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ImaIma1:
Hahahaha

When you don't want to to something, you can have a million and one excuses. But if you want to do something, you will look for a way inspire of all the limitations.

If it's a small accommodation with relatives, at least they are not sleeping in your room. You can keep it quiet.

They have fan na. And if it's bad, something can be worked out.

Sex is not a church service that you need to prepare for. So if he says "quickie", he has to go and bath, shit and spray perfume. Where's the fun?

You will be shocked that she has a househelp but still complains of tiredness.

All in all, excuses come when there's no interest.

The reality is that some women don't like sex. They see it as a burden.

I was shocked when a female lecturer insinuated that when she gives birth to a certain number of children, she will lock 'shop'.


I was like "what!". Sex is not only for child bearing but bonding between a man and his wife.

Temhellen:
The issue on ground is not about communication or you asking your partner if he or she likes sex. The issue of ground is me not telling your that am suffering from genital mutilation.

That shows dishonesty. Then what were they discussing during courtship?

No wonder some people marry today and divorce tomorrow over 'irreconcilable differences'.
Don't get me wrong. I am trying to be insensitive to your plight but being honest ab initio would enable me think it through and decide if I'm ready to still commit despite that challenge.

Maybe you didn't get me. By telling the partner that you, yourself like sex and asking if they, themselves can cope should ordinarily bring out such confessions but if it doesn't that means dishonesty and is a 'veritable ground' in the eyes of the societal laws for divorce.

Temhellen:
But let me give you an instance , what about a wife suffering from genital mutilation? During their courtship , she n her husband never had sex. It was after the marriage the husband discovered about it.
Would you advise the husband who has high libido to start cheating?

Thats why communication is important in relationship. No need pretending. Babe, I like sex, can you cope?
She will answer even if you guys dont get intimate before marriage.

Assumption is bad.

DenreleDave:
Which online work is that

Picking.

bayo2018:
Good day nairalanders

Please I’ve an issue bothering me rn. I’m thinking of terminating my School though I’m in year 2(1st semester)

I noticed I’m able to make more than 300k a month online these covid season but if I’m in school I don’t make up to this amount because I don’t have enough time to stay online and do things I wanna do.

But I don’t wanna make a decision that’s gonna affect me forever so I’m seeking for your honest opinion.

Should I just terminate this school and focus more on my online Business.

What my online business just require of me is Data(like 50gb per month )and to always be online to run the stuff.

This stuff you are running looks like picking o.

Anyway from how you sounded, you must have atleast half a million in your account which is enough to finish school besides the money you still make.


Finish what you started. Don't drop out.

Geminita1:
18th century post.

Shebi you like beautiful women, they have dealt with you.

Now you are looking for a decent woman to clean you up.

I pity the women that end up with wasted men.

Hey girl, you look bony. Are you starving?

Never mind.


Back to the topic, there's always need to balance physical beauty with a good character.

Toks2008:
The outward beauty of a woman is measured by the degree to which it is aesthetically pleasing or beautiful in terms of sexual attractiveness or desirability. However, every lady is relatively attractive in a very unique way but there is no denying the fact that whilst some ladies are conspicuously attractive, some are just average in standard outward beauty assessment...

Nevertheless, I strongly believe that there are huge benefits for ladies with average physical beauty cos in most cases...

1. Most guys prefer to marry them.

2. They are more emotionally and physically available.

3. They give their men peace of mind cos they are naturally submissive and loyal.

4. Academically they are mostly at the top of their game and rarely get tangled in sex for grades since lecturers don't find them too attractive.

5. One fact no one can dispute is that they make it better in life cos they work extra hard with their brains...little wonder why most of the great achievers are of average beauty.

6. They are more productive cos they don't slay on social media or offline and are less prone to depression over lack of likes over their pics or display of nudity.

7. They usually have very good character and other great qualities the very attractive ladies lack...

8. Cheaper to maintain cos they don't get obsessed with trying to outlook other ladies in looks or spend foolishly on cosmetic enhancement...

9. They have very high self-esteem and confidence in themselves cos they don't have the pressure or fear over their beauty fading away...they have come to understand that "Lookism" is essentially the same as racism or sexism and nothing to do with reality at all So they care less what people think or say about how they look.

10. They are very good in the bedroom act. Whilst most very attractive ladies can be very boring in bed because they don't want to be roughly handled, the ladies with average physical beauty care less and would throw all caution to the wind ... I guess it is a way of making up for not being too hot and this is why many men find them sexually irresistible.

Do you agree with these?

N.B : This is a fun thread so no spoilers biko.

I agree. Most beautiful girls have that entitlement mentality. They expect every man to shrivel and salivate at her feet. They have that arrogance about them and mostly jump from one car to another.



Just my observation sha.

Let's settle this conclusively:


Like for C7 and Share for Messi.

Collinsaik:
its a good thing that David has taken responsibility for his actions and apologised, we all make mistakes at some points in life. that being said, at age 33, i dont expect to c his contract being renued.

So for your mind they stood a chance? Forget it.

The thing with fans is they are blind to facts. One dude was saying Arsenal we dey with you.

I look am laugh.

ogbiwa:
https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/53044957

Son, I understand you did it to let the steam off your colleagues but it's obvious who Big pass you Big pass you.

Man city has been wiring you home and away before you came onboard. So just forget talk.

A more responsible statement would have been: we tried our best but at the end, some 'mistakes' did happen which we would correct in subsequent matches.Shikena.

Ningen:
Before or immediately after first coitus.

Must their be a coitus? Imagine your response with likes showing rot in society.

Froshloaded:
What if she dies while you are smashing in the afternoon

Na still the same thing

It's reduced. I understand what he's saying even if it was fake story.

