Politics › Re: Moves To Save Obaseki By Presidency Flops by zedegit: 8:24am On Jun 16, 2020 |
DonFreshmoney: PDP should adopt Obaseki. To me he is more popular than all their 3 aspirants combined. You cant be more popular than a sitting governor (good or bad)..most times negative criticism is also good publicity
Politics is all about taking risk, PDP should take the risk and give obaseki the ticket. He has more financial leg and spending power than their 3 aspirants combined, he will only do 4 years in office, that ize ize iyamu of a fool might want to do 8 years which means edo south may hold power for 12 years.. I am sure people from edo central and north should calculate and allow obaseki complete his tenure so power return to their constituency. I think you a political strategist. |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by zedegit: 8:07am On Jun 16, 2020 |
zedegit: Does anyone know how to activate free bitcoin 399 satoshis addition?
I promise to give you half of my first cashout as appreciation.
Thanks... Can any good samaritan help me with this or recommend a higher paying fauset per roll? |
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Nnaemeka Eweluka As The MD/CEO Of NBET by zedegit: 7:08am On Jun 16, 2020 |
It seems anywhere economic strategy comes up na southerners dey handle am. If na oil or anywhere money dey pump out, Daura and Kaura will jump in. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Help A Brother I Need Something Doing by zedegit: 3:06am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Josephilemona: mod please help push this to front page pls mod please help push this to front page pls Push what to front page? You are not the only unemployed graduate, besides even those that are employed have been relieved or waiting to be recalled for work as many institutions are closed. Just look for a product that moves in your area and start hustling for now. Keep your eyes open for vacancies. |
Family › Re: Should The Man Pay It? by zedegit: 1:24am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Jeffrey12: Nairalanders, What's your take on this? What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?
https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19[/quote]Greedy parents-in-law .
She's not working but is dictating how a nigger should spend his money.
Women and their entitlement mentality.
Imagine telling us how much hobby is earning, like he should be doling out that money to her and her inconsiderate family.
Nonsense and ingredient. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 8:26pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
Halo22: I have been laughing all through, knowing quite alright am a victim of the situation. My babe will not allow me to rest with her normal question, "when are coming to see my parents?" I have told her that I would do that when am ready, but she kept on disturbing. I even lied to her that in my family, pregnancy before introduction I'd forbidden in case she wants to hook me with that. I pity ladies shaa cos of how they mind is fashioned, but I will not please anyone to displease myself. What stopped you from telling her you can't marry her and worse is she would be saying she's in a relationship while you are catching cruise. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 8:21pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
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Career › Re: Should I Stay With My Job Or Go With This New Job? by zedegit: 7:35pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
TheSkyIsRed: Hello Nairalanders! Please I'm in serious need of your candid advice. Let me go straight to the point.
I've been going through a delimma for some days now. I'm presently working with a microfinance bank and i earn about 40k after tax. Recently, I was offered a job in government house with a salary slightly above my present salary.
In my present place of work, there is job security and I learn a lot on the job although the salary ain't much. In the new job, there is free accommodation but no job security because I'm being employed by the SA (special assistant) to the governor and i won't be getting any official appointment letter.
The problem now is, I'm stuck between the two. I don't know if I'm to go with the new offer or continue with my present job. I don't want to take a decision that I might regret tomorrow. My fear is that I might be sacked at any time because I'm not employed directly by the government but the SA.
I've been thinking about it and i still don't know the best decision to take. So, I decided to seek advice from nairaland cause I know I can get good advice here.
Please I will appreciate your sincere advice and contributions. I won't advise you to take the government work as it comes with too much uncertainty. Remember you were employed by an individual and not the government and so it's obvious where your loyalty lies as you will be on your toes trying to please him. You could be discarded by him even before you have time to park in and by then you have resigned. Some of the people telling you to take the risk don't have any job at the moment so be very careful. Even if you want to take a risk, it's not a job like what you just described. Not giving you a letter means you can be denied. You are OYO. Stay put and wait for better offers. |
Career › Re: Should I Stay With My Job Or Go With This New Job? by zedegit: 7:20pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
TheSkyIsRed: Hello Nairalanders! Please I'm in serious need of your candid advice. Let me go straight to the point.
I've been going through a delimma for some days now. I'm presently working with a microfinance bank and i earn about 40k after tax. Recently, I was offered a job in government house with a salary slightly above my present salary.
In my present place of work, there is job security and I learn a lot on the job although the salary ain't much. In the new job, there is free accommodation but no job security because I'm being employed by the SA (special assistant) to the governor and i won't be getting any official appointment letter.
