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Whogoes:
Good morning nairalanders
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Let me just go straight to the point. I just parked into to a new location and I leave alone though still single and searching. And I am just 23 .There is this particular girl she always greets me at my bus stop when ever I am coming back from work at night.
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Letter we became friends, though I don't like making friends cos I am an introvert type . But she forced it . Like greeting and complimenting me always. 2months letter , we were already friends on Facebook. One day she messaged me on Facebook that I should do her a favour. I said what is it. She said I should buy her a phone.
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I was like hmmmmmm . So I used that opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Now the problem began when I invited her to my house. She refused and gave an excuse.
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There was a time I asked her if she really love me as she claims and she strongly sweared about that . That she loves me so much bla bla bla .
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Now I am wondering if that is love or lust . Maybe she just want my money or what do you guys think. I don't want to buy her any phone . Ofcourse I can't do that unless she proves herself
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Please I need your advice . Matured minds only

Remijuice:
Guy Your Post is Self Contradictory!
The first case you talked about, all I have to tell you is that girls don't marry for love. They marry the one that is ready for marriage.
About the Five Sisters :
The none virgin married a Simp man.
She's a whóre, so it's easier for her to discern a nice guy. You know, good guys finish last.
The virgin ones: You are a virgin shouldn't make you dumb. It's easier for a player to get a virgin girl than a dummy..
Lastly : A virgin won't be missing her ex dick or complaining that your penis is weeny.

ubunja:
https://www.nairaland.com/4950350/ubunjas-miseducation-nice-guys-sluts 


https://www.nairaland.com/5322795/ubunjas-miseducation-girls-open-legs

ubunja:
lol she was a million steps ahead... Girls are always ahead in Game. Even a virgin knows what a Player equally knows. Thats why it is the Virgin that tames the Player.

Women are Masters of the Game.

Sotland:
I quite disagree to an extend Sir/Ma.. In my opinio, women ain't suppose to love let alone loving more than the man should and there isn't a law that states that woman should love more. The fact remains that women are naturally lovers, they are love by nature.

Women are like a raw material or a clay. Whatever you use them to mold is what they will become. They are like an incubator, whatever you build in them, that's what you get as a product..

There is just a law for the women to men.. " submissive" which majority of them hard to keep, especially those who thinks they are equal to men and crave for gender equality..lol "crap from daughters of Jezebel"..

Men naturally have a harden heart and rarely can love without duplicate; in fact, they love themselves more.. And this is why the law stipulated that " Men love your Women as thyselves "


Yes, Most men are emotional loose, hence they have lost their prestige.. However for those who truly understand the above principle, they know they should love women more but take charge/control of the relationship..Let the emotionally loose men MAN UP!!

ubunja:
I agree. I've always believed that once a guy becomes RedPill he has to dump his GF and find a new girl to start with in Alpha mode. I have not voiced this before because I'm aware how controversial it will be. So many of guys' headaches will evaporate if they just nuke the current relationship and start over this time employing all the wisdom of Game they have accumulated. From letting the woman choose them to being aware of a woman's sexual imprint (by checking what her Exes look like. Including info on the girl's first guy to sleep with her)

That way it will be a way smoother sailing.

Babtee1010:
Is China save without Christ ?

southniyikaye:
Hardly will you read any topic about family or romance or relationship that either green pill, red pill, orange pill, purple pill won't be mentioned.
I purposely followed him though am tempted to go through his topics but I don't want something that will end up scattering my marriage.
Had few issues I don't want his topics to confirm as truth sincerely

Rickbronze:
Your English though... no wonder girls don frustrate you finish.

payperpost:
omg, what's this? matched porridge and beans? abi na rice porridge?

Afromentalist:
Don't listen to white knights and e-feminists here. The caveat here is that succesful here is about financial success.

The wisdom of patriarchy understood the egotistical nature of most women. The main biologic reason why a woman wants a man is for protection for herself and her children. Back in the days, women would prefer the best warriors or the most skilled hunter / farmer, as it was the meaning of protection then. Nowadays, protection is about money.

If your wife can find protection for herself, she has little to no incentive to follow you. Your opinion will not count, your advice will be disregarded. She can't help that's just nature. There can be few exceptions, but it is dangerous to believe without solid reasons that you have found an exception.

A wise man makes sure his woman is fulfilled, but never that she is more financially succesful than him (for an extended period of time). Na open door for wahala.

Hear or forbear. A word is enough for a Mentalist.

The African Mentalist

peepydelano:
This will be good for men.Bad girl

Martinez39s:
A lot of women are not just smart. What men want is very clear but yet the beautiful and young ones can't use the knowledge to their advantage. Rich men are scarce compared to the number of women, so why not be smart to stand out among the women competing for them?

Even if a woman will fake it, here is how a woman stands out in the eyes of a rich simp and HOOK HIM so he can take her to the altar:
1) Be feminine in all way possible,
2) Learn how to cook and do other home keeping skills,
3) Learn to massage his ego by voluntarily letting him be the head of the home and the relationship as much as possible, and don't challenge him,
4) All give him a sense of trust eg. If he demands to go through your phone, let him; if he demands you delete all your ex-boyfriends' contact, delete them etc.,
5) Be respectful,
6) Get him to spend heavily (invest) on you.

