₦airaland Forum

AFRICANJAMAICA:
Fold your prediction and stick it up your ass

Aderewah:
He came and only went to Trem, Chosen and some catholic church. Man didn't visit any of the main churches that are manned by Yoruba. Tribalist per Akpu.

pleasureosondu:
Dominion city Pastor David Ogbueli on PETER OBI ‼️. Our quest for a better NIGERIA is gaining momentum Every day


https://twitter.com/chanceux_fx/status/1535991153069371392?t=dO81l24GBZkNJLRzY42jMQ&s=19[/quote]Most people are not sharing the actual statements by Pastor David Ogbueli in that service on various platforms. He talked about four contestants for the office of the president in the 2023 election. Please see the attached video.

He talked about Kwankwaso, Tinubu, Peter Obi and another.

JEWELofHELL666:
What do you think?

Vulturereloaded:
The same people that complained of corruption, hardship, insecurity, unemployment for years under buhari, are now saying peter obi will not win.

They are now rooting for the people that brought buhari, who will spend billions of dollars to get ticket.

The same people will complain of hardship and corruption, when the politicians are recovering the billions they invested during elections.

They say you cant become president without the cabal and corruption.

Peter obi has presented the opportunity to produce a president without the cabal, yet they are running back to the cabal.

Does it mean that they are more interested in who becomes president, than having a Nigeria that works for all?

Some students on strike, some unemployed, some whose parents are suffering to feed, will come online and write reasons why peter obi will not win.

Do we truly want a better Nigeria?

Suffer no dey tire you?

sisisioge:
He can't win...not when the dreadful elders are still alive. He will have to wait several years more

Sheuns:
No one needs to win in the core north, but trust south east wont vote in mass for APC as they did for GEJ in 2011

sisisioge:
Wow! I knew it would come to this. AtikuVS Tinubu.....Obi, Osibanjo or anyone else promising good stood no chance. These men are powerful....Nigeria is in so much trouble. May God help us. Looks like either of them is the next president....wahala don wear cardigan for naija o

ZombieTAMER:


Atiku we can manage.. Man is detribalised and has a lot to prove.

But Tinubu is a No no..
the bullion van thief of borgu has absolutely nothing to offer.he should be in London attending to his health, we can't afford to handover this country to mc oluomo.

jom28gy:
Our focus now is labour party,

Horrible advice.
It all depends on what ended the marriage. If the huband and wife mutually decided to end things, then this would have been appropriate.
1. Firstly, regarding your first statement "Never say bad things about your ex to them"
What qualifies as bad? As long as the woman isn't making up lies to sway the kids, then she should tell them every thing. What if the husband is abusive? A drunkard or uses hard drugs?? The essence wouldn't be to spoil his image but to let the children know the type of person he is. So that they can keep safe if they decide to get in touch with him.

2. "When it is time for school fees especially, tell them to ask him, if he sends them back to you, they will know you pay( children never forget)."
I agree. Always update him about the welfare of the kids. If he takes up his responsibility, good. If not, then learn to survive on your own.

3. "On his birthday,remind them to reach out to him and on their birthdays if he doesn't call( 99% a bad dad will forget), they will know this."
Okay. But if he's a dead beat father, I wouldn't do this. No point forcing thsm to be involved in the life of a man who doesn't give a damn about them

4. "Encourage them as they grow older to maintain family ties with their father, his family and half siblings if any. If the family is mean and dangerous, keep them away until they are grown and independent."
Only if the man is interested. Don't give the kids unnecessary hope. If the man abandoned them when they needed him the most, then he isn't worth the hassle.

5. "To be able to move on with your hustle, just tell yourself that you married a good man but he died and left you by yourself to bring up beautiful children you both love very much and then trust God to bless the hustle. God will not fail you."
Or tell yourself the truth and let your story motivate you. You married a man who picked up his bags and left you with your responsibilities and his. Deal with it, move on and surprise every one who doubted your ability to raise 'your' kids.

6. "Do not spare the rod. Be firm and make them street wise for life is tough out there so prepare them to face the world outside. Discipline them, teach them enterprise make them know God."
Okay

7. "When the children are 16, tell them everything that happened. Don't lie, don't make excuses,just say it. You will be amazed how much they know the truth anyway. I was shocked about 11 years ago when my daughter recalled in detail a moment when she was 3 years old�."
Agreed. Let them form their own opinion of the man. But give it to them as it is. No lies, no excuses.

