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FamilyRe: My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me by yemre: 9:36am On Mar 20, 2018
Hmmm, an adage in yoruba says "eni ija o ba lo n pe ara e lokunrin" meaning, you can easily run your mouth in giving advise to someone over issues you have never experienced!

I read thru all the comments and only a few made sense.

Pls, this is a serious marital issue. So, if u re not married, don't comment at all because your comments will be inappropriate.

Op, I've experienced something similar and my advise is this:
1.
Invite your wife to a private place and have an extensive discussion with her.
2.
The presence and inputs of a third-party especially inlaws, most of the time, causes instability in ones marriage. Therefore, your sister inlaw and mother inlaw have to be cut off for a long time.
3.
Try as much as possible to pay off your debt but never dispose your car or truck paying d debt. This is because u need something to keep u going pending when things will normalize.
4.
Accept your wife back to the house but insist on using a cab to bring back her stuffs.
5.
Involve her church pastor to counsel her because women generally only listen to their church pastor even against d wish of d husband most times.
6.
It is obvious u still love your wife and your wife also misses u, so, salvage d situation and stop listening to all those advocates of divorce.

When mine happened, my wife even went away with my son, all my own gadgets and home appliances after she packed her own load to an unknown place and went to stay with her sister in her husbands house while I travelled and not even my father inlaw could talk to her but we thank God today everything is back to normal.

In no distant time, the comfortability she enjoys in her sisters house Will wean out because she stays in her husband house and no right thinking husband will retain a wife's sister that's already married.

I wish u good luck
AgricultureIn Need Of Wholesale Eggs Supply At A Very Reasonable Rate by yemre(op):
Dear nairalanders,
I'm in need of eggs directly from poultry at a very reasonable rate. I actually need a regular weekly supply 500 crates. I'm mobile I can always visit the poultry to buy but d price is key because I'm reselling it. If u have it, kindly reach me. Thank u.
FamilyRe: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by yemre: 12:45am On Mar 09, 2018
Hmm, young lady, I could feel your pain.
At first u need to know this is one of d ups and downs of marriage.
Back to your story, I have to be very honest with u. I'm married and I understand u perfectly.
U must have either done something wrong or u have developed a character he dislikes and which never reflected during your courtship. If u can't trace where you have gone wrong, your best bet is to sit him down and ask him what u did. If u allow it get out of hand before u act, might not like d outcome because unless u change or apologize to him, it will get more complicated and I pray u don't regret it. Just a word for d wise.
PropertiesCertificate Of Occupancy In Lagos by yemre(op): 2:39pm On Oct 16, 2017
Professionals in the house, how long does it take to process a C of O in Lagos for a plot of land in ikorodu and the estimated cost. There's this land I intend to buy in Adamo area of ikorodu and I know I can't afford to build almost immediately. So, I intend to still buy but process the C of O. Kindly enlighten me so I can take a decision. Thanks as u contribute.
AgricultureRe: Nairaland Farmers Contact Details by yemre: 12:21pm On Jul 10, 2016
leskey99:
Please i need ideas on places to sell farm products and also farmers who needs a help with marketing. Contact: 08135958087, 07086042938. Thank you
Nairaland GeneralRe: 17 Things You Should Keep In Mind Everyday by yemre: 7:24am On May 07, 2016
What a great and inspiring article! God will bless u.
RomanceRe: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by yemre: 1:51pm On May 05, 2016
Baby, ur few comments made a whole lot of sense. U hit d nail on d head and i think dats enof for d op
hibiscus76:
It's because like charges repel while unlike charges attract..stick to one broke man and help his life to help yours
RomanceRe: Please Help, My 4 Years Relationship Seems To Be Crashing Down by yemre: 12:25am On Mar 04, 2016
Hmm, not a bad advice bro, very good. ...as in...callin d lady aside to ask her questions and get to kno why she does all that.
Come to think of it...even if d guy is d problem, are u sayin d only solution is cheating and tellin d guy white and obvious lies? And d guy is just too blind or av bn lind-folded by love to discern wat is actually obvious! Haba, i seriously dont think a 15yrs old chap shud be tellim dis kinda stories. I am disappointed.
To the guy abeg, u need to run for ur dear life, noting that a broken relationship is better than a broken home. If u go ahead and marry her all in d name of love. Well, OYO lo wa o.
Breakin up in dis matter is very simple! Call her, tell her wat u av noticed and let her kno u can not tolerate dat and as a result, u are callin it quit. Period. Of course she might cry and shed crocodile tears but enof is enof. Good day!
McCarlito:
I don't have a problem with my lady's inbox messages....The only place I have a problem with her is about her outbox (sent messages that's where the truth is found).

