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Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:02pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs..Chima: But some leading Bible figures were polygamists and it appears the bible is ambigious (as usual) about whether polygamy is forbidden. Ileke-IdI: Continue venting. Before you know it, you will end up in a polygamous marriage. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:12pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Ayoobscom: Mr one wife! Errr ............. ladies do not outnumber men! 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:17pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
dasparrow: And monogamy does not cause hatred and envy? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:27pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
odohemma: And I take it you don't have one huh? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by coolgeorge: 12:27pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mr one wife! He's no polygamy But sleeps with 15 other young ladies cheating on his wife He's no polygamy But Molests his own daughter into second untold wife He's no polygamy But already gave birth to 6 daughters and just one boy He's no polygamy So he'd rather murder the one at home to marry a fresh blood He's no polygamy But have innumerable concubines\children outside wedlock He wouldn't marry a 15 year old..no its child abuse But will sleep with a 12 yrs old in anointment\ And groom them into old hag whores that will never find a husband Let us kill 50% of ladies and achieve one man to one lady I trust you are not thinking God approves of prostitution(all LovePeddlers are not in for money...30% are in for lack of man fact! Or let us assume God is no longer perfect allowing ladies to outnumber men Excuse me! what false religion the hell is lying to you one man to one woman..please tell us more of those lies bringing the world to its knees WORTHY OF NOTE! |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:29pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
lastpage: CIVILIZATION AND WESTERNIZATION is what is wrong with Polygamy! Standing ovation! This is making sense. Imagine someone having their blood boil over saying that shame on "men that can't control their urges". I wonder if that statement applies to "women that can't control their nagging and bitching". My view of polygamy comes on 2 basic platforms: - Anyone should be free to marry as many partners as they want if we truly plan to practice freedom and naturality. Furthermore, it is in the UN human rights charter. - It is also freedom and in the UN human rights charter for people to choose not to be part of polygamy. No one can or should be able to force you to practice it. If your partner wants to practice polygamy/polyandry and you don't like it, walk away. No law should stop or punish your partner from executing their human rights. It is so shocking the moronic nations that have brainwashed people to condemn and reject polygamy (a perfectly natural phenomena), and stick to monogamy (a very unnatural state and more of a cultural phenomena), are the ones pushing for an even more unnatural family unit of homosexual marriages. And you will see a lot of the mugus on this thread being champions and advocate of homosexual marriages under the aegis of "progressive", "liberal", "urban", "21st century", "civilised" and other bullshit tags. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:30pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
solomon111: If not that everybody wants to be western than the westerners,or be seen as 'trendy',or 'cool',i don't see anything wrong with polygamy. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:31pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Hazyz: where was it written and forbidden for jews not to take polygamy. . .Jehovah was silent on Marriage no where in the books forbid polygamy. Did I say the Bible? Torah and Bible are two different things boo boo. Keep up. Torah, Bible, and Koran....have different beliefs with ONE GOD. Which one are you going to pick...the one with the most benefits huh? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:34pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: Again...the old testament was saturated with Kings having multiple wives and hoes...but the new testament illustrated the idea of one wife as in singular. The very same Bible speaks about fornication and adultery. It also didn't "speak" against polyandry...but why are [size=22pt] TOO MEN [/size]rejecting the idea of it Their reason for not supporting polyandry or stating the absurdity of it...."who will know the father of the child?" Really The bible/Koran doesn't concern those who do not believe it...why are people still using the Bible to justify their actions/choice |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:38pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: Yeah...when the partner steps outside and dutty wining another chick/dude. Any human being with emotions/feelings/soul will hate and envy their partner sleeping, talking, and dutty wining another person even of the same gender. Any person who disputes that is lying. