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lilachiever:
FirstBank encourages fraud, I can testify to that... I abandoned my account with them since 2018.

LaboPolitics:
When you start a business, the first 1-2years should be for experimentation, under normal condition.

When you take stock at the of the business year and the figures are not looking good as you keep recording losses, identify the problems and if realistically insurmountable due to factors you cannot control. Pack up and leave.

Sometimes location is everything.

northvietnam:
God bless you sir.

One reasonably need this simple logic when one is offered stuffs that sound too good to be true.
Please be guided always

He is making 38$ daily multiply it by 30 days = 1140 USD

1140 USD X 360 = 410,400

What does he need ur 4K for ?

Pure scam

emmylight4u:
every organisation you go na contract staff full pass....them no see that one....God pass all of you.

Hotzone:
What happens to dignified road

Trottle:
For 9 years? What Insanity!

If you are with someone and you are not discussing marriage after getting to know yourselves for some months, and ascertain your compatibility, define the direction or call it quits! NB: Don't possess slay queen qualities and expect him to wife you up!

For the guy, what goes around comes around! Were you blind not to know you were incompatible?

For the lady, you were with him, how did you supported him, or were you only with him to sit pretty, and wait for him to struggle then come and marry you? Except you supported him either through words or action, he is not under any obligation to marry you nor are you entitled to anything he possesses now.If you cheated during the time you were together, or repeatedly slighting him, NEVER expect him to wife you!

MasterRahl:

I had decided not to comment on this guy's suicide but I think I'll have to air my views.

I understand perfectly that love is one strong, unexplainable force, but frankly, we have too many effeminate guys in Nigeria of today. Our fathers never killed themselves because of women. But guys of today think with their Johnson's.

I have had a heart break before. I had just moved from daddy's house to my newly rented apartment to start life as a man when bae visited and called off the relationship. Apparently, someone had promised her marriage and she was already swimming in cloud 9. Fast forward 9 months later, she came back with a pathetic story about how the guy dumped her. Well, I accommodate bae for two weeks and did the needful . Thereafter, I reverted the friendship to a strictly platonic one, since it is obvious that Nigerian women have fish brains

This Mofo who committed suicide obviously didn't have real male friends cos if he did, they would have given him some guy codes.

Ladies & Gentlemen, may we please rise as we observe a minute silence for his wasted manhood

Biglittlelois:
Is it possible for guys generally, not just naija guys, even you Op, to date a girl for 4 years without asking for sex?

dre11:
https://newtelegraphonline.com/2018/06/he-drugged-raped-and-stole-my-phones-says-facebook-lover/

handsomeclouds:
When APC loses in 2019. They will still blame Jonathan

TheUpsetGirl1:
that's one of their problem...
instead of reporting to the police. they'll report on social media, what do they expect

this is exactly how Dorcas fapson did, instead of reporting to the police she went on snapchat to edit pics, beautify them and was saying trash there(she even posted an edited video)

Ovie2011:
So the woman didn't know the child was not her husband's own. These women never cease to amaze us.

1Sharon:
No excuse for cheating

GloriaNinja:
MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.

Memories12411:
No one will tell you that it matters because there's nothing to hold on to in terms of religion and traditions. But let me be sincere with you "it matters". Women get older earlier than men because of the nature of their bodies. After some years into the marriage you will begin to see people giving her unnecessary respect thinking she's your elder sister or mum. How will you feel?. When your friends marry younger women your wife will not be comfortable with the relationship because she will be the older one and inferiority complex will set in. Like wise when you you are with her friends and their husbands you will be treated like a small boy because you are the same boy her friends know. Again, your family will be telling her to her face that you married an old woman. Finally, the two of you at home. Will she respect you when she knows she is older? I'm not saying it doesn't or it can't happen but if you can stand what comes out of it you can go ahead. I stand to be corrected.

BellaElla:
I would leave my reply at "things people qexperience after marriage" i will exclude the remaining parts cos these things are quite normal

1. Tighter finances : Its fun going out every weekend with until you have to start catering for additional mouths with pre- marriage income. baby food now replaces sharwarma. School fees replace iphone 7/galaxy s8. You who will normally dash out your bad tv now finds a way to patch it up and manage it for longer. You never get around to changing your old bachelor hood sofa's because just when you wanted to buy that sleek set of 9-seater settee that you have been ogling at in the furniture brochure, your mother in-law calls your wife to remind her that her younger brother hasnt paid his fees and The rent is also due.
2. Job Loss : If only we knew how many men and women have lost their jobs. Some people are surviving on what they were able to acquire before marriage. Income after marriage fluctuates a whole lot due to retrenchment, bad business deals, stopping work to take care of the kids etc. That is why it is advised not to base your choices solely on finances cos it is quite unpredictable.
3. Reduction in sex..ual attraction: Yes , its quite normal to lose the steam after a few years of marriage. The lust is replaced with warmth and companionship. The truth is that I have come to discover that marriage is more about companionship than any other thing. having someone to share your victories and loses with, succeeding together through job loss, death of family, debts, loans making sacrifices. do you know the exhilaration that comes with building a house together with your spouse? Denying yourselves so that your dreams can come true? watching your plans take form from paper to reality? Marriage is good i tell you. When people say marriage is not an achievement or marriage is overrated, I smile internally. a GOOD marriage is all that and more.
4. Fear : Every marriage has its own share of fear and doubts. What if he doesnt find me attractive anymore after 3 children? What if I lose my job and cant provide for my wife and children? What if I am involved in an accident and lose my limbs? what if my spouse dies at a very young age and leaves me behind? what if my husband brings a 5 year old child home one day and says he is the child's father? what if I am not responsible for my wife's first pregnancy etc. These questions come up once in a while especially when triggered by an event/action around us. While you should not bury your head in sand while in marriage, do not also make it your point of duty to prove that your spouse can never betray or hurt you. Always have your shock absorbers well greased and ready
5. Spousal jealousy : There are times when a spouse is far ahead of the other in terms of achievements . The other one might start feeling left behind.
6. Uncertainty: Did I make the right choice? would my ex have been a better choice? what if he/she changes? what if I meet my soulmate after marriage? what if?. These thoughts come to the best of us after marriage especially when there is a misunderstanding, but the good thing is that those thoughts go away once your spouse does something that reminds you of why you got married to them in the first place

The list goes on and on but marriage is for people that have jointly come to the realization that life is full of ups and downs, and are determined to make it despite the odds.

samuelchimmy:
Call me to come and see this pic in the next 12months