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franchasng:
if you like eh, lick him brain comot, the moment him see new chick with big buttocks na up NEPA, and you must concur

I am not a desperate wife. I am a working,high achieving young woman. He is doing more to keep me than you can imagine.

We honour and value each other or we lose each other. Unless he wants to lose me(which I am sure he doesnt want to), there shall be no cheating.

franchasng:
ah!! Mo GBE oh














No other ex, I am her only ex oh + incumbent

Can you take what you dish to others?

franchasng:
na una mouth de make Nigerian men cheat on you people walai, see wetin you tell somebody's only son this morning

If you know all the things this mouth can do, you will know that cheating doesn't exist in his dictionary.

Enculer2:
It shows that you have not evolved fully as a human.

You are best remaining in the shit hole that you reside in.

Evolved people do not behave that way.

Lol. Evolved human sleeping with other people's husbands.
What do you mean by evoled humans and where in this world don't people call out side chicks?
Well, you can choose to have some feelings of grandiose since you are online even while typing from your one room apartment in Ajegunle. Evolved human indeed

cococandy:
Very easy. Men’s are cheap by the dozen

Look I’m not holding brief for side chicks but acting like they are the sole problem instead of the actual married men going after them is lame.

Where in my post did you see me mention them as the sole problem?
Find someone else to quote abeg.

alezzy13:
Inconvenient truth.
I'll boldly say that in well over 80% cases, the man makes the move, and can be VERRRRYY persistent.

So with persistence, the side chick MUST say Yes?

cococandy:
Married men go after them.

These women should face their husbands or get their own side dudes. It can’t be that hard

How easy?

But there are single ladies who resist attempts by married men. Everybody involved should be ready to face the heat.

PrimadonnaO:
But in truth, assaulting another person is a constitutional offence.

Plus it's really embarrassing for a wife to be seen contending with an outsider... a little desperado. Personally, I can't stoop that low. It's Amaka she's fighting today... tomorrow she'll start planning how to confront Jane... then Rita.. That's just a whole lot of headache and waste of valuable time.

I know that there are exceptions, but in my experience, it's the men who make the advances most times. I always wish girls will be wiser and more disciplined, and that the ones who wouldn't would receive full recompense for their actions.

I'll rather channel all that energy to dealing with the prostituting husband. There are so many ways to make a person sorry.

I don't agree with violence but I can't also tell a woman how to react in situations like this. I am too proud to be found in this circumstance too.

But what do you think a man would do when he meets the man sleeping with his wife at a supermarket.

PrimadonnaO:
What changed that notion for you?

Realising that the side chicks are often very deliberate in their choice of men and their ways of attracting them. They choose married men for a reason. If you choose to sleep with another woman's husband, be ready to face the embarrassment that comes with it.

I used to believe this BS about leaving the sidechick alone until recently.

Is the sidechick aware that she was fooling with a married man? Yes and that's why she deserves the heat too.

You don't come and be the reason for another woman's suffering and think you can just go scotfree. Of course she must deal with the randy husband too but anyhow she deserves to deal with the chick is ok too as long as violence is not involved.

nathaliya:
Please do this,
Close your eyes, imagine you're married with 3kids, working class lady.

- You have to dedicate time for your kids to avoid molestation that's going on, I mean our kids are a priority right
- You have to spend several hours up at night giving it to your husband the way he likes
- You have to be at work on time to make sure your career dreams are intact
- You have to bring out time to groom nails, hair, spa, shop etc so your husband won't look outside
- You have to clean the house to avoid being called a lazy woman and because these housegirls can't be trusted before they snatch your husband
- Occassionally, family and other social engagements call and you have to answer to avoid being the evil wife.

Do you really think you can keep it all up 100% ?
Which would you sacrifice? Your husband's time? Your career? Your kids time? Your your beauty time? Your social life?

How will you feel when you find out tomorrow that your husband is dating a prettier girl who doesn't do anything except treat her skin, shop for good clothes and party hard because she's better looking than you and she knows all the "latest styles" you have been too busy to notice. Or do you think you will have time to practice the new dance moves?

See, until you've been there, you can't judge.
Many women have chosen their appearances and career over kids and marital duties. They don't care of the maid snatches their husband after all they are dating someone else's husband too, they don't care if the kids don't have good grades. Should these women be the measuring rod for all women?

What do you think?

The most commonsensical post on this thread

bluebay:
That's the fact. I Am Married and i know the implication of what that Married Woman Did. She Doesn't know she can be Arrested for Assault and as well as the other lady charged with cyber stalking. I wont justify what the young lady in question but its important for Every Woman to check if her Man is Happy FIRST, before checking if he's cheating... Just Look at the Woman's Outfit sef. Some Wife can disgrce thier husband sef..

