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stillwater:
Issues like what?

Issues like the past coming back to haunt the future. . . . . What if u stumble on your man talking to one of his old flames. I think u would be more at ease if u have heard about her before than not knowing anything until u catch em holding hands.

@ J-girl,

Men living double-lives? Some women live double-lives too.
There was a woman in Totteridge who had her husband fooled she was a night nurse for 4 years whereas she was a flaming stripper.
How did the husband fond out? One of his friends went to a strip club and found his friend's wifey shaking her wrinkled booty.
Now, thats a classic, innit?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=139354.msg2331695#msg2331695 date=1212536595]Oh no! What da hell? Who told you such crap?
They tell you about them in bits and pieces - not at once. Some girls who have nothing to hide say it all. Others hide it because of the way the guy will judge them. Men are NOT always ready to talk about those kind of things. They will tell you about one today in the briefest detail possible and then they will mention another one weeks later.
Afterall, you see naija guys here looking for virigins. If she's slept with more than 2 guys, she a LovePeddler and all that crap. But men have nothing to lose - yet they still do not open up. A guy's best girl friend usually knows much more about him than his own girlfriend because he feels freer around her.

You are biased. Ready to stand up for your gender despite how wrong they are.[/quote]Not again.
I may have to break your head to accept men are more open about their lives than women.

stillwater:
Did she beg you to tell her? By the way who wants to hear about all your escapades? I certainly do not want to know, keep your flames to yourself and I'll keep mine . I'm speaking for myself here not every woman!!!!!

It seems these man-eaters roam together. . . . . . What a similarity.
Stillwater doesn't wanna know about old flames and yet when their issue springs up outta nowhere, she would be the 1st to scream BLUE MURDER.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=139354.msg2331677#msg2331677 date=1212536015]They know what they did now!
My own is that i can't hold back in that respect. If i see that my boyfriend does that - i won't hold back at all. I'll just let him be and I'll prepare myself for the worst. If he tells me in bed that he's had gonorrhea once, I'll just get up and pack my things. I can't open a guy's head to find out every little thing about him. If he won't let me in, i'll break up with him after a while. I can't stand a guy who can't see me as his confidant.[/quote]A guy is more likely to open up than a chic. Men are always ready to talk about their old flames, ex-gurl/fs and their sexcapades generally.
Naija women would adopt their HOLIER THAN THOU attitude and keep mute as if they haven't been there before.
May God help Naija geezers.



[quote author=j-girl link=topic=139354.msg2331677#msg2331677 date=1212536015]Yeah I think I'll apply oooo! Just like you to call it hilarious. You're so biased down to your bone marrow. [/quote]Biased? It ain't possible.

Hilarious!!!!!
J-girl, i think u should start a column on Vanguard newspapers.
People will benefit from your relationship handling skills a lot.
Aunty Janet!!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=139354.msg2331555#msg2331555 date=1212533950]P.S. I'm talking out of both personal experiences of watching Nollywood movies and personal experiences. [/quote]Is this a joke?

stillwater:
Pleasssse!!!!!! No single woman almost at the brink of 28 would keep a man waiting for 10 good months except maybe the guy has four legs.

Negative!!!!

Women of 35 keep men in ice for 12 months in Nigeria. These women have a certain moronic standard they want in a man. He either drives a Beema or a Benz before he even gets a look-in. . . . . .There are some women in Naija who would only date foreign based Nigerians. . . .I don't know where they got that kind of inspiration from. Materialism has eaten deep into their fabrics.

stillwater:
If men make up their mind as easily as you presume, I don't think unmarried ladies would be roaming the streets of Nigeria more than ever today. By the way I don't see any reason not to analyse situations especially when it comes to relationship. Why should I choose any body to tangle myself with in the name of "having a boyfriend"? We question situations because the last thing we want is to fall into the hands of bastards. I do.

Granted, i fully understand the rules of treat them mean and keep them keen but u must agree loads of Naija women don't know when to draw the line between being mean to men and keeping men interested at the same time.
There will be loads of unmarried Nigerian women roaming the streets because they keep fronting with nuthing.

