Career › Re: Is 400k Job In Nigeria Worth Staying Or Should I Japa? by wilsonchekwas: 12:15pm On Jan 03, 2024 |
Elsucre24: I will be 31 this year. Omo the age is scaring me and I keep feeling like I’m not doing enough. I have a stable job in the private sector with a 400k monthly salary. But I still feel the impact of the economy badly. I keep asking myself, at what point will I start living the good live? I feel stock sometimes because my job is very demanding and I almost do not have time to do other things, mind you I’m in the medical field and I work Mondays to Sundays most times but occasionally I have some Sundays to myself and sometimes a day off during the week. I can’t seem to be able to start a business as a side hustle cause most of the side hustles I can think will demand my presence at least for the first few months and I don’t really have that. My girlfriend is pregnant, I really wanna keep it but she’s not ready, I’m not even sure I’m ready. The only way she can keep it is if I’m going to get married to her before the pregnancy starts showing and I’m as confused as hell cos I don’t know if I’m ready. She has always been vocal of her plans to japa. Now that brings me to the idea of Japa too. I mean, I cannot deny that fact that I’m scared of the whole japa stuff cos I don’t know what to expect. Economy doesn’t even allow you save as much as you should. Everything’s just seems very scattered.
Pls I need adult minds to advise me on what I can do. 1. Do I start a business, what kinda business can I start with at least 2M that will not require my full presence? 2. Do I start to plan my japa through the study route and just face my fears 3. Should I insist on keeping the pregnancy and hope that things start making sense? This means I have to get married tho.
Thank y’all. My advice is, if you can japa, do it with your entire chest. 400k looks like huge money, but given the inflation rate and the incessant bad governance in Naija, That 400k will feel like 50k in the next few years. You can survive abroad with your partner and 1 child. It's a small family and will no have too much constraint on you. Please note that Japa is not easy and involves months of struggle if not years, but the result is what matters. Trust me, if you japa, you will be able to make savings of 500k to 1m or even more monthly when you settle in. I reiterate that it doesn't come easy. A lot of 9gerians come into the UK and think the magic happens immediately. Next thing, they jump on TikTok and start making stupid videos. Keep the baby. You have to start life either way. don't wait until you're 40 before you settle down. You shouldn't be training your kids when you're 60 or 65 years old. You'll age faster if you still hustle heavily at that age. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Name Of This Snake Killed In My School's Generator House? (Photos) by wilsonchekwas: 9:46pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
This is a mamba. Dead dangerous |
Politics › Re: Gidan Waya: El-Rufai Reacts To The Killing Of Student Protester by wilsonchekwas: 7:20pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Elrufai is just a bastard. Now there's a problem, he's waiting for briefing from the security agents. I honestly doubt that Nigeria will exist in 2023 |
Crime › Re: Criminals Dressed In Military Uniform Killed In Kogi (Graphic Photos) by wilsonchekwas: 10:52pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Howard Nyoni: TB Joshua & Oyakhilome Had Terminal Diseases, Took Drugs Secretly by wilsonchekwas: 12:15pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Man can Deceive Man! Nobody can Deceive GOD The Prophet is gone to render his account to GOD. He is either in Heaven or Hell as we speak based on what GOD knows about him. What Matters is not what people say about you. What Matters is what GOD knows about you. For the first time you spoke like someone with active brain cells |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Large Iranian Navy Ship Sinks After Catching Fire by wilsonchekwas: 6:04pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Righteousness2: BABA GOD has so many weapons he uses to fight and Cripple stubborn people and Nations.
BABA used lice, darkness, grasshopper, frog, hail , Death of First born of Humans and Cattle etc to Shutdown Pharoah and Egypt of old.
BABA used 1 angel to kill 185,000 Soldiers of Assyria when Sennacherib and Rabshakeh, the President and captains in Syria were bragging and Barking at Israel.
BABA turned Nebuchadnezzar to an animal and sent him to the bush to eat grass when he became proud.
BABA sent Korah, Dathan and Abiram and all connected directly to them alive to Hell when they Challenged His Elect Servant, Moses.
BABA struck Herod dead and sent worms to eat him up when he made himself to be Compared to GOD
When His own people Isreal became stubborn, BABA sent snakes to bite them. At other times he sends people to Deal with them.
This Iran Ship was Wahala is Clearly BABA GOD'S Handwork. Iran leadership has been barking too much especially on BABA GOD'S First Born, Israel.
