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You want to balm ba?
You want to chill with the big boiz?

Now you dey run kitikiti,
you dey run Katakata,
You no fit drink water drop cup.

Shebi you see how the thing go? How the thing go?

Oya, tell me who blend you? �Dorime�

Say no to cultism

Sad. But this blame game is uncalled for

This is so sad... The family should sue the Nigerian Army for murder of their son.

Bunch of cowards the preys on innocent civilians....

RIP young blood

Sackk the Officer already. This is the type of bad eggs that destroy the image of the NPF

Empty hen

Best to get him schooling at home and keep him away from other kids. Cos bullies are everywhere from schools private+boarding, churches and even in homes.

Our society has permitted this misconduct for too long. Most parents praise their kids who can't keep their hands to themselves... You hear parents chanting about how strong their kids are, when their kids go about hitting people, instead of scolding such behaviours.

This is the main reason cultism thrives in our school system, because there is always a need for protection and vengeance.

We are all part of the problem. We need to change the way we raise children and how we relate with ourselves. We also need to speak up against any form of bullying, because the victims today might become oppressors tomorrow

Buy wahala

Logobenz2:
Woman insult your family in your presence you no jam am till she collapse
Bros you dey fall hand o
Please no one should advise this kind of weak man.spits!
Who wouldn't know what to do at this point?some people dey born sha
Just look at someone's son.e be like na pap den use raise you.
Your mom comes to your own house and your wife not only mistreated her but tried to insult her in your presence?you know why?she knows you are a weak man.
That was your golden opportunity to teach her a bitter lesson that will be justified anywhere in Nigeria.
I wonder what she will do to you if you take her to the US.
Better cancel all plans of that visa,withdraw the application,divorce that woman whether the child is yours or Not,do not care!just be sending upkeep money for the child and get yourself another woman.
Jesus Christ!

Baba, the thing weak me

Nigga, I've got no words for you. I only feel sorry for you mum for giving birth to you. Her nine months of pain was all for nothing.

I wish you had a brother who is man enough to mess you up for all the dishonour you have subjected your family to.

Sirlancelot:
I won't bother you guys much. I married my woman last year June during the lockdown. Things were rosy for us as a young couple till we brought in a girl of 15 years from my wife's family to stay with us in order to help my wife with house chores and other things during the time she is heavily pregnant.

Mind you, from day one I have been dating my wife, this girl has been on my neck, telling me how she will come stay with me in Lagos if I get married to her sister. That would be my greatest undoing as I grudgingly obliged after many persuasion from her Mother as well. After my marriage, she came over to Lagos to join us.

Now, she is very useless to me. She will go to school from 7am to 5pm. After coming back from school, she will take another excuse to go for evening church and come back by 8pm. No help in doing house chores. COOKING, she no sabi.. My turn off about her now is that she can eat for Africa. The little provision I manage stock at home don't go anywhere now.

The last straw that break the camel back is that she always steals my babies food, like milk, biscuits etc.

My wife is in dicey situation because she once lived with the girl's mother for like 15 years back then, and such can't just pursue her away like plague.

Right now I am fighting the urge and anger to mess her up. I have advised her on numerous occasions but it seems she can not learn easily except with hard handling. Everything bad about human traits, she has it; Lies, false swearing and the likes.

Mature minded people in the house, if you are in my shoes, what would you do?

Just 15 years and you expecting her to do all the work in the house? So much so you could refer to her as useless? She is still a kid bro. Cut her some slack. She can handle some chores before and after school but don't expect her to handle everything. Just set clear tasks that she has to be responsible for.

As per eating to much, I don't see any wrong doing on her part. If she steals baby food, it's probably because she is under fed.

For the lies, swearing and others, those things may be permissible where she is coming from. It's up to you and your wife to show her the right path

If you're not capable of treating her the same way you would treat your baby when he/she is 15, take her to her parents.

Perez99:
Good day nairalanders.
I will make it very brief. Please I need your advice.
I've been a nairalander since 2016 but this is my first official post.

My father is a good, noble and humble man. A successful business man. He's very proud of us (his children), we're also proud of him. We're 3. I'm 29 years of age, the eldest and only son. He make sure we don't lack anything. We all went to one of the prestigious Private University in Nigeria. I and my immediate baby sis are graduate, while last born still in 300l.

