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happney65:
No wonder..The evangelicals support grabbing them by the pussy..

They support a Man married thrice that even sleeps with porn stars without condoms..At least those of us that sleep with other women do not claim sainthood..But the evangelicals support a Man who does everything their religion is against

The Evangelicals support a Man that makes jest of a disabled reporter..I thought their bible says "Love your neighbour as yourself"?

In essence the so called Evangelicals are stupid people isnt it?

Evengelicals are religious fanatics just like ISIS, their only currency is hate, hatred for gays, hatred for women, hatred for blacks and hatred for anyone with a different belief or doctrine. The moral character of their leader is irrelevant, as long as they continuously promote hatred, the get a cult following. Al-bagdadi, Osama Bin Laden or Donald Trump, the modus operandi is the same. The only difference is Trump is operating within very strict institutional limits, he cannot directly kill or persecute those he hate, including political opponents.
Whether he grabs them by the pussy, shoot someone in broad daylight on 5th avenue or Bleep 10 prostitutes per night, as long as he hates gays, liberals, minorities, immigrants and muslims, evangelicals would always worship him.

djon78:
Not at all, the Bible admonishes us to continue to warn mortal man who is nothing but breadth. There is life after all these here.
You go to college/uni, after studies you are examined, if you pass, you graduate.
So is this life we are living, examination day is coming at the end.

In life the government maintains law and order, if you falter in some areas, you go to jail, simple
Such is after life here on earth.
There are consequences for everything.
So we will keep on warning and telling the children of men. So no keeping quiet.

The Koran also admonishes believers to kill all infidels, does that mean muslims should start shooting all Christians?

Not everybody subscribes to the bible, so it does not make sense using the bible to admonish such person.

Every citizen gives allegiance to the constitution, whether Christian, Muslim, pagan or atheist. You answer to the law. If you run foul of the law, police will arrest and prosecute you, and a judge will jail you - whether you believe it or not.

It's a free world, live your life you deem it fit and leave others to live their lives the way they deem it fit.

EMILO2STAY:
you have no right to call anyone ignorant when you have proven yourself ignorant here, your inability to understand things makes you type nonsense. There is a difference between the globe earth map and the azimuthal equidistant even if the globe earth map is flattened . Every navigator or sailor through out history who have used the globe earth model for navigation have often found themselves off course.
Why will the simulation of a plane flying over the earth not assume a sphere of it is actually truly flying over a sphere., if your learning to drive a car do you do the learning in water or on the tarred road where the car actually runs? Why do pilots maintain a flat horizon when flying their aircraft if they are flying over a sphere? . a tiny body walking along the side or under a sphere will definitely never feel like the ground under its feet is flat pls use your head for once.

One is getting tired of your many ignorant falsehood. Have you seen any sailor that subscribe to your insanely stupid flat earth model?

All the 3 major map projections have their strengths and weaknesses. Azimuthal maps are beneficial for finding direction from any point on the Earth using the central point as a reference. The difficulty of earth map models is trying to represent a 3 dimensional sphere with a 2 dimensional surface.

The plane is not just flying over a sphere, it is flying in the sphere. It's like tying an object at the ends of a long rope and pining the other end at the middle of the sphere. The object going round the sphere will be going in a straight line from the reference frame of both the object and the sphere. Gravity is acting like a long rope on the plane.

The ISS is fake. It is said to be in the thermosphere where the temperature is so high it can melt any metal on earth in minutes but your funny ISS has been there for years. Let me stop here no strength I just got back.

ISS, a collaboration between many countries is fake. All the live feeds people have been following for years are fake. All the hundreds of people that have flown aboard the ISS are fake. In that case you are also fake.

Who told you temperature is so high it can melt any metal in minutes? This is a case of quarter education is more dangerous than half education. It's the gas molecules that are extremely hot, the problem is that the thermosphere is almost a vacuum, with very few gas molecules. They are not enough to even burn a human not to talk of melting metal.

And your brain has never figured out that if the earth was a globe with the sun illuminating half the sphere then there will will be exactly 24hrs time all year round through our the globe and both the north and south pole will will have their seasons at the same time. You keep exposing your ignorance instead of asking humbly for explanations. I will not explain how It works unless you ask it in a humble manner.