@ TOH,

Did u say u haven't reached that stage yet or u have?

English failures?

David Beckham? Michael Owen? Owen Hargreaves? Gary Linekar? Mark Hughes?

TOH:
Maybe if naija guys werent so untrustworthy, the girls wouldnt "form" so much

Are u saying u didn't front for the French dude u dated years ago?

stillwater:
Lol the topic is about trust, I wonder how shakara came into the picture.

Is it about TRUST or women's inability to make decisions?

Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts.
Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life.

debosky:
I second that Uche

they will front, and believe they must play hard to get to show they are not 'cheap', arrant nonsense.

guys have their wahala too , but they go all out in chasing the women more often than not, while the woman is trying not to show that she is 'gbaduning' the guy's moves because of this same 'cheap' thing. They have completely mixed up expressing yourself with having self respect/values. But I guess its caused in part by those stupid naija men who believe shakara + yanga is a sign that she is 'valuable'. My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

Fireworks!!!!!!

Don't bust a gut. Their major excuse is: she wants you to cherish her more.
What is there to cherish in a woman that keeps u in ice for 1 month?

buzyDiva:
Naija men of course!!!
With that their big ponmo heads.
They like to feel like they know too much and can get any girl they want. That’s the mistake most of them make.

Have u forgotten our pact?

Akolawole:
@ServiceBoy

Oya expose me

Akola, dont tempt me!!!!
Jose Mourinho is hoping to steal your players. . . . What have u got to say to that?
Besides, what are the chances of Chelsea playing Inter Milan next season?

Akolawole:
@All

Is there any problem with people joining Inter?

I could remember some guys keep saying i defected from Arsenal to support Chelsea. Bunch Nonetity

Even though i like their footie, arsenal will be last team i will support.[ They don't even need my support anyway ! ]

In those days on Nairaland, our very good friend, Teeroy support Juventus, so whats d problem with that?

I am chelsea to the core but JM is my very good friend

Chelsea will not meet Inter but Arsenal in the knockout stage of the champions league, with the 2nd leg at Emirates

FAUX!!!!!!!!
I have evidences linking u to Arsenal in 2002.
Deny it and i will expose u in a GAYnner's shit.

@ Akolawole,

Are u now supporting Inter or Chelsea?

Of course, Naija gurls.

@ Nateevs,

There's no smoke without fire.
Believe me. . . . .Chelsea met Ancellotti's representatives. . . Whether a fee was agreed or not is not clear but letz see what pans out.
Chelsea are not transparent. . . . .Remember Jose's exit. We heard he was sacked, we heard they part ways on mutual agreements.
There were over 50 different stories surrounding the issue. . . . They dont come out to spew the truth.

doyin13:
I played Rugby while doing OTC. Good sport too. A ''man's game'' if ever there was one.

I actually enjoy watching it now more than I enjoy watching football.

U played Rugby? Stop lying u onanist!!!!
With your narrow shoulders and tiny legs. . . . .U will be lucky to complete the 1st half.
Rugby is rubbish. . . . .no tactics, no techniques, no skills.
The only thing required is speed and the ability to duck strays(tackles).
Oyingbo/Ojuelegba pick-pockets would benefit so much from this if they can be exported to the UK or South Africa.

Things are changing fast!!!!

Chelsea have denied agreeing anything with any representatives and Carlo Ancellotti has just re-affirmed he would be staying at Milan.
So where does that lead do? It means talks didn't go as planned and Chelsea is looking to bring someone else.

@ Cabali,

Any problem?

Carlosein: hey guys except am getting this all wrong, i think in this case the victims were not looking to make any quick bucks.
they were asked to pay for transferring money internationally. kindly read the original post again if u please.

The victims must have been promised a huge cut in the imaginary funds. . . . That's the way it always work.
The frauudsters dangle carrots to motivate the victims to get em started and the rest is history.
Why can't the Nigerian judges sit down and put their foot down that it takes 2 to tango in these kinda shady deals.
It seems Africans are still mentally enslaved. . . . . .If a white man shytes. . . Africans would lick it with a grin on their faces.
It's pathetic!!!!

nateevs:
@Jackal,

One stone . . two birds . . you know what I mean?

