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With total nude pictures on the net, which film producer wouldn't want to sign her up? Looks like they want someone to play their nude scenes without qualms. Wonder why meaningful shows seem to elude some. Big Brother Africa is making no sense after Uti.

CAN'T BELIEVE THE LEVEL OF REASONING OF SOME PEOPLE HERE. IF U DONT KNOW DE IMPORTANCE OF DISCIPLINE, DAT'S TERRIBLE. , U GET COLD FEET JUST BECAUSE OF ONE GUY- INDIRECTLY SAYING DAT ALL OTHER PLAYERS ARE WORTH NOTHING EXCEPT ONE. Pride is bad. He wronged. He must apologize. If everyone should behave like he did, the entire team will become uncontrollable. U cant have a team anymore with that, can you?

LeoMax:
The poster is a naive naughty person, DandC is a normal medical procedure in such an event that the pregnancy needed to be terminated. Show me a girl that hasnt gone thru that civilized medical process and I will show you a naive naughty person.

U men can be ridiculously funny sometimes. Like ALL?? Every girl must have aborted? Are u sure u're for real? Smh

Calculia:
This obviously is unheard of and a first in my life time. Don't know but with igbo couples and babies always expect the unexpected. Only a couple of months back in London, doctors were running around trying to figure out how a Nigerian igbo couple gave birth to a white baby. Yes not albino but full breed Caucasian 

That's Igbo uniqueness for you

190:
Why cant women stay with only one man (190)

Cos it (190) would be suicide.

That's why i like real men, not lily-livered boys handling somethin serious.

ifyalways:
It's not just abnormal but also unacceptable.

I don't like the concept of the hubby going out to get himself gifts just to get her jealous or get back at her.The man should sit her down firmly and tell her why he feels bad about those gifts.

Btw,when was the last time the man got her a gift?Could be possible she is doing all the buying and claiming its from other men in order to wake the dead gift giving spirit in the man Communication is the key.

If that's wat she's doing- wrong approach. Whatever happened to talking about it? Marriage is a too serious commitment to be pulling such pranks.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

No wonder about the ''What does it mean if a man stares at you without blinking. . '' threads.

My access is still on. Though i think it showed green. But hey! If internet access can be disrupted worldwide at de same time, by a group of people- the end is not far.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=685174.msg8473810#msg8473810 date=1307466464] beautifull ladies? In nigeria? [/quote]Yes. U love them? Lol

Acidosis:
Beautiful ladies don't do that! They are too blessed to be stressed.

Dont be too sure

Depends much on the man. If he has proved to be a decent man and given his lady reason to trust him, then she got no problems even if she sees a thousand ladies clamouring for his attention.

Some women never appreciate what they have until they lose it. He's not cheating. Thinkin of long term. Does dat only on busy week days. YET, Could depend on how busy a guy he is. But why in de world would she want midnight calls from him? Someone dat's busy throughout de day? She prolly will talk till 4:30. Some girls sef.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner(and many other unheard of cases) should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, It's good to have a clear cut idea of what u want/desire, with CHARACTER spear heading every other. Cos it will be a major disaster to find a woman with very good physical attributes, classy look, et al - but with a wicked, scheming, conniving mind. I think de case of the High commissioner should hav been an eye opener to you men, , (not sayin anyone of them is guilty). Character first and commit de rest to God. The one He gives u will be the best u could ever have wished for. Trust me.

@OP, I dont hav much to say, but this will suffice. DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING TO CHANGE AFTER YOU MARRY HIM. IF HE IS ASKING YOU TO WAIT TILL HE MARRIES U, IS HE TRYIN TO SAY EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM WILL CHANGE OVERNIGHT AFTER?? Forget about any investment u think u have made and reason with your head clear. A bad relationship is ALWAYS better than a bad marriage-cos there's still room to right it.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=680718.msg8440710#msg8440710 date=1307018449]Funny how Yorubas always find their way into anything.