I am really ashamed on your behalf. Even JSS1 students know that it's the tilt of the earth that causes seasons. Similar seasons occur on Mars due to the same tilt.
For your information, there is exactly 24hrs time all year round through our the globe. The sun takes approximately 24 hours everyday to go around the earth ( well for the earth to spin around its axis. ). So 12 noon will come back to 12 noon in 24hrs time in all countries of the world.

djon78:
Anyway I have read your write up.
All man should continue living which ever way they want, giving in to whatever sensual impulses there bodies demand, but in the end everyone will give account to God the creator of human beings/body of what they did with there body.

I knew that at the ends, that's the goal of all arguments and conclusion of the no sex before marriage debate. It all boils down to religious sentiments and doctrines, and the will to push down these doctrines through the throats of others who don't subscribe to it.

I love the fact that it's a free world. People are free to choose however the want to live their lives, as long as they don't infringe on the Rights of others. I was opportuned to grow in a Nigeria, where people did not attempt push their religious doctrine on others.
I went to a Catholic school that had many muslims and they did not feel discriminated or scorned at. That cannot happen today, as the new firebrand Christianity sees everybody else as lost and a duty to get them found.

I went for higher school in sokoto, and muslims and Christians lived in harmony. No Muslim trying to push sharia down the throats of infidel Christians.

Body that once someone dies, you can't even dare stay around it maximum 24hrs decay and horrible stench the body turns to. So people should continue living the way they want.

That's the joy of living - living the way you want (within legal limits). All living things will die, for its materials to be recycled to create and sustain other life. That's the cycle of the universe. Every thing will die. What happens to others after death is non of your business. Face your own life and death.

djon78:
You are talking of ancient history I am talking of now. Growing up as a kid 2 decades ago we never heard of the kind of things concerning sex compared to presently. Things unheard of.

That's purely because there was no twitter, Facebook or whatsapp then. Such things were done in the closet and very few people outside the clan or even homestead hear about it. It's not that sexual and other immorality were not happening, it was just not being reported. Remember, it only became public knowledge that Catholic priests had been abusing small boys for decades, we would not have heard of it if not for the Internet.

Was there easy access to ponography then like its now which is major cause of a present degenerating society.
I can't quote many recent articles I came across recently from globally established organizations like New York times, and other Western based media of the moral decadence taking over our world.

Moral decadence had always been with us, the problem was that the press then was controlled by a very few powerful elite and their friends, so they controlled information they want the masses to know.
Now that control is gone. Most of the rape and sexual abuse that happened decades ago are only beginning to come to light, ie Harvey Weinstein and Jeffrey Epstein.

Many more children been born from unmarried parents presently than in the past 2 to 6 decades ago as a result of spiralling morality going down at an alarming rate in our modern world.

That's principally because women are more liberated now than before. Women now get an education and pursue a career, instead marrying early and depending on a man for the rest of their lives. The can choose to divorce and abusive husband and train the kids themselves. This was not even common just 4 decades ago.

Before now, women had no choice but to remain in marriage whether she likes it or not.

EMILO2STAY:
pls shut your trap and stop displaying ignorance. No sailor or navigator any where in this world furnishes himself with a map of globe earth model they all use a flat map. Even the USGS stated that the azimuthal equidistant map is the most accurate for navigation. Even the federal Aviation Administration assumes a flat earth when training pilots and air traffic controllers using their target generation facility (TGF) the TGF consist of several software programs that control scenarios using simulated.
The FAA publications explains that in order for the software to accurately replicate the behavior of air craft during over the earth, the software running the TGF simulator assumes that the earth is flat.

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Are you autistic apart from being ignorant. How do you expect a map on a piece of paper (and 2 dimensional ) representation to the spherical? Or that the simulation of a plane running over the earth to assume a sphere? A tiny body walking on a relatively large sphere looks like a flat surface.
You can actually see follow the international space station (ISS) launched by Russia over 30 years ago and run by many space agencies. You can follow it live with ISS live now app from playstore.
So how do you explain all the time zones occurring at the same instance around the world. 12 midnight in Nigeria corresponds to 12 noon in new Zealand, how does your stupid flat earth model account for that? How does your stupid flat earth model account for 6 months of sunlight and 6 months of darkness at the poles?

djon78:
There have been young men fully fit who abstained from sex years before they got married, no masturbation oh but later got married to still have good sexual life in there marriage. There was never any problem, its all about developing self control and nothing more.
Sex starts from the mind, thoughts and controlling and channeling one thoughts aright can lead to self control of body's impulses.

Purely hypothetical situation.
And who are these fully fit young men
that abstained from sex years before they got married, but later got married to still have good sexual life in there marriage?