Picking her calls without her consent and spying on her with intent to catch her cheating is wrong... She gave u her fone to charge and u switched it on waiting for who to call her and u gladly picked her calls expecting to be respected by the callerhuh huh huh that's childish bro...

She travels for weeks without u querying someone in her family about her frequent visits to her village and wait their replies.. As she's not her village town crier..

Concerning ur pastors revelations and tastings and prayers..... don't forget many homes have been ruined and relationships ended because of "My Pastor said this syndrome"

Bro.... don't rush to get married because of age as that is not a great reason to marry... Since u still love this lady as u said above; u have to call her to a quiet place and have a heart-to-heart convo with her to identify what is it that u are not doing or u are doing that is making her live a nomadic and promiscuous lifestyle...
Don't be surprised Bro.... the problems might be u.. or some other factors u are overlooking.....



My sincere advise would be for u To move on with ur life SIMPLE
Cheers...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent!! Very Urgent Vacancies by yemre: 5:36pm On Mar 02, 2016
08038359160 Lagos
Nairaland GeneralRe: Man Fights Fuel Attendant At Oando Filling Station Over N30 Change (photo) by yemre: 5:07pm On Mar 02, 2016
demarc001:
Hian! This is serious! The extortion of Most fuel attendants, especially in lagos can so ridiculous and to top it all they don't have good business language for customers. The customer went too far ooo!
the man was just being foolish cos he went too far. He had a good case but he tagged himself a thief with his senselessness.
I wud av supported him if d change was not given after he paid 120naira per litre of fuel and he chose to stop d guy from further sales till d change is provided.
He shud carry his cross cos nothin warranted seizing the company's sales proceed in place of his own #30. He shud be treated like a thief!
PoliticsRe: Police Withdraw Tompolo’s Security Aides by yemre: 7:07pm On Feb 24, 2016
Fine, d security personnels were approved by yaradua and jonathan kept quiet with all d noise about dis man! And u say its not jonathan's business!
Its a sorry case!


kenny987:
People...open your eyes and read! The security personnel were approved since 2009 by Late Umaru Y'aradua. Una no go die on top Jonathan matter o!
I do hope the disgusting practice of assigning security personnel paid by public funds to serve as body guards for private individuals is discontinued quickly. It is disgraceful!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Where Can One Sell Condemned Engine Oil In Bulk? by yemre: 6:39am On Feb 09, 2016
Hello, pls i need the condemned engine oil if u have it in large quantity. Pla call or text me on 08038359160. I need it in rivers state. Thank u
BusinessIn Need Of Condemned Engine Oil In Large Quantity by yemre(op):
I need condemned engine oil in large quantity for supplies in rivers state. Anyone with useful link shud contact me
RomanceRe: My Friend Accidentally Bang Me by yemre: 7:25pm On Jan 22, 2016
The fact remains dat it has started and will always happen "accidentally" especially if u enjoyed it. Quote me, i'm talking from experience!
RomanceRe: Is She Crossing The Line? (can A Boyfriend Be Disobeyed) by yemre: 11:22am On Nov 03, 2015
Hmm, na wa o, does it means if u are married and your husband tells u not to go somewhere, u will go and dare the consequences?
Well, mind what you post becos others are following.
Peace


freecocoa:
Why would it be better? Even husnand sef, the only reason I'll understand is if the partner has a reason to suspect her, still he should look for ways to catch her and take his decision instead of taking decisions for an adult because you feel its your right to.
RomanceRe: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by yemre: 11:08am On Nov 03, 2015
Hmmm, dillema indeed.
Gentleman, i'll suggest u read thru the various advises u get b4 taking any step.
However, you must never ignore the followings:
1.
Someone who is not yet married can not advise u appropriately in matters of marriage or choice of partner because he hasn't been told.
2.
Marriage is referred to as an institution. Pls take time to analyse what it means and entails. 3.
You are both coming form different backgrounds. So, why on earth are you contemplating a partner tailor made for you. "perfect marriage exists only in heaven"
4. Talk of the age gap! The question is "do you want her? Is she of a character good enof to be called ur wife? Does she respect u? Does she take corrections? Does she care? Do u consider her a good mother for your kids?
If the response to all these ques are in the affirmative, the why do u still see the 3yrs age difference?
5. Remeber point 2 above. It then remains your job to to the patchin and mending and not attempt to change her completely becos u may never achieve total change.
Finally, I am not tryin to make u marry her or not. But if you miss her, of course you will always see babes but definitely not with same character and attributes.
If you finally consider to marry her, you should not see yourself as her God or boss, see her as your partner and treat her as such. Thats the only way to go.
I wish you luck.
RomanceLadies Are Very Funny by yemre(op): 8:03am On May 07, 2015
Serious advice from matured minds needed pls.