The problem now is, I'm stuck between the two. I don't know if I'm to go with the new offer or continue with my present job. I don't want to take a decision that I might regret tomorrow. My fear is that I might be sacked at any time because I'm not employed directly by the government but the SA.
I've been thinking about it and i still don't know the best decision to take. So, I decided to seek advice from nairaland cause I know I can get good advice here.
Please I will appreciate your sincere advice and contributions. Stay where you are. |
Politics › Re: NIMC: We Have Registered 900 Repentant Boko Haram Members by zedegit: 5:06pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
walexy06: Those in IDP camps are not even in any way enjoying this much. See food for dia table. E Dey do me like make I just shake that table.
I don't know where we got this practice from.  |
Politics › Re: NIMC: We Have Registered 900 Repentant Boko Haram Members by zedegit: 4:59pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Meet Aisha Buhari's Security Aide That Led The Shooting(photos) by zedegit: 1:56pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
Poloyanabo2: These 3 people above stole my would-be 10th FTC today, its alright!
The officer fine sha, He was recruited 2002 and by 2020 he's already a DSP, meanwhile my guy way join since 2001 is still an inspector. This life no balance at all, especially inside naija. Higher responsibility attracts higher promotion. Promotion is not solely based on years of service. |
Politics › Re: Meet Aisha Buhari's Security Aide That Led The Shooting(photos) by zedegit: 1:51pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
ganisucks: See pictures of the Police officer. I think what is happening to Aso rock is a game of thrones situation. For all we know, that guy could be innocent. Unless you can provide a video of the shooting, you should shut up! |
Family › Re: Aaa by zedegit: 6:09am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Davash222: That's why you were where you were now. Free am. Make e still dey argue. |
Family › Re: Aaa by zedegit: 5:57am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Xj2020: Madam, I do not see anything wrong in helping your spouse when you have the time. I wasn't trained to leave everything to the woman to do Ma A woman is telling you something, you still dey argue. Women are similar and know themselves better. You rolled on the floor too long and your wife marched over you. She don see you finish. She manipulated you into court marriage. She had her game tight from beginning... You are what the red pill team call, a simp. I suggest you sit back, relax and hear out every contribution or kukuma delete the thread and do whatever you want. Las las na you go still bear consequences. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:38am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Prettyvirginia: OK. Thanks hun. Just that I don't see myself marrying while still in school.
I will reflect deeply on your advice. Nice Sunday to you Please don't. It's very difficult to cope in school after marriage especially for women. The pressures and distractions are much coupled with pregnancy. I have seen it enough to say this. Many had carryovers because of similar situations. Stay focused. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:34am On Jun 15, 2020 |
sassysure: Don't ever give yourself age limit as far as marriage is concerned. The right person may come before or after that limit. Just know what you want and get along with a guy who has the same interests.
The rest we cultivate as we grow in marriage and life and give wide room for fkk ups. We are not perfect and wouldn't expect to have perfect partners too. To me, I think she knows what she's doing. She's testing their resolve and patience against time. I believe God would make her desires come true. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:30am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Prettyvirginia: Sorry to disappoint you but that's not happening anytime soon.
Not every woman will be desperate for marriage. There are ladies rejecting marriage proposals on a regular basis. Not because they don't want to get married but because they're not ready yet.
I don't lack suitors now but at 24, I will be ready and I will get married. So shall it be in Jesus name Amen.
Bye My own Amen join yours, my sister. It's good knowing what one wants and sticking to it. Myself, I don't like being pressured to do something. Having peace of mind when making a decision brings success. You are beautiful besides.  |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:02am On Jun 15, 2020 |
NockMedia: Ma'am, you must be pretty, intelligent and well brought up. It's a shame that we can't see your picture on this forum. You dey chop picture? She's taken already. Let it sink in. |
Crime › Re: Lovers Found Dead In A Room In Imo (Disturbing Photos) by zedegit: 3:48am On Jun 15, 2020 |
youthsinitiativ: Na hotel dey put mattress for bare floor?
Yeye bloggers Did they say it was a hotel? Some student off campus hostel are named lodge. |
Career › Re: Should I Resign From This Job? Pls Help Me by zedegit: 2:54am On Jun 15, 2020 |
zenith4biz: Good day brother, please be honest with yourself and answer the following questions.
Are you sure that the new salary is not a click bait that would be reverted after some months?
Are you sure that the organisation can conveniently pay that amount as a start up? Is the organisation self sustainable for the first 5 months?
If you can answer the above questions, your problem is solved. If he had a clear answer to those questions. I doubt he would be here. It's part of the fears he's entertaining: What if... It's even more worrisome knowing he has dependents: family. |
Crime › Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by zedegit: 9:14pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
MoodyQueen: Marriage isn't consent. This old woman should stop promoting evil. Just when I thought I had seen it all!  Marriage is not consent? Da Bleep! |
Crime › Re: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by zedegit: 9:02pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Davash222: But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?
Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.
Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood? You funny die. To be honest, marital rape doesn't exist. If you feel, your husband is taking undue advantage of you, divorce him but reporting that he raped you is outright insane to me. More reason you should be careful who you tell, "I do." |
Education › Re: Is Animal Science A Good Course?? by zedegit: 8:00pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Ayomisure: Is animal science a good course?
What are the job opportunities and what is the average salary of an animal scientist.
Urgent answers needed please. That course has more prospects than some courses like petrochemical engineering, biochemistry, microbiology, chemical related courses... Many graduates from those courses are still stranded because opportunities are limited, hence the job market is over saturated but funnily enough jambites are still filling them. You can establish an animal farm and feed comfortably when you graduate. Food market moves always as people must eat nah. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Blackmann001: Mine is different ooo... Just to date her, sh took me to a lab for HIV, hypatitis, blood sugar, genotype and other STDs....
Guyz line up for this lady door all kneeling for her attention. Instead of shakara wey I dey read here by the guy, I am being hopeful sh says yes sef...... Sh dates me alone ooo... But rivals of docs, pharmacist, working abroad, etc full road....
Na me dey even remind her of us and settling down, sh is 26 ND very pricy cuz sh did her own job on time.. Intelligent, beutiful, tall, speaks fine, works hard both domestically and at work place. Earns enough.
Na God hand we dey for her matter! Thanks for not toeing same line. A guy will rush not walk to the altar if he finds that one woman that gives him peace and love to last a lifetime. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:02pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
adewumiopeyemi: Just look at me begging a girl of 30years to date me and she is doing yanga imagine �� That she's thirty or even sixty doesn't mean she doesn't have choice. Let's stop this mindset already. |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 3:47pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
gbengaoyeladun: Girls ehn....naso this one told me in January that she dream that she will do her wedding this year...I was like not with me...she said is with you nah..and I said OK.....since then ehn.....I ran for my life. Oga come and finish what you started o. You must do. Infact we fit raise money give you nah.  |
Romance › Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 3:32pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Blackmoran: Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour.... Cut grass? Like seriously? |
Phones › Re: Poll: Which Smartphone Brand Are You Using? by zedegit: 3:07pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
naturalwaves: Hahaha. No mistake at all. I'm a computer scientist and 1 year ago when my phone was stolen, I did a mad research for 2 months plus before I decided that Xiaomi was the way to go. My research started from Antutu Benchmark to non sponsored reviews on YouTube and so many other things.
Truth is, Xiaomi is also highly respected in India. Indians are very tech savvy people and you cannot package trash for them at an exorbitant price because they know so much about phone build, processor etc etc. Apple has less than 2 % market share in India(a country of over 1 billion people). This is not because more people cannot afford it but because they consider the offering as trash based on the functionality. How can you sell a phone that comes with less than 3,000mah battery at a huge price? 16gig Rom too and some other useless specs.
When you sit and look at the functionality of a Xiaomi phone and the build quality, you will wonder if the company even makes profit at all. Xiaomi offered a Gorrilla glass 5 at less than a 100k; something other phone variants will offer close to 200k. No lag, nothing at all on the phone. Phone never gets hot even when charging. Comes with fast charging. I also bought an extra 30W charger that charges so so fast. When people hold your phone, first thing they ask is.... What phone is this? , I like it!
Xiaomi is the first brand I will see that users personally campaign for the brand without being paid because they are overly satisfied. Moreover, the poll has done justice! Real justice it is. I hope the price doesn't sky rocket o. |
Romance › Re: She's One Year Older Than Her Man. Should She Be Worried? by zedegit: 12:16am On Jun 14, 2020 |
Trayceey: A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.
One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.
She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.
Please advise her. I will show her your comments If he actually replied like that, she should end it because under slight pressure, he will hurt her with words I doubt she could bear. |
Health › Re: COVID-19: Man Gains Over 100kg Within 5 Months Of Lockdown In Wuhan (Pics) by zedegit: 7:20pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
starbuck: People like me that has been eating a lot praying for fat never see am , na person wey no need am...
Ụwaezuoke Please dont pray for fat. I used to be like you until fat came, now I wish I never did. |
Phones › Re: Poll: Which Smartphone Brand Are You Using? by zedegit: 5:05pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
nurey: I T E L I won't call them useless sha because na wetin person money reach na where em squat. Lagging don show me shege, poor camera, they tried sha in battery lasting but over heating fit make Covid team mistake you for a patient. |