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Romance › Re: What Is Your Craziest Sexual Experience? Mature Minds Only by xendra: 10:45am On Feb 27, 2016
Synzu:
Lies from the pit of hell!
We all know you're a chronic masturbator and still a virgin.
lwkm .ooo
Christianity Etc › Re: 1 Million Naira To Whoever Can Prove Any Of The Following by xendra: 10:14am On Feb 27, 2016
Assuming after all this, people will stop wishing me happy new week on mondays and happy weekend Friday through Sunday, then i will see the need for this argument.
Celebrities › Re: Fans React To Lucy-Candy-May, Paul Okoye's RudeBoyRecords Artiste by xendra: 9:45am On Feb 27, 2016
No offence oo, its probably just me, but she looks like a Transgender
Romance › Re: I Was Not Honest About my age And Now My Man Wont Forgive Me by xendra: 8:59am On Feb 27, 2016
Mimido2:
my dear he does not love u....he is just using d "lying issue" to get rid of u. Just forget about him.
This is the TRUTH.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 1:45pm On Feb 25, 2016
wristbangle:
It's women like you that makes men die before their time
Oh! so na death you dey fear? better man up and take responsibility. stop looking for who to share.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 11:21am On Feb 25, 2016
wristbangle:
From the comments gathered from ladies, we guys are scared to venture into marriage because it seems ladies mentality are lazy and always depending on guys for everything. Smh undecided
ehn! pls stay single, you never ready for marriage. It is men like you that make women regret marriage.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 10:27am On Feb 25, 2016
dumie:
Apparently any man that sits to write all these is obviously a lazy Toyboy gold digger without any percentage of accomplishments which speaks volumes..just lazy loafers.
hehehe.. I see you see what I see.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 10:23am On Feb 25, 2016
wristbangle:
A frustrated and very stingy wife spotted cool
hehe.. I am not close to being frustrated or stingy, I just don't like lazy men
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 10:20am On Feb 25, 2016
tosyne2much:
Now you admit men are superior to women? I thought some ladies are always advocating gender equality cheesy
Superior? of course, If he wants to be, but we can also take that responsibility if he decides not to.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 10:15am On Feb 25, 2016
sunmarouk:
treatment from a wife can keep a man away from other ladies..and he knows I dnt bother about such stuff.Life continues!

since Ur heart is already programed not to care, when ur husband is ready to leave U, he will do so, then U become a single mother with kids, nd ur life also continues. Imagine U dont care if ur marriage breaks up. The end result would be u getting married again to a second hand man(or as some1 second wife), and continue giving birth like fowl everywhere. Ah, women are th root of evil in this world
And you forget that the women in your life started with your mother.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 10:12am On Feb 25, 2016
tosyne2much:
Madam, take it easy... Why are you so pained? cheesy
Me pained? you wish. its just another lazyman statement to make women start doing things for you na, to start sharing in your responsibility. shey when its time to carry pregnancy and take care of the kids you guys don't mind sharing too.
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by xendra: 9:54am On Feb 25, 2016
wristbangle:
It perplexes me when a lady often nags and finds fault in everything just because her boyfriend is going through difficult time but the moment he climbs the ladder of success and achieves greatness, she will start being tolerant and nice even though she has been a nagging girlfriend.

When this character is noticed in a lady, it should ring a bell to guys that careful tactful need to be employ when dealing with such lady.

Below are the evidences that shows a lady will become very stingy when you marry her.

1. She presents inferior gifts to her boyfriend

For a lady who present inferior gifts such as N100 recharge card, mallam perfume, slippers, china boxers and singlets as birthday gift for her boyfriend shows that she will become a stingy and disastrous wife. It's a shameful thing to see how some ladies treat their boyfriends like a worthless dog hereby presenting an inferior gift to a guy who went extra mile to please them during their birthday celebration.

2. She doesn't want to lose anything

According to Prof Tosyne2much, he opined that some ladies are so stingy that they share similar characteristics with our policemen. When you visit them, you will be the one to spend, when they visit you, you will still be the one to spend. These kind of ladies are stingy and will contribute nothing in marriage.

3. She always claim to be broke

A lady who always claims to be broke at all time when her account is actually fat indicates that the probability is high for her to become a home wrecker. Such ladies are only interested in what a guy can offer financially but immediately things turn sour, you won't see their brake light again.

4. I can't spend on guys

It's a huge blow on ladies whose brains are wired to the belief that financial responsibilities and pressure should only be mounted on guys while the ladies go about flexing. As a result of this, many of them see marriage as a route to escape from poverty. Some of them will even say that they can never call a guy who sends them recharge card (what a wack mentality). These kind of ladies can't help build a home.

