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Animal feed are too costly to make reasonable profit this period.

Feeding Rabbits is not a child play considering how difficult it is to sell them at good price. The few I keep in my cage, I used vex kill them all when I could no longer cope with their expenses.

Sp33i:
The whole village is heaping praises to God on my behalf. Every day, i setup my farms, hours after planting, rain falls. I have faith in God. I trust in your counsel as a wise elder agriculturist, but I am still growing Sir. I will get to the place of irrigation one day, but I am.not there yet.

God in his infinite mercy will see you through this project. Remember to give back to the village when the coast is clear.

Iconme:
WHAT A RIGGED MATCH 😂😂😂

INTER DON REALLY CASH OUT TONIGHT😋

My thought exactly, I don't trust Italians, the country is heaven of match fixers.

The cash out might be too big to sacrifice for CL trophy.

Maize plantation is very risky without irrigation, even during the rain season.

A 10 days without rain can have negative effects on yielding results. I will rather do an acre with irrigation than 6 acres withiout it.

cococandy:
We don’t give af if men chose not to settle down. You guys are the ones complaining about women being single. Nobody cares but you guys. You spend morning and evening crying about women being single. @bold, Have you paused to wonder why those women chose to keep their homes yet their husbands still cheat on them? Their reward for staying is more heartbreak. What’s in it for them?




Natural according to who? The way you guys just come online and make unfounded claims is astonishing to me. Yes if I leave a cheating husband and the man I marry later cheats, I’ll leave him too. It’s not your legs I’ll be using for the leaving. Besides who said leaving is the only option? You think married women’s puccis are sown shut? Two can play. Simple and short. You get what you give.



How about we encourage men to stay faithful? To treat their wives how they want to be treated? Is that asking for too much? Single mothers are happy enough. Married women are not any happier than them. Especially not the ones with disrespectful husbands.

Not only should married women with cheating husbands leave, if they chose to stay, I hope they cheat enough that 3 out of their 4 kids are fathered by outside men.

Go preach that mess to someone who cares.

I gave up on you, it is obvious you can't change. Perhaps you should seek advise from elderly women concerning this topic and see the advice they will give you.

May God judge you if you are a submissive wife offline but came online to preach this.

Paragonpric:
That's a bleeped up excuse sir, nothing like men are polygamous in nature. She loved her husband dearly, from my point of view anyways.

Can you take back a cheating wife? Am sure 99.9% of we men won't accept such, so why should your wife tolerate it? Some women get self worth sir, if you wanna cheat marry women who understand your ""men are polygamous sh!t talk"". Some women won't take such and they make it clear to you before marriage. It's your choice to make

The earlier you understand or accept that men and women are not the same, the better for you all. The way women see sex is quite different to the way men see it, and that explains why women don't care to share a man, while a man can't share his wife with anyone. It also explains why women can't boldly tell their ugly past in public, while men can proudly do and still be call hero.

You can't cheat nature, the failure to follow this proper natural arrangement is what brought family dysfunction in our society. A woman can divorce her husband on the grounds of domestic violence or irreconcilable difference but not because of cheating( especially if her husband take good care of the family). Men will cheat at some point in their lives, it is inevitable, so the person you are going to marry again will also cheat.

cococandy:
Don’t speak for women. I have news for you, being single or a single mother is not the worst thing that can happen to a woman. Many single women are better off than those living with their enemies in the name of husband. Who needs enemies when your husband is the number one person putting your heart and health at risk?

If my husband can leave me for cheating on him, I too can leave him for the same offense . Do you think this is a gotcha question? Maybe you’re used to women who are scared of being divorced that you think this kind of question will trip them up. You get the energy you give!

We are either in an open marriage or we’re not. It can’t be open on his end and closed on mine.

Women are not naturally created to be on the receiving end of heartache and abuse. I don’t know who lied to you all but you need to start unlearning all that BS.

If you don’t like my response, kiss a lit dynamite 😘

That is what I was saying in my previous post, since you've chose to compete with men, just don't come and complain later that men don't want to settle with single mothers or start sleeping with another women's husbands that chose to keep their homes.

Yes, being a single mother is not the end of the world but leaving your husband because he cheated is not what a natural woman should do. What if the person you marry later cheat too, will you still leave him and go to another man? Besides, no good women who are single mothers happy with their situation.

