₦airaland Forum

NothingDoMe:
Was Ese walters also raped? Which healing is she going to gauge? Let's not support nonsense.

Did she at any time allege that she was raped? She accused your god (pastor fatoyinbo ) of sexual exploitation and breach of trust, but never rape.
It's like a 419 scammer, you can't accuse a scammer of armed robbery or forcing you to part with your money.

She says he needs to heal from years of anguish and pain from the sexual exploitation, allow her that luxury.

abogjohn:
this is it sir

Your screenshot destroyed your own argument.
It says "it is illegal for any individual to accept or make cash payments that exceed N5,000,000" and that cash over 5 million must be done through financial institution.

Now tell me, do you have evidence that Tinubu paid or receive from any individual a sum exceeding N5million?
Are you insinuating that the bullion van that supplied the cash was not from any financial institution?

hush15:
Pronet, we are you people like this? What is bullion van doing in Tinubus house on the eve of elections, you haven't answered the question yet.

Two for that matter? Was 500k in each of them or what?? Even if it 1m? We need to know his financial source, after all, he claims he doesn't work for government nor collected contract. So what has he been doing to accumulate amounts only bullion vans can deliver?

If it is money of which we know it is, where did he get from? Which bank?? What's in that bank?? How did he get that value? We need to check the entire Blockchain .

These are journalistic questions and not legal ones.

Rumxy:
But he went to the same US during elections.

His going to US then was a political stunt. He went under diplomatic immunity as Saraki's aid. He should go as a private citizens.
His Jefferson case is still pending, it has not been resolved.

We as Nigerians do not need Obasanjo or the US to tell us who is corrupt or not. Going by your logic, Abacha was not corrupt as alleged by Buhari. Even Obasanjo we all know is no saint. If Tinubu is not corrupt, please can you outline his businesses before 1999. If only we can look at this from the angle that you want the best for this country and not through party or ethnic affiliations, you will see that these politicians have looted this country dry.
In a typical Nigerian fashion, nothing will come out of this case because Tinubu is one of the few untouchables in this country. I weep for Nigeria because the future looks bleak with all these politicians still at the helm of affairs.

You are just ranting emotionally. Everyone might be a crook, but the actual crook is the one caught. Abacha is dead, so he cannot be prosecuted. In 2002, mohammed Abacha was acquitted and released by President Olusegun Obasanjo.
In all your rants you have failed to state the laws Tinubu as broken.

dayoHernandez:
And who says Tinubu doesn’t have dozens of cases in court, google is your friend!!

Please help us out with links to pending court cases against Tinubu.

dayoHernandez:
Thank God you mentioned politicians, Which other politician have you heard the news of??

If you have ever been involved in any election in Nigeria, even councillorship election, you will know that politicians carry lots of cash around before and during the elections.

Rumxy:
I don't support any political party in Nigeria but the greatest hypocrisy I have seen here on nairaland is WHEN YOU ACCUSE ATIKU OF BEING CORRUPT BUT YET CALL TINUBU A SAINT.

If those of you supporting this act of corruption can be honest to yourselves, in a saner clime where nobody is above the law, EFCC would have have investigated this issue a long time ago. The timing was even wrong, on the eve of a national election, what will you be doing with 2 bullion vans in your house? Bullion vans are meant to carry cash and sensitive materials.

The video clip he said that it was his money and its nobody's business has confirmed the vans were carrying money. This bullion van bruhaha was a bad move for Tinubu no matter the outcome of the case.

People say Atiku is corrupt because he still has a pending case in the US and his former boss, president Obasanjo told us he is very corrupt in his book. So on what basis do you call Tinubu corrupt?

dayoHernandez:
And who have you ever seen that has ordered a billion van, even the otedola and Dangote that we know the real source of income has never ordered a billion van to diligent money to there houses

And you know this because you are Otedola and Dangote's accountant or personal assistant?

Besides, politicians are known to carry raw cash, especially during the election season, whether it is during the primaries or during the election proper. Some have been known to have even used cargo planes to ferry cash in the past. Nigeria's elections are cashed based affairs.
ALL politicians are famed for this.

