₦airaland Forum

wisdomiskey:
Hmm, you are very correct.

dumbass man.

I understand how you feel. For so long after my wedding, I couldn't forgive a few people who didn't do what I wanted. In the eyes of others though, I had the most beautiful wedding .

I have learnt to forgive and move on. The wedding is for a day but the marriage is life long. Focus on the marriage and realise that she won't be able to handle similar projects in the future and give her the required support when the time comes.

There is no perfect family. Learn from the mistakes of your parents and do better.

I don't know what I would have changed. My parents are not perfect but I love them anyway. As we grew older, we spoke to them and still speak with them about things we didn't and don't like. Sometimes, they make ammends but most times, they don't. There's a possibility that your Children may in the future find faults in what you are doing now.

Forgive them. Try to talk to them about the effects of what they are doing to you. Hopedully things will get better.

wisdomiskey:
I won't coz men are always right!

Na una dey lie pass.

Just take that Queeny girl for example, crying and accusing a guy of rape only for us to find out that she's a cheap prosttii who over-priced her used up psleeve

I so much dislike men on this forum who go up and down arguing with women on threads like this.

shouldn't you be busy making money for your family somewhere. Or you are hoping for a sugar mommy to take care of your life expenses.

notoracism:
Yes, he has other responsibilities and we are in it together. We have a project, he tends to put all his money there and leave me to also contribute to the project and do other things at home too. For like a year now I earn more, atimes depending on the contract, far more. But before this time I do it myself and now same.

This year I have not bought anything tangible at home because we wanted to complete a project, in the course of the whole stuff he got some extra cash and we needed bedsheets and also reminded him of TV, that's after buying sofa, I thought he'd joyfully buy them but no way, he was giving excuses. I bought bedsheets cos I can't stand sleeping on old and bad looking bedsheets or not having extra to change to.

Jumia black Friday came and he asked me to order for TV without making the cash transfer first, now he said he is not buying if I don't buy it. Am not a TV person cos I get busy always so that living room can stay as long as I don't care. My kids have theirs. So shameful but he careless.

Is the project in his name or yours?

chatinent:
He may not be buying things you wished for but has other many responsibilities you really haven't noticed are numerous.


It is not easy to be a man.


Have you tired talking it over with him? .. at least hearing his own side of this handicaps?

You may be sorry to understand what he'll say.

You are doing great in remembering what is needed. Just do your best.


Marriage is beautiful where understanding stands as its citadel.

Thanks.

A man's first responsibility is his home. From the post, she already made it clear that she mentioned it to him. Stop making excuses for him.

But you can eat chicken?

Wealth is oozing from the puctures . But the rich also cry and die!!

Live well. Kullu nafsin zaiqatul mawt.

W

Soon, he will use you for juju.

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

Internet should not be for idiotss. Because some people said this or that on nairaland, you decided to believe it is so about all women including your friends.

Don't take everything you read here seriously. Most of you are kids sha.

These bus preachers have moved to Nairaland. They constantly derail threads with bible verses.
Seun pls take note.

What I noticed about these devout Christians is their lack of compassion.

You know close to nothing about this man but you'r pained his family gave him a Christian burial.

He was said to have had an accident. What if it affected his brain and his sense of reasoning.
Would suicide still have counted as a sin in that situation? and what if the media reports are wrong?

You lot should have sense. No be by force to comment.

Curvinus:
Op what really is your problem? This colleague of yours, in your own words, was throwing herself at you all these while and you refused to escalate, probably thinking you would forever remain the hot shiit.

Now a better guy with bigger cash, bigger prospects and dare I say better looking is captivating her attention, which is perfectly natural and understandable and here you are opening thread and whining like a stupid loser.

You need to understand that in this life, you either move quickly or you get left behind.

So quit with the attitude and be happy for your colleague who obviously has met a man of her dreams.

And for your information, red pill is also about being a master of your emotions and accepting when you are outgunned in a competition.

But here you are sulking and throwing your feelings all over the place like a pathetic little man.

Now as a rational being, your colleague obviously realising that youre buthurt and jealous, is trying to kiss up you.

Yet you are still acting all matcho and tough, despite having been effectively displaced by an alpha top dog.

ill advise you to suck it up and move on rather than this pointless and laughable attempt at power struggle.

This expresses my thoughts perfectly.

I was laughing reading the thread. These red pillers are obviously young boys.

Throwing tantrums like a kid instead of facing the issue square -on. Acting all emotional and thinking he is an Alpha by so doing


Lol..lemme keep reading for more laughs.

Nazgul:
Charge him with being a nuisance to public peace. He's bothering his wife. Opening a file of 5k in a police station will see them deal with him terribly.

And knowing our our police, they can even change the charge to rape, so as to get more bail funds from him. By the time he's done paying himself out from their net, even if the wife greets him, he won't respond.

See nonsense o. This is how you empower the police to maltreat fellow Nigerians. Later you will shout #Endsars

okiki20593:
V*gina people dun do this one strong thing..

Y'all don't have sense. Posting v****up and down. If women were doing the opposite, posting about your phallus. How would you feel?

Do you have respectable women in your family at all? Because if you do, you would act differently.

olujastro:
This answers your questions.
They’re just testing for now with one service from Monday - Friday. Train departs Ibadan for Lagos at 8am and also departs Lagos for Ibadan at 4pm

Thank You. Please let us know when it becomes fully operational.

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Can you explain to us how it operates? I have seen many posts about the Rail line but none has actually explained the operations.