Sex starts from the hormones and enter the mind, from there it finds means of expression.

That humans today lives a sex crazed lifestyle today with very many uncontrollable sexual impulses doesn't mean that everyone is slave to uncontrollable impulses. That's why there are alarming incidents of rape, pedophilie cases, men sleeping with men, women sleeping with there fellow women because many allowed themselves to become slaves to there untamed desires to run free without control.

Another false premise.
Humans of nowadays have far more sexual restrains than any times in the past. Now, you find many girls and guys that go past their teens without any sexual experience. In the old days young girls were married off before their 16th birthday. In many cases before their 14th.

In the past, rape of young women was very common especially in times of conflict and wars. A lady or girl without male protector, either a father, brother or husband was likely to be raped.

You are just pandering to religious sentiments, incidents of rape and pedophilie were much more prevalent in all almost all ancient societies than present day.

peggywebbs:
Yes I believe and I know that it is those who don't believe in God that commit suicide. A real Christian and I don't mean those who use the word loosely, knows to trust in God. Every Christian mantra is no condition is permanent. That is why when they have problems they go to God.

I had to bring up suicide just the same way you brought up the problems of some of the churches. It shouldn't hurt you because I made a point ,that whether you believe in God or not, problems will still come. It is life. But again as an atheist I'm not surprised about your limited thinking.

No true Scotsman fallacy.
I have never heard of an atheists commuting or even attempting suicide. Over 99% of Nigerians attempting suicide in nigeria either professional Islam or Christianity.

djon78:
At the bolded is a true fact.
[That a man abstains from sex for long doesn't mean he has any problem. It has more to do with learning over time to discipline the body.

And true there are a lot of men out there like that. Most times people try to console there uncontrollable sexlife, passions and desires which is common now, that after all everybody do it.
But it will shock some to know that many people out there have full control, disciplining and mastery of there body.

False premise.
A fully fit young man that abstains from sex for up to one year has a problem. Forget control, sex is hardwired into our DNA (and the DNA of all animals). It is not controlled by the head, but by hormones. A man with low testosterone levels or pheromones would obviously have low sex drive, but one with high testosterone levels and high pheromones will not only have high sex drive but also attract women from miles around.

Certain foods and stress also affect sex drive. Excessive sugar and starch intake can have adverse effect on sex drive. Excessive stress can actually kill sex drive. That's why guys with highly stressful jobs can hardly satisfy their women. Their women either rely on intimacy toys or cheat with any available person (ie, gardeners, drivers, plumbers or cable men.

Many men have cum and gone at the same time, taking excessive drugs to up their game in the other room. The drugs put too much stress on the heart by forcing it to pump excess blood to the action area, leading to raptured arteries and blood vessels and eventually leading to stroke.

emddi:
It affects your performance brother,wether they approve it or not.condoms must sell,Viagra and it's likes must also sell
And I was emphasizing on "over sexing"

No scientific evidence that sex before a sporting events affects performance, except of course it was done exhaustively too close to the sporting event.
If a light jogging and exercise does not negatively affect performance before a sporting event, why will sex a night before affect performance.

CanadaOrBust:
It is that victims don’t come forward because Nigerian society blames the victim as ashawo

Apart from the society putting the blame on rape victims, the police are usually unwilling and ill equipped to investigate rape cases. No forensic or DNA analysis. It is usually the word of the accuser against that of the rapist.

CanadaOrBust:
Like I said u r too much of an expert on this fetish stuff
But seriously u guys should have had that guy promptly arrested

Rape in Nigeria is the most difficult crime to prove in a law court. First the rapes are done at night, the guy wears a mask and no girl would come to court to give details on how she was raped.
Even in clear cases, rape is difficult to prove, not to talk of under those circumstances.

CanadaOrBust:
I’m talking of mainly entrepreneurs. I’m around a lot of them and the most successful are usually the most highly sexed

Not just entertainers, but many businessmen and politicians too.
Mohammed Ali had numerous women, in fact women led to his downfall. Mike Tyson too had women problems. He was actually convicted for rape.

CanadaOrBust:
You ain’t fooling nobody. Only one dog knows what type of sick fetish u r trying to camouflage with pretentiousness

More on fetishes. ..
The worst fetish I have heard is rape. Yes, rape can be a fetish for a guy.

