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Added: I just love this girl, Ehie .... She is a match for any ebully warlord and can defend herself anytime...

I want to marry her because of her swagalicious swagger but if she was my wife i would shut her up, and i'm dead cert' she would respect me cuz she is a star....

@slevin:
One thing that I learnt very well is "don't go to someone's house to fight him/her". All odds are against u. U can be killed and it'll be said that they thought u to be a burglar, or a thief or that u even came to commit murder and it was self defence. D sister going to beat d wife is foolish and ignorant dats all.

Trash. After you do this then be ready to face your community' responses... You go know say kaki nor be leda

bukatyne: My 'elder' bros would not be so quick to say the bolded so dear, keep your brotherhood to your self! If being one with my husband is figurative since you wrote the Bible, why can't submitting to my hubby and my hubby loving me be figurative? Or you have a figurativometer to know what is figurative or not? As for respect, I do but I wouldn't kneel for him... BITE ME!!!!

I would not only bite you, i would eat you... Like i said before you will know when it is time.
In the bible there are, simbols and figurative words, there are mysteries etc etc which needs to be interpreted to young minds like you. And there are also those write black and white, and in most cases need to be shown to young minds like you. This is because you young minds lack sense of proportion...

The bible say, wife respect your husband, husband love your wife. What is respect? Figure it out and tell me what you got in our next class.

bukatyne: That I have a different opinion doesn't mean I am not of age. I see my hubby as my other half, my friend, my lover and can't kneel for him. You believe your wife should kneel so where is the growing up coming from? Abeg o!

Your argument is baseless and childish... Which other half? Your must be delusional? You husband is another separate entity in the real scheme of things. The idea that you are one is figurative. Ok?

Now, i will advise you as an elder bros that i am to start respecting your husband and kneel down when necessary...
By the way what tribe are you? No offense o, just asking...

honeric01: You dey mind some people.

Blooding your ELDER sister on assumptions/intent.

Beating her up and WHIPPING her. some families don't know what respect is all about.

If he can do this to his family member, then ALUU is in the making for a stranger. (Innocent or not)

Thank God for the family God planted me into.

I can't say the same about my brothers @bolded, but i still thank God sha

what/who is ALUU?

kooto: Whichever way you look at it, the sister caused it, her brother tried to prevent her contronting his wife[in his compound] by telling her to go, she must have provoked her brother forcing him to act that way which normally he will never have done, it has shifted to the case of brother and sister. it's unfortunate, and the wife will not be left out of it as all members of the guys family don't like her.hope they can resolve it amicably.

Why would you or anybody marry somebody your family doesn't like and why do they not even like her in the first place?
you said NORMALLY he would not have beaten his elder sister (matured, married with kids) up. and you are justifies it by saying that she caused it...

gentlegg: Reading people taking sides with the man baffles me.

Well, as far as am concerned is only a FOOLISH man will beat his elder sister for the sake of his younger wife.

I read people saying why should a married woman leave her husband house and go to another woman's house to confront her. This sounds so childish to me, she is not just a married woman going to another married woman's house, she is an elder sister going to her younger brother's house, that is two clear different scenario. She heard that her younger brother's wife gossips with her, went to see her, probably to confirm the gossip from her and know why. She was locked out at first instance, she have not even gained entrance at all, while she was outside, she didn't force the door open, she didn't break the windows, but just patiently wait for either the gossiping sister-in-law to open for her or for her younger brother to come back and settle the issue. Only for the foolish man to come back and start beating her sister to blood point. Mostly some females here were insinuating that the sister must her fought him first, well in our Igbo culture, a real man would take a slap from her mum, aunt, elderly women and elder sister, and honestly such a slap is not for a fight, is just to call back the man to order. In this case, i picture the man coming back and immediately start shouting on the sister and exchanging words with her so as to side with the gossiping wife. Then the sister feeling embarrassed and being a woman can give him a slap probably to call him to order.

The hottest slaps I've gotten in my life was from my aunt. Not a slap but slaps, she slapped me the first one, i stood and gazed at her very angrily, then she repeated slaps on me for even looking at her in such an angry way (am already married then) and it would have been a taboo for me to hit her back. After everything i found out that i misbehaved in the first place, and that's why she gave me the first slap, i later apologized to her.

Thank you bo. People kept saying she was going there to beat his brother's wife up, but has she beaten her already? Then why would the brother beat her up. Even if she had fought with his wife, they are women and it should have been wise to settle it and not joining your wife to beat up your sister.

What i see from this is that the guy is delusional just like okija juju and has no respect for his sister and family members. They are confused and are trying choosing sides instead of wisen up. Wise (Mature) men will never react on impulse.