Iran leadership should remove their hands From Israel. If not it would consume them.
It's not the first or tenth time Iran is having Mysterious things like this. The more they are stubborn, BABA throws one thing into them.
Let's Fear GOD.
Zero sense,where is righteousness89 abeg |
Politics › Re: Hijab: Rename Muslim, Christian Schools, MURIC Tells Kwara Govt by wilsonchekwas: 3:32pm On Mar 20, 2021 |
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Education › Re: Ikpeazu Scraps ABSU “Pandemic Prevention Fee”, Approves N30000 For Abia Students by wilsonchekwas: 3:44pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
DamZik: Thank you Mr Governor. I was one of the people that criticized you in the other thread. May God bless you and your government.
I am Damola from Odua Nation.
Modified: To those of you who are criticising me and calling me IPOB because I appreciate the Governor's gesture, look at my comment in the previous thread
"To extort 15k from each student is so easy but to pay 15k bursary to each student is difficult and almost impossible. Plandemic prevention fee indeed. Only in a fantastically corrupt country like Nigeria you can hear something like this not in Harvard, Oxford, MIT, etc.
Between, who is the worst Governor in this corn tree right now?
Like for Okezie Ikpeazu
Share for Yeye Bello"
I am neither igbo nor ipob though I love both. Whenever our politicians do good please let us appreciate them. If it is easy to become a governor you and I would have been there. You don't know this man. He'll never pay a dime to anybody. He'll pay to his colleagues children and they'll run publicity for him. Lobatan |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Election Results: 6 Votes Remaining For Biden To Win by wilsonchekwas: 2:01pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Front page for the first time ���. Righteousness89 come and give me my gift abeg |
Crime › Re: 520 Suspects Arrested In Lagos For Arson, Vandalism, Burgling by wilsonchekwas: 1:17pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
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Phones › Re: Tecno CAMON 16 Premier (N116k) Vs Redmi Note 9S (N97,000): Full Comparison by wilsonchekwas: 10:24am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Tecno is just a rubbish highly overpriced phone. From the video, you can clearly see that redmi note 9s is faster and water resistant with quality build. The pictures look warmer on the note9s but after the scam tecno perpetuated in camon 15 series, I'll never ever trust their camera specs |
TV/Movies › Re: Mercy Eke Cries As Erica Is Disqualified by wilsonchekwas: 11:47am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Nigerians always celebrating mediocrity. They should address Erica's short fused temper and her inability to make the right choices, yet they're celebrating the p**nstar in her. Beauty without brains |
Travel › Re: Abia Airport: Ground Breaking Ceremony To Hold Next Month by wilsonchekwas: 12:02pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
majamajic: If u say ikpazu is worse than TA and OUK , maybe u are into wrong angle of his government Besides I never heard about workers going on strike in Abia Kindly without sentiment go through some of his achievements so far , add the airport ground breaking Can u show some of OUK and TA achievements too , let's see
https://www.nairaland.com/6032003/gov-ikpeazus-achievements-far
Mr man stop celebrating mediocrity. Don't fall my hand abeg |
Travel › Re: Abia Airport: Ground Breaking Ceremony To Hold Next Month by wilsonchekwas: 12:01pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
flemsy15: I will be surprised if he finishes the airport before his tenure expires. Let's wait and see. it's too big a project (for most Nigerian politicians) to b b concluded in just less than 3 years Future impossible tense. Abia has always been cursed with bad governors. Imagine the okezie that couldn't finish one petty flyover for over 5 years and has accused Nnamdi Kanu that is in far away Israel of making him not to complete it is about to embark on an airport cashout just few months to the expiration of his tenure. Now the next governor that takes over after him will recieve the backlash for his looting. Oh I forgot it's a caucus something |
Crime › Re: Court Dismisses Woodberry Fraud Case In US by wilsonchekwas: 11:18pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
Woodberry has made a deal with the US government |
Politics › Re: FG Approves ₦283.26 Billion, $18.12 Million For Customs Boats, Scanners by wilsonchekwas: 6:07pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
We go still hear the story.... After 2 years. Nigeria na scam |
Phones › Re: Oppo A12: Specifications and Features by wilsonchekwas: 6:04pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
I wonder why such a low budget 1960 phone should be so expensive |
Romance › Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by wilsonchekwas: 10:37pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Happy989: I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.
There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.
During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.
Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.
The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.