5. She can't Lend her Boyfriend Money

It's very shameful that many useless ladies always claim that they can't respect their boyfriends if they borrow him money. This is nothing but bullshit. The last time I check, relationship is give and take and it should emanate from both side. Never even consider walking down the aisle with such a lady.

6. She hates the idea of doing dutch on dates

I have seen cases where some stingy ladies grumble and murmur like children of Israel saying that their boyfriends do not love them just because their boyfriends demanded that the bill be splitted and paid by each party when on date. These categories of ladies will end up causing problems in the family as they are stubborn headed to pool resources together.

7. She's desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income

I don't really blame guys who are bent on not disclosing their monthly income to their girlfriend, this is because many ladies are only curious to know so that they will know how to bring up cooked up stories to scam him. Survey has it that any lady who is desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income is nothing but a selfish lady. Desist from such a lady.

8. She wants everything for free

They always advocate no sex before marriage yet they want everything for free while they are not ready to pay a sacrifice. However, ladies who want everything on a platter of gold need to understand that a guy will never cherish you if you are always at the receiving end. Guys like it when they beg a lady to accept their money or gifts. Ladies of this nature will become stingy wives.
RUBBISH, Oya go marry the one that is not stingy then...
Celebrities › Re: "The Night Jesus Spoke To Me"- Charly Boy Reveals by xendra: 4:41pm On Feb 23, 2016
hehehe...I just want to type lol to all the comment on this thread.

still looking like this, If this man opens a church 2moro and starts performing miracle Nigerians will still flood the venue. especially this once saying God can use anybody. forgetting that people change when they encounter God. I don't believe anyone that claims they encounter God and remained the same.
Romance › Re: Naija Ladies Before You All Turn To Old Single Cargoes-time For Reality Check by xendra: 4:57am On Feb 23, 2016
These are the kind of nonsense people like you have told some ladies that made them end up in the wrong marriages. who said a 35yrs old lady cant find love and be happier in marriage than that her friend that married at 20 and is practically eating shit? this is what bad men say when they don't want to change,to get ladies to want to keep them despite their misbehaviours. and some ladies will do so much to keep a man that is not worth anybody's attention. l believe some women are better of being single than the excuse for marriage they are in.
Romance › Re: Matters by xendra: 4:39am On Feb 23, 2016
ghostmist:
I'm surprised that everyone keeps referring to the young man's dream with that ignoble word "SMALL".
How do you think Oyahkilome,Oyedepo, Adeboye TB Joshua e.t.c all started?
DESPISE NOT THE DAYS OF SMALL BEGINNINGS...
OP, break up with him because your dreams are not compatible; and not because he is a bad person or because you think he is aiming too low.
in his breasts burns the fire of God. Do not douse those flames. He needs someone with a similar passion for the things of God. You just happen not to be that person. That doesn't mean you are a bad person. From your post i can infer that you are a good hearted upwardly mobile young lady.
He has chosen his course in life. Choose yours.
I don't remember any of these men of God you mentioned, remaining under their biological father waiting to inherit his dream. and did you read her story well? from what I understand his father makes decisions for them, among other things. and so far, he doesn't seem to want anything else except subjecting himself and her to that life he alone desires. This isn't just about small beginnings, it is about long term desire. Anyway....I have called it what I would, you call it what you would. plus nobody called anybody a bad person.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Always Take Advantage Of Women by xendra: 8:51pm On Feb 21, 2016
richyblink1:
What exactly was in your mind when you gave a total stranger's call card to your friend?

His perception about you changed when your so called friemd tried swindling him of his money.
Most times we believe friends acts in agreement
Na lie oo nothing like perception. I helped a man get accommodation for a night once, because he told a pathetic story of how he had to overspend money and now dont have enough money to get a place for the night cos he didnt know his journey will turn out the way it did. and he turned around and said "I am really grateful for this. if it not for you i wld not have a place to sleep this night.you know what I would like to repay you, be my girl" as if he was doing me a favour, and this was a married man...or maybe he taught i helped him because of the story he told me of how he is actually a millionaire during the day but broke at night cos dats all i heard in his story ...anyway perception or not, men dont just help women anymore.
Romance › Re: Unbelievable Story Of A Cruel Manipulator by xendra: 5:35pm On Feb 21, 2016
ronald4lif:
Exactly my thought as I was reading through and I'm surprised you're just the only one who spotted the incongruity in the story.

How can he not have observed that she's got no other friend on Facebook but him? No likes, no comments, no updates and if there was any no comment on them? Doesn't sound true.