This needs to be investigated further. Forensics can diagnose the wounds and tell if it's self-inflicted or not.

I dont believe the husband is totally innocent because Igbo men tend to be more aggressive than usual.[/quote]U know, i used to think u had some sense, but clearly i was mistaken. U hav disgraced yourself here wit ur hatred toward Igbo men. U have already told us none of your daughters will marry one, so now, wat is your obsession with them still? U must be really silly. Wat about yoruba men that hit their wives? Has that made me or everyone conclude that ALL your men must be wife beaters? If u dont have anything meaningful to say girl, keep shut.

With de stupid replies so far, i can only conclude that it is indeed a sorry generation of men de world is breeding.

MamaJD:
U got got me login in after such a long while too
it do not means that he dont love me,
am his wife by the way.

Wow. Now this is some family love here. Cool

It is about time people take out time to clear their reasoning. The stereotyping of a whole group of people because of the actions of a few is bad. Not long ago a known yoruba traditional ruler beat up his wife mercilessly and even poured chemical on her face. Should we then conclude that ALL yoruba men are wife beaters? Some people should leave the feeding bottle and grow up. Move around and stop being holed up at a place typing rubbish u dont know on the internet, pretending as if u're an authority on any subject.

@ILEKE IDI, honestly i thought u wer a smart lady. No daughter of yours wil marry an Igbo? That is good for the Igbo man too. Are ALL women married to Igbos crying foul? U conclude cos of a story u dont know it's truth. Anyways same stereotype goes to u yorubas being  highly promiscuous. Are YOU one? Lol. Stereotype. . . To all those suggesting divorce, maybe in your culture it's an easy/everyday occurrence. But Igbos value marriage. Divorce is de last, if avoidable option. Only allowed in cases of promiscuity, but even some stay to resolve dat instead of separating. So dont try to teach/preach divorce like it's normal, IT IS NOT NORMAL. The Bible gives only ONE provision for that. It is considered a SIN by God for anyone to do that for any other reason.

@ILEKE IDI, honestly i thought u wer a smart lady. No daughter of yours wil marry an Igbo? That is good for the Igbo man too. Are ALL women married to Igbos crying foul? U conclude cos of a story u dont know it's truth. Anyways same stereotype goes to u yorubas being  highly promiscuous. Are YOU one? Lol. Stereotype. . . To all those suggesting divorce, maybe in your culture it's an easy/everyday occurrence. But Igbos value marriage. Divorce is de last, if avoidable option. Only allowed in cases of promiscuity, but even some stay to resolve dat instead of separating. So dont try to teach/preach divorce like it's normal, IT IS NOT NORMAL. The Bible gives only ONE provision for that. It is considered a SIN by God for anyone to do that for any other reason.

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO QUICK TO POINT ACCUSING FINGERS?? WHAT IF HIS STORY IS TRUE? Many men of good repute do not rush to do what de otherwise 'ordinary' man will do - i.e, divorce his wife outright. Responsible men do not lay hands on their wives, so wat does a man do if he unfortunately marries a tiger?? IT IS ONLY THE DOMESTIC WORKERS, THEIR CHILDREN, ANY PERSON(S) SHE MIGHT HAV PREVIOUSLY ASSAULTED, A FRESH X-RAY THAT WILL DETERMINE THE TRUTH.
This is somewhat a lesson to everyone. , , For the ladies: know the man u're saying I Do to. Marry HIM not his money, else!
For the men: dont think u can change anybody or tame them after marriage. What u see before, prepare to continue with after.

toyemz:
^^^
wonderfully true words

however

i for one,know i will never ever date anyone i have taken as friend
friends/lover 2 separate categories
he might just lose out on the one he really loves because of this oh

Ya, i get u girl. I can't too. BUT, THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS. Some go from friendship to relationship & have a wonderful relationship/marriage. But it's not compulsory to be very close friends at first, u could just be that very friendly guy that still observes.