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:42pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Decryptor: What if he's a tranny? He would still have dick huh? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:45pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: Apparently, polygamy was in existence during the time of Jesus and he never condemned it. Neither did the bible explicitly condemn it. Adultery/fornication is sleeping with a woman you are not married to, not marrying multiple wives. Many notable men of the Bible that "speak directly to God" (Coughs and ROFLMAO ) were polygamous. If God objected, how come he did not say "Hey, homie David, you got too much babes, stick with only one, blad. You getme, bruv"? The bible does not record cases of polyandry hence it is more reasonable to assume it is not acceptable in that religion. I really don't know why you think that argument is valid. 1) God is not politically correct. 2) Religion is not politically correct. 3) Only modern rational thinking is politically correct. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:50pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
DeCleff: It is unfortunate what you went through growing up and you survived...however the idea of anti-polygamy isn't about preventing hoish men from having multiple chicks because of whatever reasons they have concocted in their minds...but my stance on polygamy is if it isn't okay for polyandry then it shouldn't be okay for polygamy. People want to throw around the Bible about nothing against polygamy without acknowledging the that it also said nothing against polyandry.. One "good" reason I got from a dummy that polyandry isn't good because who will know who is the father of such babies? [size=33pt]Really Seriously [/size] But then again the same GROUP OF PEOPLE looks down on adultery!!! In some Arab countries...if a woman is caught sleeping with another man that is not her husband...she is stoned to death but if a man is caught sleeping with hoes..he is given a verbal lashing! Why not allow the adulterous wife to marry her lover and everyone can be a big happy "fucking" family But I get your point though.... |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 12:55pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite:a Jesus didn't condemn a drunkard for raping girls and didn't condem Paul for killing Christians before he became a disciple. The same Bible you have quoted also stated that believers should obey the laws of the LAND addition to the laws of the bible...since most countries ARE AGAINST POLYGAMY and people who practices polygamy in anti-polygamous countries are COMMITTING ADULTERY AND FORNICATION. God isn't political correct for HE IS NOT of this world and religions are manmade by confused beings. Enough said. [size=22pt] Do you support polyandry?[/size] |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 12:58pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: You have a point there. I will give it to you. That said, "laws of the lands" can be changed and most of these "laws of the land" were formed based on a misinterpretation of the position of Christianity on polygamy. That is what I like to term a "loop of faults". Mrs.Chima: Sagamite: |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 1:03pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: Did the same land of the laws misinterpreted the Bible when it supported the rights for homosexuals to get married? The bible clearly states marriage is for man and woman. So why is it okay for polygamy but not okay for homosexuals to get married since things are "misinterpreted" Could those who are against homosexuality "misinterpreted" that God is against homosexuality and that it is a sin? Remember I didn't bring religion/books in the mix and suggested chatters NOT TO. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 1:10pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: [size=44pt]A male supports polyandry....CASE CLOSED! [/size] My whole argument was if polygamy is okay then people shouldn't look down on adultery, fornication, and polyandry. We can do whatever want to do right? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by snthesis(m): 1:10pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