I have never see a more hollow or empty petition in my life. In all the petition no crime was alleged. No section of any of our laws that has been breached was quoted.
You don't need EFCC to answer the questions posed;
1. The Bullying van was delivering cash to Tinubu's house. There is no law criminalising delivery of money to personal properties using bullion van.
2. Most likely Tinubu and/or his wife owned content of the bullion van.

3. First Tinubu was a former governor collecting millions in pension on allowances monthly, then he own alpha beta, a company that earns 5% of Lagos taxes monthly, and numerous other companies, apart from numerous hotels. Two bullion vans is not beyond the capacity of Tinubu.

4. Still No law criminalising the storage of cash in personal property, home or office. What the laws states is that transaction over a certain limit must be reported, N500,000 for individuals accounts and 5 million for corporate accounts.

Before a law can be broken, such laws must exist in out statute books. What law exactly has Tinubu broken as per the bullion van episode.

PaChukwudi44:
So you are not aware that paying cash transaction above 500k by an individual is a crime?

Any you have proof Tinubu paid any individual 500k?

khaleesi:
Both you, your wife and her family are at fault here.
You should have been patient to ask her where she was and why she was away for that long. She ought to have known that you acted out of anger by asking her to go back to where she is coming from. If my husband was to act the way you did, I would just tell him this is my house too and enter the house, no need for too much drama. He definitely wont raise his hands on me or drag me out, so except you got violent with her I do not see why she should take your word for it and leave when you asked her to. Finally, her people ought to have listened to your own side of the story and try to resolve it rather than acting like they have been waiting for the marriage to pack up. As for what to do? January is a long time, You should reach out to her and see how she responds. She may be missing you as well. You can win her over again and then both of your meet her family to let them know you have reconciled.

Unless you are the actual khaleesi (Daenerys Targaryen ), you cannot get away with such effrontery. How can a married woman stroll out of her house without the Husbands knowledge, and stroll in at 11:00 pm without any explanation, and don't expect the husband to get angry?

Since she has been away from her matrimonial home for close to 10 months, it means she does not care for the marriage. The guy should just move one and find a woman who would respect him.
What exactly do you want him to do to win her back? Apologize for getting angry for coming in at 10pm without explanation. Maybe he can promise to allow her sleep out and come the next morning.
I remember when I was befriending a stubborn girl who was living with me. She no know say as far as stubbornes, she dey learn (according to Omatsola. Waffi guys no dey hear word.
She usually goes to her sister place and usually come back home by 8pm, one day she came in at 11pm. Even though I knew she was likely at her sisters house, I refused to open the door. I told her to go back to her sisters house. She got the our neighbours to beg. After much begging, I opened the door as I was highly embarrassed. Next day I told her to just pack her things and start living with her sister. That evening, she came with her sister and both promised me, that such incident would never repeat itself again.

Wyttcat:
You zombies need to learn from Trump supporters who stand by the truth. The hearing is not by both parties, republicans don't have access to the transcripts or cross examination of the so called witnesses. The only side with violence is democrats as seen with Antifa, just pray that the patriots will continue to be patient.

Stark illiterate. The impeachment inquiries is being held by three committees of the house, namely the House Oversight, Foreign Affairs and Intelligence Committees. There are 47 Republican members of those commitees who have access to the hearings. Non of the republican members of those committees have come out to alleged that they were barred from attending committee meetings. What the Republicans want is public hearing, it will get to that. Besides, there hearings are following the rules laid down by a Republican dominated house. These rules were used during Bill Clinton's impeachment and during Hillary Clinton's Benghazi hearings.
You guys are just scared and are in panic mode. The full impeachment debate will be heard by the full house, where all evidence will be presented and votes will be taken. The actual trial will be at the Senate, where Trump will have to defend himself against all impeachment allegations.

If Trump is actually innocent, the impeachment saga should actually exonerate him and boost his reelection.

