₦airaland Forum

hohafrank:
Although not supporting the evil committed or holding brief for him, don't you think that men go through tough times trying to meet family demands, especially family of 8 persons in this case,will make the man look aged and famished.
However the pictures of the woman may be the ones taken years back while that of the man's is the one at the time of arrest?

You get time for those inexperience kids opening their mouths anyhow.

If you check both of them pictures before wedding, you will realise that she got that beauty because of her husband endless provision of comfort for her and her kids. Family oriented men hardly take care of themselves but their wives and children. That is why irresponsible men live longer than men that shows love and care to their families.

It is so unfortunate that this set of adulterous women will still cheat their husbands with these irresponsible men they refuse to marry. Only an irresponsible man with no integrity will be sleeping with another person wife.

Ceenachi:
The husband should be stoned to death by the youth of that area. It's not a police issue

Never pray to be in that shoes, seeing your wife sleeping with another man is most deadly blow to a man psychology. Not every man can handle that situation wisely, and no matter how strong you think you are, you can commit grave error at that particular moment.

While I blame the man for killing her, I blame his wife the most. Cheating by a woman is unacceptable by any standard, it is a serious breach of trust and foolery of one partner. No man will intentionally share his wife with another man, it is much more better to divorce him than sleeping with another man under his roof.

helinues:
Good reforms and policies

Good reforms and policies on paper but can't really be successful in a chronic corrupt system we are operating in Nigeria. The hardship is unbearable among the masses, and what is the point of absorbing a whole nation into severe poverty when all that seem to be the proceeds of that pains still end up in the pocket of greedy politicians. For instance, ever since the removal of fuel subsidy and floating of naira, governors have been receiving huge allocations from its proceed with nothing to show for it. Ministries and government agencies are not left out, but what can we say about their achievements today. What has government done to cut down the cost of governance? What sacrifices have they made to lead by example? Must it be the only masses that should suffer for this necessary but unworkable government policies?

The best gift the old man can give to this country is to return us back to regionalism. He is the only politician alive that can do it, if we lose this chances through Tinubu, Nigeria may remain unworkable until another civil war that will decide our fates break out.

Let return to regionalism or just central government and 774 local governments. States must be totally abolish for Nigeria to move forward.

Trump should have order all US embassy and national carriers not to give visa or allow pregnant women into USA instead of all this unconstitutional declaration that will attract series of criticisms and courts orders.

ObosiLandlord:
I didn't say you say so. I'm just telling you that some people claimed he will be impeached. Fubara will rule Rivers state till 2031.

You people over estimate the power of a governor. Governors are only powerful when they control the ruling party or majority of stake holders in their states. No Governor can get party ticket withiout being on the good book of the same party. Governors are always the Alpha and Omega of his party in the state, but usually powerless if he can't control at least 60% of his party members. Incumbent Governor don't allow party primary, and once that is chosen to determine his fate, just know he is not in charge and 90% sure he may lose.

Ambode lost for the same reason, even if you join another party to contest, where will you see people that can command Thounsands votes to mobilise for you. Obaseki won through PDP because, the party has great structure and people who can command thousands votes for him.

If I were Fubara, I will simply join the APC.

I don't think USA under Trump will have time for that.

Trump has never hide his disdain to America big brother foreign policy, it is just a matter of time that he would cut off all the benefits developing countries are enjoying through USA benevolence practice.

It is only logical for smart leaders from developing countries to align with new blocs that will offer mutual benefits with obvious path to economic cooperations. It is much more better to have big economy like Russia,China and India on-board than 100% dealing with Trump leading USA government that have vows to only focus on internal policies. Asides that, we still have England and other EU countries we can deal with, that mean we still have 4 out of 5 UN veto power and other non permanent UN security Council members on our side.

Enskynelson:
Should it be "among 5k people" you said or among 5k people with previous bow legs?

I meant one among 5000 people, that says, almost all bow legs children become straight at adults. Severe bow legs adults should be one among 200,000 people.

You can start observing yourself.

Enskynelson:
How about the adults we are with bow legs?

They are almost inexistence in numbers as you may not see any adult with obvious bow legs among 5,000 people.

Absolutely yes(100%).

I have seen many like that, infact non of bow legs children I knew during my childhood still have it today.

Godfullsam:
What criteria will they use to share the monthly allocation to the various local governments?

Equally because local governments creation are mostly based on many factors, including the size and population of a state. Reason states do not have equal numbers of local governments.

Dogalmighty17:
But seriously what does Annie even do? See how another woman put her in her place.

Your husband was one of the first people who enjoyed the monetary boom that has entered the nigerian music industry. You didn't think of going to movie academy to improve your self or anything. With the brand name your husband has, a well scripted show could have sold out. Funke Akindele really can't be said to be the best at what she does but she has been consistent at it so she gets results.

It is a thing of shame that the wife of 2face can be asked what she does and she can't even provide an answer. No be to dey waka for hotel upandan dey fight your husband because say him snap with female fans.