If he is spending all he has on side chicks and not his family, how easy it is for the wife to take care of herself.

Diiiamoond:
Truth be told, confronting a side chick is wrong. What about the man that couldn't control the groin between his legs? Leave that girl, the man should be blamed not the girl.

Both are to be blamed. Didn't she know he was married before opening her ass to him?

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Is this not what we expected the Nigerian Government to do? To quarantine all the people coming from largely affected places like China, Italy and Iran.

But what did they do? put surveillance bullshit to check for temperature.

The minister even spoke about them not detecting because it was in the incubation stage.


This is a failure that even a medical student was supposed to know was a possibility.

Acidosis:
Well, I haven't met any.

You"ll have to change your circle

Acidosis:
Does getting married in the first place affects her playing the role of a wife? Girlfriends and baby mamas these days okay that role so well.

The young man said seeing his wife maintain her maiden name gives him the impression he's dealing with a girlfriend. Perception is everything. He was probably raised in a family where women adopt their husbands' names. We can't influence that perception.

Do you realise that the world is changing and that not all women change their names after marriage?

Marriage is all about understanding. I believe that this is one subject that should be discussed before marriage. If the wife isn't comfortable with changing her name, the man should be understanding of her stance. Many people maintain their maiden names while still being good wives.

Shibaraba:
Question is... ..Where is that place?

Exactly!!

Acidosis:
As far as your kids bear your name 100%, you have nothing to worry about. At the end of it all, she's going to lose every damn thing should legal issues arise in the future. What this means is that only your name and, of course, those of your kids will reflect on all important documents (like properties, etc.). No right thinking man would include his in-law's name on his property. So allow her remain the outcast and stranger she was born to be.

Do you own a property or k ow how names are written on them??

Some of you just post whatever comes to your mind.

Acidosis:
What's in a name? A particular governor of a state just lost his ambition and investments over a simple stuff like "name".

Wait until you find yourself in a serious legal crisis.

Can you be smart and post on topic? Changing your names to perpetrate forgery is tantamount to changing your Father's name because you are married? or you just deliberately chose to neglect the context of my typing?

Does changing that name affect her being his wife? so, again,What is in a name?

Why stop a probe if you are innocent?

I am happy with what the courts are doing these days.

I hope that they fine all the lawyers who bring senseless cases like this to the courts. We will not take it.

Let her get a strand of the woman's hair for the DNA test. She needs to do it if truly she cries in the closet, isn't told of her sibling's wedding. What kind of a mother is that?

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Did your Father born her? why should she bear your Father's name?

What is in a name?

bukatyne:
A man that deserves the gift (wife).

I was about to reel out qualities then I realized that each woman MUST determine the man befitting for her.

If out of all the men in the world, a woman marries an agbero or drunkard or abusive man, she has told us that is who befits her.

Who then am I to say he doesn't?

Isn't that a bit contradictory? You posted a thread on the qualities that make a woman a gift to her husband then come up to say it's individualistic for men.

There's a whole lot wrong with pushing ideas of what makes a good wife because it doesn't always come in the ways that you define it. Some women do these and more without finding their husbands' goodwill whereas some other women don't even care and gt all the love and affection.

There are men who don't care for some of the things you wrote above. Pressurising other women to appear in certain ways or form to appeal to men is simply annoying.

Each person needs to understnad their partners and their love language. That's all.

You push women to try to attain certain ideas of beauty and appear like the perfect wife even if they are not cut out for it but when it comes to men, it suddenly becomes individualistic.

vickydevoka:
I see. As u have insulted wats ur gain. Nothing buh hell. I would advise u to stop quoting people in an offensive manner

No. You are the one likely to rot in hell for posting what you have no proof for.

You lack conscience too

This news is old. The issues are already being resolved

vickydevoka:
Go read am back to back. U fit download as u claim say u get internet

You are just one of those foolish people who post unverified things on the internet. You can't prove it and that's just it. Stop spewing thrash.

vickydevoka:
U get Koran for house

What kind of a question is that in this century when everything is on the internet.

vickydevoka:
Islam doesn't prohibit begging. It allows those whom are less privilege or with disability to beg

Prove it

Why are they not protesting in their various states. Why come to lagos to decry unemployment. na wa o.

There are many Igbo Muslims. I have heard about many of them.

Religion or tribe shouldnt be dividing us. We are all feeling this scorching heat together aren't we? We should be thinking of progressive ideas to help our Country move forward.

It's bad.

Very Bad