Elvis2kay:
Nigeria slaves owner.. Enjoy your slaves monthly contribution and tithes

No so o. While pastor dey enjoy holiday with him family in the middle of October courtesy of tithes and offerings, his sheep contributing the tithes and offerings are working day and night, in rain and sunshine cannot afford a holiday in ikogosi warm spring.
My children must become pastors and not footballers

obixcel:
Do nothing Democrats are currently engaged in their illegal tirade behind closed doors. The thunder that will descend on these guys come 2020 is doing press up

A hearing by a commitee of the house from both parties is now an illegal tirade? In that case all hearings by house committees held behind closed doors in the past were illegal tirades.

At the level some people are worshiping Trump, they can strap bombs on their self and blow themselves up if Trump gives the order.

midnighter:
You can be depressed and narcissistic at the same time. You can be depressed and mean to other people's kids at the same time.

Depression doesnt only happen to "nice" people

If he still wants her he will have to treat both her Bleep up and her mental problem because she may still have some remaining

Yes agreed that she can be depressed and narcissistic, it not the depression that causes someone to enjoy inflicting pain on others without remorse, that's narcissism.
Yes depression can happen to everyone and does to some extent affect everyone. I was very depressed in my teens, my remedy was to work harder, play harder and avoid idleness.
Laziness, idleness and lack of purpose in life is a strong recipe for depression.

chrismymen:
Story story.
My brother you are not alone [color=#000099][/color]

I got married late 2018, I could not live with my wife for even 90days
Our problem start few weeks after weddings, we cant argee on any thing together as husband and wife, I also discovered that most of the things my wife told me about her where lies . Can you image lying with pregnancy, Age, Educational qualifications.( On my mind I done enter 1 chance.)
We start counselling 201 because the once we did before wedding was not enough.
I wanted to make it clear to my wife that lying to me will destroy trust between us which can damage the relationship.
We are in marriage already let us find a ways to make peace and live happily together.

Early this year 2019 Jenuary we had a argument which I did not handle maturely, that was the last time I saw my wife.
What was the arugment about?
I came back from work met her at home early. So I step out to a close friend who live around our house to watch football. When I came back to the house about 9:00 pm, our door was locked, I nocked the door perhaps she has slept off.
I discovered she was not at home.
I called many times but there was no answer.
After about an hour, I sent her a text message that I was out side because I did not go out with my keys. When I called again she answered and said she is coming.
11:pm I was still out side waiting,
I became very anger
When she finally came it was 11.05 pm
Out of anger I collected the keys from her and ask her to go back to where she was coming from.

That was the last time I saw my wife
The family came two weeks later with her to pack her things.
That if I want my wife back, I should come and re-marry her again.
I am 34yr my wife should be 29-31yrs.
Since Jenuary 2019 till now we are not together.
What should I do.

You wife told you lies about everything before you married, went out and came back by 11 pm without your permission and her family came to your house and packed her load out, and you are asking what should you do?
You have not yet a attained manhood, ask Dpharisee what has earned a manhood certificate to disciple you. Women hate sissies, the want real man as husband.

You that should go and do Thanksgiving for escaping one chance is asking "what should I do"?

Dpharisee:
I did the same thing, called her family that I was sending her back. They called her and I gave them my condition for continuing with the marriage and the consequences of violating the terms of the agreement, now she control her emotions better.
I even went to court to start divorce proceedings but stopped midway.
I was like a sissy in the marriage for long until I woke up one day and decided to take full control of my house.

Her family were shocked by my sudden change, she attacked me and I gave her serious 'controlled' beating, by controlled beating I mean she pushed me to the wall but physically I was very angry and vibrating but in my heart I was loving her but had to show her my strength as a man and to let her understand how it felt inflicting harm on our maids.
Never beat a woman, but if it's the last option only do it when you are not reacting in anger but pretending to be angry.
She tried to blackmail me into apologizing but I never did, for sometime now she has been abiding by the tenets of the agreement and I try to encourage her, watch her mood changes and how to keep it in check, it has not been easy but it's better now.