There is this lady i admire so much in my office. I am there their manager and an assistant was recently employed to assist me. Now, I have been asking this lady out for quite some time and she's been refusing and giving me excuses. Though, she never gave me an outright NO. two days ago, this same lady requested for the new assistan's phone number and i gave her the official line. To my surprise, she made an anonymous call to him that night, asking him how his day was, telling him she just wanted to hear his voice before she slept. I had at one point used tha same (official) line for a couple of days before i handed it over to the guy. So, yesterday, he called me to tell me since he thought the call belonged to me. This morning again, this same guy showed me a message on his phone, saying she just wanted to say Hi and reach him. the message came at about 2.30am and he has been calling the phone number but she would not pick. Could anyone tell me what it going on here pls?

Although, i had to delete this girl's number from my phone and I have moved on but the guy bringing this message to me is making me furious. could anyone advise me pls.
Technology MarketRe: Very Clean UK Used Blackberry Mobile Phones @ Giveaway Prices. by yemre: 4:29pm On Oct 28, 2014
i'm interested. where are u based?
Technology MarketRe: Blackberry Z10 For Sale #25,000 by yemre: 8:21pm On Aug 05, 2014
add the pix pls
Technology MarketRe: Clean Blackberry Touch 2 13k by yemre: 8:19pm On Aug 05, 2014
I'll pay u 10k, if u agree, holla @ 08038359160
Technology MarketRe: Blackberry Bold4 For Sale. by yemre: 6:38pm On Jun 27, 2014
how much is your bold 5?
Technology MarketRe: LG 32" For Sale_giveaway Price by yemre: 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2012
is it LCD or LED? if it is LED, we can talk but i"ll not pay u 50k, i'll negotiate. i live in Lagos
BusinessStarting A New Business by yemre(op): 10:23am On Sep 05, 2012
can someone loan me funds to start production of a very lucrative product
Technology MarketClean Blackberry Torch 1 (9800) For Sale - N35,000 by yemre(op): 7:54pm On Sep 04, 2012
I have a Clean BlackBerry torch 1 (9800) for sale and the price is 33,000. This is negotiable because it has a camera problem. It it fairly used and very clean. if you are interested, pin on 2290356A or call 08038359160 or 08029167742 or 08188876716.

Technology MarketBB Curve 2 For Sale by yemre(op):
ĭ have α̲̅ bb curve 2 (working perfectly) for sale @ α̲̅ give away price of #12,000 only. ĭ live IϞ Lagos. ĭ just got tired of the phone & need α̲̅ change. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇

Femi

Technology MarketWant To Swap My Curve 2 N Some Cash With Bold 4 Or 5 by yemre(op): 6:33am On Aug 17, 2012
If Ɣ☺ΰ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ interested IϞ swapping, ĭ av α̲̅ neat & perfectly working curve 2 for swap. ĭ'm willing to add some cash. Just ping me on 25de4d39 and let's deal. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇

Technology MarketNeat Blackberry Curve 2 For Sale - 19k by yemre(op):
I have a very neat fairly used bb curve 2 for sale. The price is 19k. Any interested buyer should contact me
. The image is hereby attached. Only serious buyers pls. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇

Technology MarketBlackberry Curve 2 For Sale - 21k by yemre(op):
I have a bb curve 2 for sale. Very neat and fairly used. If U̶̲̥̅̊'r interested, reply. Pix attached here later!
Technology MarketAnyone With A Very Clean And Good Bb Tour For Sale by yemre(op):
i'm interested in buying a bb tour at a relatively cheap price. if u have anyone for sale, pls let me know. its urgent and there's money on ground. i have an option of either swapping and adding cash with my X1 Nokia or paying outright cash.
Technology MarketRe: Clean Used Usa Blackberry Phones For Sale! Very Affordable.grab Yours Now! by yemre: 10:56am On Jan 10, 2012
re these prices negotiable?
Technology MarketRe: Nokia E5 For Sale by yemre: 6:08am On Nov 18, 2011
calddon, do u mind swapping for c1 and with how much do u think will do. i live in lagos

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