7. "Be very protective of the children; Watch your male friends and keep your friends circle small. Be around those who love and trust you."
Okay. Nice

8. "When you have healed and it's time to move on with your life, introduce your children first to him and probe into the man's background( please check)."
Agreed.

9. "Never stop being a mother, always ensure your children bear their father's name. Talk to them about their village and take them to visit even for an hour; they need their identity.
10. "Preserve pictures of you and ex and give it to your children when they turn 18 as souvenirs for life. Their children need to know who their grand parents are(were)."
Family isn't by blood or name or village. It's about who truely loves you. If the man is a deadbeat fether, then present to your kids the opportunity to answer either his or your name.



At the end of the day, it's all about loving those who love you. Let your kids face the reality of things no matter how bitter. That's the first step to healing. Don't encourage them to love someone who once abandoned them and who would do it again without a moment's thought.

kals4luv990:
how is that guy a simp now ni
Do yu know what or who a Simp is..yu just dnt have sense

Kologirl:
Hi everyone
So I recently got disflowered, it was my choice and I did it because I'm not really the marriage type, like am not a tradition woman, I'm in uni now but I do work hard for my own money so my choice wasn't money motivated,
My problem is I have started falling for the guy, like mad. Before we did it he told me that he loved but I honestly didn't care, but now have starting to love him for him.
He's nice, Caring and drama free.
I don't know if I should date him.
You rarely see a Nigerian guy that's not a problem.
The reason I'm confused is because I want to live a isolated life, just me and my adopted children but I'm not sure he's down for that.
The times we spent together he's always talking about wanting a family plus he's this religious type. I don't know if I should give the relationship a try. He keeps asking me for a relationship but I don't think it's sex motivated because since we had sex 10 months ago, he hasn't ask for it again plus I was the one who told him to disflower me

Please mature advise only, keep in mind I'm still young, i only recently opened my nairaland account and I did so because I needed advise. Thanks

Bodyodour:
I told my boss,I have feelings for her after thinking she gave me the greenlight. She smiled and left. Two days later, I got a sack later. She is 28 and I am 23. I am just confused and angry. Did I do anything wrong?

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

......

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

habsydiamond:
A jobless entity even get strength to fight... E get how dem dey torture people like them.. If not for the 2year old child I would have advised u not to fulfill any of her requests again until she comes to her senses... visiting too many prayer houses will only add more to ur problems cos the problem you don't have is what those money sucker creatures called pastors will say u have just to collect the little u have. See this woman o.. She no get job but fit buy one bag of rice for a pastor... Shey she wise or she's foolish... Imagine, jobless pesin dey sow seed for another jobless pesin. This world balance at all

Cokahot:
I've always done that,I avoid poor ppl. They feel its your responsibility to take care of they miserable life just cause u get small tin. I hate all poor people.

Brownygold002:
It all started with a harmless 'hi' nd I'm about to begin forever wif you.


SO This morning, my ride or die, made my finger heavier by giving me the most amazing shocker suprise .


It's the easiest YES Av said this year with my full chest. Moma and papa, Tasha has a wedding to plan oo.


so I'm 18, the people wey born me ain't complaining.


I'M OFF THE MARKET OOO ALL MY TOASTERS.

It's ganna be lit tonite. Osheyy!!! Congrats brownygold002, natasha Grace Lotanna soon to be be MRS Alexandar Natasha

virginprincess:
Broke nigeria men .

TotoNaRubber:
Hello all,
I have N15 million I would like to invest in anything that can generate like 13 percent annual interest minimum every year but I am out of ideas what to invest in.

Could anyone advice which investment can guaranteed safety of my capital and interest for the duration. In the absence of any idea I may have to do small giveaway from it to my girlfriend who knows about it and is asking me for N500 k from it to buy iPhone.

Suggestions are welcome.

virginprincess:
, is this a poem or what?

virginprincess:
Kriss216 and wallade, you guys should stop gossiping with my name, whether I'm a virgin or not is non of your business.

virginprincess:
Yes, you are correct,he should be the one falling for me and not the other way round.