He still did not tell us how he made his money instead he went all defensive and I will be voting for Peter Obi atleast I know he made his money selling sardine.... noble trading not drugs that harm people's lives.
bokondogi: Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this, They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances. Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy. After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications, She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats, I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much, Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
O ya so pe o ti lo.... shes gone!!!
Ok sorry! on a serious note, your wife is walking in the shadow of iniquity.
She is trying to find her youth again with this her golddigger class mate and it is very foolish of her.
She should delete the guy's phone no and both of you head to therapy.
buckeyemedia: I cannot remember, What is the name again of that Yoruba lieutenant in the Nigeria Civil War that was with Odumegwu, who Ojukwu ended up Slaying?
What does that have to do with you or with me or with N1000 bread or with N780 dollar .... Do you have properties ? What is your network and how is Nigeria treating your goals? Do you deserve a good leader from another tribr or a bad leader from your tribe
Sincerely my dad is late. But I know very well that except yoru bad fake Muslimns,no other person will vote for a sick,old, corruptt, dying,theiff, ritualisst, tribalist and a Stark illiterate with oluwale first class. I will context some day and that time I will contact your kids to do propagandaa and slavve for me exactly as you are doing for the ritualisst while I pay them peanuts just as they are paying you. I know they will take after you and they will be good in propagandaa and my slavve Like father like son
Stop this I am Yoruba Muslim and Peter Obi is my president. Talk to him and abuse him.... Do not group us
uniquetechng: People thought Justin made Korea lol , he was living in China when they met in China and yeah Kora was paying the bills for the period they lived together in US.
Every intelligent person can tell, I mean what sort of man ask his ex wife for spousal support? That was where he off me.
For me your illustration using positive and negative terminals of a battery best sums up everything
In actual sense a reasonable man has no reason to compete or fight a woman, he simply needs to understand what to do with the Feminine Energy of his spouse in a way to compliment his positive energy
uniquetechng: The man is poor that's why he is asking the court to compel Kora to pay him spousal support, and yeah he was living in Kora's apartment. She moved to a new apartment shortly after their separation.
I shout avoid Poor men in all colours but una no dey hear word. Korra love donot entertain no dusty again. Run when a dusty tries to talk to you.
Now let me explain even further..... except you plug your fan into the socket the fan cannot get electricity - this means that while on the surface it looks like it is the plug that is giving and the socket is receiving ...... in true life it is actually the plug receiving and the socket giving. ( think about it)
Now while on the surface the man is giving his sperm ...... in true life he is getting a child .... a lineage.... a home.
Every nation that honours and respects their women thrive.... while All nations that dishonours and disrespects their women suffer greatly...
(GO & VERIFY)
Woman is the socket and without her no fan, no TV, no man or children ....... (let me burst your brain) NO HUMAN will thrive in nations where women are belittled because God has given woman many gifts that human need to turn prosperity on e.g intuition.
Every Chess player knows it is the queen that holds the game...... go after the queen and all other will perish.
Instead of men asking thier wife for money..... ask her for peace, for joy, for a happy home, for insight, for love, for wisdom, for vision.....
Men are strong they donot need a woman's money (young men today think they do) Men need qualities that make him think clearly and he will bring the money.
Dusties I cannot e-fight o. Just aired my opinion and shared some wisdom.
Free child support weekly pay check for 16 to 18 years till the kids become adults,
Freedom to fvck whoever she wants without any hindrance from her ex husband paying child support
Top Five richest women in the world either got their wealth through their divorced husband, or late husband or from their father... Non worked for it or are self made
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Your NEPA socket receives and the plug gives. Positive & Negative
Look at human anatomy which one gives and which receives, women are recievers men are givers
overdrive: Oga get ur own apartment first.u don't pack from ur parent's house into ur sugar mommy's house. Once u are living in ur personal space ur parents will monitor u less. Seems u still dey chop mama thank u. Ur life maybe at stake considering her previous relationship.has she been properly divorced? Guyman dey street for Malay and u come dey bang his wife for naija. Do you investigations before egwu apara gi laa.Woman bokwu everywhere.
Championxxx: I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is. She is the first woman I have ever slept with in my entire life and I want to spend the rest of my life with her but my parents are against the relationship because of the age difference even my siblings doesn't want to hear anything about her they say i should quittherelationship. But I love her so much she asked me to move in with her and I don't want to disobey my parents. I am torn between the woman I love and my family what should I do or whom should I choose, I know that it is not a competition family should alway come first but I think my happiness also matter. By the way the relationship is 9 months. Please admin do not push my post to the front page because I don't want immature advice I need mature advice?
