How many people in Nigeria go for therapy? She could have hide all this from him but she didn't, they can go the hospital. For someone that is damageyto open up to you is the first step to healing and the person's willingness to move on.
TundeChris: Well she should get a therapist not look for a relationship. Damaged/hurt people hurt people.... I’m not saying he should mistreat her but he shouldn’t invest in a love relationship with her, friendship would d
What if she has a damaged womb? So he is supposed to be childless for a decision she made as a adult? Abortions also don’t leave women the same emotionaly. She needs therapy not another boyfriend.
You don't know the damages the uncle who started sleeping with her at age 8 has cause her. She came out clean to him, does that not count for something? This is how you help a person and this is how you know someone that is willing to live a better life. I'm sad
TundeChris: She doesn’t deserve him. She needs to stay with the man she gave her womb to 4 times. Everyone has had issues before as an adult you are responsible for your choices.
Are you judging her for opening up to you? Or it's her fault she got molested at a younger age. She came clean to you which is very rare and you will judge her with that? Bro you don't deserve her at all.
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I don't know why people always feel reunion is an avenue to intimidate your old mate or act fake. The idea of school reunion is to reunite with old friends and catch up on old times but No!!! It's now a period to show up for most people. Here is my story. Don't forget to share yours too.
It's a no from.my end except the couples have self control. Most people don't know how to balance work and pleasure. In most corporate organization they rule this out.
You're the one cheating, hoping to get something and still a student. Have you ever spoke to her about starting something up or does she have the fund to give you those things you want? You're obviously looking for an excuse to leave the relationship. I don't know why these days everything have to be tight to money and give and take. Have a conversation with her and about the virginity stuff it's not your fault she wanted it too that is why she had sex with you or didn't get her consent?
Iamconfused: Hello guys. Good morning. I'm in a state of confusion now, please don't judge me. Last year, I met this girl, we got talking and along the line, we fell in love with each other. She was a virgin and one thing led to another, I took her virginity(my mistake). This girl loves me so much, I cannot explain it, she has introduced me to her mom and I know almost everything about her and her family, pls note, I'm a medical student and I'm not even ready for marriage or anything of such in the nearest future, she will be graduating early next year. She has always been reminding me never to break her heart, she wants to marry me, she wants this and that. Now, the problem I have with this girl is that she has never assisted me once since we started dating, very dependent on me, always I love you, I'm here for u and those nonsense that won't add value to my life. She's so dramatic too and very emotional, it has made me lose a lot of interest in her lately, but I know for sure she loves me very much.
Why this? So not long ago, I stumbled on this lady, we also got talking but it was on purely on friendship grounds but this girl started having feelings for me cos I was always there for her and comforted her when she needed it. I don't know what happened but I asked her out and now we're dating. Few months into dating this lady, this girl has impacted so well in my life, she gets me stuff(I'm not concerned about this but guys will understand the value a lady gets when you're not the only one giving) and she's now even teaching me how to make money online by legitimate means. This girl loves me like mad, she says if I break her heart, she's going to hurt herself and all that. I won't lie, I've feelings for her too cos I see her as someone who can make a good family and help a man stand, she's also very independent, she hardly requests for anything and according to her, "she wants just my love"
Now my problem is, how do I even let one of them go?. How do I let the former or the latter go?. I broke the former's virginity and I'm scared she'd be so hurt if I break her heart like that cos she really loves me. Now this, I really want her cos she has value, a whole lot of value and of course I also love her.
How do I even go about this?. I'm very confused. I don't want to hurt anyone. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I wish I can just let the two of them go and get a new life.
What do u guys suggest I do?.This is no fiction, I get really worried anytime I think about the whole thing.
You're going to get her depressed and how do you check if a womb is intact by those your methods? Talk to her but this is so wrong on many levels. You don't just work in and out of someone's life just like that and you were cheating. You're simply looking for an excuse to break up.
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Lack of understanding. You need to understand the person you want to date, it's not always about money. You're an introvert but it should not stop you from loosing up a small to satisfy your extrovert girlfriend.
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