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Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way

Collect the half payment and run
Bye

[quote author=Cazzim post=119422620][/quote]U will often go for operation as an efcc worker I think and thereby making it hectic sha

ramalot:
No one living like this has two heads. I also dreamed of living this life one day, but I didn't stop at dreaming. I took every step necessary to get to this point. Make goals, break them into very small pieces that you can start today.

So the real question is, what can you do today to move you closer to the life you want to live? Maybe that step is enrolling in a course that teaches you a marketable skill. Maybe that step is watching a YouTube video on programming in Python, for beginners. It's all in your hands.

Thanks for the word of encouragement, I appreciate
Na money de yab man, I want to start a beer parlour business next year if funding comes

Cazzim:
please do anybody here know the real or reliable salary and allowances of efcc,icpc or cbn,
and which among is a better place to work with, please I need urgent answer I will be glad if I get the answers.

CBN is the best but remember, u can never pile up money over night, u have to work for few years. Don't allow any body to deceive u

Yugoslavia247:
Bro this is like when you don't have any thing to do with a woman, you progress.
Another woman is jealous maybe spirit wife.

They know that wealth keeps a woman. When they stiffen your wealth source woman will run.

Just seek spiritual guidance

Even spirit know that women love money

ThankGod that u can easily bounce back seff
I've been down since 2020

ramalot:
I have gained some insights into different societies and cultures, by traveling far and wide. Not as a weekend tourist, but spending extended time in those places, and living an everyday life. Some of that information/experience might be useful to someone here.

The main point of this AMAA is mostly to answer questions of curiosity. Just random things you wonder about more obscure and less popular places (which I prefer to visit). I'm calling it "Ask Me Almost Anything," because I will not be answering certain questions.

Some questions I can't answer:

1. Questions about visa processes: I simply don't know, as I travel visa-free on a US passport, in almost all cases.

2. Questions about "hustling" as a documented or undocumented resident.

I have a web-based business in the US. So I work remotely, wherever I am.


A few things to note:

1. When I say "lived in a country," I don't mean permanently. I use that for countries I spend at least 1 month. I typically spend anywhere from 1- 3 months per country. In a few cases, I've stayed as long as 6, 10 and 12 months in some countries.

2. I travel on a US passport. I keep renewing my Naija passport each time it expires, but I never actually use it. Latest one I got in New York expired some months ago. I only used it once, in visiting Naija.

3. I am less interested in visiting "first world countries," as I find them boring. So most of my travels are to developing countries, but mostly those I still have access to solid accommodation and amenities. I have a business to run, so I can't be without reliable internet.

I find these countries more diverse in culture and lifestyle. First world countries are too structured and predictable.

4. I don't stay in hotels. I rent full Airbnb apartments, as I typically stay in a place for a few months and prefer to feel at home. I only stay in a hotel, if I need to, for 1-2 days while in transit, or something.

5. I've been learning Spanish for a long time, and speak decent enough conversational Spanish, and basic Portuguese.


Some countries I've been (including Nigeria, where I grew up):

Africa:
1. Nigeria
2. Benin Republic
3. Ethiopia (multiple visits)
4. South Africa

Latin America (South, Central, North):
5. Brazil
6. Colombia (multiple visits)
7. Argentina
8. Uruguay
9. Ecuador
10. Chile
11. Costa Rica
12. Peru
13. Panama
14. Dominican Republic
15. Mexico
16. Paraguay

Europe:
17. England (multiple visits)
18. Portugal
19. Netherlands (Amsterdam)

Asia:
20. Thailand (multiple visits)
21. Vietnam
22. Singapore
23. Indonesia
24. Philippines
25. Hong Kong
26. South Korea
27. China
28. Malaysia

North America:
29. USA (where I live)
30. Canada

Bonus (transits only, without bothering to leave the airport)
31. Moscow, Russia - 6 hours
32. Lome, Togo
33. Doha, Qatar


Current location: Buenos Aires, Argentina (Yes, there will be epic street parties if Argentina wins tomorrow!)

All pictures I post on this thread were taken with my phone. None are edited in any way.

See the life some people de live
Wow! Plane I never enter seff

Spiker777:
Your wife is not divorcing you she is very good woman .She even suggest going to her parents place to reduce the burden on you till you get yourself back

This is her point exactly
U too sabi

AllDModsAreMaad:
She is my sister but married.
Since you said America and others are hard.
If I am to go for Germany, please which visa class can I apply for?