Congratulation. I now certify you officially a man
Oya collect your certificate.

popoolaRofiat:
Am I woman blessed with a lovely husband like you. Let me teach you something.you adopt the late comer into the house Atleast 30minutes to 1hour late of the time she knows you should be home. Don't bother to ask of any food make sure you eat fully before you enter house. Just be neutral with her not too clinging and put all the attention on your children before you sleep at times make a fake call and let it be as if you are talking with a lady. I give her one week she will either do two things either to change positively or report you to your family or her own then you can tell them what she has been doing also thanks for your patient and care on her she will definitely change to better

Did you miss this part of his post

have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her.

It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases.

If the comes in and goes out any time she likes and have not spoken to him for 4 months, what difference will difference will all these make?

She no send the guy.

mrvitalis:
https://www.legit.ng/1242804-oil-sector-abdurazak-isa-builds-n7bn-modular-refinery-imo-anambra.html

OK. Let's wait for its completion.

oluscofield:
all marriages has its own hiccups , the issue is, does she have parents? elder ones? have u ever reported her to any of them? what was their reaction? I have had similar experience even worse than yours. may God help you

Which one is hiccups again. Someone doesn't cook, wash, maintain the home, disrespect husband and family and is abusive, and you are talking about hiccups. Hiccups are supposed to be rare occurance. This one na whooping cough.

mrvitalis:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/firm-builds-500bpd-modular-refinery-in-imo/amp/

Reading the link, it says "Isa disclosed this on Friday at the [b] groundbreaking ceremony [/b]of 500 bpd modular refinery held at Ibigwe field, in the Ohaji/Egbema council area of Imo State."

It's a ground breaking ceremony but you said "
There is a module refinery in IMO owned by a northerner".
The Gulf between ground breaking ceremony and an actual refinery is as wide as the Pacific ocean. The foundation has not even been laid.

mrvitalis:
U want me to give u everything

Don't u know how to use google ?

You are the one giving information, so you need to be less vague. You provided nothing at all and you say "you want me to give u everything", what exactly do you want me to Google, that is even I have time to search. A big project like refinery should be public knowledge like Dangote refinery.

mrvitalis:
There is a module refinery in IMO owned by a northerner

It's modular refinery. When you give information, try and be more precise instead of being very vague. The location and the northerners no get name?

Basher8583:
This is how you fail exams. Just 2 questions and you're rambling about lebanon, israel ,Germany ,Japan ,India ,China. How these countries take consign me. What's their relevance to the questions asked. Lazy youth.

Please mention the Northern investments in IMO.
Even in SS the various investments are eagerly waiting to relocate to Lagos.

Just face it SE and SS are not viable locations for business due to the unstable and hostile people/environment

Imagine Dangote setting up his refinery in SE or SS, dem for ask for money wey pass the cost of refinery as compensation and "deve" levy. Meanwhile Lagos offered Dangote free land and we have not heard any protest by communities near the site. Lagos knows they would benefit in the long run from taxes and create millions of employment (both direct and indirect).

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes! Women take soft men for granted. Let dem know u got craze and see them comport.

Thanks for this revelation. Women hate soft men. Sometimes you need to show women say you get small craze for head for them to respect and love you. It helps spice up the relationship. A good fight (not violent) and make up sèx dey sweet.

Diamond23:
Oga depression is a killer oooo. Send her back to her parents house with a threat that u r through with d marriage since u v capable hands at home. At least let her be der for one , her senses will rest den get her bk

Depression does not make someone violent. Depression does not make you maltreat other people's children, while pampering your own. She is a narcissist.

Threats will not work for her as she no send the husband. She has gone months without talking to him. She does not cook, wash his cloths or have sèx with him. She will use the children to blackmail him and squeeze every naira she can.

Mrcashman87:
I have texted twice to say we need to talk for her to ignore the text. I am feeling really down dont know what I have done to her to deserve this treatment. I'm going to try talking to her one last time I think and if I dont get any form of positive response then i will call for family meetings and I will have to end marriage.

