₦airaland Forum

HNosegbe: You guys keep calling Buhari a murderer... And I keep asking: WHERE IS THE PROOF?

you guys keep calling Gej a thief... And I keep asking: WHERE IS THE PROOF?

obowunmi: Its a MYTH that Nigerian women are into money this much. I don't believe this is true. Men who live above and beyond their means because of a woman are the ones complaining the most. If you have to pretend and live above your means to be with a woman, it means, it is not meant to be.

There are many women in Nigeria that marry for love and I choose to see and believe that.

yeah! You're right but where are they?

bebe4u: @TWY thank you for your advice. I am not hung up on money. the basic things/ comforts / luxury i can provide for myself. i only used the salon money to typify a situation of his perceptible lack of giving. While we were friends yes, it wasnt a bother to me, we have moved to a different phase he should see some of my needs as his. its the thoughts behind that im bothered about.not necessary the amount he has to offer. It's long term situation of taking care of myself , my kids and home all by myself while he sees nothing wrong in championing that just because i can afford it that im concern about.

I' ve been following this your story. Op, you want him to 'see some of your needs as his' but in all sincerity, have you ever seen some of his own needs as yours? This guy needs a rented apartment that is supposed to accomodate you two if eventually you make it together but you're really not concerned about that. You want him to love and provide for you but have you ever shown him love and care? He was your friend for 3 years; still living with his parents and you never bothered asking him what could be the cause or reasons behind it. The fact is you don't really care about this man and it is obvious he is your last option as societal pressure is mounting on you to be married. Next time, if you want someone to show you love and care; then, be ready to practise what you preach

GAR3TH: From what I remember reading OBJ was the one who commissioned the project and I also read that NIPP reached 75% completion during Yar'Adua's administration. During the present and past administrations the power plants was and still are under construction. But according to you, we should give GEJ all the credit even though he had nothing to do with the NIPP expect for being the one in office when it will be completed? That like the final runner in a relay race getting all the credit for finishing even though his teammates also ran with with the baton in the race.

My point is you and a few other people on Nairaland give GEJ waaaay to much credit. You also denounce and repudiate the positive things past administrations and opposition parties did. GEJ has projects of his own but not everything completed or commissioned by GEJ is made by him.

you wrote this? Never knew you're this stupid

combatmedic: The life expectancy of the average Nigerian male is less than 50 years. I think we can safely say that the Nigerian female plays a big role in reducing the life expectancy of the Nigerian male.

exactly! That's the reason they want 'traditional' men.

OMG! @Op, you reason and sounds so foo.lish. Once again, do you say you're truly married or living with a boyfriend? What kind of stupid friendship is that? Are you that stu.pid to value a stranger more than your husband and family? Look, I don't know what to tell you now cos your stu.pidity is beyond comprehension

elisabet51: If Agiboma is advising me then im sorry i missunderstood her. But Im not afraid. If I ever get back to Nigeria I will take precautions.

Took time and went through the whole thread and to be frank with you; there are some many incosistencies in this story. I'm not gonna judge or condemn no one till I hear from the other party. Till then, good luck

Becacia_Barbie: This is scary!!! Marriage is scary!!!

Abi o! Thats why I always advice ladies to wait till when they clock 35 then, it will less scary

salsera: Malice,
He's just enjoying making u suffer. He obviously lacks conflict resolution skills.
Take good advice given here

But this reminds me of a comment I saw on NL years ago and the man who kept malice with his wife said the day he realised it was dumb was when He would refuse to eat her food and talk yet his wife would continue cooking and eating in front of him as if nothing spoil

Then one day he realised he's just punishing himself abi no be him put down chop mmoney?
Well na dere it end oh

Lol

jennykadry: Seriously not again.

Have you got kids? If none, keep It that way.

Can't you just ignore him and go about happy? Don't you have CD player at home to listen to some Adele even add pitbull join inside go about happy, singing. If you know the time he comes home from work go out and come back home after 2 hours and when you come in just go about doing your business. Watch movies, Go out with responsible female friends, go visit an aunt and stay there all day.

You are giving him so much attention so retrace your footsteps. Some attention seeking men will get back to their senses when you take all the attention away from them When I say ignore I mean correct ignore. You need to be tough to tame that man. When two craziness jam, the lesser one will bow.