The problem is that, my father don't know how to dress, he prefer to wear faded and worn out clothes. My dad drive highlander 2014 model. If my Dad comes down from his car, you will think he's a driver to an imaginary Boss because of the way he dressed.
Blessed memories of my beloved mom May her soul R.I.P. She was always complaining and sometimes my Dad won't listen to her.

I'm a good fashion designer, my love for fashion is topnotch. I also own a laundry store and a barbing store. I've been privileged to sew some clothes for comedian Buchi which he loves so much and he promised to patronize me again.

GOD in heaven knows how many lovely, mature and soft dress I've sew and bought for my father with my money. He only wears it once and won't wear it again, there are some he haven't put on at all. He celebrated his birthday August, I bought this nice shirt 18k for him as a gift. Till today he hasn't put it on.

Please note: money is not his problem. The other day he stopped by at my store, I and my boys were working. He noticed nobody was using one of my industrial machines. He asked and I said it was faulty. He said how much? I said 170k but I'll change it soon before January....(because I just wrapped my car from corolla to ES Lexus)....Before I could say Jack... Baba don send me 200k. I ordered the machine instantly.

See what happened this morning, He got an invitation to attend a meeting. The smartest way to dress for a highly regarded man like him is native wear.
So he gave me this faded black trouser turning white to brush for him, that he wanted to wear it for the meeting...See eh, It was so annoying. I went to his room gathered the nice, starched and ironed native I could gather and I told him to select one, that I won't brush that faded trouser. He started saying ... " I'm proving stubborn and all manner things"... I'm sure our tenants could hear our argument.

Please Nairalanders. What can I do to make my Dad dress well. I plan to set fire on those faded and worn out clothes but it will look so disrespectful. I'm sure his friends have accepted his mode of dressing.
My siblings and I are tired of complaining.

Please I need an advice!!!

Bro, please leave your dad alone. Maybe he doesn't like the attention that comes with looking soft

yemex04:
Update on TIMOTHY ADEGOKE OLUDARE!!!

Update from his brother !!!

(1) The lady receptionist who had earlier denied admitting the young guy into d hotel confessed after the payment was traced to her account

(2) the lady also confessed that their Chairman had hand in the brutal ritual killing.

(3) the lady supposed to close at 12noon but called another staff to take over duty at 8am, that she had emergency call at Ejigbo. Her phone was tracked and eventually picked up by d police. She then pleaded with the police that she was ready to confess everything that happened.

(4) It was at her instance that all principal actors were mentioned and apprehended, including the Chairman of the hotel.

(5) Contrary to earlier report that an herbalist from Ejigbo was involved. No please. The Manager "4", who is also one of the principal staffs of the hotel is an Alfa/ritualist and probably been used by the Chairman to carry out their evil plans. He had also confessed and in police net with 6 others.

(6) the lady receptionist is on N200,000.00 monthly salary, salary that Eko Hotels or Sheraton cannot pay if not for her involvement in ritual killings.

(7) The young man was suspected to have been strangled to death in his hotel room
( His body was wrapped with hotel blanket and bed sheet and buried at the upper side of the hotel in Ife (contrary to earlier report that he was found around Ejigbo), the Dustbin arena and reliable sources said that spot has been the burial ground for various victims
(9) The body of the man was exhumed and already taken to Ife teaching hospital for proper examination.

(10) Sources said that the Chairman had involved in ritual killings in the hotel numbering about 6 but was covered.

(11) One deputy commissioner of police from Osogbo Command supervised the body removal where he was buried.

(12) Please recall that the hotel initially denied of ever seeing him. Even his wife had given his previous lodgment receipts to the police. He always lodged there during the previous MBA exams.

WE ARE WATCHING AND WAITING !!!

Copied from Egbon Ayo Ojeniyi's wall


Previous threads
https://www.nairaland.com/6850143/adegoke-timothy-oludare-disappears-after

https://www.nairaland.com/6851767/missing-timothy-adegoke-found-dead

https://www.nairaland.com/6856266/timothy-adegoke-death-12-more

Vanguard self dey collect brown envelope.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/01/dr-abdulrahman-adedoyin-a-distinguished-nigerian-63/amp/?relatedposts_hit=1&relatedposts_origin=550812&relatedposts_position=2

I don't see much of an issues here.

