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am confused here

you got two stories and one you mentioned about the his family members and you sounded as if it triggered your problems but didnt go into more details then you jumped to ex girlfreind

[quote author=££VICTOR££ link=topic=301179.msg7810488#msg7810488 date=1298821576]I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY HP PAVILION DV9500

Last night I was on my computer working on a graphic design project for school (was running Photoshop) when the screen went a weird purple color and then completely blank after a minute or so. The computer was still running, however, and pretty hard at that, so I shut it off. Since then, whenever I turn it on the screen shows up split into two, equal, horizontal parts.

If I do not touch anything, it will continue to show the Microsoft loading screen, but then shows a blue screen for a few seconds then reboots.

I have reformat and load the OS with Vista and Win 7, But still the same problem
[/quote]seems like a common problem with HP check here

http://forum.notebookreview.com/hp-compaq/194935-hp-dv6000-screen-split-into-4-please-help.html

WackyJ1:
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http://thepiratebay.org/search/Age%20Of%20wonders%202/0/99/0

bala3:
i was once slim and fit between a uk size 8-10, and i can count the amount of brothers that were interested in me with a few fingers. however since i put on some weight a couple of months ago(size 12-14), a lot of african guys have been interested in me. does this mean that african men prefer bigger women, or does it mean that it fits me to be bigger? i am confused.

those who approached you dont represent the all african men

xlfemzy:
it not am external n am loading window xp service pack2

AM confused now first you said you where installing the OS now you say loading service pack 2

lemmyt:
Am d only one that uses d pc. Though @times,i 'll have 2 change d user b4 i could enter d psswrd. I dnt undrstand wot is wrng wt ds pc sef.

so you got two accounts on that pc so the other account is the administrator use that account to do what i gave you

lemmyt:
When i entered d comand u gave me, it replies; THIS PROGRAM NEEDS TO RUN WITH ADMINISTRATIVE PERMISION.USE AN ADMINISTRATIVE COMMAND PROMPT AND RUN AGAIN.
so how do i use admnstrative cmd? Thanks 4 your help

it means your aint of an administrator you can either let the adminstrator do what told you or run it on his her behalf


how many users do you have on the pc

Alfanu:
Pls who can help me? I forgot my password to login to my hp 6735s, i just change my password and after shuting-down i try to login and it reject the old and the new password , now 4weeks i don't know how to login.[color=#006600][/color]

think hard, it only means that you managed to change to new password and the new password is that you are mistyping

Ujujoan:


Are you sure you are married

does it make any difference

remember am not talking of SHARING as in talking about what you went through am talking of transfer of pain from one person to another

Ujujoan:
You keep making the blunder!

Whether there are 'more' men 'in work' or not is completely irrelevant. The fact remains that some women work as much as men and provide sometimes even more. Men no longer have the claim of being the sole providers of the family. do such women deserve to be accompanied into the labour room

If a man and a woman work together to get pregnant and the woman carries the pregnancy alone for nine months, I see no reason why the man can't quit being a jerk and accompany her into the labour room. Feminism aside.

And please, let's not start listing the pains women have to go through on their own without asking the men for help! And yet we ask for one thing, and you have the guts to talk about work!

like i said dont use the feminism to think yes woman are contributing to families but man in the world do the hard work
and you are the same people who say "you should act like man or be a man meaning get used to all shi.t "while you sit around saying i am a woman

the ALONE you put in bold doesnt make anything special that how nature/god intended that can never be shared between husband and wife nature made that way carry it for 9 months and get used to it

which pain other pain except labour and periods pain that women go through that makes you say WHAT WOMEN GO THROUGH WITHOUT MEN'S HELP

Ujujoan:
OMG!

I can't belive I just read this!

In this day and age when some women work more hours than their husbands? When women are 'mandated' to contribute equally financially? You just have to talk about how you 'suffer' to put food on the table!

OMG!

you are missing the point dont use the feminist agenda to think


there are more man in work than men world wide and mostly men work in dangerous places those who do never ask their wives to acompany them to work inorder for the wife to see how much he suffers for the family

kokoye:
Are you guys married and do you have kids? I think not though I may be wrong. Dont not force your opinions or thoughts on me cos I wont force mine on you . . .remember??

