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ubunja:
I remember saying at one time that the greatest haters of the Miseducations are married men. They hate the miseducations more than women themselves. Oh how deep their hate runs! How bright and hot it burns!!

Which is funny because the Miseducations badmouth women NOT men. But men are the most offended. Riddle me that.

These married guys are just pissed they discovered the Red Pill too late when it can't help then in any way. They wish they knew earlier. And the things we talk about as regards to women's manipulations they see them daily. But they can't just up and leave because they are married.

What they'll do though, to gain some peace of mind, is to attack the redpill. No no, they can't ignore and mind their own business. They really can't. But will forever troll the threads "Liking" other haters' comments and responding to each other strengthening each other.

THEY ARE SCREWED AS FAR AS LOVE IS CONCERNED. Because they don't even know the Redpil can still help them as married men. Guess they're incurable as you say bossman.

ikorodureporta:
This is what happens when you move from d brothels to the altar

hollistarMOB:
Ode marriage is an achievement. Quote me and die youny

Fabolousibk1:
I hate this Freeze Guy.... He blocked me on Instagram bcoz I opposed his opinion on tithe
Idiot Guy

excessmon:
No one called them independent
They are called builders
Low self esteem men noticed

excessmon:
How many Neds do we have madam?
Grow with someone and stop living in fallacy

zexy2030:
the quota is increasing by the day. Just be privileged to work in a bank or good organizations, u will meet ladies who are ready for marriage at 25,26.
Your cycles determines ur spouses.

proclinician:
20 to 25..... Whoring stage, very stubborn and sexploiting

27 -30 and above.. ... Calm and calculated. Time is running out. All men matters.

LadySwitz:
Really?

You did well. Husband material 5000yrds

LadySwitz:
Nice. You made this yourself?

Duck meat? How does it taste?

Papanwamaikpe:
Oshey! The babe na professional for that delicacy. You no put ugba for your abacha? Why

Papanwamaikpe:
See my favorite oh! This is the only reason why I missed my Enugu ex. Babe stole my heart with this delicacy

WildChild00:
Uwerri sacrifice hmmm

Youngzedd:
Good day brother ubunja, what's your take on the below.

The rules are good to talk about, but obeying them sometimes is where the issue arises.

Where it gets tougher are on the things you bypassed or moved on with before you get to know about the rules.

The big question is, should I apply the rules which will get someone's heart broken or apply them in current situations and let the past remain in the past?


Whisper: I once put up with a girlfriend's Sh1t before knowing the rules.

sodiqapril:
By the time Meghan Markle is done with this simp of a man na ubunja thread he go dy read 24/7 steady

WilliamsTheGrea:
Bro your words hit me, do you really think so? Although I'm a very fine guy no doubt most girls would fall for me the way she acts I kinda feel she loves me but the child is the only problem and she doesn't even have any friends she is mostly with me all the time..

Mandem12:
I had to open a new account for this, pardon me for Punctuation errors. I have to go straight to the point so as not to bore you... My story goes thus

I'm a young man of 25. I met this very beautiful girl, aged 23 now, we've dated 4 years now. She's so humble, the love grew out of nowhere. She does everything a woman would do for a man and I do everything a man will do for a woman.

I found myself not doing anything without her and she cannot do anything without involving me, we actually love each other very much.

She started pestering me to have a blood oath with her because she was scared I would leave her. I laughed it off cos I knew I wouldn't cheat on her, she is everything I wanted in a woman.

Trouble started when I brought her home to meet my parents, I was actually happy that I had found my wife...

When she left, my father asked me where she was from, and I told him and my father told me I can't marry her because she was from the same village with me and thereby related by blood thereby marrying her is an abomination that she was my sister so to say and said our kinsmen would not be Involved if I insist on marrying her... I felt my world crumbling down like a pack of cards...

I told my girl and she was like, it's an old tradition and nobody will dictate to her who she would marry and she loves me and there was no going back...

As a man, I thought about it and wanted to let her go because I wouldn't want the stigma to be on us and my unborn kids... I showed her some attitude to make her hate me but she didn't, rather she would rather beg me not to leave her even when I'm at fault. I feel bad anytime I do anything to hurt her feelings...

