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kingwax u be baba! jeeez!

omg!! Thanks guys for all the replies!
" changes you are so bad!! u travelled home!
keep it coming guys thnx

not really oh. But its so funny how u can be soo attracted to someone at a point in time and later u feel nothing! like now a year plus later i remeber him being good looking but dont possibly see whay i was so obsessed or what could have possessed me to write this post. surely i must have been really into him.

ah ah r u serious? i thot this guy was just making up stuff oh. this is actually real?

Kills abeg rest e. he was a bastard who deserved worse. but that's for another thread. ok maybe the haha was a bit harsh lol but that girl was just a frnd frm wrk whos so called bf i never met so i was able to appreciate the humor in the story. and before you start bashing this thread, it has great potential to give great laughs im sure even u will have some funny stories too so relax!

come OP let me tell you the truth. u better behave yourself because there are so many thigns that can happen when u start having sex. are u even fully informed about contraception and protection against stds?
hope u have a good form of contraception because babies are real!

anyway. your boyfriend is gentle because he thinks u r good. my honest advice is to strt doing all the naughty things u want to do with ur boyfriend. trust me he wants you to. u donr have to discuss it or tell, him. justs start doing it!!! if u start cheating u will NEVER BE ABLE TO STOP!

which kain post be dis one na? no head or tail

Dear Nairalanders, whats the worst thing youve ever done in a relationship?

Ive done sooo many things I dont know were to start. but let me get the ball rolling.
i remember posting this in the public letter to your ex page. I once cheated on my bf with his close friend who was in the same hostel. in fact their rooms wereright beside each other!

Another story i know. one time me and my friend were at a party she met this guy who she wanted to take home. She called her boyfriend and found out he was at her house. she told him i will be coming to spend the night and if the house was tidy. she later told me when she got home he had laid the bed and washed the plates before he left. hahahahaha!
so what is the worst thing you have ever done in a relationship to your spouse, their family member or someone you maybe just went out a couple of times with.

watch how she eats. if she is eating a lot but still slim she might have a high matbolic rate. if it ever drops then she will get fat. but if she eats normally, then she cant really put on that much weight even if her metabolic weight drops.

lol Niraland oh! lo9ng time no see. I just saw this post and can't haelp but smile. So i never got that boy lmao! He was fine sha!!!! the one that got away

hello inked nerd
I am sorry for your loss of your hair and how you cant be caught dead with it. I used to be like you. I cant say i know what it like to have natural hair cos i havent had it since i was 12 so there. But i do know not cos your hair is relaxed means your hair will be damaged. you can have healthy realaxed hair! you have to kae care of it. relax every 10 weeks not everty 4 weeks! if you follow a few simple rules you will have healthy hair

1, moisturise moisturise moistorise. you need to keep you scalp and ends moisturized to avoid breakage. MOISTURIZE AT LEAST EVERY OTHER DAY.
2. WASH WASH WASH! your hair needs to be clean to grow healthy. wash at least once a week to keep it soft and clean.
3. STOP HEAT! heat on your hair damages it. reduce it to at most once a month! use soft rollers to curl, wrap the hair at night to give it wave in the morning. stop blowdrying too! air dry or wrap dry!
4. TRIM: trim every 6 - 8 weeks to remove split ends and stop your precious hair from breaking. (with real shears for hair or brand new sharp scissors, dont use the scissors to cut anything else to keep it sharp.)
5.!!!DEEP CONDITION!!!! this is the secret to surviving between relaxers. i deep condition every time i wash my hair.
6. PROTECT IT: when you go to bed protect your hair with a scarf . wrapping is the best way. it will keep it soft in the morning and the ends will not be bent or break.
7.WAIT TWO WEEKS : Even the relaxer box tells you not to relax until two weeks after you just took out your braids,weave etc. wait 2 weeks in between weaves and braids too.
8. WATCH OUT FOR WATER AND SWEAT: When you hair is natural water is your best friend but when its relaxed be very very CAREFULL! water makes your hair dry and frizzy so this is why you have to keep moisturising if you ever get caught in the rain make sure u moisturise the tips and hair thoroughly. Same for sweat i.e when you work out. dry to avoid the sweat spreading through the length of your hair. do this by packing up your hair.

HOW TO DO THESE THINGS:
Moisturizing can be very annoying. to help me do it better in a fun way i put it in a bottle with a spray cap so all i do is part the hair and spray the scalp takes 5 minutes and my hands dont get very messy. (my moisturiser is a mix of oils)

deep conditioning: after washing your hair with shampoo, towel dry by patting DONT RUB! i usually mix my conditioner with a few oils to lets it sink in.
I put coconut oil, jojoba oil, shearbutter oil and olive oil in a bowl and mix. i add the conditioner and put in my hair making sure to cover from roots to tips and scalp. and comb through and put in a shower cap. i wait for 45 minutes or use a blow dryer for 15 minutes. (use the lowest heat!) after i wash my hair i can feel it silky and soft and smooth. i keep relaxer in for 12 weeks somtimes and once i deep condition my hair feel like its back in the early stages and easy to comb!! i then moisturise with all these oils again. (TRUST ME WHEN YOU TRY THIS YOU WILL NEVER GO BACK!!)