We should not encourage women to leave their homes (except for domestic violence or abuse) because alot of young women can be influence by what we posted on social medias. The roads to find happiness again is very brutal and not smiling at all to the single mothers, especially the ones with kids.

cococandy:
are you a woman? 🙄🙄

I am a man, and i will say it again, a woman with deep understanding of nature will never abandoned her home/marriage to become a single mother because her husband cheated. Unlike men, women are not naturally wired to do so except they have plan B or already tired of the marriage. Have you ever ask yourself why it easier for women to share a man but absolutely not for men to share women. A woman that refuse to accept nature or start competing with her husband may end up being a single mother.

Let me ask you too, can you leave your marriage/home because your husband cheated on you?

JovialJune:
So Op it is laziness of the women that made men release into them and produce babies okwaya? And you went to school, with your alleged intelligence, you didn't think that single mothers are rampant because two grown up adults choose to have sèx outside marriage without protection, which resulted to babies abi

Single mothers produce by marriage are more than it produce by boyfriend-girlfriend.

There are many reasons for high rate of single mothers in Nigeria today:

1. People married for a wrong purpose or reason.

2. The decline in family values.

3. Modernity.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

CommonSense1967:
Smart man. Play along, then show Wike sege later.

Everyone will collect sooner or later.

You showed your hand way too early especially when Wike has almost total control of the House.

Lolz, you think those vagabonds are not wiser that him right?

They won't allow him to win a second term ticket.

fergie001:
Nice one, Trent.

Had to leave your boyhood club to a bigger and better one.... Wise decision, those ones should go and play Konate there

Liverpool is not a small club too.

allthingsgood:
Fastest way to kee yasef

It is better that way o.

They don't rest from demanding if they know you have money in your account. The best bet is to show them, while you hide the one you don't want to touch.

That last one is so true, women came into marriage with business mind. If they are acted friendly, it means you are still doing her selfish desires or needs.

Greatmec:
Your advise is actually practical.

Mistresses: For me to have survived this marriage this far it is thanks to mistresses (side chicks). Actually some side chicks have ensured the survival of a lot of marriages, ha ha ha. The problem is that initially most side chicks accept their position, respect your set boundaries and stay on their lane. But over time they want to carry your baby or become second wife. You leave her, get and groom another one, only for the scenario to start repeating itself. Over time I am kind of tired of all that.

Second wife: I am a product of polygamy. So I know the advantages and challenges involved in it. I want a stable home with one wife and many kids. However having and retaining my ideal home has been seriously jeopardized by my wife's attitude to sex or our incompatibility on that angle. However a sort of modernized polygamy is not ruled out. But even if a second wife enters into the picture somehow I still need to be able to get it up for my first wife.

I understand your point sir, and from your reply, I can deduce that you really love and cherish your home. I gave the advise because I've seen it first hand happening. You don't need any spiritual solution, it is more of psychology than physical. Your body will respond positively again the moment you completely stop worring about it. Detach yourself emotionally from her, get a separate room and always be happy at home. And if you can be bold enough, tell her you will get another wife if thing continue like this and see how positively she would respond in finding solutions.

However, in a situation whereby the other half don't care about your feeling or take a sacrifice to make it work, you have no option than to take your destiny into your hands, especially if you want to live long. Women don't change, they only get worse as they aged. If everything you said about her is true, then trust me, a time will come that she won't even entertain sexual discussion again, let alone sex. And it is most likely that your intimate life may finally come to an end immediately she enter menopause.

As for the side chicks, they are not meant to stay long in the game, except if they are single mothers who don't want to give birth again. If you want the one that will stay long with you, consider a single mother that don't want to give birth again.

As for the second wife, you have to be rich to scale through this kind of lifestyle. The ideal to solve this problem is to build same house pattern for both of them. Each stay in their respective home, while you stay more with the one that prioritise your needs.

kmst:
North is really trying to draw tinubu out into the ring by force
Tinubu wants to keep pretending he is friends with them
They keep throwing jabs to make Tinubu come out in public but Tinubu is too scared to call them out by their names just cos of some million votes
Is this not the Buhari CPC gang?

He is probably doing so to get his 2nd term before he strike the like of Malami.

