₦airaland Forum

triple996:
Bitter people you know that elrufai always complete his projects he is not like your abia state governor who used 7yrs to complete a center table

Telling you the truth made you conclude he is bitter. You have a ridiculous mind.

Raspberries:
Are you a man?

Important question...

Good question

jmoore:
I watched Newsline on NTA yesterday. This man has four wives and 19 children. The family is poor and the kids beg on the streets.



1. There should be a law banning poor men from marrying more than 1 wife.

2. Another law that makes it a criminal offence for a poor man to have more than 2 kids.

The term "poor man" is relative and circumstancial. The first challenge such law will have is to define a poor man.

Na evil spirit you dey see for the mortuary so oh; not the actual dead body wey him spirit and soul don move comot.

GreatAxeMan:
He can't. The Federal High Court is supposed to be neutral when it comes to customary and religious law and the Penal Code is inspired by Shari'a law, unlike the Criminal Code of the South which is secular.

Good. Thank you for the information. I guess you are a lawyer.

GreatAxeMan:
Yes, it applies to the Abuja High Court, but Federal High Courts use the same Criminal Code as the South.

So a lawyer can't quote the penal code in defense of his client in the Federal High Court?

GreatAxeMan:
What he forgot to add is that the Penal Code only applies to Northern Nigeria and it is very Shari'a centric.

The relevant statute for Southern Nigeria is the Criminal Code.

The Penal Code allows husbands to beat their wives as a form of correction in the same way that a father beats his children or a teacher disciplines a pupil.

Section 55(1)(d) of the Penal Code of Northern Nigeria provides that an assault by a man on a woman is not an offense if they are married, if native law or custom recognizes such “correction” as lawful and if there is no grievous hurt.

Section 55 of the Penal Code is actually titled:

Correction of Child, Pupil, Servant or Wife

May I ask: is this penal code operational in Abuja courts. Does it have jurisdiction in Abuja.

emmanuelbrown26:
And I still maintain my ground that its only a weakling that does that, beside u sound too weak in handling women. Maybe u hv to change d circle of people u do meet.
its not about bragging, all these whole thing is about mindset, d way u build your mindset is just d way it will work for u and around u.
Meet people with willpower and u will understand.

Okay, big ups to you "strong man in women affairs." I admit that I am weak in that area.

emmanuelbrown26:
Not all men, just say u are weak in that aspect. There are men that are too strong in terms of women, they might weak in other aspect but in affairs that has to do with women they are strong.
Personally, I know how many times I hv had an encounter with such both young ones, married ones and aunties. D issue is that we hv too many weaklings around that's why daughters of eve always think that men are just after sex sex and sex not knowing that some men no send u kobo

Oga! Stop bragging here. Pray that God should help you resist the weapon of a woman in the hands of the devil.

Even Adam could not hold his own against Eve so who are you?

When women set out for you, I repeat, you can't stand the onslaught for so long.

Woman is the greatest weapon and last resort of the devil against a strong and successful man. They will take you down but for God.

Nonexisting:
Give me one credible reason why I should be and I will call my old man this minute and start making plans. While at it, also tell me things you have achieved and are enjoying right now as married man that you really believe you wouldn't do as single man. Be sincere enough and you might change my view about marriage.

I have no plans to change your views about marriage after all, it is your life not mine.

Your case is severe and it is only you and God that can change your mind or views. Even the devil can't especially because marriage is the plan of God for man and woman and the devil is out to destroy the plan of God.

Enjoy your single life.

BoredBerry:
Lol! Atleast we now know...

1. Your mother is gutter-trash your father refused to marry...

In your words, she is a wicked, selfish, heartless and parasitic street dog...

Ouch!

2. You were born out of wedlock...

I pity you... No wonder you're so miserable...

***

Keep your secrets... Una say no...

You're here humilating yourself and your messed up family for likes from your fellow idiots...

You seem to be one of those scorned and bitter women

Nonexisting:
These are the same men that go about screaming married life is beautiful. See them saying keep me anonymous and sharing horrible stories. One of the mumus even said he loved his wife dearly but that she would be the last person to call even on his sick bed. What a simp. I will keep repeating it everywhere. I have sworn never to put a leash on the wicked, selfish, heartless and parasitic street dogs called Nigeria girls. Never, not in this life time. When I want children, I will explore every available option in existence today, thank God financing it won't be a problem anymore. There are many ways to kill a rat.

I guess you are not married

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What nonsense was you saying?

Oh shut up idiot and don't hange the topic if have nothing reasonable to contribute

UpInTheSky:
Her offer is unecessary and uncalled for. Just texting him to thank him should've sufficed. His dealings are with his friend, not her, so offering to come [her choice of spelling of the word is weird sef] over to help with chores is unecessary. OP is a married man and his wife can help him figure out all that, not her. Even if he were a single man, bachelors know how to take care of themselves without allowing their friend's wives over to their home to supposedly help do their chores. Weird.

If the husband isn't aware of this text, I doubt he would be pleased his wife wants to go to his friend's house to do whatever. OP himself has a wife and I doubt that she too would be okay with this. It's all shades of unecessary.

