₦airaland Forum

kingyakos:
If na me be ur husband i for chuk preek for anyway i see hole for ur body

dumb human.

wirinet:
Why is she dieing in silence? Is she being threatened or forced to stay in the marriage? Why not divorce peacefully and let the two parties go and take care of their sexual needs?

It just doesn't make sense to me to be in a sexless marriage.

it’s not about sexless. He wants it everyday and her body can’t carry it. They have spoken about it several times but no change.

Most people don’t speak out cause of society. Go through the comments here and you will see why some people choose to die in silence.

Tegabadguy:
so i force my wife to have sex with me na rape you won hear i go rape my wife ten times because na wife i pay for her head

understanding is key.

almarthins:
Woman eh! Them fit a sane man run mad in 5sec. We can talk about if she can not giving me some non excusable excuse. No every time man go dey here stories.

that is why understanding is important in marriage.

wirinet:
Yes there are days our bodies can’t handle sex, but the two parties must discuss and come to an amicable understanding. Before or during marriage both of your should have an understanding and be sensitive to each other's sexual needs. Once that is missing, the marriage should be dissolved to avoid unnecessary pains and frustrations.

this is what I have been trying to say but people want to reply without comprehension.

amalover007:
the two of una no well.

Rape ko tape ni

you’re more unwell since you can’t make your point without insults.

crows2ravens:
There's nothing like rape in marriage.
Possible reasons a spouse may be prosecuted:
* The sex involved violence and domestic abuse, leading to significant discomfort or injury. Either way, it's a case of assault/battery, not rape.
* Making photos or videos of sexual activity is unlawful in certain places.
There's nothing like too much sex under the law.

Denying your spouse sex is considered cruelty, and is legal grounds for divorce. Sex is an integral part of marriage under law.

don’t sugarcoat it. When your spouse force is/her is rape.

MrBrownJay1:
as much as rape in marriage is very real, in Africa where women are sold off to their husband (thank to bride price etc), i can fully understand why a husband would believe that he OWNS HIS WIFE therefore he can use her as he pleases.

bride price is a discussion for another day.

Moh247:
So how come no court in the world has ever jailed any husband for rape when the marriage contract included sex


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do your research.

Moh247:
No need for insults keep it civil

The only reason no man anywhere in the world even police won't prosecute rape against an husband is because by law during marriage ceremony you are officially giving consent to your legally married husband


Marriage is the legal union of a couple as spouses. The basic elements of a marriage are: (1) the parties' legal ability to marry each other, (2) mutual consent of the parties, and (3) a marriage contract as required by law.


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you can be prosecuted elsewhere in the world, this just that in the side of the world we overlook a lot of things.

tnerro1:
Aunty, shut the fvck up, stop trying to make a mountain out of a molehill

was the insult necessary? You can pass without saying a world.

jeromestarks:
You're a chicken.

Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. - Wikipedia.

thank you.

Moh247:
Marriage definition by law

Marriage is the legal union of a couple as spouses. The basic elements of a marriage are: (1) the parties' legal ability to marry each other, (2) mutual consent of the parties, and (3) a marriage contract as required by law.

that still doesn’t mean I should force my husband into sex without is permission.

There are days our body can’t handle it.

Moh247:
rape, unlawful sexual activity, most often involving sexual intercourse

Good luck proving it in a Law court that your Legally married Husband with right to Conjugal rights had "unlawful" sex with you


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There is something like this in law but Nigerians overlook it but if you go to the western world hmmm

VeryWickedMan:
Return his bride price first

I’m just creating awards because people experience this a lot. Most people enjoy sex with force and without consent in marriage and that is rape.

jeromestarks:
There can be rape even in marriage. Check the definition of rape before you come out here to spill nonsense.

they don’t want to listen.

