₦airaland Forum

SmartPolician:
Sowore needs to get into government. He cannot keep criticising the government all the time. He has so much to offer this country. He should've contested in the last guber election in Ondo State.

He is not mature enough to play politics, Sowore is better off as union or organisation leader.

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Maybe I am not suppose to tell you this because you seem like someone that is drunk in love or probably not smart enough, but I will because I hate seeing innocent men suffering in their marriage.

Psychologically, no able body woman on earth will tell her husband to find another girl to satisfy his sexual urge if she is not using it to justify her infidelity nature in her conscious mind. Women are very smart creature, they don't take responsibility for their action, your wife has nothing to blame on you should you start suspecting her of cheating, so she has to come up with a bait for you to have another girl.

You are no more a desirable person to her, you are nothing to her anymore, reason she is not afraid to lose you. If you like, disregard this post, but the possibility that your wife is cheating is 90%.

erniewhez:
cheating is common with married men than married woman, but in dating its common with girls.

100% truth, in my own observation, 10% of married women will cheat at any given opportunity, while 99% of men will cheat at given opportunity.

lailo:
I'm already weeping for you in advance
Suicide mission

I don't even know how to describe him, maybe the guy too is from dysfunctional home because a single man with right upbringing will never thought of dating a woman of 3 kids, let alone marry her.

That woman too is very wicked and highly a self centered. A sensible or selfless woman will simply find someone who is also a single father or elderly man that just want to have someone to talk and not single guy who just want to start his own family.

BonPatrick:
Good evening guys please there is a new tenant I let in and she is beautiful and I am in love with her and want to woo her in a week time, is it wrong to date her?

I will advise you not to, except you are single looking for a wife. Even at that you will most likely stop collecting a rent from her, which I think is more beneficial to your finance than a mere sex you get from her. You will most likely spend more dating her than someone from outside. You will most likely be element of ridiculous if other tenants get to know your relationship with her.

It is also feel like taking advantage of her, and if she rejects the offer, you may be living in captivity in your own house because any step you take to correct her wrong doing in compound will look like winch hunt to her.

This is what you should do, be nice to her, entice her with something she might like, if she is really interested, she will bring her body to you free of charge in your apartment withiout attaching dating term to it.

iwaeda:
Buy small cow early 2000.

There were still small cows of 50k around 2013

Even in 2019, there were still medium size cows around 120k, and the big size ones around 200k.

HelpfulBro:
Yes I think so, because it was first jock itch

But what is the reason for the little boils around

The little boils could be caused by heat, but if it bring out pus, then could be infections.

From the picture, that is not a disease but pealing of soft skin around your groin.

Avoid wearing tight boxer or walk in the sun to avoid sweating. Sleep naked in the night and don't use sponge to scrub the place again. It will dry up and vanish within 5 days.

Validated:
Stop day-dreaming, not possible, otherwise I will start exporting Dangote gasoline to US/Canada for $1 (N1650) per litre

This is another terrible being among Nigerians.

So if petrol is sell for #500/per litre, you will start exporting it to the US/CANADA to create artificial scarcity that could eventually lead to price increment for your people at home?

Many of us are terrible than the leaders we thought were bad.

Factcheck0001:
are u for real?

Omo many Nigerians are lazy thinkers with slave mentality ooo

He should get house of 300k, foodstuff of 250k n b looking for job

Whereas someone with 500k already have a POS shop where he also sells phone accessories n he's making a minimum of 7k per day

Nawah for some people ooo

Have 1 million n still look for job

The advise was solely base on what he proposed. He said " pending the time he would find a new job", that statement indicates that he did not think toward your direction but pay job to earn a living.

Besides, not everyone is endow for self employment, some can't manage a business, not because they are lazy, but because they are comfortable working for others and get paid.

And don't be quick to called people lazy thinkers just because they may not think the same way you do. Nothing is certain in life, even the so called business you are so much proud of today can reduce to nothing in a blink of eyes tomorrow, so never dismiss or underestimate other people efforts just because they don't follow your way.

donslmnstvn:
Relocating won't stop the pains and depression state you are in now. What you need is therapy. Seek for a qualified counsellor to help you out

Relocation stop alot of things including a psychological trauma. The mind process it as a new beginning, which significantly boost the state of mind.

Rockzy1:
I'm thinking of relocating to another state within Nigera and start a new life with 1million naira?

The major reason for relocating is that something happened to me and i want to move on from the pains, depression etc. I've tried to move on but it's not working.

If you are single, you have more than enough to relocate to any state in Nigeria.

Just get a cheap room selfcoin around 300k total package, use 100k to move your things to the new state, and another 250k to stockpile food stuffs( that will last you for about 2 months). Hold the remaining change for emergency until you get a new job.