I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart. Welcome to the world of Bleep boys. Wait till the guy bleeps you, you'll know how far |
Phones › Re: What's The Weirdest Phone Brand You've Ever Seen Or Bought? by wilsonchekwas: 12:09am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Leagoo M9. Phone gave me a headache when the screen got damaged. Took the phone to computer village and no one seemed to have the spare parts. Had to import it myself, and when I took it to the phone repairers, they were scared to touch the phone. The only person that agreed billed me, said there was a 50/50 chance the screen would not work. To cut the story short, the phone was stolen at Oshodi under bridge 1 week later.... After I had spent half the money I used to buy the phone on the screen only. |
Politics › Re: Thread On The Snipers Of The Nigerian Army (Pictures) by wilsonchekwas: 9:26pm On May 24, 2020 |
AnonPoet: Meet the men that deliver long-range precision fire for the Nigerian army. The Nigerian army has an entire battalion of snipers divided into three classes and are trained across many different types of threat environments.
https://twitter.com/DefenseNigeria/status/1264542256087863300?s=19[/quote]These guns are so outdated. Those are hunter rifles used for wild animals, coupled with the gross inaccuracies. God help us sha. Thank God I didn't enlist because of hardship. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Odumeje: Native Doctor Performs Rituals Against Chukwuemeka Ohanemere by wilsonchekwas: 5:12pm On May 11, 2020 |
The native doctor even get christian Igbo name  |
Politics › Re: Deputy Governor In Trouble For Transferring COVID-19 Fund To A Woman's Account by wilsonchekwas: 11:23am On May 02, 2020 |
Who is the deputy governor? And why is his name and the state not mentioned? We're trying to combat fake news so if evidence is not put up to follow up this information then it's propaganda to me. What's the deputy governor doing with such money? I thought the governor is in charge of the state. Abi the governor is having erectile dysfunction so he cannot send it to a woman abi? dre11: https://thenationonlineng.net/covid-19-deputy-governor-in-trouble/ |
Romance › Re: My Wife's Sister Wants Me To Sleep With Her. by wilsonchekwas: 9:12pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
SpecialAgent: Shame, why is it soo hard for some men to control thier libido. I can stay with a woman for months without touching her & I ain't even married.
Bros better respect urself b4 we read something like this on d front page "Man caught banging his wife's sister in lagos" blames the devil & lockdown Mad ooh |
Technology Market › Re: Working S7 With Blank Screen For Sale by wilsonchekwas: 12:16am On Mar 22, 2019 |
 guy you wicked choosen1: This thing looks like Terminator's daily driver. Lmfao |
Technology Market › Re: Ulefone Mix.4 Gig Ram And 64 Gig ROM For 28k by wilsonchekwas: 12:14am On Mar 22, 2019 |
Babalegba: The phones are all gone now oga, be like say jumia never fry you before... Don't buy any unknown brands from them.... Trust me I'm a victim... The ram of the phone won't be up to what was specified and the phone might as well be a clone |
Technology Market › Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by wilsonchekwas: 11:49pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Youngsage: going..... let's swap.... I give you an infinix note 5 and small cash |
Technology Market › Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by wilsonchekwas: 11:47pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Hustlersdiary: 64GB let's swap... I'll give you a fresh infinix note 5 |
Celebrities › Re: Top 10 Richest And Highest Paid Gospel Musicians In Nigeria 2019 by wilsonchekwas: 10:12am On Mar 02, 2019 |
Spatta: When you are Paid to sing for God, You are actually not singing for God, you are singing for the Devil, you are only masturbating your ego, such trade is not inspired, They are just using God to advance Mr. Flesh "Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give." Matthew 10;18 People can use God's gift for the devil unwittingly Only the discerning knows when people drift, the multitude enjoys everything
Abel's sacrifice was accepted Cain's was Rejected There are many Cains among the so called gospel singer They know when God is not there Dem no go chop abi? |
Celebrities › Re: Top 10 Richest And Highest Paid Gospel Musicians In Nigeria 2019 by wilsonchekwas: 10:11am On Mar 02, 2019 |
I can't find Tim Godfrey |
Family › Re: Lady Searching For A Husband For Her Widowed Mother On Twitter by wilsonchekwas: 10:41pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
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Nairaland General › Re: 8 Edo Indigenes Who Arrived Nigeria From Spain This Morning, Die In Accident by wilsonchekwas: 6:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I'm not surprised. their village people won't this time around |