₦airaland Forum

Kendroid:
Pls tell us which of them should be buried first and the year suitable with you so we can bury the other!

You no get sense. Or is this normal where you come from for both parents to die at the same time?

Sad. Why are both Parents being buried on the same day?

They are at risk of suffocation, especially the Children.

Where is Iara Oshiomhole?

Lassa Fever is a type of Haemorrhagic Fever first discovered in Nigeria in the 1960s.

Since then Lassa Fever has affected Nigerians around this time of the year on an almost annual basis(@least I am aware of the last 3 years). The incidence has increased over time and this present outbreak has been more than recorded in the past.

Worse about this is how many Doctors and Nurses have lost their lives to this deadly Virus.

However, Nigerians have been more fixated about talking of Coronavirus than this Lassa fever that has affected their own people more than anybody else.

By now, after about 40years, shouldn't we have developed an action plan against Lassa Fever, done a lot of research, developed vaccines and even created protocols for easy identification, quarantine, diagnosis and effective treatment of people who have this killer disease.

It is sad that to get protective equipment for health Workers is war and some people who come with similar symptoms to Lassa fever can not be treated because health workers don't have what they need to protect themselves.

I sat with a friend of mine who works in one of the Federal Health Institutions. He lamented about this lack of necessary materials to help them care for these patients. I looked in the news and realise that the silence is loud. How many posts have we seen on front page about Valentine and even about coronavirus but our fellow Country men are dying because we fail to do what is right.

The Government should do more about this Lassa fever and protect the remaining Doctors and Nurses who have not left this Country.


Lalasticlala

stop leaving your Children with people.

Sankabson:
If im to be that husband. I'll send you and your husband. You're a bad energy in that House.


If You dont like sharing things, You and your husband should find some else to stay. People like You deserve to be seriously dealt with.


You're wicked and selfish!!

You called a child a thing. Some of you are senseless. She should share her child like a toy abi.

sisisioge:
Another solution...nah, she declared that she's not sharing. While it is most understandable that OP's fertility or fertility struggle of her SIL isn't OP's fault, being a bit sensitive would have helped. Instead of outrightly banning her from picking her child, she could just have suggested this your advise up there. Anyways, I continue to find her action insensitive... My opinion remains the same.

By the way, I wasn't asking her to terminate her pregnancies or donate her baby to the SIL...I was just advocating sharing to ease this woman's pain now. Jeez...may God bless everyone looking to be fruitful with their own babies.

I wish the SIL good fortune with her next pregnancy and hope the OP will change her ways.

Do you have Children? You sound like you don't. She actually doesn't owe the other woman anything. What do you mean by sharing? Sharing her own Child? You'r highly deluded.

This is how Ebola and Corona virus came about.


Let's be guided please

Dollabiz:
pastors and imams are like politicians,they spend your tithes on massive mansions,fly abroad with members offering also enjoys your wife and fresh daughter toto

Where do you see Imams collecting tithe?

My grouse is with the stupid women recording him. In their mind now, supporting the paator is more important than siding with the truth.

See the grown ass men also downing it down. Man is pained by this pastor trying to destroy his family and especially his daughter's life but I am sure the silly grown men in this video will keep going to that Church.

The immorality in Christianity today is beyond words can express.

She is the best person to discuss with. You need to decide on the type of marriage you want.

If it's a 50-50partnership, You will have to discuss with her which means that you'll have to share the chores and other responsibilities as well.

But if she is brought up with the mentality that you must provide all for her, It's still up for discussions between you too. You might ask her to be understanding of your financial situation and see reason with you. But don't force the opinion o her.

yvelchstores:
Stupid fake story. U supposedly married at 24 and your wife at 20. Then you have twins, age 1.
If u have been childless for 11 years, one year is too quick to kill all your joy from father hood to embrace cheating.

I am suspecting nl now hires ppl to post captivating but FAKE stories cos the kind of stories I see these days, are playing with my intelligence.

The traffic in the section has reduced overtime. The heat this place used to generate was very high. The need for traffic maybe the cause of these thoughtless posts.

See us comenting as desired.

BRATISLAVA:
It's usually women who have hatred for in-laws. Most men don't really care provided they are not a drain on family finances.
Women: what do they want? They scooped my food. They sweated in the wrong place.
Man: how much will this cost?

The reason men don't have a problem is the woman's family always respect their daughter's husband. They treat him with respect and all join hands in caring for his needs.

