiebreaker.

Are you sure what you have for him is love or desperate attachment?

How long were you two in a relationship for?

From what you said, he seems to be at fault. Or were you too needy for his attention that you saw him saying he was busy as just a excuse?

If you guys were in a long distance relationship. How often did you guys get to meet physically?

Did you tell him you were going to block him before you did? Was it a mutual breakup? (that you two agreed to) or that you both were aware of? Or did you just decided to up and leave and block him...

I learnt that

1. There are no fairy tales.

2. Love is cycle with a definite end.

3. You can't save everyone and you shouldn't try to.

4. Love is more than just sweet feelings.

Mikky is the Hp dm4 on the first page of the thread available?

Omalinchanwa

#nuffsaid

I thought she was going to keep hiding the boy till his 18th birthday.

Now we have her releasing pictures of him every other week

Sharp Guy!

Cash for Kind..

But one Weekend no fit cover that 7k o ,

Just realizing that am stuck, Money I needed for the weekend is stuck in UBA bank for more than a week.

Such unreliability

I have never used UBA bank before until I was forced to use them as my Allawee account when I was posted to Kogi state.

I had been hearing about them and their exorbitant unexplainable deductions from their customers' accounts and that's what you hear once you mention UBA bank.

On the 30th of June, the allawee was paid I got the alert promptly at 7am. I traveled to Enugu state that day, and entered the bank and I was told I had to get a card in order to withdraw from the bank. I applied and was given an instant card, but I was unable to activate it because there was no Network!

I said Okay, I was patient, i got back to Delta State and went into a local UBA branch on Friday and I was told again that there was no network there, I was surprised that this thing was Nationwide. Upon traveling to Enugu on Monday this week, thankfully there was network and I changed my pin and activated my card.
I tried to withdraw from what I thought was a savings account and the atm matchine told me "Invalid account selected" , I tried again this time selecting Current Account but I was told the same thing. I went back into the bank and reported to the customer care agent, who then took my card and sent to a mail to them manually asking them to link the account. While I was waiting for her to do that, another man was there with a card error as well, his was showing him "Unable to Complete" at the atm. I was then told that I should wait and try the card later after 24 hours. I needed this money by the weekend urgently. Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday were public holidays.

I went into the bank today and tried the atm and got a new error "Unable to Complete", I went to the bank, back to the same customer care agent and I was told that she received a mail telling her that I selected current account instead of savings. I told her that, that was no longer the issue that I am now getting "Unable to Complete" she said that the fact that I had gotten that error means that the account had been linked to the card that I should try reactivating it. Once again there was no network so she said she I should go to withdraw from the counter. So I was right back to square one. Immediately I finished talking, another guy was there with his own card saying he was seeing "Invalid account selected"

Why will all their banks nationwide not have network for activating atm cards?

Why will activating your atm cards involve you encountering different errors causing their customers to go through so just stress?

And the common man that does not have the means to make his complaint know and will continued being stressed on top his own money. This should be moved to front page.

UBA has now proved to me personally their ineffective services.

Models in the House.

Have you heard or worked with Avril Castle Modeling Agency?

Their website or blog rather is Avrilcastle..com
They are supposedly based in cotonou or is it benin Republic.

I have searched for them on Google but I am only getting one result of their blog.
My friend wants to model for them and they are requesting #10,000 from her. I want to make sure she doesn't fall into the hands of scammers.

I don't know if it's the norm in the modeling business.
I would appreciate good responses.

Models in the House.

Have you heard or worked with Avril Castle Modeling Agency?

Their website or blog rather is Avrilcastle..com
They are supposedly based in cotonou or is it benin Republic.

I have searched for them on Google but I am only getting one result of their blog.
My friend wants to model for them and they are requesting #10,000 from her. I want to make sure she doesn't fall into the hands of scammers.

I don't know if it's the norm in the modeling business.
I would appreciate good responses.