This might look like slavery to the dumb ones, but those that know the ABC of the game will key into this even if it means faking it. This is just how hook a rich simp, and what happens after he has spent heavily on you and married you is up to you, but be careful as actions have consequences. Funny enough, when this is applied, the doors to the rich simp's heart and resources will be opened to the woman. In a world of wayward and pompous women, rich simps rejoice when they find a woman like this... they treat her like diamond. One thing girls don't understand is that rich men don't care about your money, your intelligence, or educational qualifications. If women mimic the qualities in the list, they will see wonders.

If a woman likes, let her start acting pompous and feeling untouchable and like the best thing to happen since slice bread, she is on her own. When a woman who keys into game I listed comes along, say bye to your rich catch.

It's good to follow education and career, but it shouldn't be solely depended on and it doesn't make a woman the best thing since slice bread. Smart women who know their game take out time to secure high value men. Education and career might not make her amount to anything much or give her as much as she would get from a wealthy simp. Regina Daniels is enjoying life better than many career women, and their is a reason why Davido went with Chioma instead of his baby mamas.

Some just waste their opportunities riding many dicks, pursuing education till they have passed their prime, letting fùck boys fall their breasts and widen their pùssy, and becoming single mothers for fùckboys that are sure to abdicate their responsibilities. Anyway, if luck is on their side, they will still find rich simps after all these shortcomings since many simps are daft, have no back bone, and have no self-respect.

MissGodOwn:
Yummy, abeg bros where's my own share.

Mariangeles:
Are you Whizkidefe?
Both your dishes look similar...

seanwilliam:
Since I started reading Ubunja miseducation, mehn , I don dey gather sense. I'm still young though.. so I decided to get a serious relationship with this beautiful but brainless with full entitlement mentality girl some weeks back, we started dating and before I know it, i started to loose guard.. as in after 3 days of meeting, I invited her over to my place ( my first mistake, which i would never make again).. she is an upcoming actress. So I knew what I was in for.. the day she came, she met my mum, and they had a very short dialogue and all that... well we make out that day and I escorted her to junction.. she is beautiful no doubt.. I gave her 2k that day( reason was that she came from a very long distance and she didnt go work that day and I dont wanna start the relationship off with complains).. after 3days, she asked me for 1 thousand naira.. I asked her that what did she need it for. She said she just need it that she wanna put it for piggy bank.. i tested her by saying I'm sorry, I dont have... mehn


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Come see the way she dey para? I maintained my coolnees).. she didnt call or text me for days..
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So I just decided to call her and ask whatsup ( just to make sure everything is alright with her).. she started spewing rubbish...
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This is a girl I want to help find work oo.
This is a girl I want to be serious with o
So I concluded it was infatuation all along.
I got to know her true character through the test I did for her... and I was gonna send the money to her that night oo, I just said, make I see wetin she go talk ... mehn I'm still disappointed up till now..

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After her. Other girls I met after her. Na NO NO NO NO NO.. I dey tell them... well I don jam one girl now sha, i don test her wit money and she pass.. make I watch her till month end before I go take her serious..

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At op. If girls ask you money and you dont have or u domt want to give, just tell her straight without explanation

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If she go stay , she go stay

IntroVAT:
So, in church during the prayer session, and after the prayer topic has been introduced, I find I can't pray for more than 30 seconds, 1 minute tops.

After that, I have nothing else to say. Yet I see others praying until whoever is leading the session intervenes and introduces another prayer topic.

What exactly are they saying for that long or are they just repeating themselves. I can't speak in tongues too, so that doesn't help my cause.

I also cannot pray loudly, I always whisper under my breath even when the pastor says to shout at the top of our voices, because that's just how I am.

Do these things I mentioned n hinder prayers from being answered?

Help

Tobechuckwu:
I know u don't speak in tongues. What u don't have, u don't enjoy nd Wat u don't enjoy u criticize.
There's a difference between speaking in tongues in church as to pass message from God nd speaking in tongues as a Christian in ur personal walk with God.
The scriptures u quote is for speaking in tongues in church as to pass message across to the church from God.

lade007:
Great that you understand that they spoke in other tongues... Do you know that speaking in tongues can either be the languages of men or that of angels? Please read 1st Corinthians 13:1. Maybe you also want to get some understanding from 1 Corinthians 12.

ubunja:
lmfao.

But it's the truth. It goes back to being chosen. If a girl chose you, she'll tolerate the worst from you and still justify your behaviour. Emotions can really cloud judgement.

ubunja:
thank you for asking bro.

If she never cares, then you are not the One.

See, mind games, Manipulations etc all work only if a girl really loves you. If a girl doesn't really love you, none of that will work on her because she really doesn't care. and she'll replace you with the snap of a finger.

If the games work on her, she loves you because She IS ALLOWING HERSELF TO FALL UNDER YOUR SPELL.

But if none of that is working, then you should move on because now you know you are not the Chosen One for her. She'll fall for another man's games. Not yours particularly.

BestAccessories:
Currently you're in a confused state.

You're indirectly acting as a player and I guess she knows you're a player too but want to see the game you're currently playing with her.

You don't seem to really know the babe from your description. You like her physique and attractiveness but yet to really know her or associated with her.

Opportunity to introduce her to your guys happens on your first date and you mute her, that's an offence, if she matters to you, you would show her to your world.

What really matters to ladies are the 'little things'.

If you want her for a keep, you need to stop being too smart for yourself.

You can't have a committed relationship without commitment.

Take time to really know her, spend quality time with her, understand her and you would have your babe.

Better still re-activate your player mode, smash the babe and move on with your life.

Designerdollars:
I would advice any guy new to this whole red pill stuff to subscribe to coach red pill's YouTube channel.
That guy changed my life!!
I no longer look at women the same way..all thanks to him