If you say Funke Akindele is not really the best in what she do, I wonder who you will qualify as best in the same category.

As for Annie, it is not a must she does what anyone like, some women after marriage prefer to stay low key to perfect their homes. She might prefer to follow another path, which is not visible to the public in order to have a blessed home or marriage. Tell me how many celebrities you know that drag celebrity status with their husbands and still remain blissfully married today. Life is all about choice and our happiness should be at the top of the ladder. It is quite wrong to blame or shame someone for not doing what you like or expect them to do.

louken:
Importance of money can never be overemphasized. Forget what they told you about love. Get enough money and spend it generously on your family and you will have all the love you want

And if a female later come to this forum that she can't marry a broke man, nearly all men here would be calling her various derogation names.

Can we now say that women are smarter than us or what, because many men will hardly believe you, until they get married and become stranded.

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

Why are you judging him withiout knowing his actual story? What if the man was very rich but lose his wealth along the journey of life?

Besides, you think 1 or 2 kids and wife, making family of 3 or 4 is not stressful in this economy?

Married woman registered on dating site?

You can be rich and be stingy or merciless to the poor but being evil could quickly lead you to an early grave.

Don't toy that path please, pray to be rich and be humble instead.

Modernity is the reason for rate of divorce in Nigeria and Africa at large. It is High time we go back to old way that the parents/relatives would be the ones to find spouse for their children (especially the first one).

Alot of men don't have the wisdom to marry a good woman, imagine a full grown man coming to social media and proudly saying he wanted to wife a known cheater/unfaithful woman.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Biology 2.0 reloaded!

I meant deep in relationships bro.

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

This shows you are not close to being rich yourself. Both the Rich and the poor are always think of how to grow from their present conditions, the only difference is that, the rich, having attain some level of financial freedom, tend to have more opportunities and resources to navigate their ways into success, while lack of opportunities and resources may brings the poor to further failure. One thing is certain as far as Nigeria is concern, if you are not born into rich family, you can never become rich withiout encounter a life changing opportunity that you used to your advantage.


Rich men have more frequent casual sex than all poor men combine. The poor mostly don't have option but to sleep with their wives who can mistakenly get pregnant at anytime.

Unlike the poor, they have resources to take care of many girlfriends, including married women, and they don't go deep to the extent that you will get pregnant for them.

NwaAmaikpe:



Having been in the exact shoes of the deceased, it makes loads of sense to me but I can not relate to this.

The most trying time in a man's life are the first few weeks after his woman has just had a baby, with the kuntus all slushy and no where to slot in one's ogbunigwe, masturbation becomes the only way out.

A few wives are considerate to give their husbands a period of grace wherein they can shag anyone outside, but the wicked ones without any consicence act like they do not know that the second reason God created man is to ejaculate.

As an avid advocate of masturbation, I know there's nothing more upsetting than getting interrupted when almost at the point of no return while masturbating, but that in itself is still not enough to kill yourself about.

People like us whose women allow us shag them a few hours after childbirth don't know what God has done for us.

Masturbation is mostly caused by lack of access to frequent sex. If you are accustomed with real frequent sex, the urge to masturbate will disappear even if you don't have sex for 2 months. You will see it as unworthy exercise, your mind would be so conditioning in such a way that only a woman body could arose you. Infact, you won't even get erection or interest in a woman that is not sexullly appeal to you.

press9jatv:
Timi of Ede land never respect the office he occupied. He’s nuisance here

Kingship is not by age but prestige associated with the throne.

Culturally, it is very wrong for a king to bow down for another king to whom is not traditionally paying homage.

ibechris:
It affected my dad is now blaming him.
Oga take ur useless emotion away from here.

This is the same mentality that has thwarted ur mental state from reasoning properly.

Keep off my TL.

Ordinarily, I would've ignored you but I think you are still a young guy who is still trying to find his feets in life. Nothing will make sense to you now, until you get to that stage. This is not about being emotional, I was only telling you about real life situations. What you read in the books are some people experiences in their society or environment, which might be totally different to yours and the way your society works. I've read so many books including rich dad you mentioned, but later realised that alot of circumstances do change things along the journey of life. Life or let me say living is dynamic and not static, it is not what you totally measure by another people experiences or direction.

Like if your children Need 2 millions naira for school fees, and your suppose passive income fail you at that moment, will you go and borrow money with interest or start begging on the streets just because you don't want to spend from your active income?

Life doesn't work that way, so appreciate your dad and make him happy with little you can. This is Nigeria where over 80% don't have passive income, so if you say spending his active income to sponsor you was a mistake/affected him, will you be happy if he gladly spent it on himself and allow you to become nuisance in society today?

ibechris:
This is why I keep saying that,it is easier to make money but very hard to maintain it to last ur existence.

Aside health issues that can cripple ur wealth.

Don't ever use money from ur business to train ur children. Don't use ur salary or pension to train ur children never.


Use passive income to this and honestly,u won't blame
yourself for this.

Many people have actually become poor today because they failed to use other income source to drive their growth.