I STRONG THINK THE LAW SHOULD PUNISH THAT MAN FOR SPILLING ANOTHER PERSON'S BLOOD. PERIOD

joymary7: lol, forget all those tins ooooo, i only spoke my mind and my younger brother wld nt even try such because him and dat his wife go run leave planet earth for me. I trust my husband sha....eid my brother trys it ehn!!!

This is oppression... If him cum whoop your husband azz nko?

Ok we have heard you all that says she got what she deserved...
I think the brother should be punished by the law for spilling somebody's blood...

I have had it more than 10x when i was in secondary school. it's delicious...

Ok. we have seen your picture. you are very beautiful and please do not hesitate to contact me asap. i have just been appointed SSG in one of the states of great 9ja (i can not name it for security reasons) so she should be assured of getting up to $5,000 each time she phuck me, plus i will not mind sharing her with my oga and friends alike...

executinal: Indeed and you forget back in the days, some part of Naija use to eat human

hmmmm hum um um. oh yes. the abriba people back in the days. i do remember

hahahhaa

I prefer the duck leg to others. but yuck!!!!!!!!!

Vanneni: Yes. No sensible woman would sit back and not offer to help her husband when there's a need for it. But the husband is not to ask her for her money. Her money is hers but his money is for the whole family. .

Really?



I didn't want to say anything before but, here is your dose below



I think you do not have a proper training otherwise you would have known that your husband owns you and your money... He can either ask or take from you...

Vanneni: I was raised to believe that a man should never ask his wife for her money no matter how bad things in the home might be. But if the wife is sensible, she would make the offer. Only then can the man collect from her.

Really?

bukatyne: And when you read that Bible passage, does the marriage set up in our culture reflect this? You are the one trying to be witty.@The bolded, my question still stand: Are we Nigerians using a different Bible?

when you come off age you will understand... I rest my case.

hahahhahahaha this man never seize to amaze me. him too get friends... oshio baba caryy go sha

bukatyne: Why in Nigeria? Are we reading a different Bible? And please, the husband wife relationship is not a master servant relationship.

The bible said, "wife, respect your husband; husband love your wife"... I believe this was said in the new testament... You people are just trying to be witty about the whole thing, taking the piss out of the unwise and gullible people reading this... No one said it was a master and servant relationship, you are the one blowing it out of proportion... It is what it is. Our culture recognizes it and it stands for those who are cultured... The akadas can do otherwise.

Beync: May be in ur culture. I have never seen my parents display such act in the public. they have been showing each other respect and been living in peace. not that they never had misunderstand but they know where they settle their differences (at home). no public display of madness.

You agree that she should do it at home but not in public. Is that what you are saying?

dabrake: shey for your office, you dey kneel give your boss if you no do your work well? Na una type go scream 'psychological assault/abuse'. Even for military, dem no dey do am unless na unto punishment.

What, are you 12? For office you respect your boss by calling him "sir", that is official language/gesture. For military you salute and stand at attention or whatever they call it, that is a way to respect oga there. At home you kneel... Do you understand?

Beync: I cant stand my man kneeling down for me in the public apart from the wedding day and am sure he wouldn't.
A man can tell whether his wife is respectful and humble from the way she treats him at home and in the public,both in his presence and absence.
not faking kneeling down in the public, not like we are acting drama.

Kneeling down is a gesture that counts when it comes to humility and respect... Are you saying that our parents who did it were dumb?

Yvete: Why do we even have to kneel? You mean kneel to serve food or take off their shoes?

Its not a big deal, but is it necessary? Your husband is your friend not your mean boss.

In Nigerian, Your husband is your bo$5 and you are second in command. Kneeling is a sign of respect and it will gladden his mind to love you more... It doesn't mean that you are foolish but you know what you are doing. Any woman that is from a culture where this is practice and is here disclaiming it is suffering from a serious mental sickness... PERIOD.

saem: As a prof and a dean of faculty I dare say he is capable of carrying out an independent research (we are not talking about some undergrad med student here).

He did not follow the normal procedure for reasons best known to him not because he did not know that there was some procedure.


Now my take! Because this is a cure for HIV/AIDs we are talking about,this prof should be supported by the school authority and federal government until it can be proven that his finding is useless.


let no body hide under some procedural inconsistencies and kill this man's efforts so far. If the whole world is not waiting for the cure for HIV/AIDs, my dear continent(AFRICA) is waiting.

there are procedures and there is not points justifying rules that had been made hundreds of years ago... he can not bypass the scientist' community and make individual claim... how could a professor not know this? i somehow doubt the whole cure thing sha

Added: the reason it is compulsory for a scientist to go through the community is because other scientist laid the foundation for his/her findings...

Mogidi: I think this topic is beyond your comprehension, comment in a topic of which you understand.

You my friend is a...........dullard.

@youisadullard