The way they will punish this guy, Dansuki own will be like a child play.

helinues:
Bro you never meet rich and coded people. It's only those who didn't grow up with money that get freaked with money and fame. Aje

Those you think are rich but coded are not that rich in reality. There is no way you can be rich and hide it except you live in the cave.

You must be addicted to something you spend lavishly on that will give you out.

KennethOkonkwo:
Aregbesola is struggling to hide is pain!



Femi Gbajabiamila,Nuhu Ribadu and Ganduje are living his dream!

No one in his shoes would not be pains or regret his/her action.

Aregbesola would've been a lovely untouchable bird in Tinubu government but greed, pride, ungratefulness, and lack of foresight push him to his doom. He may never rise politically again.

Greatmec:
You might be right or wrong. But please I want the emphasis to be more on finding solution to this problem rather than to pin down my wife on it.

She is not circumcised and she has not yet reached menopause.

However even before I married her I knew she had a low sex drive. I thought I could work on that and improve it but unfortunately it has gone the other way round. Now she has close to zero sex drive.

However please am looking for solution to my temporary impotence only before my wife. Thank you.

Marry another wife or get a reliable mistress. You have only one life to live, and you can't afford to live it in sorrow and fear. A woman with low libido will only get worse as she is aged.

If you don't want to take my advise, then continue in search of your solution.

Zonefree:
He should be arrested if he fails to complete the miracle. I hate nonsense!

Lolz, you think is not smart to have known the consequence?

The thing that looks like water in those bowls are white gin. He will randomly call his accomplices from the crowd to come and test it before he start, those ones too will echoes water for everyone to hear.

10billionDollar:
This is a type of logical fallacy where a conclusion is drawn about a population or situation based on a small or unrepresentative sample.

Who told you he drew his conclusions from small or unrepresentative sample?

Go and do your own research, I have done mine, and 99% of ladies wearing legs chains are prostitutes or easy to get women. The other 1% are retired sure babes who had already used to it.

MufasaLion:
Your past heroes are not the main problem. Focus on the foolish people leading the country now. They are your problem.

Nothing heroine about the past leaders or people. If our forefathers are that good, we will never be in this situation we are today. They're in best position to lay down a good foundation for us like reknown scholars in Europe, America and Asia, but failed. The few ones left are wicked than the youths. It disgust me anytime elderly person open their mouths to talk about their days.

If you want to know why our society became so useless today, go and deal with the so called elders and see first hands corruption and wickedness in them. Infact, this generation are far more emphatic, tolerance, and have foresight than the so called elders.

blacksam01:
Remove ur eyes from generator every evening...

Buy only bags of rice or half bags ( join Watsap group that buy directly from cheap places)

If ur wife is not working, go to the market urself to buy bulky essentials...most house wives inflat prices to get pocket money

Lower your love for top brands...

Adopt the use of electric cooker also with gas..but like 80% gas..

Tell ur wife to avoid over cook ND over feeding where children run to toilet immidiately after eating...

I dnt see why 150k won't last one month... except u want to live in a very high lifestyle...like buying fastfood breads for the family instead of equally good open market displayed bread ..etc

150k in one month for family of husband, wife and children?

It is possible but that means the entire family has to skip lunch. A family of 4 on average living will spend nothing less than 7k - 10k per day. Breakfast for the children, money for biscuits, their lunch at school and transportation(if their school is far),alone will cost you 4k or more. A soup of 5k or more can't last you for more than 2 days.

Unlike adult, children are expensive to take care of, and if you don't feed them well, you are only teaching them how to steal or lose concentration at school.

It is not easy at all, majority are just pushing it anyhow with the hope of getting liberated someday.

pansophist:
Close-minded people (actually stupid people) uses insult, shaming tactics, and manipulation trying to make sense, instead of drop their foolish opinion and go.

Why is his parent not with their own parents?

All the thing you mentioned that his parent did for him, he will do it for his own children, this is the natural dynamic. It doesnt mean he wont show care to his parent, but care doesnt mean living with them permanently.

So if he has to be a businessman that travels globally, he should saddle his parents and be flying everywhere with them? Do you think at all?

I take very good care of my parents, and we do not live together. Care can be shown without 24/7 physical presence. I have kids as well, so I have reached that age.

Judging from the time you opened your nairaland account, I would have expect a level of decorum and manners when you write, but you have proven that stupid people also grow old

You should learn to advise people base on the issue they are facing and their condition. That is a simple logic you fail to apply in your judgement.