Samantha125:
1. We hate unannounced visitors with passion.

2. People think we're boring, when we can be a lot fun when we're with the people we're close to.

3. Socializing is another challenge.

4. We like giving people the impression that we're dumb, when we're a lot more smarter than they think.

5. We talk less and listen more.

6. Sometimes we would just look at you and argue with you with our thoughts without saying a single word.

7. There are also times where we just want to be alone, not because we're upset, but because we just feel like it.

8. We're sensitive to noise.

9. We can be more active online than in real life.

10. We're lovers and not haters.

Majority of introvert are talkative, just that they only do that with people that close to them. Your no.2, say it all.

Introvert don't intentionally gives people the impression that they are dumb, people often see them as ones due to their reserved personality, and it pains them alot.

Every introvert wish they are not.

ibrocool:
The boy is truly a village boy who has been trained on how to survive in the forest. If a city boy is in this situation, he might not survive this

Surprisingly, he may also survive it. Never underestimate the power of survival instincts in humans. Children can do everything adult is capable of doing if left alone.

Love800:
You are saying that they should be nothing like governors. Am i correct?

Absolutely yes, local governments should be directly under regional government or Federal government.

End state now before they before they send the country back to 19th century.

Allocation giving to the states are waste, give this directly to the local governments and see tremendous developments within a year.

States are a waste of resources, it should be completely scrapped.

zanshi:
At least i am not trying to gum body with perceived rich people just to latch on their finances as a bambiala. I would rather offer value in exchange.

Lolz, look at the way you twisted the answer.

Since the rich should not be associate with the poor according to your analogy, why should the rich be associate with you even though you are not after their finance?

And according to your write up, rich and poor people has nothing in common, and the later is mostly fill with envy and jealousy, so what value are you saying you will exchange with rich people as a poor man?

zanshi:
Many years aback, my mother use to make a statement, "Move away from poor people, and mingle more with your level'', i use to find that statement to be rather classist, but i can tell you that she was right. Yes inequality and poverty is rife in our society, but there is a limit to what you can do to help people's situation.

The year 2024 has been a blessed one for me business wise, as i got to invest more of what i earned in my business but the call for help, please help me send, can you lend me request can be overwhelming.

As a hyper independent person it is sad to say that i haven't even gotten a gift from people i have helped touched their life in one way other. Even people who borrowed with the promise to pay back haven't fulfilled their commitment.

I am blessed to have a bit of financial success which i hope to last long and outlive my generation, i can't inconvineince myself to beck on everybody's call. At every point i must look at how i put myself first. So this 2025 i plead with all netizens to put themself first and discard any freeloader that may be a threat to your finances.

Quote: ''If it fininsh, dem go hail another person."

Happy new year!

And who would you move with before you become rich? Because if rich people also think like you, they will not allow you to get close to them before you become rich.

The best bet for you is to become rich in isolation and start looking for rich people to associate with.

nairalee:
Meanwhile in my country we are giving best graduating student N5,000

You lie, there are some giving 1m naira and above.

Biodun556:


She should eat, they will free her last last. Her detention is just to teach a lesson.

It is rather a cover up to alleviate the anger in Oyo people.

Things would've gone out of hands for her and Oriyomi Hamzat if they did not arrest them. Ritual allegations and all sort of accusations would've been flying around. Agidigbo FM owe by Hamzat might have been burnt down.

It is a good strategy that every smart person should adopt in this kind of situation. Las las, it is the same people that would be shouting "justice for so so so".

JAMO84:
If the north were the one producing crude like niger delta, generating tax like South West, they would have break away from Nigeria since a long time ago.

Exactly, and if Tinubu ever fail to achieve regionalism or true federalism before the end of his tenure, the next president from the North would be so brutal against the South and possibly block every mean to achieve that in the next 5 decades.

Vikto17:
so what do u advice l do?

This is inevitable, she would use vex want to see the guy face to face in order to give him last warning, and when she get there, the guy, (having fuvk her many times before) will always has it easier to convince her again to get nack. And when they finish, they will agree that he should stop calling her except , so so so ways. The woman will promise him that she would always come and see him when she had chance but only if he can promise he won't be disturbing her again. It is likely they continue that way even after settling down with you.

Allow this girl to finish her mission with her ex before you take her serious, otherwise, you may father another man's children wuthiout knowing.

Two things may involves,

1. She is way bigger and mature than you. A typical example of girl that think she is above your league with no atom of respect for you. This kind of girl will always believe they are doing you a favour by dating you. To sum it up, they always feel you can't do withiout them, which is obviously true from the way her silly demand disturbed the hell out of you.

2. An immature girl with little or no dating experience. This kind of girls are just doing that to be sure if you truly love or want them. These girls always think they deserve more or be pampering.