I don't have much to say to advice you, because in matters of love, people rarely take advice. I will tell you as someone married for 14 years, your marriage was built on a faulty foundation. The woman married you for other reasons other than love. She holds no iota of love for you. Would she have married you if you were struggling? Will she still be married to you today if things go south and have financial troubles. It pains me when you belch "I still love her", so what do you love about her? Sex, beauty? Maybe you love the emotional pains she inflicts on you.

The most annoying thing is you still make all sorts of excuses for her. You excuse her physically abusing minors, you excuse her maltreating your own family, and your stupid excuse is depression. Depression makes her abuse other people's children but not her own children or her family. You are also complicit in child abuse. In sane countries, both of you will be in jail.
Anyway, only you married her, and only you can decide what to do.

DeepSight:
Long time. How bodi.

My long lost brother, how you dey. We miss you.

mrvitalis:
In Igbo land JJ what affect one affects all the village

So the federal government hasn't compensated owners of the land AND they started a project now u want yo threaten them to submission

Why must you lie shamelessly. The communities were not protesting against lack of compensation by the FG, they were protesting against the contractor, Julius Berger for some stupid entitlements they feel should be given to them.

2nd Niger Bridge: Workers, host communities protest against contractor

Scores of workers at the ongoing Second Niger Bridge project and host communities in Anambra and Delta states, yesterday, shutdown the Julius Berger Yard office at Bridgehead, Onitsha, demanding the sack of the project director, Fredrick Josef Wiser.

The group protested none compliance of agreement between the host communities and the contractor, Julius Berger on compensation, employment of adhoc staff, skilled and unskilled staff, supplies as well as sack of some workers.

The 10 host communities marched around River Niger Bridgehead and blocked the Berger yard gate with placards of various inscriptions such as: “Wiser must go,” “the Second Niger Bridge project director is highhanded,” “Fashola goofed over the alleged demand of N10 billon for compensation,” “Fashola lied against us,” “Wiser sacked over 90 percent of workers,” “He is a racist, “We demand implementation of Federal Government’s policy on local content from Julius Berger on Second Niger withheld by Wiser,” among others.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.sunnewsonline.com/2nd-niger-bridge-workers-host-communities-protest-against-contractor-3/amp/

The host community better take over management of Julius Berger or bid and execute the contract themselves.

Amumaigwe:
The community are the land owners. Do you have any proof that they have been compensated?

What does your mean community are land owners? Will the bridge cover the whole community? So you give every elder, youth cat and dog money, because a few dozen hectares would be needed for road passing through the community.

tiwiex:
Sounds like an excuse and finding who to blame as usual. Should compensation be agreed? The FG did not even claim to make a counter offer. They know there would be resistance anywhere in the world without compensation. If they are not considering compensation then it reveals and underlying intention.

So you think no compensation was paid when Jonathan flagged off the 2nd Niger Bridge 6 years ago?

Jonathan flags off construction of 2nd Niger Bridge:
President Goodluck Jonathan in Onitsha, Monday, conducted the ground breaking ceremony for the construction of a second bridge across the River Niger.

The project, when completed will ease traffic on the existing one, which was built over 50 years ago.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2014/03/10/jonathan-flags-construction-2nd-niger-bridge/amp/

RichDad1:
This is not about compensation for the lands. It’s more of settlements.
There are 5 communities, with each of them demanding N10billion as a form of settlements in project and other things. Imagine the FG and the contractor paying N50billion as settlements ?

Perhaps you need to read more about this story.

Here is the full story;

NEWSCommunities demand N10bn compensation on 2nd Niger Bridge

Fashola, yesterday, revealed that communities along the 2nd Niger Bridge are demanding N10 billion in compensation.



Fashola said the demand for compensation is frustrating the Federal Government’s efforts to complete the project.

He said: “People who want infrastructure must also reasonably be willing to sacrifice. The amount we are facing now in claims in compensation for Second Niger Bridge is already in excess of N10 billion, just for compensation for land and all of that.

“As we speak, some people are asking us to pay N10 billion now as compensation for the 2nd Niger bridge.”
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/2019/09/communities-demand-n10bn-compensation-on-2nd-niger-bridge/