My dad was affected by the same thing .

Read this up on nairametrix
Rich dad,poor dad same dad.

Easier said than done, when you start having your own children and solely depends on salary or proceed from business, don't train them and be waiting for special money to do so. Instead of you to appreciate your dad and work hard to assist the old man, you are here blaming him for not ignoring you totally and solely improve himself.

As long as you chose to have children in life, the best thing you can do to yourself is to train them with whatever you can afford. If you fail to do so, you will never enjoy your old age, that wealth you think could be useful to you at old age could be a course as a result of irresponsible children that can do anything to eliminate or bring you down to take over.

advanceDNA:
Oga..i have been in different situations in life.. and I did not becos of that exploit anybody

If it's about food and basic need..the op won't complain ..these girls will tell u they are poor but ask for money for 200k wig...thats not being in need....thats just exploitation

Wetin you dey talk sef? We dey talk about those poverty striking girls that truly need help, you dey talk about empty headed slay Queen who demand 200k to by wig.

Baba rest, is like you don't read my previous posts or relies to other guys that quote me.

easytig:
If you meet her in abject poverty,you better leave her,let her marinate in her poverty ,or else she will drag the man into poverty too with unending billings, poverty is a contagious disease.never help who doesn't want to help herself

Let her papa and mama set her up bro,pls learn to play your cards safely.[/b]

Exactly, it is much more better not to date such girl than to be complaining of her billing. Although there are some useless girls who are living above their means and have make it their right to bill men but some are very decent, hardworking and genuinely need help.

And no, she can't drag you to poverty if you don't do more than your capacity. Contrary to your assumption, poverty is not a contagious disease if you know what you are doing.

If you ever meet such a girl, the best is to marry her and put her in a family business that would be bringing incomes. Don't call the business hers, until she manage it well and become the mother of your children.

advanceDNA:
Poverty doesn't make u put tension on others when u know they don't have plenty to throw around..

..it's being inconsiderate, wicked and unkind that makes u do so.....

May you not be in that situation, that is when you know that you can even seek help from your enemies. Poverty is one evil thing that should not befall a living soul. Women are very smart creature, before a girl ask you for something, he must have studies you and be sure you can afford it or have a channel to get it for her.

Like I said, the best bet is to stay away from such girl if you cant be of help to them. As someone you are dating or sleeping with, there is no way you will see her in a worse situation and not offer to help her if you can.

Badmashiii:
Wrong. You can hardly be the only man giving any the lady attention. If it's not offline,then the thousands of simps online will never fail to display their thirst.

Among the simpz,the girls can figure out one or two they shall be billing occasionally.

This is how ladies build up their billing list.

Things are not always what we think they are, some girls don't do double dating no matter the situation. Trust me, there are some ladies who genuinely needs help, they won't force you or bill you, they will genuinely ask for a favour, and you will see their situation by yourself.

advanceDNA:
Baba forget that gist ...nor dey create justification for exploitation.....weda a girl is poor a rich ...a girl who cares about u won't make u uncomfortable..
.this guy clearly doesn't have it yet the babe is exploiting him and stressing him...

Some are battling with serious poverty and genuinely need help, that is my point here.

The only favour you can do yourself is to stay away from such girl because they will definitely ask.

easytig:
If she can't fix basic things in her life ,she has no business in a relationship, relationship is all about sacrifice and support from both parties,if not had I known will be the last comment of a fool

Lolz, it amaze me how some of you reason, If you check well, men are the ones running after these broke girls and not the other way round. There is no logic in running after a broke girl and complaing she is demanding. Women will always demand, even your wife of 20 years, it is in their nature to do so as long as they don't have the means to do so themselves. You can only say she doesn't love or care about you if she earn well and still demanding as broke girls.

You know she is broke, you know she can't fend for herself, yet you chose to date her and start pounding the innocent girl with nothing to show for it. Naturally, men don't like their women to suffer no matter the circumstances, it so unfortunate some of you will come here to claim otherwise.

My point is that, some ladies are genuinely being battling with abject poverty, the ones that won't do a hookup will surely ask from their boyfriends. The best you can do for such a girl is to set her up if you know that the relationship is 99% heading to marriage.
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advanceDNA:
She doesn't love u....women don't make who they really care about uncomfortable ....

Btw...why the fvck will God give u money just to bankroll a woman exploiting you financially?

U better change ur prayer point

Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

ThugCheetah:
Please this just happened to me, someone sent me some money and called me that it was a mistake.. what’s your advice?

Report to your bank before you send him back the money.

In my own case, it was one of my customers who mistakenly make 50k into my account, she called two days later, and i refunded the money only for my account to be debited a week later. I went to the bank, and was later told that someone brought court order and reported the issue. I called this woman, only for her to be telling me that her son did so before she called me for a refund. She later went to the bank to settle it but took us about 2 weeks before the issue was rectified.

The second one also mistakenly make 75k to my account but it was during Christmas break, I had to follow her home and made the video with her children all testify to it before I transfer it back to her.