Abeg, where Do you people find these men? Which kain market man did you get married to? A man that bad mouths his wife. These are the kind of men that need ultimatums. You go out and tell people nasty things about me? Then you have no peaceful infact no home to come back to.

Congratulations! You've just won the prize of being a real home breaker. I hope that's how you run ur own home

Carry go team Gej! No weapon fashioned against una shall prosper

cotton101: my duaghters father has no interest in her, doesn't ask after her or provide any form of support.

I am trying to understand the behaviour - he is a full Nigerian, it may be rare but he is Nigerian.

Are you sure he is the real father of the child or you tied him down with the pregnancy? No pun intended; just can't fathom out how a real father will do that to his own blood

sheyguy: Hmmm! Tremble ko ilefo ni. . . . I wonder who cant do without some fake drugs, some fake spare parts, and some fake ******

Then, let them go!

feelamong: for the records...this is not the highest ever reached. We have hit 4420 mega watts before in January and what happened after that?

Well, your guess is just as good as mine! meanwhile this is the peak of rainy season and all our hydro turbines usually do well this period..lets wait till the peak of dry season to check..

http://www.punchng.com/business/business-economy/power-generation-hits-4420mw-ministry/

STFU! So you did not see where he said it excludes the spinning reserves? So tell me the last time Nigeria generated and transmitted full 4237MW?

Kobojunkie: Don't waste people's time on here!

your case is so pathetic. I see you dying as a lonely deranged woman all because of ur hatred for Gej

@ Op, are you for real with that nonsense yot wrote there? Okay, tell me how do stop somebody you don't even know and have tacit support of their immediate communities. Talk can be so cheap

Skii: The man is not inspiring as a leader jere, I dont think he has the charisma jo...ahn ahn, since all this while, the same look...He no dey see Fashola ni? Or Obama?

charisma kọ, orator ni. I would prefer him to be a 'dundy' and provide us with stable power than a charismatic heartless fellow that renders people homeless. Take it or leave; Gej is good and that's why they are trying all they could to bring him down. Gej carry go and don't rest till you put all bad belle people to shame

Let the haters keep hating; who send bad belle people

blink182: Who made you a judge?

I didn't judge no one; just that by their fruit ye shall know them

JIMOSKI: a 45yrs old man beat his wife up @ mafuloku lagos just becuz she denied him in bed without no good reason.... why will a MAN beat his wife? and why will a WOMAN denied her husband in BED?

If you ask me, na who I go ask.....

CHIDI EJIOGU: [color=#770077][/color]

IF NOTHING ELSE HISTORY IS NOW BEARING THE IGBOS WITNESS.THE IGBOS DIED BECOS OF THIS SNC THEN AND THE SOUTH-SOUTH STOOD ASIDE AND ENJOYED THEIR ABANDONED PROPERTIES.YOU HAVE THE IMPUDENCE TO SAY THEY(IGBOS) LIKE MONEY,YES,I DON'T BLAME THEM THEY STRUGGLED FROM NOTHING AFTER THE BIAFRAN WAR AND ARE STILL STRUGGLING EVEN THOUGH THEY'RE KILLED,ENVIED AND ABUSED BY ALL OTHER TRIBES IN THIS COUNTRY.THE IGBOS HAVE PAID THEIR DUE CONCERNING THIS COUNTRY LET OTHER TRIBES TRY.

Next time try and get ur history right. Though Igbos were the majority in the Biafran struggle, it was not only igbos that fought for what Biafra stood for. All the peoples of the former Eastern region and even some from the west paid the supreme price for the struggle. You might not have lost a family in the war, but there are former Biafrans (Non Igbos) that equally lost everything they've got and you know what? They never gave up but fought till the end. They are the real men and women of honour cos they had the chance to betray and give up but they never did.

pazienza: Asari,do not call igbos again. You lots fought for one Nigeria,you guys have to fight for your seccession alone. The igboman would just sit and watch you guys get roasted by Nigeria you created,and hopefully this time around,we would get to share the oil blocks with the aboki. Fight all you want,but just know that u are on your own.

Woe betide any silly igboman that will get us involved with the mess going on in the utopian state of niger delta,nonsense.

