Nancyashu:
Hello everyone.

I am a newly married woman of less than 2years, 26weeks pregnant and I'm going through alot.
My husband and I were having a discussion. We have plans of investing together and he has a few assets however i told him that I would want to purchase a land in my own name so as to be financial secure for myself, the family and the children if anything happens in the future.
But he says he wouldn't let that happen and the moment I purchase a land in my own name. He would believe I am asking for a divorce and would divorce me.

Please is it wrong as a wife to have an investment in my own name,at least one?

He doesn't have to know. Make sure you have assets. Assets are more reliable than men.

Trinitycian:


https://gazettengr.com/tinubu-bribed-afenifere-members-for-endorsement-peter-obi-remains-our-candidate-adebanjo/

It is Nigerians that will defeat Tinubu and they have been sweating since 2015 .... vote Peter Obi for president

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Who is paying the rent ? You or your wife.
If you know you have no other means of accomodation or fending for yourself then don't confront your wife o. Rent has really gone up. Keep the optics and play your part.

If you are the one paying the rent and all the bills and that is is true love that is making you want to keep your marriage. Let your wife know you know and both of you attend therapy with a foreign therapist and work it all out.

All the best

ahnie:
My kids go to a public primary school in Asaba Delta state.
It's a govt public school located at nnebosi road asaba beside access bank.

Normally every day, after eating at home, I buy them food inside their foodflask and snacks.
They normally close by 1.30pm.

My daughter is in primary 2, and they normally share food in school to feed them an initiative by the Delta state government.

The feeding contracts is normally allocated to some persons whose duties are to cook and serve the kids from primary 1-5.

Whilst those in kindergarten are usually left out. My son is in KG 3 which automatically ruled him out.

My daughter came home and showed me the meal, Omo laugh wan keel me die .

Lol

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

You write so well.
Your wife sis needs your help right now but she needs to get a job. Advertise her for cleaner, cook etc

Obavoh:
My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.

My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.

I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.

What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.

You are a very very wicked man.....but your mum is even more wicked because she knows how painful childbirth is.
mudafoka....

LegendHero:
Why is he telling those kids to go and vote?

This guy na comedian.

The kids will tell their parents. Kids have the ability to control thier parents ...... ask Kellogs cornflakes

Icartaway:



https://twitter.com/Mr_JAGs/status/1580570510315769856?s=20&t=bs04CJ0TRYGhJs4eUGoxVA

I will still vote either Labour party or PDP or NNPP in Lagos

Sanwo who gave the order to kill innocent Nigerians at the toll gate?? This is the only thing that can save you.

obiekunie01:
So na SHITima writing be una next campaign achievements!

choi! Its not easy to be an urchinus!

You spoke my mind .

Won ti maaad walahi

Nigerians are alot wiser now than 2015... they are buying bread for N1000 and you are showing handwriting.

Oda.... !!!

AnambraPeople:


https://anambrapeople.com.ng/meet-the-anambra-man-who-is-one-of-the-owners-of-a-global-biscuit-brand/

Exactly why we can never the Igbos escape from Nigeria.... these people are the economy of this great nation.

Let's treat Igbos fairly so they can dead that succession talk.... we need them more than they need us.

I love the biscuit I ate so much of it during lock down but back on my diet now.

Igbo kwenu ....eh!!! Kwenze nu!!!

p.s I am Yoruba

Fira09:


SOURCE

Ko da o!

Turkey and Rooster... wicked animals

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

You that is using small phone have standard when it comes to women?

How many of your standard girls have agreed to date you ?

Give this girl a few more years and she learns to take care of herself .... Na you no go be her standard.

You will look after her younger ones and parents, she is after you because she thinks you have..

You and I know you no get shishi so avoid that girl, encourage her to further her studies and you can also go and make money

Souljerj:
This Topic was inspired because of BOMBOY(Ugochukwu Dum Obiora ) I have been hearing of him 4 quite sometime but he just caught my intrigue the more wen I heard that he is not Yoruba seff

Before, a stranger to Oshodi would do everything possible to avoid passing through the area particularly at night, because of the fear of being harassed, molested, raped or robbed. Street urchins and hoodlums take laws into their hands and because there is no traditional ruler in Oshodi, it is a place where every hoodlum fights to be recognized. The hoodlums are feared by transporters, traders, hawkers and market women. Their leaders are reputed to be on politicians’ payroll as they are used as thugs in political wars of settling grudges with political opponents. Even the police avoid them.