COOLDUN: Polygamy if you can look at it from the beginning, you would see how destructive it has been. The problem we have in this modern world is polygamy; Abraham upon how he was very close and loved by God, couldn’t handle two wives peacefully ,the two women that gave birth to his two sons, Ishmael and Isaac is the beginning of the problem we are witnessing today in this world. Look at Jacob, David, Solomon, Gideon to mention but a few. These great men tried all they could to maintain peace but still it didn’t work out well. No woman is ready and happy to share his man with another woman. Any woman that saw a man who has a wife and children but still went ahead to marry that man is a rebel and a witch. She is going there to destroy the marriage, the second wives know this very well and that is why they are ever battle ready for the first wives. Polygamy brings sadness and sorrows to the family. The second wives always like to destroy the children of the first wives in order to claim that her coming in to the family is justified. I have not seen a peaceful polygamous family, they might be pretending that all is well but all is not well. So my fellow men let us take one wife and make a happy and enjoyable home. Though marriage is not a bed of roses, but the more wives you have, the more problems you will have too.how many wives did Adam have? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 1:15pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: I don't get your point. You admit the bible clearly states homosexual marriage is wrong and should be between a man and a woman, so how can the "laws of the land" misinterpret the bible? They ignored it. How can people misinterpret what the bible says when they agree with? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Nobody: 1:29pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mynd_44: 1 woman= 1 blessing + 1 curse4 women= 0 blessing + 4000 curses Mynd_44: 1 woman= 1 blessing + 1 curse4 women= 0 blessing + 4000 curses |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Nobody: 1:44pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
@lastpage Sagamite: Last time I checked, Yoruba culture does not force women into marriage. So why would I see myself in a polygamous one? Let me see if I can cover every possibility of "ifs" you will eventually throw at me. 1. I wont romance a married man knowing he's married. 2. Why would I marry a pathetic lair who cares nothing for his children and wife at home? I won't want to be on karma's bad side. What I do to another will come back to haunt me. 3. If I'm the first wife and he marries another, I'll simply divorce him. I didnt sign up for that nonsense. I'm not a Christian so please dont quote that contradictory Bible nonsense. 4. My society looks down on polygamy. So you bet your azz I'll report his him as quick as I can if I ever find out he has another wife in Naijiriya. There is no way I'm living in that society of shameless . . . Anyway, It will be my pleasure to take everything he owns. 5. A man would have to be an FBI to keep another life from me. As for those of you asking "isnt polygamy better than for a man to have a wife home and to cheat on her bla bla ba", uhmm hello, it's still cheating. Neither is right. If a woman knows her value, she wouldnt stick in a polygamous marriage knowing that her husband has been unfaithful and disloyal to her. What makes a man leave his home to ynash another woman? It's disrespectful, if you think about it, for your husband to tell you that he's marrying another woman. What a shame. I'm still shocked that that foolish Funke Akindele not only cheated with a married man, but also married him too. Girl, how low can you go? Ratcheeeettt azz Jenifa bytch. Nigerian women are simply doing this to themselves. Shame on you for saying "yes" and for "tolerating it". 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by F00028: 2:11pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima:you obviously dont know anything about men (properly so called). Mrs.Chima: what are the odds of that in, e.g, the family you visited? |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 2:21pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: Money and love. Ileke-IdI: From my PhD research in my doctorate in womantology, most women have dated married men or men that have a girlfriend. And that is based on those willing to admit it to me. Ileke-IdI: Love na! And all men lie. Ileke-IdI: You are not a Xtian? AHHH! You are going straight to hell fire. You will leave the father of your kids? Ileke-IdI: The one in Naija will be customary, hence not recognised in USA. I will be his lawyer, we will argue it die. And his assets will mostly be in Naija, under his sugarbaby, second wife's name. Ileke-IdI: Your problem is that you have never met professional players. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Nobody: 2:36pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: Never said I'd become a housewife. What is love when the father of my children goes out to create another family outside our home? The thing about me is that I'm a good reflector of intense emotions. I give back what I receive. From my PhD research in my doctorate in womantology, most women have dated married men or men that have a girlfriend. And that is based on those willing to admit it to me LOL Which uni? Uni Yaba-Left? Most women are not "most women", if you get my drift. Love na! grin All women also lie. Still doesn't excuse it. I ask you again, what's love got to do with it? Only a pathetic loser of a man would think a man loves her after not having an affair behind her back, but also having the gall to marry "the other" woman. You are not a Xtian? Lol @ hell. Joker The father of my kids left me, didnt he? What example will I be setting for my children if I stay? That their mother is a weak, pathetic loser?