Anuoluwa1234:
It's ok..we HV different taste, dear.. but I will advise, since that is what u loved and cherish..
Look for a female, it might be Ur mum, to check her for you, u can tell ur mum..etc.. the way u cherished virgin ladies.. etc.
There is a way woman do it, she will know. As for Ur girl, u can look for something to tell her, that it is Ur tradition of family to check the female wife to be physically.etc
Not spiritual stuff ho.. na normal checking, Ur mom will check her virginal area, lobatan.
Don't be deceived my brother, don't wait untill u marry her, that time, things might be very worse.
One claimed that for my uncle, but this girl, na confirm bad girl I tell u.
After many years of claiming virgin for us, truth later came out.. my uncle ones said, he did 5rounds on her in a day..
This is the person that was forming holy holy :- .. and she is a chorister, respected one self..
Chaii, this life no balance at all

I cant believe a female can be saying this. It looks so degrading.

Which respectful and decent girl will UnCloth and have the mother in law check her privates.

That's going low.

DonFreshmoney:
You for even ask if oshiomole go sabi knack the lady. He just married her for clout that year, the lady don leave am commot tey tey..

You don't mean it.

DonFreshmoney:
So now Oshiomole has become the goat that obaseki the lion is now pursuing. . How time flies, how events could change in the twinkling of an eye..

Nigeria politics is best watched with popcorn by the side.

Just yesterday, Osho was pursuing Obaseki up and down, now tables have turned.


It's now the hunter has become the hunted.

Osho should protect his foreign investment, besides it's long I heard about her.
She don japa?

Some Nairalanders be like:


#5000 in 2013 but now I have a private jet, 4 cars, a yatcht, numerous estates, duplexes scattered over Nigeria, 4 filling stations and 2 oil wells.


Oya argue with your keyboard.

CsRockefeller:
If I can get my income to rise between 70k to 100k, I would then begin to consider finding a wife.

What if it never does?

thesicilian:
I don't think it's about the money itself, but more about you and your partner, the ability to hustle together, understand each other, cooperate towards a common goal and cut your coat according to your cloth in the meantime.

Still doesn't answer the question.

SweetCunt97:
20k

This is misleading. I know op is actually asking men.

HarunaWest:
Lol
Take your frustration elsewhere dude.. I got no time for dummies

Na family section I dey. So it's either you allow me stay in peace or make mod settle the matter.

You know as e dey be.

Dalil8:
CR7 pls come back to Real Madrid

We miss you

Chelsea would be a huge downgrade.


The only G.O.A.T we know

He's not coming back. Live with that.
How many players ever went back to their club? Very few, except those on loan.

HarunaWest:
That you failed doesn't mean that he should fail... You idiat

You are a slowpoke. Do you think everyone is a dumb ass madafvker like you? Ode.

HarunaWest:
36 is too old ...You are no longer a young man, you are an Uncle...
Dont you have an Ex in Naija, what of a school mate that you admired or a Nigerian colleague? Shoot your shot, you never can tell. If she is still good to go, why not ring her. I will implore you not to marry any of those Americans if you can't handle their craze.

And stop telling all that you dont drink, smoke or womanize. Once a lady discovers that you don't do any of the above, she will tag you boring and she will take you olay kalo kalo.
Even if you dont actually do any of the above, always have a fictitious story of how you used to be a very bad guys in your uni days so that you can get respect from her.
Ladies like a controversial person. If you are too honest,you have entered one chance.
Cheers as you seek for your soul mate.

Shut up. 36 is not too old for a man.

Do you know how old Ned is, yet Regina is birthing his child.

GuyInTheMirror:
Hey bro, many of them are married . The very few that are not are way over 30 years old.

What's wrong in marrying a great woman in her 30s. Would you rather marry one in her twenties that would make you add 20 years in 2 years of marriage or one that gives you peace and happiness.


Think again.

mytime24:
That's touching

Bt madam u shld've used part of d money to rent a good apartment, while continue building urs gradually ,

Cus bathing outside as a lady is'nt too good

The money for house rent presumably went to feeding.

Seriously this lady is truly a gift and should be celebrated.


Nevertheless I never understood why her mum abandoned her with her grandma.

Na waoh.

Asekhamhe1:
It is a good development once they graduate they should be given the total money once just like ITF enough of the nysc thing someone living in lagos will go to kano with nothing it's not easy

ITF is selective. Till date, I never got my ITF allawee.

Juliusmalema:
Scrap the stupid thing called nysc entirely.

...and leave some graduates without the feeling of what salary alert looks like?

Don't you know that most graduates don't get jobs after service. Let them alreast console themselves with it.

Crownbefitsme:
https://www.thecable.ng/consider-suspending-nysc-camps-for-2-years-osinbajo-committee-tells-fg

Is it not placing the cart before the horse?

Anyway what are they even teaching them in camps.

They kuma close camps for said duration, telling them to come at a slated time makes them look clueless.

Exxoonty:
I don't understand why he's defending himself

Seriously there's nothing to defend. Is that you? Yes, it was.

That's all. He doesn't owe anyone no explanation for going to any church. He didn't commit no crime.

ghettokid1:
Well said Hero.
But I will rather go for Vitamin 'M'
.
any way, lets sort this out.
Like 4 Ronaldo
Share for Messi

The mofo needs Vitamin A instead and you need it too.

Indabosky Pahose has spoken.

ganisucks:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/i-have-failed-to-protect-you-masari-tells-katsina-residents/amp

In saner climes, he would have resigned as he has failed his oath but what did they expect?, a grand father that should be resting has decided to stay glued to power whereby the so called leaders of tomorrow are killing themselves in the name of cultism.