While I was at OAU ife, a certain rapist used to rape girls at night between theatre arts and the zoo. This rapist was well known. When guys went to ask the guy why rape when he could pay for sex at Ladiga. He told them that if a girl willingly agree to have sex with him, his thing would not rise. It is the excitement and violence of rape that turns him on.
Believe me, that's the minds of lots of rapists.

Furthermore, some ladies too have a rape fetish. You can toast them from Jerico to Jerusalem, they would not open for you, you can buy them iPhone 11 plus latest rava 4, they would not even let you suck boobi. But land them slap and tear their pant and bra, they would be wet like river Jordan and beg you to penetrate.

As long said, it's a strange world out there.

CanadaOrBust:
U know too much about this fetish stuff. I Dey look u one kind

Believe I know lots of stuffs. I am widely read and widely travelled and have lots of friends. Friend nicknamed me prof.

DPricey1:
I understand the OP because this is happening to me. My baby is 5 months now and my husband and I have not had sex yet.
He said after breastfeeding.
During pregnancy I had to always initiate sex and convince him doctor Okayed it.
He and his sisters insisted that I visit a traditional birth attendant during pregnancy, I refused.
He's archaic and have a low libido and I've learnt to focus on my baby and live with it.
I was the 1 looking for a hubby that won't cheat

Darling, it's difficult having your cake and eating it.
You asked for a husband that won't cheat, god gave you one with low libido. If you want for one with high libido, you will give you enough sexual satisfaction, you would have had to tolerate some cheating.

emddi:
they understand their sexual energy is their most vital asset.They masturbate less or not at all,they release this energy less frequently
At a time,Mark zuckerberg then girl friend(now wife)was angry at him for not always being with her,in fact she begged him to spend time with her for at least once a week

He might be an exception to the rule or maybe he is doing it codedly. One thing I know, is that most highly driven business men have extremely high libido.
I remember someone like Abacha. He had a guest house in Alexander Road, ikoyi, where his aid brings in 3 different girls, almost every night. The girls are put in 3 different rooms. Abacha comes in at around 12 midnight and goes through all the girls before 6 am. By 8 am he is back at his desk in his office at Dodan Barracks. That was when he was chief of army staff under IBB. And in all these he still loved his wife very much.

CanadaOrBust:
U r right. I’ve often wondered why it is so. But the extremely wealthy like Bill Gates and Dangote are exceptions

I don't know of Bill Gates, but Dangote is not so innocent, he is only very coded. He carries out all his private matters in very secret manner.
I know people who are close to him tell me he is bi-sexual. My little niece did her NYSC in this office at Ikoyi,

crackhaus:
Coming from someone who gets turned on by pregnant women he didn't make pregnant.

And you're not even ashamed of announcing yourself.

It's called a fetish. Some people have very weird fetishes. Some love small girls (which is a crime), others love small boys (which is also a crime). My friends in Abuja tells me many Abuja top civil servants love having sex with married women. Some others still love inflicting pain on themselves or their partner during sex as their fetish.
It's a strange world out there

CanadaOrBust:
U r actually disagreeing with him - he is saying they conserve their sexual energy for other things while u r saying they have a lot of sex!

Ok. I didn't see it that way, but check out the lifestyles of most of the most successful men in sports, business or politics. The most probably have or have had more than one woman in their lives.

emddi:
Ever wondered why the Jews are the Brian box of this world?

Abeg educate me.

emddi:
maybe not necessarily low libido,maybe he is among the few that understands that their sexual energy is the most important energy they need for everyday life

That's what most people don't understand, a man with very high sex energy is also an indication of high success drive and energy.

Most highly successful men are rarely satisfied sexually by a single woman, unless the wife herself is a war horse. I had a friend (who is a very successful architect) come to my office complaining that he doesn't get enough sex from his wife. I asked how often he had sex. He told me that he wants sex at least every other day, but if just after one round with his wife, she will complain of tiredness and body pain for the next one week. At the end of the day, he ended up getting another younger wife. Luckily, he is Muslim, so his religion allowed it.

Even from the bible, most successful and influential men had multiple wives and some even multiple concubines.

emddi:
NO,my problem is that someone going without sex for a period of time is considered ABNORMAL

It is very ABNORMAL, especially if the person is a young and healthy man or woman between the ages of 16 to 40. Libido starts to fall from 40s up.

If your young husband, son or male relation does not show signs of sexual attraction for any woman for over a long period (a year and above), please encourage him to seek medical attention. His hormones could be acting up, or other could be other physical or psychological problems.