I can almost bet that the husband is unaware of the text. I will be surprised if he is aware.

emmanuelbrown26:
OP FOR THE FACT THAT U DONT HV D WILLPOWER TO RESIST THAT DAUGHTER OF EVE SHOWS THAT U ARE A WEAK MAN.
ALSO, FOR U TO COME ON NAIRALAND TO SEEK OPINION ON WHAT TO DO IN SUCH SITUATION SHOWS HOW SOFT AND SiSY U ARE.
Also, remember garden of eve, daughters of eve are still moving everywhere seeking whom to eat raw. D world would hv being a better place if not eve and her daughters. Look at how one of eve's daughter wants to destroy friendship of how many years.

Please note, every man is weak in that respect. You can't survive the onslaught for too long and it will be messy if she is desperate and devilish minded.

@ op, please flee from danger; the alarms are ringing.

thorpido:
It could be an innocent offer.It doesn't mean she wanted anything intimate.

Since your mind is already troubled,just reply her that you have your chores covered.Tell her you have people/neighbors who help you out.

My brother, flee from every appearance of evil. It is better for him to do other ladies than to engage extramarital affairs with his highly respected friend's wife.

ibechris:
Allow her to come first...

Let us not conclude yet...that was how u people told us that Buhari would make Nigeria be like America now, how far.

Allow her to come and help u and if she throw passes at u then,u can decide to shun her no be so?


I don't like doubting anything as far as I am concern.

Please don't allow her to come ohhhh. She hasn't gone too far with the assumed subtle moves so if she isn't given the opportunity to explore her mind and actions in that direction, she can easily come back to her senses and respect her marriage to your friend.

JovialJune:
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs?

If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you.

I find it difficult to believe you can't read between the lines. That text message has cryptic information and I can deduce it

@op, if you really respect your friend and his wife please don't allow her to come visit you alone. Don't encourage her subtle advance.

Respond to the text that "you have a house help that does the domestic chores for you. Thanks but no thanks."

xmanco42:
yes, His legal right. The same for Muslim too. Wear your. let me wear mine. Shalom

Okay, I thought the Supreme court just clarified that matter so why are you bothered.

Nice article. However, the last item (19) should be the first item (1).

xmanco42:
if so why didn't he wear it before?

Is there a rule concerning when to wear your clothes. He probably doesn't feel like wearing them before now but since he started wearing it, does any one have the legal right to stop him.

Do you have rules on clothes that you wear.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Well, naturally money has pride and that applies to both men and women. Do you wonder why you behave differently when you have no money compared to when you have money. There is a confidence and arrogance that overrides your normal reasoning when you have money. Same happens to women.

However, it is not enough reason to stop your wife from working or earning more than you. You only have to find the best possible ways to manage her excesses and shortcomings.

However, if the disrespect, arrogance and pride becomes persistent and unbearable. Get help from marriage counselors, family or religious leaders; better still get a separation or divorce before you beat somebody.

Greenscientist:
It is in christianity that worshipping God tantamount to prosperity. in islam, our purpose is to serve God as he has commanded without looking for worldly reward from it.

whoever strive will make it whether you're religious or not.

Prosperity isn't relevant to this discussion. The supreme court opined that people can wear whatever they choose based on their religious faith based on their fundamental human rights.

We have no qualms with any man or woman wearing their religious attires as they wish, wether the person is Christian, Muslim or whatever religion, because it their fundamental human rights.

GloriousGbola:
why are only MEN carrying this on their heads?

i would have thought that female lawyers would be the ones running around dressing as female religious leaders

and as always i will point, the lazy, flawed and illogical reasoning behind all these stunts.

get the equivalent of a woman in hijab - hijab is not a dress worn by muslim religious clerics. it is a dress worn by muslim women

so first and foremost, if you are serious, and not just a clown - identify the clothing worn specifically by christian women and wear that to court

or you can continue making clown of your selves like the naked emperor looking silly and refusing to admit it

at least this fool did not decide to dress like a dibia or whatever that was

hopefully he will also wear these robes EVERYWHERE, like muslim women do - let him display the full extent of the 'madness' as they are all calling it.

He chose to dress as a pastor that he is so he is not hypocritical. He is simply being a christian and he has a fundamental right to his religion.

xmanco42:
The Muslim wear hijab out of love for their religion.
He wear his, for what? to spite the Muslim?.
I guess the difference is clear.
Everyone should follow their religion.

He wears his pastor cloak because he loves his religion. Who are you to question his faith?

Robert Kelly will always be one of my favorite R&B musicians. I still love R.Kelly anyway.

Call R.Kelly whatever, I love him anyway. If he releases music from prison, he will still top charts. Na natural gift.

Psalmistproject:
Yes under false pretense.

It is not false pretense. The boy needs to escape jail term too so he has to tell the truth. You want him to say he agreed to give his kidney for financial or material compensation?

When there is a law against such in the UK.

Amojii:
I pray o, but this SA side has beat Falcons b4 o

This super falcon is different. They have a lot of new and prolific players in the mix now

Amojii:
South Africa is a very strong side o.

Brother, these ladies go beat them.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Abeg who get this BABE contact?
I wan tell her something....
Please details.....!

Na this Ashleigh Plumptre I for like meet.

dochenaj:
Do you think that the Ekweremadu's don't know that organ donation should be altruistic? They will argue that the boy agreed to donate his kidney without any material compensation from them. And for the boy to argue otherwise he will only end up creating holes in his story.

Why do you think the boy was taken into protective custody?

Psalmistproject:
He will be deported to Nigeria once he's found guilty and not a minor.
Oyibo no send am.

He may get asylum. He is already in protective custody