YOU DO NOT NEED TO WASH YOUR HAIR EVERY TWO DAYS OR THREE DAYS THIS IS BECAUSE YOU NEED THE OILS IN YOUR HAIR TO KEEP ITS MOISTURIZED AND PREVENT BREAKAGE. washing it removes the natural oils which are not so much in the first place!

yes people are. pretty people get away with a lot!! including me of course!

good girls gone bad hmm, they are never smart. it always comes back to bite them in the ass. Ther is no such thing. pick one. good or bad.

its tru wat the poster has said. You should not just link the lesbo thing to the abuse. However, in cases like that it opens up your eyes to things you wouldnt have known about till you were older and makes you curious. Also as a child your mind doesnt fully know right from wrong and u havent grown yet to appreciate a man so it might make u attempt to quench your curiosity with girls. Also i think its also easier for younger aged girls to play about with girls since it may feel more comfortable than boys which you are not yet used to. But it doesnt mean you are a lesbian. It is also common for girls to play around with each other as teenagers they later outgrow it it is just curiosity. You can discuss it with your sister if you like and find out how she feels about the situation. She might have moved on long ago and doesnt even consider herself a lesbian. As for you are you attracted to women as of now?

people should be realistic ah ah. Talk of faith in your country did many peoples parents and grandparents not leave lives built abroad to go back to nigeria in the 60's? PEAOPLE TRADED RED PASSPORT FOR GREEN PASSPORT what the hell are we talking about here? that is what they call faith. Who in this day and age will trade in thier british passport for naija passport?

im sure half of the people here will jump at the opportunity Oge is given her children.

why una dey beef the woman. She nor talk say naija nor be better place. The thing be say that green passport dey cause hiccups for airport aha ah talk true!
ah ah i am proud to be nigerian oh but lets not pretend there are no benefits of getting foreign passports. Obtaining visa with green passport na waya! not to talk of the fact that with british passport ther are tons of places you dont need a visa to get into!

@ poster true talk. I agree i am even guilty too. But this is a matter that has to sides. The topics surrounding virginity on this forum are both at extremes. I.e i cant marry her b cos she is not a virgin or i have been with so many girls now i want to settle down how can i find a virgin? many men on here make it seem like it is absolutely thier right to sleep with many girls even virgins but can only respect and marry/settle down with a virgin. My point is most girls on here and women too are only using attack as a form of defence. (which is not good anyhow because of the points you have raised)

As for the matter of glamorising sex. im not against sex or glamorising it. iT should not be hidden or seen as something to be ashamed of. glamorising sex for teens on the other hand is different. Sex in its own rights should not be a venturing area for teens gbam!
this website is not censored either and all teens coming here do that at thier own risk. grown adults should not have to hold back because of these teens. We do that everyday in life this website is not about them!

But you do have a point.

They are both comfortable n ok.

is this the priority right now? lol

poster except its going to affect your future togethr in a big way like she can no longer have kids etc there is no reason to leave. aslong as she is faithful and loves u and respects you are you not happy she has enjoyed life to the full and will not look elsewhere for excitement?
Are you not even happy that she will be open in bed as she is so exposed?

the first day u slept with her did u not think that was a sign of a loose woman? it did not bother you then so if it wont affect your future together let it go. life is meant to be lived. x

@190 no oh! i did not ask him for money. We dont roll like dat over here oh. i think invited him for a party and he diddnt show. lol

@ benny boy!


true talk i should not just end the post like that. hmm this post was made in december and its february now, i honestly dont even remeber what the idiot did. (the fine idiot) but one things for sure i did not get him and we are on good terms now sooo win win

my brother this is a serious issue oh. Chai. me too oh i want to stop cheating. its not as easy as it seems. physically its a state of mind. spiritually my sister calls it the spirit of whatever your problem is. Even after horrible things happen sometimes you just cannot stop. *sigh* i have  promised and failed myself many times i dunno what d heck to do. i have promised myself and repented so many times im honestly scared God will soon strike me from heaven. I am sooo scared for when i eventually get married. I have turned to God and have to keep praying so i dont get tempted again. prayer is the key. prayer will give u the strength. xx its so easy to do bad and so hard to repent,

mission is aborted oh. he just pissed me off. im deliting his no

mr 190 na wa oh!!!

did i ever say i was the hottest?

he just saw me as a friend even though i wore my hottest outfits to that course

in order words i wore MY hottest outfits it doesnt mean i was hotter than all the girls or that my outfits were the hottest! so wat if the course was not a beauty contest? does it have to be a beauty contest to look good self? i look good EVERYTIME contest or not!

see why i have problem with some nigerian ladies like you.
you're dressed and comparing your azz off wth other ladies!

this statement, in fact me i come dey shake my own head self.
i never said i was comparing myself to other ladies in terms of dressing or looks. i havnt hinted that compared to all the girls i was nicer, better or watever. For all we know my "hottest" outfits could be rags.

I know the ladies ure talkign about. youre tryng to make me out like im looking down on the people on d course or im artificial or high mainatnance.

You dont know that im one of "those naija ladies" dont try and put me in a box!!!

aheem aheem, who says i wont be the one doing the dumping?

@deniyor that sounds interesting hmmm *hands on chin* sounds like a plan oh,
woke4all ah ah nor be by money oh! when u wake up in d morning na d money u go first see? ive just never wanted anybody dis much! just talking to him turns me on! n can u imagine that? if only he knew his head will swell

@ MMM lol let me guess u have to test it on me first abi?

hahaha guys! very very insightful.

Buy him a car, invite him to your house and give him a good bleep

ahh ah money never reach like dat na.

heh what is the problem here. you said you dont mind a one night stand so invite him over to lunch or something and be in you knock me down gear. except he is a saint a few clues should get him going and you are home and dry

abi oh my broder it seems so simple mschew he just dey make shakara! lol

It shouldnt be that difficult if 'doing' him is all you want!

you would be surprised oh. fine boys know they are fine its very annoying lol

i will keeep u guys posted should set it up this weekend it must happen ohhh alcohol is on my side