If your sister-in-law is disorganized, dirty. Most ladies are like that, clean on the outside but dirty within. I don't see how this is an issue that should warrant her leaving the house.

If she is invading your privacy your husband has to let her know the area of the house that are out of bound to her.

On the issue of being wasteful, I don't want to believe that she can't take food by herself.

Taking care of 2 toddlers and an infant is no mean task. Also, most jobs today are also very demanding that most workers barely have time for themselves let alone house cleaning. The solution here is to get a maid who comes weekend to do all the cleaning.

Madam, the day you got married, you got married to your husband and his entire family. This is Africa, where families represent a tight knitted community. Your "My home", "My marriage" convey the impression that you are trying to take your husband away from his family or that you don't want his families around him. If that is your intention, my dear, you are morally wrong.

I don't think the army's departure is unconnected with the recent apprehension of a bus loaded with armed bandits

South West brace up. Harmattan is coming.

Who ever authorized the reopening of this building should be jailed.

odimbannamdi:
Any particular reason for recommending recommending Mazda CX7?

Simply because It's a reliable low budget SUV.

Get a Mazda CX7 and tank me later. Toyota, lexus, Honda, Acura are overpriced in my opinion. Hyundai and Kia jeeps are also fine if handling is not a priority for you.

The main issue is poor marking. They need people like Kante in that team. People who don't care about glory but getting the job done. CR7 just wants to be the hero that saves the day.

#Oleout

I think UK are looking for truck drivers right now. You can check online for more details

Commercial lie detector test should be made available in Nigeria just like DNA test.

You should have notified the bank immediately to secure the funds. Then if you have an account with Access bank contact your account officer to help contact the beneficiary. If not you will have to liaise with the customer care of Access bank.

I credited a wrong account in march of this year and notified the bank immediately to secure the funds in the beneficiary's account. I engaged the customer care for 6 months all to no avail. Fortunately, I had an account with the bank so I visited my bank branch and requested to see my account officer and explained the situation. It took 2 days and I got a reversal

Did you grow up with your mum? Does she treat you or your siblings the same way when you guys misbehave?

If this treatment is melted out only on maids, then comma dey there.

Dairy of an average first son.
Bro, na who stand dey carry person.

For over 3 hours now.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I know alot of people are going to insult me on this one

But ain't scared

Na left leg him lose nor be the two hands....

Just go into keyboarding....na all these kind people the god of bombing dey quick answer

Everybody no fit follow the same road. Besides na from clap dem dey enta dance. Once keyboarding no work na, headmining go follow

TWLifestyle:
bro . Let me give you this piece of knowledge- women pray for husband just to do wedding - they just use you to wear wedding dress - Go to any magistrate court go and find out which gender initiates divorce most ? Let me help you - it is women .

Kontinue...

Leaving your device unattended to in a public place in this Burahi weather is like tempting a monkey with Banana.

TWLifestyle:
you dont seem to realise men NEED women that's why they always remarry - women dont need men . Infact after experiencing a Nigerian man and making it out of the marriage for sanity sake many women just stay unmarried . Go to any magistrate court and find out which gender requests for divorce the most ? It's women. Becos women dont tell u people the truth about how they just manage naija men ! Naija men are not marriage material .

So those people praying in our churches for life partners are Nigerien women? Kontinue

descarado:
Is it poverty that's causing this or we are naturally not smart and hard working?

It's not poverty. it's our love for shortcuts and prevailing moral decadence that has caused this.

When you hear things like softwork, cashout etc this is the result. Everyone wants to make money today without first putting necessary measures in place.

Just last week a lady's neck was slashed because one ignoramus wanted to cashout without putting in work.

I think part of the solution is to stop celebrating those around us with unverifiable source of wealth. Most parents unfortunately will rather drive a lexus that nudge their wards in the right direction

bestmutiu2019:
Slawomir over to you

Slawormiir will avoid this tread like a plague.