It is possible to feel and share someone's pain and that is my opinion.

When my wife or child is in pain, believe it or not - I am in pain as well. whatever affects them will surely affect me.

Back to the labour room, yes I felt her pain, held her hands, calmed her down, prayed and talked to her while she went thru it. Do u think that made her feel a little better? Sure it did!! According to me and her, that is pain shared.


But then, that is my wife not yours. I dont know how yours will take it.

I am not against any man who does not want to be in the room. I am just speaking for myself and my wife . .not urs pls.

So please do not tell me about me.

According to me, If you show genuine concern for me and offer a helping hand, you are sharing my pain, no matter how little and I will appreciate it.

pain cant be shared you only imagined what she was going through

have you ever heard of this joke scientist developed a machine that can transfer labour pains to the husband, lady in labour husband by her side the machine is tuned on a 1/4 level and the hubby didnt feel anything then went to half still nothing finally to full still nothing across the road the milk man was screaming --- moral of the joke, pain can be shared

different comments from the page

I tell my husband that he helped get me pregnant so he is just as responsable as I am about giving birth. So he needs to be in there. I told him also that he wont have to cut the unbilical cord if he is not comfortable. Your husband also needs to be in there to support you because this is his child too. If that wont work then try making a deal with him

My husband and I had the opposite problem, I didn't want him to watch the birth, because I didn't want him to see all that 'stuff'. So, he stayed by my head and held my hand through the labor. He was given our baby first thing, because they had a little work to do on me, and he loved it.

I am appaled that your husband, the father, would not want to be there. He was there to make the baby, he should step up and be a good husband and be there for the delivery. You don't have a choice do you? I think I would put my foot down and tell him that both parents should be there to recieve their child. By the way how old is your husband??

I am in the same boat you are in. My husband wants to wait in the waiting room and I want him in the operating room. I have 2 other children with him, both delivered by c-section and he wasn't there for either of them. Work got in the way of the first one and my mother was with me for the second one. This being my last baby I want him there. My mother tells me that I should just let him make the choice, but the way I look at it is we both made the choice to have another child we should both experience it together. Good Luck with your decision.

My husband and I agree, what a bunch of pansies!! Men love to go on about how tough and manly they are and yet here they are all complaining about weak stomachs and the sight of blood?? What wusses! Are you men or boys?! Proud to be mother of four and wife to a real man who is right there with me through it all!

Coolabbie:
It shudnt be a yardstick 4 measuring d luv of a man neither does it make d man a sissy 4 choosing 2 be dere. Its all about personal preference. But 4rm wat i hear 4rm married women whose husband were in d labour room wit dem,it serves 2 strengthen d bonds of d marriage.

well people are made to both through different experiences

lemmyt:
@zim Drill, d make of m
how do i defragment d file? Hp pavillion dv6000

1 open RUN

2 type CMD

3 press enter a CMD will pop out

4 in CMD typre defrag.exe /c

xlfemzy:
can't reconige it dat wat i mean and am try to format it but wen it reach installation it will say no HD found.
please help

is it an external drive ? and what OS are you using

lemmyt:
Am on vista presently but dat problem started wt window7 and afta changing 2 vista, d problem ws corrected for a while and later resurfaced again. my ram is 2g an my files are less than 50gig for now. though d hdd is 250g. pls what could be wrong?

have you defragmented the files ? what make and model is your pc

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=611422.msg7795801#msg7795801 date=1298592536]where's that.[/quote]http://newzimbabwe.com/

pinky17:
we want you back !

will try to come back, the place looks dead

pinky17:
Hi Drill! we are missing you

ha ha are from newzim ?

AqRiUs Age:
first, let me clarify something, OP. Deciding to stay in the labour and delivery room with a partner does not make one a sissy. And I'd like to think that the reason most people do it is because the delievery (and labour) period is a really emotional time. Though the woman is delievering the baby, the baby is both the man's and the woman's. THUS the hubby is there to witness the birth of his child AND to provide emotional support. Mnd you, some cultures are still against this, and in m opinion, that too, is alright when both partners in agreement to that.

explain the emotional support ?

whatever way the baby will come out

Mcleo007:
@poster,there is no one way to show love.

yes i know

if you read carefully i am focusing on those man who conned or convinced not those who do it on his own will

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=611422.msg7794818#msg7794818 date=1298580566]and how many of una get wife? [/quote]what ?