Moh247:



There is no rape in marriage

All sex in marriage is legal conjugal rights of both parties

Did you forget your wedding vows of for better for worse

You can't even take it to court or win

If you don't want to have sex abeg stay away from marriage and quickly file for divorce

Starving your partner of sex is a sin



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most times I feel you guys are always quick to reply than comprehend the message. I’m not saying you should starve your partner of sex but there are times the other person is not feeling and can’t handle it at that time, you have to understand.

The best thing is to marry someone that understands you.

Bmaster:
this is wickedness of the highest order!
Alpha males don't beg for sex neither do they force anyone.infact...what makes them alpha us that normally they are being given sex for free,just to prove to them that they are among the 'most wanted'.
Get your facts right

nobody needs to beg for sex.

SugarGirl44:
Leave those woke people jare.
A woman who is not in the mood for sex should at least leave her husband to cheat in peace.
But these same women will fight the husbands for smiling with someone on the phone.
Very confused people that make women get mocked.

wait so anytime you need sex and your spouse is not in the mood for it, you will cheat?
Your spouse must always be available for your sexual needs?

Thegoodone13:
. You are wrong. There is no rape in marriage in Nigeria

there is actually.

kingyakos:
Tell that to your village chief

some of you lack morals. You can’t hold a little conversation without insults why?

almarthins:
The kind way wey God go take punish this generation eh.

So now if I wan jigijigi I go first prepare lengthy document and ask my wife to sign an before we can play. Make una stop this play before e go become another strange fire wey go destroy more happy homes. If I no fit enjoy my wife then I have no reason staying in the union. Make everybody park go back to their papa house like that go good.

sex is something you must talk about before marriage.

I know a lady that doesn’t like sex, imagine her marrying someone that does. What will you think will happen?

You can enjoy your wife or husband but there are times the body can’t handle it and people still force their way.

Why are you people just thinking about you and not the other person too.

drlateef:
I will never support any forced sexual intercourse at anytime. But the day a woman openly accuses the husband of rape is the day the marriage has ended.

I have a colleague that is dying in silence because of this, she can barely walk. Most times she can barely handle sex but her husband doesn’t care and force her into every time.

She is scare of speaking up.

Stronghold91:
anty you are insult to
womanhood there is nothing like
rape in marriage

can you lay your points without insults? What is the meaning of what you just said?

I’m telling you what people are experiencing.

litigator:
Madam, ya husband cannot rape you in a legal marriage.

The Matrimonial Causes Act confers him with access to conjugate with you . And you denying him this right is a grounds for divorce. He can even sue you for restoration of his conjugal right if he does not want divorce or judicial separation.

So what are you saying?

The concept of rape in marriage is not known to biblical laws, common law, statutory law and even under our native laws and custom.

I stand corrected.

Shalom

A man can rape is wife and a wife can rape the husband.

Whether married or not once the other person doesn’t consent to it or was force that is rape and can be punishable by law.

Stanleyq:
give sex, we no go gree, our men go outside, we go complain, which one we wan them do? Husband who rapes wife has to be trusted, he does nt go out for other women and conji. But some men are dogs, they can go outside in the evening, come back at night to demand 4 sex. Which way naa.

we are should marry people that understand us.

A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it.
Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.

Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.

Check this out for more detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4

Please guys check this out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4

longetivity:
He paid ur dowry nah

this is what people get worry. We’re married but you don’t own me. There is suppose to be communication where the two person agree to have sex not one person forcing himself on my because he is my husband. Sex without consent is rape.

Chaos14:
If he didn't beat you he didn't rape you.

what is rape?
When I don’t consent to sex that is rape. When you force yourself on me that is rape. It’s not until you beat a person.

Aboks:
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the video will explain better.

Helpout12345:
Another woke illusion. "My husband raped me. My wife raped me."

Everyone will get sense at last in this world.

it’s not woke illusion. You know sex without consent is rape right?

A lot of men and women don’t understand consent weather we’re married or not.

If you know the level of suffering people are undergoing you will not say it’s woke illusion.