Meanwhile Chelsea just released a statement saying they have not agreed anything with anyone, body or organization. . . we are happy at the way our search is progressing? So where does that leave us? I just wish it is not him. . .

My choice is Hiddink. . simple!!!

Chelsea have never been transparent. Didn't they deny the Ashley Cole meeting?
Letz see what pans out!!!!!!

Ibime:
@ Nateevs, Razor Ramon,

Ancelotti is a qualified flop! This is a man who cannot even inspire his team to keep up a sustained challenge in the league. A man who threw way a 3-0 lead in the Champions League final. Milan just finished 5th in the Italian league, a fucking substandard league. He lost games to rubbish teams like reggina, Livorno and shit like that. His players are bigger than him. They decide when they want to play, not him. They show in Champions league but he does not have the inspirational character to gee them up in the league. Last season they finished 4th, this season, they finished 5th. Wow, he must be such an inspirational character! Total underachievement in my opinion. Premier League is a league where you damn near have to win every game to win the league. In Italian league, you can lose 8 games and still win the league easily. What a fucking disgrace this Ancelotti guy is. He is the Avram Grant of Milan. His players control the performances, not him. He twice failed to win the league with Juventus when they were the dominant team with players such as Zidane, Davids, Trezeguet and Nedved. If he was manager of Blackburn, Blackburn would be finishing around 14th. In 7 years at Milan, he has only won one scudetto. I am looking for Managers that can keep a consistent challenge in the League and motivate his players, not a manager who has won the Champions League which is a lottery (insert Avram Grant as example here). Mark Hughes has been consistent with Blackburn, his players are always motivated. He has won the one-off duels against the top 4 teams time and time again. Head-to-Head with SAF, he has a better record. This shows that he has the tactical acumen, if you have reservations about that. I'm sorry, Ancelotti is an absolute joke!

You are missing the point like a free throw shot.

At this point, i can see loads of sense in Chelsea's choice. . . . .They want the HOLY GRAIL.
Ancellotti is prolly hired as a mercenary because i think he has the best track record in the competiton in the last 5-6 years.
That prolly attracted Abrahamovic to the Italian and i don't blame him for doing so.
Scolari has no track record in club management, let alone win the UCL . . .
If the purpose of signing Ancellotti is the league title, FA cup and Carling cup. . . . .then u are prolly RIGHT but it is apparent he is being hired to deliver the HOLY GRAIL.  I won't be surprised if he leaves Chelsea at the end of next season AFTER DELIVERING THE HOLY GRAIL.

@ Nateevs,

Is this your latent way of dissing Arsene Wenger? I like your style.

Razorr:
@Xerxes

Please let Ancelotti come to Chelsea. If what Roman really wants is to win trophies, especially the C/L, then Ancelotti is the man.

The dude is just 48, but has won every major trophy in club football. He won the C/L twice in 4 years - 2003 and 2007. He won the UEFA super cup, the Serie A and the club world cup.

The guy's an ACE!!!

Pray let him come to Chelsea.

I know you won't admit it, but you'd have sleepless nights if he came.

For a young man, the dude is just too hot!!

I agree with u.
If he is allowed to do his job, he might deliver the HOLY GRAIL.
Although, he might achieve this at the expense of other cups in domestic competitions.

@ Nateevs,

Mark Hughes is a more astute manager in my opinion.
The way he changed the mentality of Blackburn FC from butchers to football players should be commended.
Allardyce went to Newcastle and achieved what? We can turn this around and i would still stick to ma postulation.

@ Nateevs,

Are u putting Everton and Bolton's financial strength into consideration?
If you are not doing that in the Premier League then ur argument is blown!!!
Just me 2 cents!

@ Nateevs,

Yet to be agreed by the club but at this stage. . . . . They will ask for huge compensation and Roman would pay that.
The key here is Ancellotti himself wants to manage Chelsea.
Once that is established. . . . . Chelsea would unveil their manager by Thursday.

