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Stay away from liabilities, you won't hear.
That girl scammed you, but it is obvious that you couldn't see it coming because 'love" was shacking you .

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How would you lend the mother your money and expect it back in a month time while you know that she has used all her business Money in her daughter's case?
That is silly. It's a trick that people usually use to collect money from *** guys. If anyone claims to pay back your money in a month or week time if you lend it to them, tell them to postpone their plan(s) to a month or a week time and then use their own money on it. Trust me, if you lend such people your money, they won't pay back. And if you keep disturbing them for it, they will call it an insult.
That is humans for you; it is even worse when they are Nigerians, because the frustration in this country is driving everybody crazy.

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You lack control over your relationship with women; you couldn't even tell them when to visit you and when not to visit you. If you have control over them; you wouldn't have . . . Well, you guys don't learn; but you will surely learn the hard way. So I'm outta here!

All these threads because of one girl? I guess she is really a good heart-breaker.

hybrid11:
Do you know you can be persecuted for that?
No be juju be that

No mind am, he will learn the hard way!

greggng:
But this are cultist killing themselves ...how does this concern our old age. I graduated a long time ago...I know for certain that cultist only kill cultist ...I have never seen an innocent person killed by cultist ...

Just saying, though. My prayer is that we all will grow old and die at God's appointed time; and not untimely.

La click, La fly!

Treat her nice, Sir. Knee before her and ask her to forgive you for bothering her with calls. Continue being captain "save a hóe", she really loves you, Sir. You are indeed her future husband. So, never give up on her because it might break her heart.

What a funny phrase.
The ones below are even more crazy .

Damn! Stay away from night-life as much as you can. Nigeria isn't safe anymore. Everybody is now a suspect, even your neighbors. So, shine ya eyes!

This is so sad.
Death is rarely by old age in "Nigeria" anymore.
Thank God for each day, it isn't really easy to be alive.

Damn! Bad idea! The money go soon finish sef.

vinehedge:
The problem now is the demands and expectations is getting too much, I try my possible best to meet up with them most times but I must tell you I am not somehow fulfilled and happy.

I have said, and still keep saying: never mix emotions with your journey towards success. It is distractive and it isn't worth the effort.

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Now, to you, you can't meet up with the demands? This is a girl that may eventually be married off by a well coded niggar with enough cash. Why must you bear the burdens of a girl who is probably another man's future wife? It is courtship, not marriage yet. So, you owe her nothing. Dating is not a one-way to marriage. It is more of a trial and error. And when it becomes an error, you step out.

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It becomes an error when:
1. It turns you into a victim of "Love is blind". Believe me, this one isn't funny at all
2. It becomes a distraction to your goals, especially when you are still a Hustler
3: You becomes so much emotionally attached to her - y'all know how distractive emotions are
4: You lose control over the relationship, or when you jam "see finish" level

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A long distance relationship? Hmmmm. No sex? Ahh! I mean, sex isn't that necessary in a relationship though. But when you combine no-sex with a long distance relationship (body no be firewood na), it works wonders! The magic it does is always terrifying. I envy that girl shaaa, it's too easy to make money once you are a girl (a cute one), especially when you have branches, and deals with guys who are unfortunate enough to fall victims to "love is blind".

habsydiamond:
Any currency that can't buy any thing without the addition of another currency is worthless or better still valueless like one govt like that.... Ruled by the unknown leaders.

Exactly!

Castration . . . That is if you are really serious about it .

Relationship is like betting. The chance of it working out is 50/50. That you were dating her doesn't mean that you must marry her. No, it doesn't work that way! There's no law that said that boyfriend & girlfriend relationship is one-way to marriage. So, it's all trial and error. When it becomes an error, you move on. Case closed.

I pray that I and my hommies won't be unfortunate enough to fall victims to "love is blind". Amen.

Stop feeling hopeless, used and empty. That is not the way out. Move on. It is life, sh!t happens.

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This is why in a relationship, we shouldn't invest what we can't easily let go. Because things might go south tommorow.

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Until s/he becomes your husband/wife, keep your investments to yourself so that you won't invest in someone else's future husband/wife and later regret it.

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Relationship is like betting. The chance of it working out is 50/50. That you were dating him doesn't mean that he must marry you. No, it doesn't work that way! There's no law that said that boyfriend & girlfriend relationship is one-way to marriage. So, it is all trial and error. When it becomes an error, you move on. Case closed.

FanOfMyself:
Oh! I remember that thread of mine, it was fun. Are you the winner?

No, I wasn't the winner. I didn't even participate in the giveaway .

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Wtf! I would not have believed the OP. But this is an old account.

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Menopause or pregnancy, no two ways about it.

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Na like this e day start shaaa... Like play, like play, twins don dey show for body.

Paulblacqq:
How can you keep your lady forever. Follow this step 1: Trust her 2: Give her an attention 3: joke with {crack jokes for her} 4: spend couple of your time with her 5: pray with her 6: always talk abt the future for her. With the few point of mine hope you gain two or more thing.

Honestly, the opposite of the points you stated above is the true answer, except for number 4.

richmond500:
Omo, e no concern me, I don talk say, if no be tears of joy, I no deh cry again

Me too, bro.
*This deserves to be a meme *

I knew about stuffs before I had one. Wasn't a shock or anything to me.

Op is a nice guy, help him if you can.
He once did giveaway here (in his 'Selfie Challenge" thread).
So help him if you have a place to spare for few months, not because of the giveaway shaaa... Being good is just good.
You might also benefit from him, probably not with money, but in connection: he may connect you to whoever that will help you in the future...
Try and help if you can, that's my point.

omoseth:
Well, I agreed to your assertion cz I've done it before but it wasn't funny cz you could see the disappointment written all over her face after seriously putting her in the mood. She was just staring at me naked on the bed. To add salt to injury, na me come carry her standup, wear her clothes. No single regrets till this day.

Lol. That embarrassment is really funny to me, I long for the day that I would embarrass a girl in such manner too .
I love it when guys reciprocate some girls' attitudes towards them - It make them understand that not all guys can be controlled with sex.

Before you comment here, abeg no tell am to go and make money, this isn't a "money matter."

You only saw it as a sex opportunity because you appeared desperate for it before them (those girls).
They probably need it more than you do, because they enjoy it more.
I long for the day that I would get a girl in the mood, turn her on to be as hörny as hell, then suddenly check the time and tell her that I need to rush to somewhere.
Girls respects guys that have control over sex, they respect what they hustle/work to get.
After that, she would either hate me for life (but still respect me, and I can easily fvck her whenever I want to)
Or she would assume that I'm gay; that would make it even more interesting because she would try everything she could to find out if I'm truly gay or not, and in the process, she would spend her money, efforts, time on me. And that would make me a prize worth working for. And then, I wouldn't see the previous encounter with her as a "missed sex opportunity".
And when the séx finally takes place (that is if it would), she would feel as if she has worn a prize, and she would respect and thank me for making the prize available for her. So, it is a win-win for both genders when you THINK and ACT the right way. Don't appear desperate; be in control, or at least, appear to be. They would value you more for doing so.

27Pushing30:
We need try nab on of these mofos make dem talk who dey leak these infos

A customer complained to me his wife (who only just came into Nigeria and only got BVN/enrolled with us) received a call from these scammers regarding her ATM

I began asking myself how do they get the info of new ATM card issued customers?

They target only newly issued cards

It’s all banks

They are working together with the bank employees; that is the only way they can get those information. They are probably the bank employees themselves.