If your girl is the type I described in No.1, then you don't have option but to move on with another girl. She was only driving by her perspective about you, so she will never change and instead keep getting worse.

If she is the girl in No. 2, all you need to do is to ignore her for a while and later tell her what you don't like about her. Let her know you don't need to do that to prove your love, tell her you can still do all those and still not love her. With time, she will adjust.2

TTPAAR:
Our legislative arm is completely a mess in this country.

Judiciary.

DEROX:
Yeah I want to see them arresting him in the next 24 hrs una bloody civilians will sit and imagine nonsense in your living room we will tell you the military is a cult soon I hope you can see the signs of arewa mafia military? We have taken power before and heaven didn't fall you saw it in Mali, Burkina Faso, chad you will see it soon

Military are answerable to president and other authority in power. President/government determine their fates, pay their salary and can remove then at any time. If a solder can call the bluff of authority in power and get away with it, how much more does he needed to execute ordinary civilians at will. We should all be careful in what we support in this country because the government(as bad as it looks) is the last hope of the masses to protect our interests and rights through courts and law enforcement agencies. Government is supreme, irrespective of whoever giving our order, government can't just wake and take up your land withiout the land being enmarked as acquisition areas. It might be true that the general followed a due process in acquiring his land but that doesn't mean it never a government land, because politicians in power are notorious in giving government land to people and assign documents to them.

Talking about military coup, that era has gone with Obasanjo strategy, it will never happen again except we voted in dumb person as president. You can't use what is entrusted in you to oppress others or took over government, it is a crime against humanity for Military who are employ and duly pays to protect the sovereign of a counry to use gun to hijack government. That is why you will never see Military coup in advance countries.

This is the last time I will reply any of you guys because it seem you be commoners who are emotionally battered by hatred.

DEROX:
I support the general and very soon a coup will take place ijn

Lolz, i wonder what you people take government for. A single call from president or even this wike can send him to prison.

Don't under estimate the power of government. Even a whole chief of army staff cannot offend president and get away with it, let alone a mere major-general.

CyrusVI:
Funny how you guys didnt see anything wrong with Soldiers attacking Civilians doing their work this time, but if it was against people you support, you'd start telling them to go after Boko Haram and even attack Nigeria for being a lawless country


I don talk am before say all of us this country na hypocrite. Nobody dey on the side of truth

If i hear any obidient shout "Intimidation " again, na curse

I was highly surprised too, especially those giving their posts a like. Imagine a major general taking law into his hands and some illiterates hailing him.

A fight against government is better won through court or settlement, no individual on earth can defeat government through force.

DatNiggaDaz:
Those miscreants supporting Wike will be like

" it is confusing me". .Wike should start building houses for the Army like he is doing for the corrupt judiciary, maybe they will offer him protection while his men go on an illegal demolition Spree

So, you supported this act of impunity and lawlessness from this major General?

Government is next after God, any decision they made is final, because you have already transferred your will to them for protections.

mrvitalis:
For mechanized farming? Lmaooo u are funny

It is obvious you may not know much about farming altogether. Even if you don't, you should've try to do some research before you came online to criticise. Perhaps you takes this measure as farms that would be as big as the size of a state.

They don't need more than 200m to get all the tractors needed to farm. The only thing that could cost them much is irrigation system, which I think would be perfectly done with 400m. Besides, non of these agricultural institutions lacks these basic equipments or facilities before, they just need money to improve what is on ground.

If not that some of us are not really patriotic and corrupt, these institutions are capable of establish their own mechanised farms withiout government intervention.

ecomalchemistt:
I’m into Gadgets and accessories business.

I Deal on various capacities of powerbanks for mobile phones and laptops.

I also free consultation on how to get started in the business. I started business 2 years ago and I’m really impressed with my growth so far.

I sent you a mail.

mrvitalis:
Divide that by 30

What do you want me to divide again. It was written clearly that 30 agric institutes will share 30b. Whether they will get more than one another is what I don't know.

See guy, 1 billion naira to a university for just agriculture is not a small money. If not our politicians that steal money recklessly that made billion looks cheap to us, we should be hearing of billions once in awhile. The only set of people that can easily gather 1 billion naira are those earning well in Dollas.

mrvitalis:
Mere 30 billion 1 billion per university

Less that 600,000 dollars? ... Can that even buy a good big tractor with full components?

How many irrigation system can that even cover?.

That can't possibly buy a cassava harvester maybe rice harvester

But you are using 15 trillion to build a road that adds no value to our economy

When it comes to financing useless project they hope to steal from they see 100s of billions and trillions to use
But when it comes to supporting farmers, SMEs, MAN boom they start dropping 20 billion like it's big money

#30 billion is around $18 million and not $600k.
It would go a long way if the said institutions use it accordingly.