Pls, don't talk about what you don't know. Any form of aggression against the peoples of the niger delta will also be seen as an affront against the igbos. Because some betrayed the trust in the last civil war doesn't mean that mean that water has suddenly become thicker than blood. Don't forget that during the civil war, while some betrayed, some equally fought till the end

abdulkayus: Omo mehnn, dos eediots don dey come near my state kwara be dat oooo, dey shld nt even try it cos na prayer we go take send dem to their earlier grave.

are you not part of them? At least they are propagating ur religion for you

kingoflag: I was gonna give you the benefit of doubt until you said Yar Adua almost depleted the Treasury. SMH Why can't you guys be truthful for once? In less than 6 months that GEJ took power do you know how many Billions of Dollars magically grew wings and disappeared from State Coffers? Why do you think he decided to saddle you all with the debt by increasing the price of gasoline while he continues to live lavish swallowing $30,000/day meals?


Dude, NIGERIA IS BROKE! The sooner you realize that, the better.

pls tell us how the reserve disappeared. Ignorance at its peak

With the kind of replies i'm seeing on this board, i wonder the kind of women we have nowadays. Remember a yoruba adage that says 'ti ogiri o ba lanu, alangba o le wobe. You guys should remember that prevention is better than cure.

karl max: can u match u assertions with outes from the bible where any of this people Ʊ mentioned were called politicians or contested any political post in there Time! Did any of them preach the type of hate message that bakare is preaching? A political activist and social crusader is diffrent from a politician!.bakare is a card carrying member of CPC!! Stop comparing him to those people Ʊ mentioned in ur post!

can u match your assertions with quotes from the bible were any of this people Ʊ mentioned were called politicians or contested any political post in their Time!, Did any of them preach the type of hate message that bakare is preaching? A political activist and social crusader is diffrent from a politician!.bakare is a card carrying member of CPC!! Stop comparing him to those people Ʊ mentioned on your post!

pls don't mind that mentally deranged fellow

Kobojunkie: Learn from someone who dishonestly claims you have to INSERT ONE INTO TWO for it to make sense because some other people made that assumption to begin with?

Try to stay on point, I have yet to mention Goodluck Jonathan in any of my posts to you so please stay awake. You are am imbe-cile to think that I have to think as you do. And you are also a LIAR for claiming that I support all things ACN and anti-GEJ. Show me you are not by proving that 100% of the time I am at least Anti-GEJ. Also prove that you are not a LIAR by showing that I support everything ACN.

this hermaphrodite, will you shut up! Even the blind can through ur antics

Fhemmmy: Going out soon and will be back to respond to this . . . Cos i have no idea where the electricity has improved, there was FOI even during the time of OBJ (one of the worse regime in Nigeria)
Exposure of underhand dealings in petroleum sector and what has happened since then, any conviction yet? or even activity leading towards that?
I am not in support of any impeachment, cos i am yet to be informed enough on it to support it, but i am yet to see what this dude has done since in office, he has blamed everyone but himself for the reasons why has has not been able to perform better than he has done . . . and here is my take, if he has nothing to do to those preventing him from performing, he could leave the office or deal with those people, cos most times when he talk, he seems like he knows who those people are . . . .

so you're this ignorant and you've been here all day blabbing about what you know nothing about? I am really tempted to call you some unpalatable names safe for ur dumbness and stupidity which has really made you a laughing and a real nonentity

Dimples 316: I don't necessarily think she is up to something. She may simply just want less distractions by being away from her place of abode and husband.

You know if she remains in Enugu chances are she may be constantly distracted by her husband & kids (if there are kids) as well as the need to visit home almost every weekend to service oga, cook, clean and all.

I went to law school as a single unmarried woman with few responsibilities and still failed the exams at my first attempt. Law school is tedious and time consuming, if you don't want to struggle through it you have to be on top things from the very first day of lectures.

Abuja campus is waaay out of town secluded from the high life of the city, so if she has nothing up her sleeves she may just thrive in that particular campus as against the one closer to home.

Exactly! No sensible married woman especially the one that wants to be a charge and bail lawyer should stay with her hubby because of distractions that might impede her annointed performance. Moreso, after graduation, she must move farther away from the family so as to have an excellent career devoid of family distractions. You know, to be a 'learned fellow' and a successful one at that; we don't need distractions especially from family

I bet the author is a yoruba man and i ask why do yorubas hate Gej without no justifiable reason?