In early 1990s, Ugochukwu Dum Obiora, a notorious area boy known as “Bomboy” took control of Oshodi. He employed the weapon of fear and violence to oppress and extort money from bus drivers and traders doing business in Oshodi. His style of money making which was akin to that of Bayo Ogundare a.k.a success, who held sway in the Second Republic during the UPN/NPN era. He soon became the toast of most politicians within and outside Oshodi, who saw him as a tool to rig elections, harass and intimidate their political opponents.

This, of course made the position of Oshodi leader (Olori) lucrative and the clamour to become Olori became a do-or-die affair. To make the situation worse, law enforcement agents romance these hoodlums and made them seems larger than life and above the law. So, they always get away with their crimes. But new gangs soon emerged within the rank and file.



Gangs like the 36 Kiniun (Lions) headed by Musiliu Akinsanya, a.k.a Olu-omo, soon gained prominence. Diekot, headed by the late Wasiu Trailer, who migrated from Ibadan also waxed strong. His base was at Cairo. Bomboy, was the leader of the Lion junction and leader of all the groups put together. However, there were always clashes within the groups mostly due to the quest for supremacy. Along the line, a subordinate of Bombay, Taoreed Adedigba, popularly called Talo, staged a ‘coup’ against Bomboy and the violence that ensued led to several losses of lives while many were maimed for life.

A politician and member of opposition party in Lagos,the People’s Democratic Party (PDP), Kehinde Al-Moroof, saw Bomboy as an obstacle to achieving his political ambition. He employed tribal sentiments tactics to fight against Bomboy who was loyal to his rival political group, using Talo as his marksman. This led to several clashes until a partial peace accord was reached and Bomboy was made the leader of all the groups, while MC Oluomo led the 36 kiniun (36 lions). Wasiu Trailer continued to lead the Diektot.

There were several other popular subordinates like Sule Nayam (George Bush), and Baba Fela. Bombay later died mysteriously. His death was attributed to a mysterious sore that he had on his legs. Wasiu trailer also died mysteriously on his return from Saudi Arabia where he had gone for hajj. After these two, Talo held sway briefly as Olori, before he was humiliated and humbled by the MC Oluomo of the 36 kiniun(36 lions). After the death of Bombay and and Wasiu Trailer, there was continued fracas amongst the gangs.

The desperation for control of territories (junctions) left so many dead. MC Oluomo was able to prove himself as a ruthless fighter. For example, he successfully avenged the murder of his elder brother Igidaduro. This led to the killing of the popular Elewedu and Suwe-Suwe who were both notorious members of the dreaded Oodua People’s Congress (OPC). This endeared him to the hearts of many of the hoodlums. It also led to his having more loyalists than any other group. He was also believed to have had the backing of the authorities in Lagos and some other neighboring states.


Due to the frequent clashes in Oshodi, influential persons in the state called on MC Oluomo to bring about peace; otherwise, he would lose their backing. So he called other leaders, the likes of Sule Nayam, Baba Fela, and others who are leaders of other groups.to a meeting where they agreed to have a single front which they tagged Oshodi One. They all swore to an oath that they would remain under one leadership. MC Oluomo became Olori of all the gangs.

However, this did not stop others from heading their various gangs, just like Capone having so many dons of different gangs under him. The source of income for these gangs is extortion; monies from politicians and political godfathers who use them as tools to destabilize the society and rig elections. They can go to any length to extort money from bus drivers and petty traders. Recently, such monies generated have continued to cause problems within and outside the gangs.