For Germany, I'll recommend you to an expert via study route... Reply me if interested

Eniolaenius0803:
2m can land to Mauritius ,study route .........am not an agent oooo ...but we can work this together am on it too

Is Mauritius good for greener pastures??

princeemmma:
Mention that food that taste better the next day

Miyan kuka
Only northern people will know this

mosdii:
I dey yen too

I feel like coming to bayelsa right now oh
I so much love fish

fergie001:
You remember?

Very well oh

Zanzibar1:
I currently teach in a secondary school. Resumption is 7:30. Closing is 4pm.

For other subject teachers, It's very hard to cajole those ss2 boys for weekend classes but they always turn up for literature probably because they enjoy my teaching.

Teaching is one of the best profession on Earth but it's problem in Nigeria is low payment..... Teachers are so underpaid

fergie001:
Ajax Amsterdam




Rangers FC

This guy that gave us a very terrible performance in Abuja??
Nice move sha

Odefani:
Too early to tell

Too early oh

MALIGNANTGuest:
FOOD don set oooo.
Make u Guys come eat!

I want to see your car

Faber:
Rivers United needs to win this and win the title if not...the score line will be

North, 2:0 Wike

The North is already, 1:0 up by winning PDP presidential ticket

Plateau state no b north jare

Abiodunspectre:
If he tells you
you can notify me also
So I can buy on Yellowcard.

Lol
Oya nw

Candidlady:



When ladies start to behave like men then something is really wrong this world

Only men act/behave this way

allah ya kiyaye

Amin
Sai abi duniya a hankali

Hadampson:
Afrointroduction
Badoo
Tinder
Whisper
Facebook
Twitter
Instagram
Snapchat

Thanks

Nikrose:
After reading a post on the front page about a 19yrs old boy marrying a 39yrs old woman, I love it and I find it sweet, romantic and sexy!!!

I don't really want to be in a serious relationship now but I think I am now attracted to boys younger than my age

Not little boys of under 18! And I am not a peodophile!

Exactly what I like too
I love older ladies/women
I've dated quite a number Sha
How old are you??

Tell me coins to buy for long time trading and I'll tell u wat to do

seunsiju:
Still battling with one unwanted pregnancy ,expected to be a father soon, Read https://www.nairaland.com/6980702/over-girlfriend-pregnant
Another girl is pregnant for me and his parent insist on no abortion
Why i'm so fertile like this, Wheras i already had a year old boy, second pregnancy is now like 4 months, new one is now a month pregnancy
Three expected children in a space of three years is too much for me to handle, tho i'm financially bouyant, all thanks to crypto
Advise on what to do, i don't want any more child !!i hate using condoms
Pls no insult!!!

Where I fit see abroad girls to date online na?

ayomide8990:
0.Hadampson
1.Niklausefred
2. Fidelismaria
3. Nicoswit
5. Jaycew ( POLAND)*
6. Subomi007
7. lamboladee
8. SaintHillary (UK)*
9. Vhuqnl
10. Joohan
11.Paccus
12. Richdee1
13. ichbinbrait
14. Canih28
15. olioxx
16. Savagethe21st
17. aziza45442
18. 2Lynx
19.NoFap123
20.Daintyprincess
21. Brawlscartel
22. seedorfy134
23.Tolzy11
24.RedChiefPriest
25.godsgabby
26.Jizzyjordan

Another Wonderful Japa Story.

lightnlife:
Family, work and life.

My partner works here.

Hope u put me on when u settle down bro

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Catch me if you can

sliksusan:
*sure no problem

I'll do that also

politicoNG:
https://ait.live/breaking-terrorists-abduct-wife-and-daughter-of-commissioner-in-plateau-state/

Sadly, this happened in my area

premierlead:
Thank you so much, I think I am getting the solace I needed from great mind like you on this forum now

Talk to her and involve a third party (your mum most especially) and you'll know what step to take after hearing from her...... God be with u

RaymondEasyLife:
Between Tom and Jerry, who did you support as a child ?

Anyone who supported Tom was a bully...... Simple

Nyanmiridunce:
The message is 100% legit. I've been there and they confirmed it. I went to npf branch, asked to open a proper account with them as FG has released funds and it's with them already.

DONT DOUBT IT AND CALL IT A SCAM, JUST WALK INTO ANY NPF BANK IN YOUR STATE TO CONFIRM.

THAT'S HOW MANY OF YOU LOSE GOOD OPPORTUNITIES THINKING EVERYTHING NA SCAM.

What if someone has not initially applied or is yet to be shortlisted?? Can that person go ahead and get an account?

Totilopussylick:
I will be willing to help any individuals living in Nigeria that wishes to come to Europe successfully through this wonderful forum.

If your interested, we can talk here

I'm interested