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Hmmm, an adage in yoruba says "eni ija o ba lo n pe ara e lokunrin" meaning, you can easily run your mouth in giving advise to someone over issues you have never experienced! I read thru all the comments and only a few made sense. Pls, this is a serious marital issue. So, if u re not married, don't comment at all because your comments will be inappropriate. Op, I've experienced something similar and my advise is this: 1. Invite your wife to a private place and have an extensive discussion with her. 2. The presence and inputs of a third-party especially inlaws, most of the time, causes instability in ones marriage. Therefore, your sister inlaw and mother inlaw have to be cut off for a long time. 3. Try as much as possible to pay off your debt but never dispose your car or truck paying d debt. This is because u need something to keep u going pending when things will normalize. 4. Accept your wife back to the house but insist on using a cab to bring back her stuffs. 5. Involve her church pastor to counsel her because women generally only listen to their church pastor even against d wish of d husband most times. 6. It is obvious u still love your wife and your wife also misses u, so, salvage d situation and stop listening to all those advocates of divorce. When mine happened, my wife even went away with my son, all my own gadgets and home appliances after she packed her own load to an unknown place and went to stay with her sister in her husbands house while I travelled and not even my father inlaw could talk to her but we thank God today everything is back to normal. In no distant time, the comfortability she enjoys in her sisters house Will wean out because she stays in her husband house and no right thinking husband will retain a wife's sister that's already married. I wish u good luck |
Dear nairalanders, I'm in need of eggs directly from poultry at a very reasonable rate. I actually need a regular weekly supply 500 crates. I'm mobile I can always visit the poultry to buy but d price is key because I'm reselling it. If u have it, kindly reach me. Thank u. |
Hmm, young lady, I could feel your pain. At first u need to know this is one of d ups and downs of marriage. Back to your story, I have to be very honest with u. I'm married and I understand u perfectly. U must have either done something wrong or u have developed a character he dislikes and which never reflected during your courtship. If u can't trace where you have gone wrong, your best bet is to sit him down and ask him what u did. If u allow it get out of hand before u act, might not like d outcome because unless u change or apologize to him, it will get more complicated and I pray u don't regret it. Just a word for d wise. |
Professionals in the house, how long does it take to process a C of O in Lagos for a plot of land in ikorodu and the estimated cost. There's this land I intend to buy in Adamo area of ikorodu and I know I can't afford to build almost immediately. So, I intend to still buy but process the C of O. Kindly enlighten me so I can take a decision. Thanks as u contribute. |
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What a great and inspiring article! God will bless u. |
Baby, ur few comments made a whole lot of sense. U hit d nail on d head and i think dats enof for d op hibiscus76: |
Hmm, not a bad advice bro, very good. ...as in...callin d lady aside to ask her questions and get to kno why she does all that. Come to think of it...even if d guy is d problem, are u sayin d only solution is cheating and tellin d guy white and obvious lies? And d guy is just too blind or av bn lind-folded by love to discern wat is actually obvious! Haba, i seriously dont think a 15yrs old chap shud be tellim dis kinda stories. I am disappointed. To the guy abeg, u need to run for ur dear life, noting that a broken relationship is better than a broken home. If u go ahead and marry her all in d name of love. Well, OYO lo wa o. Breakin up in dis matter is very simple! Call her, tell her wat u av noticed and let her kno u can not tolerate dat and as a result, u are callin it quit. Period. Of course she might cry and shed crocodile tears but enof is enof. Good day! McCarlito: |
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demarc001:the man was just being foolish cos he went too far. He had a good case but he tagged himself a thief with his senselessness. I wud av supported him if d change was not given after he paid 120naira per litre of fuel and he chose to stop d guy from further sales till d change is provided. He shud carry his cross cos nothin warranted seizing the company's sales proceed in place of his own #30. He shud be treated like a thief! |
Fine, d security personnels were approved by yaradua and jonathan kept quiet with all d noise about dis man! And u say its not jonathan's business! Its a sorry case! kenny987: |
Hello, pls i need the condemned engine oil if u have it in large quantity. Pla call or text me on 08038359160. I need it in rivers state. Thank u |