Did you bother to know if his grandparents is late or alive? Did he tell you he work in another city or his work requires him to travel? And to make the matter worse, the guy even said he fear to leave them in that condition, yet you still advise him to leave his parents.

No one said you should live with your parents if there is no reason to or if you don't stay in the same city with them or if his job requires him to travel alot. The guy issue here is quite different. They live in the same city, he probably work in the same city and made his breakthrough in that same city. He should only leave them if there is no comfortable place in that house to allow his privacy.

While you think you are remotely taking care of your parents, alot of your mates bring them over to their houses and take good care of them.

Lastly, no one is insulting you, just that it annoying you didn't analyse his issue before giving advise.

pansophist:
Your parents should adopt kids, thats the natural cure to this dilemma.

Children needs guidance, provisions and protection, and your parents needs their presence, and to see life through the eyes of children once again.

Also, the power dynamic between you and your parents have changed, unlike when you were a child. Right now, your parents have authority over you but without responsibilities, which is unfair to you.

For example, if they want to bath with hot water, prefer their eba extra soft, and maybe you have to clean their apartment, these are responsibilities on you, but you cant tell them what to do, or even scold them. You have no authority.

With children, your parents will have authorities and responsibilities, which is a balance. E.g, they kids do domestic work, and your parents wont feel lonely. But the trade off is that your parents have responsibilities towards the children.

I see that you have a good family that is united, and you care for your parents, this is very good, but consider what I said. Its an old practice that is solved by adopting kids, or men going into polygamy to birth more children.

You are too selfish and ingrate. So your parents that endure endless sleepless nights when you were a baby are fools abi? Your parents that sacrificed so much to make sure you are well brought up are fools? Your parents that bath you, carry your shits, wash your clothes for years are fools?

This type of people make one wonder if it worth to raise children. Anyway, when you start having your own children or reach their age, you will understand better.

We are so selfish and ignorant in this part of the world. What is so bad in staying with someone aged parents that laboured endlessly to raise us? So, he can move to them when he was struggling but not when he is financially stable? That is the extent of our shallow thinking, and you keep wondering if it worth it to suffer to raise children these days.

An average European, Chinese or American live with their parents but here in Africa, we detest and don't have empathy toward one another. Why would anyone leave his aged parents when he/she is in position to stay with them. Loneliness at old age is out of this world, and it is a great privilege to have one of your children family around.

That is why every man should try to make money. The rich take up another wife that will give them young children who will keep the house running at old age.

lexy2014:
since you know everything about politics and the electoral process, how does all you have said answer the simple questions I asked you:

what is the population of these "grassroot supporters"?

are you one of them?

I've answered you in the first paragraph of the post you quoted.

A thousand of grassroot supporters can attract millions of votes through their families members, friends, associates, relatives, benefactors, disciples, subordinates, etc. And it is not stopping there, many of these people under them will also have many under them that won't go against their directions.

That is why MAJORITY is the key characteristic of democracy and election victory. It is absolutely impossible to win a general election withiout quality grass root mobilizers.

onyxo76:
still got half a kilo for 4k today, that all I could afford, I pity family men these days, there's no way you won't spend at least 10k to feed your family daily.

I love your submission, despite being single, you still have some emphatics for married men. That 10k is just for a family of 4 to eat normal and not better foods.

lexy2014:
what is the population of these "grassroot supporters"?

are you one of them?

Una no sabi politics at all, grassroot supporters also have families and relatives who benefit directly or indirectly from them.

Some people you see abusing a particular candidate online are just doing that to appeal neutral or innocent to you. They are entirely different person offline. Some are directly or indirectly benefiting from thses corrupt system and politicians.

If you take what people are saying for who they will vote for, then you know next to nothing in electoral process.

Just work hard to get money and stop the rubbish.

There is one very tin malnourished looking man in my area that you will take to be over 70 years. I saw him just last month, and I could not believe how this man now suddenly transform to fresh and handsome like young men in their 40's. It was later that someone told me his son just made stupid money and funded his life.

The only thing that will make you look young, live long and healthy is peace of mind. You can eat or do whatever you like, once you have peace of mind, nothing on earth will happen to you.

You that any serious candidate should not allow to near his campaign grounds is talking about running for president. Politicians has no shame at all.