Horlufemi:
You will never convince a flat earth supporter that the earth is round because people who believe in conspiracies on this scale are inherently wired in a way that will never allow them to admit that they are wrong.

You could fly a group of these asshats to the moon and back and the most you could hope for is them admitting on tape, in the moment ON the ship that they were wrong - but then they'd just get back to Earth and pretend to have no recollection of the entire event.

You could play the recordings back for them and they'd say they were obviously put under the influence of psychotropic drugs then placed in some virtual reality capsule to simulate space travel.

Do blood work and prove they have no drugs in their system and they will just say the drugs are secret government drugs only detectable by secret government testing.

People like this will ALWAYS find an excuse to continue on their skewed path of reality and I don't care what anyone says, you HAVE to be wired a certain way to be so unwilling to admit fault in such a ridiculous way of thinking.

It's fucking fascinating! NOT the flat earth theory - that's ridiculous and honestly, kinda boring. What's fascinating is the type of people who believe in this shit. The way they rationalize and are so dead set on refuting any kind of logic is really intriguing to me. It's also funny as hell.

Let them have their fun.

I think it has to do with the way the brain react to religious (or even political) brainwashing. As Karl max rightly pointed out religion is like an opium, and some religious practices are known to suppress the reasoning part of the brain. It blocks out reality and creates an alternative reality in the brain.
How else will your get people to believe that the earth is flat, when the evidences are right in front of your eyes. All of the maritime industry since the time of Megallan in the 15th century works with round earth model. All of the aviation industry - both commercial and military ( running into millions of men and women from all countries of the world), work with round earth model. Then there are millions of meteriologists, geographers, sailors and space scientists that sees evidences of round earth every day. Then we have a few poorly educated crackheads with religious minds arguing senselessly with every one.

emddi:
This mentality that sex is "oxygen" baffles me.If in fact one can't stay without sex then you aren't better off than a drug addict
The same thing over production of sex hormones does to the brain is the same with a drug addict
A HEALTHY MAN CAN STAY FOR AS LONG AS HE WISHES WITHOUT SEX,IF HE CAN'T THEN SEX AS BECOME AN ADDICTION

Learn the meaning of sexual frustration

Sexual frustration is a sense of dissatisfaction stemming from a discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved sexual activity. It may result from physical, mental, emotional, social, and religious or spiritual barriers. It may also derive from not being satisfied during sex, which may be due to issues such as anorgasmia, anaphrodisia, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation,[1] erectile dysfunction,[2][3] or an incompatibility or discrepancy in libido.[4]
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_frustration

od501:
Honestly, I don't see how what you said about the man is a problem. Of the truth getting too of air the the AC can course some carcinogenic related alignments. And it is not normal to have sex during pregnancies though it is still obtainable. It is just being modest with sexual health that's all.

Then you are either not married or your wife is one of the very few exceptions.
Most women crave sex during pregnancy like they crave stupid food tastes. As their hormones starts to act widely, it also affects their sex hormones.

Abagworo:
Actually majority of men are turned off by lactating breasts. I know some hypocrites might not want to say this but it's true. Most men sleep with their pregnant wives just to make her feel good not like they're enjoying it except men with tiny thing. The most difficult time for men in marriage is that 2nd to last trimester and first 3 to 6 months post delivery of their wives. By "difficult" I mean faithfulness. That man might not be archaic but is trying to avoid some things before he gets turned off too early in marriage. That is if her attitude has not turned him off already.

My brother watin man go do? Shebi na we sign till death do us part? So you have no choice but to do - by force or by fire.

bizzibodi:
Really?Tell me do woman has urge too...like spontaneous arousal.

It gets worse during pregnancy

CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life

Easier said than done. Most women develop very high libido after the first trimester and almost kill their husbands with sex. During my own time, I use to think I was hulk hogan, until I realised I was a learner. I was relieved after she gave birth.
As a MAN, it is a duty to satisfy your woman, no excuses.

hansomb:
Islam does not forbids good culture and traditions. Talking about language, Arabic happens to be the official language and it's a language which is different to most languages. Having an Arabic name is not a bad thing as all have their meanings unlike most English names.

And why should a Yoruba man have an Arab name? What makes Arabic different from other languages like Hebrew, Greek or Chinese?

I now see why the Chinese need to re-orient Chinese muslims in camps. The Islamic religion makes one subservient to other countries, languages and cultures, thereby laying allegiance to another country.
Some of my countrymen would rather fight the cause of Israel or Saudi Arabia instead of Nigeria's cause.