But what do the men's relatives do to the woman? Complain about everything she does, disrespect her, compete unnecessarily with her and create issues for her where there is none.

Mumu People full this thread especially page 0.

Your relatives can't have their own homes abi. They must come and live with your wife and impose stupidd expectations on her.

You forget that the family you create with her will bear forth Children, your own Children.This is how some of you die young, creating unnecessary problems for your families in the guise of being 'men'.

No one is saying that you should stop relating with your parents and siblings. After all your wife has them too but there must be boundaries.

Your Mother as well as all of your siblings have their marriages to face and see as priority. You have to prioritise your own marriage and family otherwise you would be making grave mistakes.

If you say your siblings suffered with you, didn't her own siblings suffer too. This is the lamest line of reasoning I ever heard. Was she eating sand before you met her?

Many of you are better unmarried and I pity the unfortunate women that end up with you

mimimile93:
my mom over my wife anytime any day.

Of course .

You are just too stipid to realise that there is no comparison between your wife and mother.

Two very different people with different roles and positions in your life.
You have to learn to put each person in their places while as well building a firm bridge between them and maintaining respect.

This is your child, not hers.

Your Children, your rules. If you allow her now, you will continue to endure her excessiveness.

You owe her nothing biblically. She can come after your bonding timeline. Face your marriage, let her face hers.

There are always cheat days when you work out. Even cheat months. Women also use pregnancy period to indulge very well without being judged.

Even your subscribers are eating very frequently. You can't come and kill yourself.

But there was a case of Lassa fever.

The Christians here are too bitter to do same

ffg

Why did the Buhari Government not continue the almajiri schools the GEJ Government was building for the Northern Children?

I now believe in this agenda of keeping their masses uneducated for political benefits. Ganduje is building bridges for future illiterates, dullards and miscreants when these monies can go into protecting the Country's future through education and rehabilitation.

May God help us o

The only thing you can do is forgive him and please try to forget.

Call Him.


It's hard and sad. I was recently in a similar situation but what did I do? I tried to remember all the other good things and not allow satan(shaytan) take advantage of this single incidence to create bad blood between my folks and I.

From what you have mentioned, he sent you to school and made you what you are today. Remember that some people never had a parent to do that for them.

Be grateful, forgive and forget. Have the conversation with him, let him know how you feel and also let him know that you forgive him.

tianshie:
I went to secondary school with Eze. His father, Thaddeus, fought in the Biafra war. What we know about his father's wartime experience is that the war ended for Thaddeus when he was wounded in Onitsha in 1968. He came home.

Recently a man from Eze's father's village who had fought the war with Thaddeus told my friend's mother (on the phone) that actually Thaddeus died in the war. This man had fled to Gabon after the war. He'd just returned to the country.

Since the news broke, Thaddeus hasn't been seen. He'd been in the bathroom when my friend's mother took the call on the phone. After the call, my friend and his mother could hear the splash of water in the bathroom, but when they opened the door there was no one there!

What advice do you have for the family? I've never heard sh*t like this before!!

That's the work of jinns.

Why didnt she open up before marriage? She is deceptive.

But Pastor be promising others fruit of the womb. Believe them at your own peril

She is sad that her husbamd is that creepy dude eveybody was disgusted about.

How embarrassing to realise that she married this guy that they all joked and made fun of.

Your past annoys her. In her shoes, I would be sad too. But it's not enough to leave an otherwise good marriage unless things have been rocky.

All the rights and attention Aisha has been fighting for.

herzernIsHere:
Marriage, the scam institution people venture into so :

they don't get bored at old age

they get constant sex

they get someone to cook and wash

The reason married men and women go about chanting on all social media platforms about their wonderful marriage and how bachelors/spinsters are missing out is because misery loves company.

Believe them at your own peril.

You raised valid points for marriage. Why would you not want any of the above. And what benefits in choosing to remain single supercede the above points.

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

There is nothing worse than unreciprocated love. I have been there and know what it feels like. You need to let him know how you feel and if it is time he needs, you need that reassurance. Fact is, nothing can keep you from people you truly love.He can't be too busy if he teuly lovea you. There is no joy in having lots of money and being in a loveless relationship. Many women married to rich men cry to sleep daily.

So please don't listen to people who think that the money he gives you supercedes the attention you crave. They are speaking from a poverty driven mindset.

I had to log in on realising tpia is still alive