And even if it did happen then the lady isn't that smart after all. She could have created bogus fb accounts just to comment and like her pictures. Story is concocted.
hnm hnm..seems like she is the smarter one here, since she didn't even have to go tru that stress for the guy to believe. this story sounds somehow to me. lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Unbelievable Story Of A Cruel Manipulator by xendra: 5:26pm On Feb 21, 2016
Victoriousvic:
So, none of the facebook pictures and posts were ever liked and He didn't notice that?!
Hmmm! I wanted to ask dsame thing o...no likes no comment. and he was still feeling.......anyway me don't know what to say o
Romance › Re: You Know She Is Your Crush, So U Took Your Chance And Ask Her Out She Says.... by xendra: 3:11pm On Feb 21, 2016
Cholls:
my brother i can guaranty you no babe on this earth will turn your request down if you own one of this...

Pagani Huayra
haha...I wanted to say forget it and then i saw the car and went wow! ....but seriously forget it, Material things don't take first place as far as I am concern.
Romance › Re: What Advice Would You Give This Young Lady? by xendra: 2:49pm On Feb 21, 2016
rosalieene:
Please I need your candid advice. Before
my marriage last year december, I have
a guy that I was dating, he was good and
caring and promised me marriage but
not financially ready. September last
year I went for a friend wedding and I
mate this guy who happens to be my
husband now. At the wedding we
discovered we are from the same village.
After talking we exchange contactand I
had nothing in mind. After sometimes
the guy started calling and texting me.
Telling me that he has always wanted to
marry someone from our village that he
would like to marry me, I told him I have
someone already. He said he would give
me time to think about it. After a week
my mom called me on phone that the
guy's mother called her and was begging
her to beg me to accept their son's
request. My mom said she knew his
family very well that they are good
people. After some talk with my family, I
accepted the guy and told my then
boyfriend the new development, we both
parted amicably. Before my wedding last
year december, around November
ending I was preparing to travel to my
village for preparation, NY ex called me
that he would like to see nybfor the last
time and wish me well. I went to see
him. One thing led to another we had sex
which I regreted. After that day we
stopped communicating. Now my
wedding has come and gone and
everything has been moving so good
until last month when I went for
pregnancy test because I was feeling
feverish. Doctor confirmed that I'm
pregnant but when he told me how my
weeks, I was shattered. Because I didn't
have sex with my hubby untill after our
wedding which was in middle of
December. But according to the weeks
doctor said,it's obvious to me that my
hubby is not responsible for the
pregnany., it's my ex boyfriend. Mamas
please am confused, I don't even know
how to say this out and my stomach is
growing. I don't know what to do. I have
not talked to anybody about it till now
because I don't know the right person to
tell the truth how bad it will be. Please I
need your advice on how to handle this,
my husband is a good man and I don't
want to hurt him with something like
this. Since the news of my pregnancy, he
has reschedule his work time to spend
more time with me.please what do I do,
should I tell him or my family or should I
keep it to my self and bear the burden of
the secret alone? Please advice me. No
insult please because am going through a
lot already

source:- http://forums.mamalette.com/index.php?threads/im-married-but-now-am-pregnant-for-my-ex.258/
Hmmm This is what happens when you are undecided. Why would you go see an ex for any reason after you have broken up? and not in an open place, baaaad idea! anyway you have to tell your husband and I don't know if there is a good way to say something like this, but tell him the truth so that whatever the outcome there would be no lies to hunt you in the future.
Romance › Re: What Advice Would You Give This Young Lady? by xendra: 2:42pm On Feb 21, 2016
rosalieene:
Please I need your candid advice. Before
my marriage last year december, I have
a guy that I was dating, he was good and
caring and promised me marriage but
not financially ready. September last
year I went for a friend wedding and I
mate this guy who happens to be my
husband now. At the wedding we
discovered we are from the same village.
After talking we exchange contactand I
had nothing in mind. After sometimes
the guy started calling and texting me.
Telling me that he has always wanted to
marry someone from our village that he
would like to marry me, I told him I have
someone already. He said he would give
me time to think about it. After a week
my mom called me on phone that the
guy's mother called her and was begging
her to beg me to accept their son's
request. My mom said she knew his
family very well that they are good
people. After some talk with my family, I
accepted the guy and told my then
boyfriend the new development, we both
parted amicably. Before my wedding last
year december, around November
ending I was preparing to travel to my
village for preparation, NY ex called me
that he would like to see nybfor the last
time and wish me well. I went to see
him. One thing led to another we had sex
which I regreted. After that day we
stopped communicating. Now my
wedding has come and gone and
everything has been moving so good
until last month when I went for
pregnancy test because I was feeling
feverish. Doctor confirmed that I'm
pregnant but when he told me how my
weeks, I was shattered. Because I didn't
have sex with my hubby untill after our
wedding which was in middle of
December. But according to the weeks
doctor said,it's obvious to me that my
hubby is not responsible for the
pregnany., it's my ex boyfriend. Mamas
please am confused, I don't even know
how to say this out and my stomach is
growing. I don't know what to do. I have
not talked to anybody about it till now
because I don't know the right person to
tell the truth how bad it will be. Please I
need your advice on how to handle this,
my husband is a good man and I don't
want to hurt him with something like
this. Since the news of my pregnancy, he
has reschedule his work time to spend
more time with me.please what do I do,
should I tell him or my family or should I
keep it to my self and bear the burden of
the secret alone? Please advice me. No
insult please because am going through a
lot already