Now, I actually want to get her pregnant and damn the consequences, do a court wedding if the need arises and relocate with her out from our state and start a new life elsewhere...

Another mind is telling me to let her go so we can move on with our lives, or even be a fugitive for her... I however know she will hurt herself if I leave her... I'm very confused about everything, I seriously need help... Why is Igbo tradition this way? I found love with this girl, now everything is about to be stripped away from me, just like that... I seriously need an advice please...

I love this girl so much and she make me happy


Please move this to front page so I can hear from others please...

MorataFC:
even if that tradition is against God?

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

Gnaeusmagnus:
I'll do the same.

The problem is, are Nigerians ready to pay Siemens prices?

Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused

shortgun:
Guy, let me tell you the truth that no one have told you.
You see girls,....yes I mean girls these days. They have all learn bad things.
I don't know what came over them...yes all of them oo.

That your girl is a saint if I tell you what other people's wife/ gfs are doing you will go n apologize to her.
my concern is that she doesn't truly love you.stop deceiving yourself she doesn't love you.

From her response I can see that she's not into you or she's on a revenge mission for what you did to her b4.
My final verdict is for you to fleeeeeeeeeeee.

Biafrareform:
Okay she is 20.

LilMissFavvy:
Let her get a job. Lack of funds could be the reason.

Rapecase:
Edit - to those who may be wondering about my username, I created this account whilst trying to help two kids who were victims of rape.

Our 4th anniversary was few days ago, as I thought she would , my wife forgot the date. It ordinarily would not have hurt me so much but I have always had this feeling that she doesn't love me.

When we were dating she was all over me. But nothing I do ever since we got married gets appreciated. Few months ago she hurled abuses on me for helping a sister, a friend of hers, who lost a child and are homeless. And what's the help? Just 100k. Apparently I enjoy abandoning her need for others. And this
coming from a woman who few days earlier was saying I had invested over 2m on her business in a short while ( by her own calculation, as I don't take note when giving her money ).

I told a mother figure in church who is close to both me, her and the family I helped who corrected her. Expect if she will apologise tomorrow.

Off course the lady I helped in question is idiotic but I can't bear her and house and kids being homeless especially after losing a child.

My wife will never apologise when she does sometime I object to. Her apology which is often done in the most demeaning way is only tendered if I take the issue over board.

Our sex life since we got married has been poor to the extreme. I have ensured I do not cheat, not for a single day but I constantly have to beg for sex or masturbate to relieve myself.

Laying our bed is always a war for her. She does it only when she wants. Mind you we have two kids and a maid who helps with virtually everything.

The maid in the morning ( 90% of the time ) makes the breakfast, clean the house while she only baths our first child and get her ready for school, I take her to school most of the time.

Am I overreacting to expect my wife to

1. Properly apologise when she does something I do not like and ensure she doesnt repeat it? For instance few days ago she was planning on traveling outside our base, I only got to know through her phone conversation with her sister although she didn't eventually travel, I felt I should have known before hand as I got to know a night before. Till date what I got in form of apology is, "I would have told you". She was planning to travel by 5am, I heard her conversation by 10pm a night before and we slept on the same bed.

2. Sex at least 3 times a week? I stopped trying to initiate it after so many rejections.

3. Not to forget important dates such as our wedding anniversary?

4. To at all time be the one making my meal.

Please note she practically doesn't work now. We are setting up a fashion house for her she has taken over 3m from me as of the time of writing this. Note my cloths go to dry cleaners. Only thing she does is cook my meal ( when she wants ).

I am beginning to think maybe I am a mental health patient who doesn't know yet. Maybe something is wrong with me and I am just reacting based on that?

Hotworta1:
I am using this thread to scout for very good cooks for my wedding. I am already taking note.
Pocohunters will take care of everything soup and swallow. Prestonn will take care of palmwine, flowers and everthing desserts. The list will continue.

Hotworta1:
It's ok Son. I've heard. U are a good cook.