Most clashes alleged to have been caused by OPC were actually the result of the struggle for ‘resource control’. For instance, November 28, 2008, was a day the residents of Agbole in Ariori Street, Oshodi will not forget in a hurry. Residents woke to the sounds of gunshots and the ugly sights of human beings being roasted like animals. A group of street urchins (hiding under the umbrella of the Gani Adams led OPC popularly known as Wasiu (Nothing spoil)took the lives of two young men who belonged to the Fredrick Fasheun led faction of the OPC. This, at its face value, was another OPC war. But facts revealed to our correspondent by an outsider who wants to remain anonymous was that the killings were a calculated efforts to use the rivalry between the two factions of the OPC to eliminate some perceived enemies.

A source said the killing was a result of a fight which started at TY Hotel, which is a hideout for members of the OPC and some area boys. The source disclosed that one of the boys killed, known as MC Lee, an upcoming musician who was on his way to TY hotel when he saw a fight between two young boys he knew fairly well. In the process of trying to separate the fighting duo, one of the boys whom he never knew was a member of Gani Adams led-OPC, started a fight with him and MC Lee was said to have upper hand in the fight. A few days later, MC Lee was stopped on a motorcycle at Ariori, on his way to TY Hotel by a leader of the Gani Adams led OPC) Wasiu Nothing spoil). He was beaten blue and black and tied like a goat till following day.


New Oshodi

He was asked to call the leader Otunba Kosija, to come to his rescue. An ambush had been laid down for Kosija. MC Lee’s effort to reach Kosija on the phone proved futile. He was also directed to call Bayo Sanusi , popularly called Oro Bayo. Oro Bayo responded immediately he received the distress call from MC Lee. On getting to the place where MC Lee was held, he was said to have told Nothing Spoil that whatever the issue was could be resolved without getting into such a humiliating extent. Immediately, Nothing Spoil was said to have ordered his boys to attack Oro Bayo while he shot MC Lee, and commanded Oro Bayo be brought before him. He also shot him and ordered the two of them be set ablaze.

Another source who preferred anonymity told our correspondent that the killings of Oro Bayo and MC Lee was as a result of the struggle for ‘resource control’ in Oshodi between Akinsanya (Oluomo) and Otunba Kassim Badmus (Kosija). It was learnt that some youths in Oshodi felt sidelined and deprived of their ‘rights’ to monies generated by the Oluomo led National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW) (area boys). They were also angered by the fact that some people outside Oshodi, who were not stakeholders, were being given large sums of money monthly. Some were said to have been given what is popularly ‘junction’ in Oshodi to take charge of and these ‘junctions’ are where the monies are being made. Among such people are popular Yoruba actor and a famous Fuji musician.


The killing of M C Lee and Oro Bayo was targeted to coincide with the time Oluomo was going 2008 Hajj, knowing fully well that people will not point accusing fingers at him when the killing took place. The plan was that the death of Kosija would send a warning message to those sympathetic to him, just as the death of Elewedu and Suwe-Suwe sent warning signals to those who were sympathetic to their causes.

>http://gavelinternational.org/gang-wars-why-oshodi-may-boil-again/#sthash.oxQvQzA8.dpbs

Cc lalasticala
Mynd44

And I guess the only person or thing that can topple Oluomo is ( Coup detat), God factor(Death or Illness) and if TINUBU turns his back on him

You wrote so well, start a blog or write a book.

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

Tell your husband and block your Ex...

You are not helpless and your ex is not in love with you either he just wants to know if he can still hit it for his ego sake.

smi2021:
Am following closely.. I already got 2 plots I intend to build on. Maybe in 2024 sha because I just finished paying for the plots from my commission as a real estate agent. For now I want to relax before I start saving up again.

Well done

pinkPUSSY:
Atiku knw that his then stronghold is gone hence his desperation in renting crowd to constitute nuisance at the Airport...

Hes now focusing on NE and NW for votes which is not bad as a politician ..


The issue here is Bola..Tinubu running away to London is not the best thing to do.. He should step down for Obi to ensure that power comes to the south for political equity and stability of the nation, not trying to be a spoiler.

I dont knw where he intends to get his votes from because no sane southerner will support his candidacy neither would any sane northerner support him because the handwriting is obviously on the wall

Nope!

He should not step down abeg because he will start saying he installed OBI

It is the people of Nigeria that are installing Obi... Vote Peter Obi

Kingdollar28:
Get married!!

Your head go calm down by force!!