source:- http://forums.mamalette.com/index.php?threads/im-married-but-now-am-pregnant-for-my-ex.258/
Romance › Re: Matters by xendra: 10:10am On Feb 21, 2016
Crystallss:
Im scared of breaking up. What if i regret my actions later if i cant find someone else to love and by the time i realize that he already has someone else? On the other hand what if we do get married and i get angry and fustrated later in life because i couldnt meet up with my goals. I dont want to make a mistake that will hunt me the rest of my life sad cry
you sit down and carefully think this through. can you cope with all this for a long time? I would be more afraid of being with the wrong man. If you can then by all means, but if you can't then leave and don't look back. If he is lucky to find someone else that has a small dream like him that should not be your business. just make sure you are taking a decision that is right for you and don't leave room for regrets. Honestly nobody can promise you love in the future but I know there are always better things ahead. I can't begin to tell you my long story, but @23 I would have also ended up with the wrong person and @some point when he got married and I started to pay attention to people i regretted and thought I made a mistake until recently something happened that would make me grateful to God for the rest of my life......oh and guess what 3yrs latter I found love like I never Imagined...

Just know this
youdeservetobehappy
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Kills Himself & His Girlfriend In The US by xendra: 7:42am On Feb 21, 2016
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Raymondenyi:
women are greedy, self-centred, bigoted things.....
Now one would start to wonder whether na woman born you huh
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Kills Himself & His Girlfriend In The US by xendra: 7:41am On Feb 21, 2016
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Raymondenyi:
women are greedy, self-centred, bigoted things.....
Now one would start to wonder whether na woman born you huh
Raymondenyi:
women are greedy, self-centred, bigoted things.....
Now one would start to wonder whether na woman born you
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks A Guy's Head For Touching Her ( Just Happening In Lagos ) by xendra: 6:03am On Feb 21, 2016
evmandy:
They should be looking for bed space for you at isolo hospital fr brain correction. U don't have any
lol...I think say na only me see his post.......the guy thinks weird and talks rubbish.
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks A Guy's Head For Touching Her ( Just Happening In Lagos ) by xendra: 4:55am On Feb 21, 2016
seangy4konji:
In as much as I hate women abuse? She is a slut. Wat is she doing in midst of men in the middle of night?

Hoe.

End time slut.
And you hate women abuse.
and in your eyes she was the only lady ther.
and 9:30 is midnight.

honestly you dnt have to say you hate women abuse to look good right before you call one you dnt know a slut.....doh..
Health › Re: current hot weather in Nigeria: share your frustration by xendra: 8:27pm On Feb 20, 2016
tomiobj:
I av bin to florida and california. It is only d sun thats hot and will be biting ur skin. Buh u can recieve fresh air under d shade. Buh in 9ja even d breeze dey hot. U can even smell sufferness in the air
And nepa is co-operating with them over der wink
lollll... even the breeze dey hot, so much that student from here have concluded that from here to hell is just #30
Career › Re: 5 Things Employees Are Most Fearful About In The Workplace by xendra: 10:54am On Feb 19, 2016
Bad payment method- not paying on time or breaking my pay.
Jokes Etc › Re: When GOD Decides It Is Your Time To Shine (photo) by xendra: 8:01am On Feb 19, 2016
Lwkm.....but this should have been in joke section na... you guy like to bring everything to romance.
Literature › Re: Open Letter To Gays (and Their Sympathizers) by xendra: 3:32am On Feb 19, 2016
gemale:
I was being sarcastic.
Oh! OK.
Christianity Etc › Re: Good Christians Needed Here. by xendra: 9:22pm On Feb 18, 2016
ifenes:
Do you have evidence there is a god?

Besides your bible story made it clear what you call god walked in a garden,spoke to Adam, visited Abraham and had dinner with him.....and some more bullshit stories. Looks like the bible writers themselves thought all humans will be stupid for ever.
All dis oversabi atheist it is when it concerns christians you people no longer understand english, did you not see good Christians? wetin you com do for here?

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