I need condemned engine oil in large quantity for supplies in rivers state. Anyone with useful link shud contact me |
The fact remains dat it has started and will always happen "accidentally" especially if u enjoyed it. Quote me, i'm talking from experience! |
Hmm, na wa o, does it means if u are married and your husband tells u not to go somewhere, u will go and dare the consequences? Well, mind what you post becos others are following. Peace freecocoa: |
Hmmm, dillema indeed. Gentleman, i'll suggest u read thru the various advises u get b4 taking any step. However, you must never ignore the followings: 1. Someone who is not yet married can not advise u appropriately in matters of marriage or choice of partner because he hasn't been told. 2. Marriage is referred to as an institution. Pls take time to analyse what it means and entails. 3. You are both coming form different backgrounds. So, why on earth are you contemplating a partner tailor made for you. "perfect marriage exists only in heaven" 4. Talk of the age gap! The question is "do you want her? Is she of a character good enof to be called ur wife? Does she respect u? Does she take corrections? Does she care? Do u consider her a good mother for your kids? If the response to all these ques are in the affirmative, the why do u still see the 3yrs age difference? 5. Remeber point 2 above. It then remains your job to to the patchin and mending and not attempt to change her completely becos u may never achieve total change. Finally, I am not tryin to make u marry her or not. But if you miss her, of course you will always see babes but definitely not with same character and attributes. If you finally consider to marry her, you should not see yourself as her God or boss, see her as your partner and treat her as such. Thats the only way to go. I wish you luck. |
Serious advice from matured minds needed pls. There is this lady i admire so much in my office. I am there their manager and an assistant was recently employed to assist me. Now, I have been asking this lady out for quite some time and she's been refusing and giving me excuses. Though, she never gave me an outright NO. two days ago, this same lady requested for the new assistan's phone number and i gave her the official line. To my surprise, she made an anonymous call to him that night, asking him how his day was, telling him she just wanted to hear his voice before she slept. I had at one point used tha same (official) line for a couple of days before i handed it over to the guy. So, yesterday, he called me to tell me since he thought the call belonged to me. This morning again, this same guy showed me a message on his phone, saying she just wanted to say Hi and reach him. the message came at about 2.30am and he has been calling the phone number but she would not pick. Could anyone tell me what it going on here pls? Although, i had to delete this girl's number from my phone and I have moved on but the guy bringing this message to me is making me furious. could anyone advise me pls. |
i'm interested. where are u based? |
add the pix pls |
I'll pay u 10k, if u agree, holla @ 08038359160 |
how much is your bold 5? |
is it LCD or LED? if it is LED, we can talk but i"ll not pay u 50k, i'll negotiate. i live in Lagos |
can someone loan me funds to start production of a very lucrative product |
I have a Clean BlackBerry torch 1 (9800) for sale and the price is 33,000. This is negotiable because it has a camera problem. It it fairly used and very clean. if you are interested, pin on 2290356A or call 08038359160 or 08029167742 or 08188876716.
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ĭ have α̲̅ bb curve 2 (working perfectly) for sale @ α̲̅ give away price of #12,000 only. ĭ live IϞ Lagos. ĭ just got tired of the phone & need α̲̅ change. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ Femi
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If Ɣ☺ΰ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ interested IϞ swapping, ĭ av α̲̅ neat & perfectly working curve 2 for swap. ĭ'm willing to add some cash. Just ping me on 25de4d39 and let's deal. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇
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I have a very neat fairly used bb curve 2 for sale. The price is 19k. Any interested buyer should contact me . The image is hereby attached. Only serious buyers pls. Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇
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I have a bb curve 2 for sale. Very neat and fairly used. If U̶̲̥̅̊'r interested, reply. Pix attached here later! |
i'm interested in buying a bb tour at a relatively cheap price. if u have anyone for sale, pls let me know. its urgent and there's money on ground. i have an option of either swapping and adding cash with my X1 Nokia or paying outright cash. |
re these prices negotiable? |
calddon, do u mind swapping for c1 and with how much do u think will do. i live in lagos |