The time they leave Lagos, get to Ibadan or leave Ibadan to Lagos. Do they stop over in Abeokuta and do people board in Abeokuta or disembark there. Where are the stations located?

What time does the train leave Lagos or get to Ibadan and vice versa.

There should be more to news than just showing us pictures all the time.

mods lalasticlala mynd44 seun should take note

Ajibel:
The best bet for Tinubu is to support one of his protege - Osinbajo for presidency.

Why are you acting like Osinbajo is not a part of this present government that brought us to where we are now.

Osinbajo my foot.

SeunWedsLinda:
bro. I used to have this mindset but some things are out of the ordinary.

Everybody is facing difficulties at this time. Ups and downs are part of life.


I still never underatand the belief in "men of God". These people are human just like you are.

Don't lose a good woman to these scammers. Many families have been broken because of these 'prophecies'.

faithful2911:
Congrats!

I now fvck raw because I'm on Prep since last two months.

You can get the drug in pharmacy is just 5k, you can also get the drug for free if you have connections otherwise they only give it to health workers.

Goodluck.


Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is when people at risk for HIV take daily medicine to or preventthe HIV. PrEP can stop HIV from taking andhold and spreading throughout your body. When taken daily, PrEP is highly effective for preventing HIV from sex or injection drug use. PrEP is much less effective when it is not taken consistently.
Studies have shown that PrEP reduces the risk of getting HIV from sex by about 99% when taken daily. Among people who inject drugs, PrEP reduces the risk of getting HIV by at least 74% when taken daily.


emtricitabine/tenofovir (truvada ).



The same drug is also used to prevent HIV.

modified
For those quoting me out of ignorance. There's a difference between PreP and PEP. PreP is 99.9% effective against HIV even couples use it to produce negative babies when one partner is positive.
Also there is a very strong PEP against all bacterial infections.


Oral se.x only carries hypothetical risk(theoretical risk), in reality the risk is almost zero.
Even if you kiss 1000 people you can't contract HIV.

You are one of the problems of this Country. And shamelessly so. Buying what is meant to be free for a specific kind of the populace and promoting it to others. I am sure you were shouting #endsars some weeks ago. Shame on you.

faithful2911:
Congrats!

I now fvck raw because I'm on Prep since last two months.

You can get the drug in pharmacy is just 5k, you can also get the drug for free if you have connections otherwise they only give it to health workers.

Goodluck.


Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is when people at risk for HIV take daily medicine to prevent HIV. PrEP can stop HIV from taking hold and spreading throughout your body. When taken daily, PrEP is highly effective for preventing HIV from sex or injection drug use. PrEP is much less effective when it is not taken consistently.
Studies have shown that PrEP reduces the risk of getting HIV from sex by about 99% when taken daily. Among people who inject drugs, PrEP reduces the risk of getting HIV by at least 74% when taken daily.


emtricitabine/tenofovir (truvada ).



The same drug is also used to prevent HIV.

modified
For those quoting me out of ignorance. There's a difference between PreP and PEP. PreP is 99.9% effective against HIV even couples use it to produce negative babies when one partner is positive.
Also there is a very strong PEP against all bacterial infections.


Oral se.x only carries hypothetical risk(theoretical risk), in reality the risk is almost zero.
Even if you kiss 1000 people you can't contract HIV.

You are one of the problems of this Country. And shamelessly so. Buying what is meant to be free for a specific kind of the populace and promoting it to others. I am sure you were shouting #endsars some weeks ago. Shame on you.

See where he was proposing sef..lol


women rule the world!!

illicit:
The older generation is Nigerias problem

They keep blaming the youth when they are the problem.

Yet not many have been jailed for corruption. How do we leave this shitty cycle of corruption if the judiciary won't sit up.

Freedom is a good thing especially if the marriage was bad.

Are you we? are we you?

Las las, you will choose the one with the biggest booty.

Policemen in this Country have never been known to be of integrity.

Why should they continue to head an anticorruption agency.

The corruption in the Police itself is worrisome. Their boys are still collecting bribe in broad daylight and killing fellow Nigerians without any real change being effected by the leadership. Why should we trust them to lead a fight on anti corruption? We need to do better.

wonder233:
What is making me laugh is how some members of the public who aren't politicians are arguing for why godfathers should be worshipped and not fought. You hear them saying things like "loyalty" "outshining your master" etc.
The same masses who are suffering bad governance and undemocratic practices are vehemently defending their oppressors.

You took the words out of my mind.

Abiola was alive until this man got to power.


He is also the 'deal-maker' for corrupt people.


He must think he is a cunningly good man. But God sees all and will judge all the people who have kept this nation in this present state.

Eberybody ahould carry their own bag. What is the fuss about?

Most people talk about money in reference to the man's money.

All I know is, I am happy spending my own money. I am much happier knowing that my own money can get me most of the things I want.

When my husband spends, it's a plus. Most of the things that make me happy in my marriage aren't because of money. I was making good money even before I met my man.

KanwuliaExtra:
This woman reminds me of one “NL Self-Appointed-Family-Therapist”. A self-righteous, sanctimonious PEDAGOGUE! Reeks of hypocrisy and never minds her phocking business!

A spiritual gossip with a mouth piece shaped like the ANUS of her GOD!

The only difference is that this WENDY is a SECULAR gossip!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLjY_3SLQV0

As u no com mention name, how we 4 know?

I am guessing it's that one that called herself babymama among other different monikers. Claimed to be married to a Doctor in the USA.