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She seems reasonable from your post.

For whatever reason she chose to leave the man, she has the right to. She is even returning the dowry. He should collect it.

About the visitation, both of them should decide on what is suitable to them both. Nothing wrong with the man going to see them at her place or them visiting him. It has to be a joint decision.

na Nairaland username o.

If he is really serious about finding out, he should have by now but he keeps asking me and I keep on not telling him.

My❤

same person that oncw asked, "Do you believe in Corona Virus'?

sisisioge:
Done explaining my stance... Arindin banza.

Oponu oshi. Keep on typing from your one room basement.

Wicked thing.

sisisioge:
Really? And you decided to haul insults at me like that? Whew! So many cretins claiming adults. You are ridiculously stiiipid! Didirin omo!

Someone needed to point it out to you.

You are the dindirin here who thinks a mother should share her own child and is stupid enough to come back and gloat because things turned out worse.

Very foolish being.

sisisioge:
Wawi! So it came to that! The last time you brought this story here, I advised that you allow her assess to you baby by sharing with her. I didn't even say gift her the baby as a whole but share like anyone sensitive to the other woman's plight would be. But no o, your other motherly sisters were attacking me saying I was asking you to gift your child to another. See now. No issues would have arose if you were just nice enough to allow her continue to be your baby's nanny until she gets tired of the stress of the unpaid service, given that you still have a multitude to care for. It was a very simple solution where everyone wins.

Anyways, it is time to woman up towards your responsibilities. You can't be living in free accommodation plus free whatever join while spiting your benefactor. And you can't of course be forced to completely give up your child...Infact, she shouldn't actually want anything to do with you and your children again. The insult and spite from you was just too much!

May God bless everybody with what their heart desires...who knows, they here can gather money for you to get you started, but it won't measure to what that woman you were spiteful towards has given you and your family so far.

Let me add that if you eventually get a job, you may be required to leave your baby with a nanny or whoever while you're out like most working class women do. That's like some 8 hours of someone else "sharing" your baby with you o. Anyways, let's hope for the best. You should do a business that allows you be with the child 24/7.

I'm sorry, I get so unglued when women are especially nasty to one another when it comes to child bearing. Good luck.

You are very dumb.
One would think the essence of a Forum like this is the knowledge that comes from ideas sharing. You chose to be stupid, sticking to the ideas that many have told you are wrong.

You are equating a nanny's attachment to an emotional attachment?

The likes of you are the ones that scald your housemaids because you can't be bothered, even making jest of her unfortunate situation.

Chiomamoses:
Good morning everybody I haven’t been able to come online for a long time cos a lot it’s happening right now, my husband people are forcing me to give my baby to my co wife cos they have said we have many children and we should help and give them one , my husband agreed but I have refused to give my baby away to her I told them my sister in law also has 7 children and why can’t she give them one of her children and why just me , everybody in the family are against me and they are not talking to me. She is now treating me badly reminding me that it’s her house and I should leave . I keep calm and watching everything like a fool but I am not a fool , I decided After this quarantine I will pack my things and kids and leave for my sister place until I get my own place and hubby can join us if he likes

You must protect your children by all means. People don't take care of other people's children as their own. your child needs motherly care and love. If she needs to adopt, she should do it the proper way through Government agencies.

Isn't the end of the stupid story obvious.

I don't know who deserves the monica more. Op or those who commented before me?

Side Chicks are single because they don't want to date broke guys in their league but looking for made men up and down.There are as much single women as men. There just aren't as much desperate men for marriage as women.

@lalasticlala You should have added Americam presidential race. This is a Nigerian Forum. It is only a Nigerian News that should be reported in this manner.

cc @seun

1 litre bawo? na only pata dem de wash?

There's no way they won't be using as much as 50 litres of water. The machine is not built to conserve water or soap.

When you love someone, these things won't matter.

It's the poor child you brought into this that I pity.

Professorcplus:
Why is this Coronavirus not killing our cooperate thief disguised as politicians

corporate

He sounded like an illiterate.


Audio Governor. His supporters will soon know whatsup come 2023.

U1:
S'oro niyen? Only if you have an idea of how much that costs in Lagos, where most workers probably don't earn more than 50k a month. Guess that horde has no business with marriage then.

Must you live in Lagos? So you will born pikin and be forking in their presence.

Shameless lot.

If you can't afford a two bedroom apartment rent, you have no business getting married.

You identifies your problems and preferred solutions. I don't know what you need people's advice for when you already advised yourself.

Women should train their daughters to have a high self esteem.

He treats you like trash but thinks he is doing you a favour.

You even call stupid family members who further choose his side and nudge him on. To hell with all of them.

I'd rather die in poverty than let anyone treat me like this but I won't die in poverty for that's the reason I work fkn hard.

OP is very calm. This explains why the woman must have taken him for a ride. Many women treat good men badly which is very unfortunate.

If I were you, there is no forgiving this woman. She must go with her son and I will fight tooth and nail to keep my daughter from such a bad influence.

Like someone said, give her the benefit of doubt and do maternity test to be sure the baby was not swapped. If baby was not swapped, nothing she says will hold water.

Was she a virgin when you married her?

This looks interesting.

People act like Family Planning is not an option. Only Young couples should be growing belle in the coming months.

Others should take that pill, injection or implant. Or let Oga learn to withdraw or use condom.

This is exactly how it spreads. Some people will run to the village and take the virus there with them, putting the poor people at risk.


Stay where you are.

Thank You for sharing.

What about those who will use the opportunity to bond and sort out their differences?

Some marriages will be stronger.

The pictures are uninspiring. Try and get better jobs posted. Just my advice

CsRockefeller:


You have no idea.

Just for the records, i didnt count any shi*t and this is d first time i viewed her status in months.

So why trying to male her appear bad by saying she has had 20 boyfriends, she is fat, etc

Just move on for real and stop lying to yourself.

From your post, you have plans of controlling her. That's not healthy for any relationship. Marry her if you can see her as a partner or mate.


If you keep on with this controlling attitude, she will leave you.

CsRockefeller:
She's now really fat. Far from the slim and fit lady i used to know.

Also, she's now with a different BF, probably the no 20.

You have moved on for over 6years but remained a monitoring spirit, even counting her number of boyfriends..lol

It's obvious She is better of without you.

Jonathan39:
Perv kill you there. Answer my question or remain silent. Hypocrite

Idiot.

You think I am like your sisters?

Jonathan39:
Are you a Virgin?

So you can masturbate over my answer?

Perv

This is not incest. You are not related by blood. So, you can have the baby. But you lack the funds to care for one or even for yourself.


You should not have engaged in sex when you are not married. and if at all you choose to, you should have protected yourself.

I hope this serves as a lesson to others.

That's all I have to say.

Today I saw a few people putting on face masks. Others carry on as if nothing is happening.

Wouldn't you rather apper crazy than be a part of the statistics?

STAY AT HOME. But if you won't, protect yourself.

I saw parents taking their children to the markets. They are out of school so that you can keep them AT HOME.

Some people are wearing gloves which is absolutely unnecessary if you would still use the gloves to press your phone , hold your steering or touch things in the market. It is preferable that you use your hands and then wash those hands often and as well use hand sanitisers. Your gloves can become another conduit for spreading the virus if you won't constantly wash them or use hand sanitisers.

Stay safe and keep others safe please.