Why do you keep managing a relationship that is killing you slowly? You feel you're not good enough for anyone?
How did your last relationship end?
I will start by sharing my story. He was amazing but had anger issues, he told me before we started dating and promised he was working on it. I believed him but once or twice he gets angry for no reason even with is family members.
Whenever he gets angry he doesn't talk to me for a week but he was amazing, we prayer and fasted but nothing changed not until I couldn't take it anymore and I walked away.
I don't know how true this story is but men get raped too, stop saying he had an erection. He is human, did she ask for his consent? If you have been raped check this out
Somethings are old and ancient, we're in the modern days
RisenPhoenix1: Of course he makes sense. As much sense as when women talk about tall, dark, handsome with six packs and a private jet, no one considers it wrong.
Those are his conditions, and he has the right to make any conditions he wants.
pek: How is this remotely possible in this age and time? So the lady will leave what she is doing to stay with another person for six months? Why don't we turn the tables
BigDawsNet: A doc once said a CKD patient visited the clinic with one of his family member for transplants...the doc was happy he found a donor...after they left the clinic ...the donor family member return to the doctor secretly and told him to tell the patient the organ doesn't match...
Bornsinner7: Recently I met with a friend and then we got talking then I asked him of some people that used to be his tenants.. he then told me a particular tenant had died some months back..
I asked if he fell sick or something.. it was weird when he started explaining to me that the wife of the man sleeps around and where the man came from if a wife sleeps outside ( commits adultery) and still comes home to cook for the husband, the husband will die if he did not carry out some rituals as to the act.. the man was a pastor so he no longer believed in those fetish things..
I don't know if there are people from Benue who can attest to this
pansophist: When I was 9 years old or so, I asked my older brother, "how do women get pregnant"? I was really curious. And he told me that they go to the doctor, and collect a drug, and the next day, the stomach will be big. I believed him.
The second one was about "shark teeth". Why does some people have shark teeth? And he said its because they eat with knife and fork at the same time. That I should never try it lol. That guy can lie for Africa
This beautiful but what makes this type of relationship great is zero secret. Please pass this on to your sons.
pansophist: My relationship with my dad is good, I can discuss anything and everything with him, and our physical boundaries are warm, though, I believe it would not have been possible without the input of my mum. We drink wine together, can still eat from the same plate, and still ask about my affairs like I'm a boy. The fatherly instinct to still care is ever present. As a retired General (he fought in the Biafran war), he has a proclivity to lead the family like a military regime, but my mum always softens it with her feminine allure.
I learnt to be stoic, and the art of taming one's demon from him. He is a man of honour, and I see it everyday. Any meeting he attends, he is always accorded a position. He is always respected. Never has it happened that he didn't slept home, or involved in any cases thay brings shame. He can be really ferocious when he has to, he is a good man, but not nice.
No matter the difficulties he is passing though, he would be calm, giving this sense of assurance to his family that looks up to him. He never wanted us to drink, smoke, womanize, and he lived by those examples. He is super religious and lead us towards that path, but I drifted off, though, he would never know this part of me because it would break his heart.
Silentgroper: I do not wish too. D nigga seems bent on making my life miserable, to think he wasnt even present in d early days of my life. u just came out of no-where nd want to start forming hard dad nd controlling my life. D only good thing abt d re union is d easy connect to d u.k. Apart from dat, i practically do not need fvcktard.