Funny but sometimes out dad have weird ways for showing love. Please go and see your co-wife soonest.
Michelle55: Neutral.. We're cowives.. Always arguing like no man's business
When I'm faraway, he solicits the help of my uncles and aunties to beg me to come back that he misses me, immediately I touch down home omo na quarrel we go start till the day I leave home. Granny says that's how he shows me how much he loves me.. What a weird kinda love!
All the same, I love the old man! He's been on my neck to come back for almost 5years now I ain't taking that risk yet because I've got no strength to argue with my co-wive yet.
This is beautiful, don't work God will bless you soon. Don't forget to pass this love to your sons.
youngking22: have the best relationship with my dad, when at my age he never allows me wash or sweep my room (a neat freak), if we both step out you would think we are brothers. it's been me and my dad against the world. my prayers for God's blessings with enough cash too take him to take him on a trip too old Trafford....
I also made a video bringing out what went wrong with most of our relationship with our fathers. I hope we don't make those mistakes with our children...
This is beautiful, I smiled while reading it. They're lucky to have you.
MejiLoyon: None existent. He died when I was little
But mine with my boys? Excellent If I do say so myself We play video games,and do stuffs together. We wear the same clothes too.lol. Best part is they call me by my nickname when they are happy. Bless you guys.
dollytino4real: not too friendly, not bad, atleast we call each other to wish ourselves well. unlike my mum we talk for 20mins everyday just to laugh n remember jokes
Most people tend to have a not so good relationship with their fathers especially the men. I grew up seeing most father's running their homes like military men.
I did a lot of research and found out most men have terrible relationship with their fathers that have negative impact on them.
How is your relationship with your father? Don't ignore this, let be open and see what they would have done better and we can learn from this too.
Have a round table discussion with her, I know most women believe it's the duty of a man to finance all their needs but their money is not his business which is wrong. She can contribute by buying little things but it all depends on your foundation, how did you start this relationship? Are you both completely honest with each other?
I can't do this, I once turn down a marriage proposal. He said come to my house and clean, cook, I want to see if you're homely. Is that all you see in me?
MEGA4BILLION: In present dispensation? Does the lady in question has nothing doing at all that she will abandon her work or business to become house maid because of marriage.
There is clear lack of understanding in your relationship and you two need to work on yourself and don't know if you all understand the definition of Love. Because she doesn't have your number saved doesn't mean she doesn't love or something give her the benefit of doubt and you don't have to be wrong to apologise. Call her and have a conversation with her. Check this out for more tips
You make out time to listen to someone that is willing to speak up. Society have made most men believe it's wrong to cry before a woman or get emotional. Men talk to your women they want to listen.
A friend of mine will always say her father get angry and aggressive when something is bothering him but will not speak even when the wife please with him to. This is sad.
My major problem is with the Reverend father, did he call the husband to order? He is stopping her from protecting herself and she keeps receiving beating. Companionship is great when you're with someone that appreciate you, the goal is to be happily married, no marriage is perfect but the goal is not to die. That encourage violence, help her. This is very sad.
Someone once told me in her family as a going child, they drank the water their parents use in washing their hands after meal. I pout
Secondly, I heard in some states in Nigeria snake comes out to welcome visitors, that is scary.
Thirdly, there is a state in Nigeria where the lastest bride goes to the family house after marriage stays for some weeks, during her stay she cleans everywhere, does all the dishes, cook and all even when there are people she is older than. Marriage makes her the youngest.
Share any of yours and remember what is weird to me might not be to you.