Iapologize: This is a public apology to my beautiful wife, yesterday I saw her post on this platform, I'm sorry. Yesterday when I saw your post titled finally I'm kicking my husband out my house enough is enough. I was angry, I told myself that you are wrong for bringing our problems to a public platform but I soon realized that I have been embarrassing you publicly, I have embarrassed you in front of your friends, your family and all who you love. so I have decided that I will apologize to you publicly I'm sorry
firstly I'm sorry for making you feel worthless, I never meant to body shame you. half the time I was high and the other half i was just joking, I don't blame you for feeling the way you do, I rarely compliment how beautiful you are. I'm sorry
secondly I'm sorry for never being there for the kids, each time I see them, I was already half drunk, I didn't want them to grow up seeing me as nothing but a drunk so I pushed them away. I'm sorry
thirdly I'm sorry for not supporting your dreams, I didn't want you to go to the university because I didn't want to take care of the children while you were away, I wasn't ready to step up and be a father and you were against hiring a nanny because you fear that the children might be abused (sexually, emotionally or physically), that's why I ask for more kids, I see how you take care of the children with so much love and understanding. honestly I was scared. I didn't want my lavish lifestyle to end, I wanted to be at the club instead of staying home with the children, even the part time you were talking about still sounded stressful to me at that time. I'm sorry.
lastly I'm sorry for all I have put you through. for all the late nights, all the cheating. since we grew up poor, we didn't get to live a lavish life. I wanted the finest things in life and I allowed it to get to my head. I didn't mean to impregnate that girl, yes I did sleep with her raw but I gave her money to buy afterpills.
She was trying to blackmail me using the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby. I didn't know what to do, I was scared. I begged her to abort it but she was demanding to much. she thought I was rich, I explained to her that you are the one with the money not me, that's when she threatened to tell you about the pregnancy if i don't pay her off, the money she demanded was too much,I don't have that type of money but I know you do. I had to tell you. I'm sorry
I promise, I will change, please forgive me. my good people of nairaland please help me beg her. we got married when we were early twenties and late teens. please I don't want to lose her.
I will spend time with the kids, I will do a full STD test, I will anything you want just please forgive me.
asuraking: Wen u suppose to b ha best friend 1st,u go marry ha.lata,u go dey complain of marital issues.truely common sense is not common.
Even if he makes friends with her first she is only 21 and her personality has not developed yet.... so he will still see different characters and I guess he is ready to adapt as she grows up.
Personally I wish she will wait till she is 25 but if he is a great provider and can adapt with her as she finds herself then why not.
......but he has to realise he has not met her....she has not found herself yet.
Solofresh2: You don't even know who I am and where I came from but all you have to do is concluded that I am poor I am only talking about what I see happening everyday.Even my friends do the same too. Do you even know how many fellow men I have helped in this country? Do you know how many people I have employed? I don't blame you sha
I know you are poor because no rich man is bothered about what another man does with his sweat. Go and work pls!
Deborah200299: Good morning everyone, I want to report my mum for abusing my 12 years old step sister both physical, verbal and emotional and I don't like it because she didn't ask to be born from a married man. My dad caused it and she should abuse him not her.
I don't even know why she is treating the dog who cheated on her nicely while the innocent girl is suffering for his mistakes. My younger brothers 13 and 15 are also copying her and they have started to abuse her too.
Tears has become her foods and I am tired of my mum abusing the innocent girl. Yesterday, she strangled her just because she didn't wash my younger brother white jeans properly and I lost respect for her. I have insulted her for the first time in my life even though she hit me but I don't care I have to save my sister. She is my birth mother but I will not support her. I don't care if she rots in jail because she doesn't deserve the title mum.
If you know any human rights in Uyo please let me know.
You are brave and on the right track. Report her and carry us along.
Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday (only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone.
At times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act.
Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that
I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?
Hummn I understand how you feel but as long as they are not discussing you then try and carry eye. Just focus on your next business idea execution. No one wants to share Thier partner but they came from a place you know. Your mother in law seems over bearing sha but she is your mother in law and you cannot change her as you cannot change your own mother.
Just bear it as long as they are not talking about you.
LeoDeKing: Not holding brief for her superior but I have reservations. Additionally, physical assault against an erring subordinate is sheer act of irresponsibility and very pedestrian.
Having said that, ladies trying to gather sympathy with these stories of turning down sexual advances being the reason for their woes shouldn't be taken lightly again. Already getting out of hands.
Most ladies are very indiscipline and always in the habit of playing the feminine cards when sanctioned. Some of them will shout on their superiors and the ogas are always very careful because they know what ladies are capable of doing.
For the oga to damn all consequences and go ahead to sanction an erring female subordinate, her indiscipline must have attained the greatest height.
All the same, physical assault on erring subordinate, male or female, is a very condemnable act and the oga need to be taught a lesson for such. The lady should also be punished if found guilty of whatever offence she must have committed imo. Feminine card shouldn't be an escape route for indiscipline.
Until it is your daughter.... did you not see the marks on her body.
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