To your sister??
Or who do you want him to marry?

Your daughter?

Marry ke.....

You want someone daughter to become backup no 1

Not fair

Johnnyjohnnyman:


No need to test them because they are mine

Ok

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father.

Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed.

I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.

I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Previous thread:

Test the other kids too.... Test the ones that looks like you. Test all of them.

dsocioemmy:
These children of today sef

If na them they no go.... Awon Gen zee

JackDaAlienz:
Omo we busted village yesterday, we are in my grandmas place.
After lunch, i was shocked when my grandma told my dad to go outside and buy recharge card for her.
See man wey dey form hard man for house
Dem dey send to go buy recharge card

I couldn't help but hold my laughter when my dad went out to buy recharge card

E really shock me, my dad is a Big man ohh
As well respected thats why im wondering why his mother (my grandma) still send him on errands

Your dad is a great son..

Okro no dey big pass him farmer.

Your pop has shown you a great example.

Ff

Dtruthspeaker:


She was the one who made me understand what God said and meant when He said "the heart of men are desperately wicked seeking continually to do evil."

If men were wicked, popsi, uncles, neighbours father's, then how wickeder are women?

Mumsi, sister, aunties, (no girlfriend. Saw all their wickedness and evil from very far) you vagina carriers are very very evil.

Like Ahab and Jezebel, an evil man and an evil woman or women deserve each other

Evil begets evil! That is The Law!

Eyah

Massiveglory:
The simplicity is too much.
Op, there is a difference between flying a private jet on tax payers money and flying on your own personal sweat.

Hurricane tornado aka Guguwar obi is an uncommon politician.
It is the turn of Nigerians. We are the campaign council of Peter obi- Datti ahmed.

This is a private charter like ... It is a taxi airplane.

He used his money not our money

Peter OBi for president

Skankamola:

Peter obi mirage, nigerias problem is bigger than ome man, it would take atleast 4 generations to correct the many problems we are faced with. Our human capital development index is very low, almajiris roaming about contributing nothing to the economy but getting more from central purse. Mr peter obi wont be able to tackle that if you are to be sincere, atiku/tinubu are just greedy thieves. What we need at the moment is restructuring of govt or outright return to regionalism or let every one go his way.

What we need is to start going to the right direction and Peter Obi can help us do that.

adenigga:




https://punchng.com/Nigeria-has-no-business-with-poverty-insecurity-Obasanjo

May God grant Obasanjo long life .... He loves Nigeria and he is very intelligent. He is not perfect but he loves Nigeria

Dtruthspeaker:


That is the surprising thing! where before, it was very difficult but on that day, it would be too easy.

And I noticed that this only happened at a period when a person has decided to follow God and stay holy. that is when they start smiling at you and greeting you and being too helpful

Women are pure evil especially when one sees how God does not like them near Him at all.

Sex with a woman who is not your wife is sudden guaranteed death to children of God. That is what made God stop talking to Abraham and David.

Your mum?

Survivor2020:
My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home.

She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition.

I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby. Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm.

I don't have time to babysit the baby.
I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine.
I hope my decision is not bad?

Very bad decision.

That child is your grandson... And I know how you feel feeding another man's child but that child is your grandson ... Your flesh and blood and inflation is so high now so logically I agree with you but bloodline that boy carries your blood.

Women avoid poor men!!!

Ginaz:
A teen in my compound has a problem with body odor. several times she come to my house left the air smelling so stale and rotten, i noticed her younger sister had same issue too.

i couldn't take it anymore, it was so bad and i was afraid she might be mocked in the future if nothing is done to combat it.

i asked her if she ever heard about roll-on or antiperspirant, she replied NO! and this is someone using an iphone and changes clothing periodically.

i gave her my antiperspirant and taught her the need to use it daily as most of the odor comes from her armpit. i told her point blank she doesn't smell nice, her face changed somehow as if i insulted her and she left.

i saw her today and she walked passed me while i was trying to talk to her.

did i do wrong ? children of these days.

Most teens have body odor...a combination of new hormones and poor hygiene.
You did the right thing telling her and she did the right thing to not greet you again...
After court case no more friendship.

Let her be pls!