@ Razorr,

Don't play smart with me here. £100 me ass.
Say the truth. . . . . . .did i not tell u there are only 2 managers on Chelsea's list?
I said Ancellotti or Mark Hughes and u kept screaming about Scolari and Rijkaard(whom u said would join Chelsea as Ten Cate got sacked).
Puhleeeeease, the bet came off when u couldn't name a manager that would join Chelsea . . .U tipped Scolari and Rijkaard.

@ Nateevs,

My TV is locked on SSN.
There are 2 Nollywood movies i should be watching on the box now but no way. . . . .Chelsea's drama is better than the LORDS OF THE RING trilogy

nateevs:
I read your posts about Carlo or Hughes. The coloured part is of contention. . . How did you come about that name. . ? The press!! How did the press come about it? Guess work!!!!

Are you saying Chelsea wanted Hughes and let City snatch him? 17 days after Grant got sacked. . ?

Now what happens if we do not announce the manager in the next 48hrs? What happens if it turns out not to be Ancelotti. . . ?

Everything changed after Jose left for Inter and Sven was sacked at Man City.
Before those 2 incidents, it was rummy and a dice game . . . . .no one knew when the SIX will show.
As it is now, Chelsea would tie up their manager within 24-48 hrs. Trust me!!!!!
17 days is red herring . . . .It coulda been more if Mourinho n Eriksson's incident didn't happen.

BANG!!!!!!!!! Chelsea have agreed a deal with ANCELLOTTI's advisers . . . . .
It is now up to Milan and Chelsea to agree on compensation fee and reh reh reh which Roman would cough out anyways.
Nateevs, what do u have to say now? Still media speculations?
Under-estimate British media at ur peril. . . . . . . .They know the colour of The Queen's undies.

@ Nateevs,

Go and read my 1st comment today on this thread that correlates with Ibime's comments.
I said there's only 2 peops on Chelsea's shopping list: Carlo or Mark Hughes.
It is going to be either of em . . . . , forget Scolari, Van Basten or Bonfrere Jo.
Chelsea's manager should be unveiled in the next 24-48 hours unless something similar to a Biblical miracle happens.

@ Rikkyjen,

Stop this macho schitzo with Razorr.
Razorr is not a fighter . . . . . .She is just pissed at the latest developments at Chelsea.
All of a sudden, the bricks are falling off the Stamford Bridge.

Meanwhile . . . . .It seems Ancellotti will be Chelsea's manager.
His advisers are talking to Chelsea as we speak and if terms are agreed . . . He will be unveiled in 24.
Man City have also agreed compensation fee with Blackburn FC but Hughes is yet to say anything.

All i know is the Chelsea job is between Hughes and Carlo. . . . . .It's so close now.

tboy1:
He would have got like 2-3 years and he'll do half

As a first offender and it was an ATTEMPT(he never got to spend the dough), he would get 6 months in the UK!!!!

My problem is the victims were also fraudulent so why go to the Police after being duped?
Nigerian authorities need to be looking at the other side of the coin as well. . . . . . .
I don't think EFCC/Met. Police would lock a Briton that defrauded a Nigerian, would they?
While i condemn Mr. Nwokeafor for his evil deeds, a law should be set for some victims who are also looking to make money they never worked for.

rikkyjen:
@Jackal

Son, did you see her previous post referring to me as if we had an axe to grind. I havn't seen her posts in month and i casually asked bout her and teased her about JM with Smileys.

And she had the effontery to talk about "TV shows and screens" because she got her ass on STV? Who d mess watches F@ck in the Western world and what is my business with the beer parlor pundits on STV?

Son,, do i sound like the folks who listen to STV soccer commentaries? _{(No offense to STV fans)} So WTF is this heiffer all about? Yo, talk to her bro!

Imma only take my comments back if she was joking with me, ofcos i doubt it!

Razorr was just joking . . . . .U should know raze by now.
STV is big in Africa(if u add D to it)