What do you mean by customary? Was it blessed by the church? Were there witnesses to witness the union? Must a marriage license be signed? Yea, let it be in Naija, but the one in US belongs to me. And not because I'd NEED them. Let's be honest here, in this 21st century, which women is foolish enough to have all properties in her husband name only? Even if he had them before they married, it can always be "revised". Your problem is that you have never met professional players. Well, it is for the lack of trying. Who goes out looking for them? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 2:52pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: Internet mouth! I got my PhD from the University of Sagamu! Ileke-IdI: Ehn! What has love got to do with it. Sit there and accept the benefits of marriage na. At least he would still put a roof over your head. Ileke-IdI: The kids need both parents. Remember the mantra: "In the best interest of the kids". You should always act in the West in the best interest of the kids, the parents interest is irrelevant. Ileke-IdI: Customary marriages do not require a marriage licence. You just get the girl, family meet family and pakurumo in a nice bedroom to fire. US courts will not recognise that as marriage. The only asset my client would have in USA is a high-purchase Jeep. Ileke-IdI: Why would women not have all properties in her husband's name? Is marriage not about 100% trust? Why are women so unromantic. Ileke-IdI: Like if you don't want a baaad boy. A reeeeeal thug! |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Rimamnusi: 3:13pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Polygamy is totally wrong |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 3:24pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: of course you wouldn't get my point even when it is simplistically illustrated to the root. You are the one that brought up "misinterpretation" so if people can misinterpret biblical stance on polygamy...it is very well easily that people can misinterpreted other stances in the bible including homosexuality and adultery/fornication. YET some CHRISTIANS/MUSLIMS/OTHERS supports that marriage isn't just for man and woman EVEN IF THE BIBLE specifically states it is designed for male and female. Which did they ignored Polygamy or Homosexuality? Now your stance was since Jesus didn't condemn the whores for having whores...it is biblically accepted. It is also against the commandment to kill but Jesus didn't condemn Paul for killing plethora of Christians before coming a disciple...so it means killing is okay now since Jesus didn't condemn Paul Your question: How can people misinterpret what the bible says when they agree with? My answer: How can people misinterpret what the Bible says when they disagree with it? 1 Like |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by tiebe: 3:25pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
sexyverah: everytin is wrong wit it, cos d bible said one man one wife... or bible dey lie? was speaking bout this in the office some time ago and we did not find the exact place where it was said in the bible. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 3:29pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
F00028: You obviously don't know anything about women (properly so called). @bolded...I didn't know I had to do a research on family samples. |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by Sagamite(m): 3:42pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: No, it cannot be misinterpreted what the bible says about homosexuality or adultery or fornication because it is fcking, blatantly written in the bible it is not acceptable. Why did you bring "jesus did not condemn killing"? How is that relevant? Is it in the bible that polygamy is not allowed? Why did you bring an analogy of something that is clearly in the bible to compare to polygamy. What is your basis of comparison for: A) Polygamy that is not in the bible and not condemned by Jesus even when in his face. to B) No killing that is blatantly in the bible, probably dictated by Jesus at some point (I leave that to bible-thumpers to give the quote) but Jesus did not condemn on one occasion. How are those 2 comparable? This is an example of when I say some of you struggle with logic. - If something is not in the bible and is not supported by Jesus, THEN that thing cannot be what Xtian values dictate. - If something is IN the bible. Case closed! You do not need Jesus to even refer to it. THEN that is what Xtain values dictate. - If something is CLEARLY STATED by Jesus. Case closed! THEN that is what Xtain values dictate. Pure simple bread and moi-moi alata logic! - The bible CLEARLY talks against killing. - The bible CLEARLY talks against having sex outside marriage. - The bible CLEARLY talks against homosexuality. - The bible did not talk against polygamy. Logic! |
Re: What Is Wrong With Polygamy? ( Comments From Men Only Please). by MrsChima(f): 4:02pm On Sep 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: What is logical about people contradicting themselves Why did you bring "Jesus/God did not condemn polygamy? How is the Bible relevant to people's choice in what they will supports/believe in/perform in actions You stated...religion is political correct...in other words.. not LITERAL. The bible outlined dislike/distaste in some things such as homosexuality/adultery..YET some Christians support/believes it is okay for man to marry man and the "devil" made them commit adultery because wife gotten fat. According to many Africans....homosexuality is "western" and do not support "westernization" ...homosexuality is forbidden in Nigeria. SInce polygamy is not condemned and homosexuality is supported in many countries...should it be okay for men to have multiple husbands? Remember the Bible isn't against polygamy and indicates believers should follow the laws of the LAND. Message to the atheists...I understand your stance now. I would be confused too if I were to listen to some ranting religious zealot preaching about righteousness and contradicting themselves at the same time. That's the point/bottom line. |
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