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=611422.msg7794012#msg7794012 date=1298570719]true most of our dads didnt hang around the delivery room, but that's no reason for you not to do it.[/quote]give the reason to be there i.e in the delivery room

what has changed that it needs the hubby to me in the room

kokoye:
I was there because I wanted to, not only because she wanted me to be there.

- I wanted to be there to see my child come into the world and have his first cry.

[size=15pt]- I wanted to share her pain and be there for her.[/size]- I wanted to re-assure her that all was well . . she stared at me as the baby came out. The strenght of a woman.


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This is just me. I dont have any problems with any man who does not want to do it.

explain that

was the pain half shared

Omolola1:
Well, I guess it has to do with one's mindset

yes but some women overlook that and start to use it against man eg you dont love me much why cant you be with me on that day

xlfemzy:
my system can see my HARD DISK dont no yyyy
pls help me out

is it cant see meaning cant recognise ?

lemmyt:
hello peeps! This is my 2nd time of posting my system's complaint. I use a n HP pavillion.It ws workin perfectly until late last yr wen it started prompting me 2 press esc b4 loading 2 widows and it also takes longer than usual to shutdown.at times, i will have 2 restart b4 loading 2 windows. i have 4mated it and stil,d problem persists. SOMEBODY HELP ME NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

which OS do you have ? thats sounds like vitsa and what size of ram and files you have

Blueice4re:
@ poster, you dont need to see it dat way. most women prefer their husbands to witness their delivery, not because they are measuring their love or want to see how they are been loved. it depends on the relationship of the couples. For instants a woman was in labour for hours, the doc did all he could but to no avail, the woman requested to see the husband which the doctor consented to, at his sight and encouragement she gave birth instantly.

So you see my broder sometimes dis tins happens. and sometimes the husband is expected to be in the hospital witout going into the labour room.

but do you realise that with or without husband the baby will come out anyway

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=611422.msg7792446#msg7792446 date=1298556489]Well I don't blame those women who use the situation as a yardstick.
Afteral We men put them into such conditions (ofcourse with 'em consent too.lol) so I think its our duty to see 'em through such conditions to the very end.
But I've heard stories of Men collasping at such sights.lol and even punching the Doctor on duty. Life![/quote]do they come to our work places to see how we suffer to put food on the table ?

does it make me less of man if i dont ?

i think am no use in that room that the reason we have nurses and midwifes

alagha:
a wife's monthly income is 6 times higher than her husband , yet she still wants 80% of his own monthly income as part of the house up.why? please your views are highly welcome.

where does her whole share go ?

Last night i was sorting a client's pc i was knackered to type on internet address bar to test how was her pc online, so i just picked one of her favourites from the favourites tab. Well it was site for pregnant woman and the page was of discusion from a woman pregnant and almost about to drop. She was complaining that her husband does want to be there in the room while she gives birth, she was getting support from other woman saying that the husband doesnt love her he should be there etc

It seems like some woman where using that situation as way of measuring husband's love, my question is does not being there make you less of a father or good husband ? Or woman are conning some man to be a sisy to please the feminist. I have never heard of those man who works in very dangerous places asking wife to join them as way of showing her love to him.

Am 35 and sure my father and his generation never went into delivery room to watch or give the so called support, does that makes them less of a father compared to the young guys of today go into the delivery room out of will or to please her. Some says it affects them sexually, imagine you got too much ego with your willy its big and makes her moan then you see the baby's head tearing that pum pum and the blood ect

So the other question is why forced or convince someone to act against his feelings and use that act to measure love, you have already gone against his feelings its no more love but duty. Are our relationships being affected by such request? Are guys doing it to please wife/girlfriend or to please her friends in order to call him a man becoz their husband did it for the unknown reason to him