[size=18pt]It is not how many people you have slept with that counts for your baggage, but what kind of damage was done in your relationships.

Dating one man may be worse than dating ten men.

If you slept with 15 good men, it would be better and safer to sleep with one brute.

What kind of baggage did you bring along from the men you have slept with?[/size]

The poster go dey regret sey she post stuff like this. Shey una see she don go hide. But guys mek una talk true, una no worse?

Thanks for all the comments madams and sirs!!!
I appreciate

mamaxxx: Thanks for all the comments madams and sirs!!!
I appreciate

You are welcome! Now, cross your legs for the time being.

15 oh my days,dts kinda on the high side o.choi.u might not be cheap but guess u cnt control urself when it comes to s e x.dat place sef don try.dnt think any guy would be too happy hearing this number so do urself a favor and spare them the details

U r not cheap,u are a giver.kezaya!

You got a secret but I think I know it
You want to let it out but them go call you ashy
You like to do it
Do the hmm hmmm hmmm
I know you like D’banj
And you like Don Jazzy
You like 2baba
And you like Fally Pupa
And I know you love Trey Songz
But you no fit sing his songs
I thought as much you know
I do not blame you though
You wanna have them all
You know it’s wrong
But the truth is that

You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
Just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
Rebete rebete rebete
Labata labata labata
Sebede sebede sebede
Rebete rebete rebete

mamaxxx:
Is 15 high? Whats average for a girl my age?

Jesus I cant go down on you after 15 men

Cunninlingus:

Jesus I cant go down on you after 15 men

U can say dat again.
@all dse saying its nothing..would u or would u allow ur bro/relation date or bring her home f marriage knowing wat u know..

15 di.k.k$ and still counting...
i wil warn ur husband to expect 14 men @ ur wedding wearing the same aso obi...

ItsModella: @OP, are you damn serious? It's possible that you might be a s3x addict and hence might need therapy.

thank u jare. I don't knw how u think it's normal to fucck more than 15men within than period of years. Maybe people have forgotten that nymphonania is a mental disease that needs urgent therapy! Google is your friend!

carefreewannabe: You got a secret but I think I know it
You want to let it out but them go call you ashy
You like to do it
Do the hmm hmmm hmmm
I know you like D’banj
And you like Don Jazzy
You like 2baba
And you like Fally Pupa
And I know you love Trey Songz
But you no fit sing his songs
I thought as much you know
I do not blame you though
You wanna have them all
You know it’s wrong
But the truth is that

You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
Just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
You’re just an Oliver
Oliver Oliver Oliver Twist
Rebete rebete rebete
Labata labata labata
Sebede sebede sebede
Rebete rebete rebete

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Double standards all over this thread.
Why is it acceptable if the man or prospective husband was found to have slept with an equal or more no of women before settling down but gets frowned upon when the women come clean.

Personally, i so do not care about someone's past as long as the past ain't gonna affect our relationship

Get real guys, the probability that your prospective wives would have had quite a few sexual partners is quite high especially when the society accepts that it's somewhat normal for the men to have multiple gf's at a time.

Well its good to have finally consoled yourself at the end of it all just try and sit up and embrace Jesus and be free from the bondage of fornication. Jesus is ever ready to forgive u just look up to him who is d alfa and omega.

jay bee: Double standards all over this thread.
Why is it acceptable if the man or prospective husband was found to have slept with an equal or more no of women before settling down but gets frowned upon when the women come clean.

Personally, i so do not care about someone's past as long as the past ain't gonna affect our relationship

Get real guys, the probability that your prospective wives would have had quite a few sexual partners is quite high especially when the society accepts that it's somewhat normal for the men to have multiple gf's at a time.

I will go with the oldie but goodie lock and key model response to this question if a key opens 15 locks its a great key if a lock is opened by 15 keys would u buy such lock ?
@op I don't judge but by lying u have answered yur question.

Brisingr: I will go with the oldie but goodie lock and key model response to this question if a key opens 15 locks its a great key if a lock is opened by 15 keys would u buy such lock ?
@op I don't judge but by lying u have answered yur question.

Are you planning to marry someone based on how many partners they've had or how best you complement each other?

Btw: last time i checked, keys/locks don't have emotion neither do they conform to the change phenom

I know better than to ask that question,no matter the response it will still bother me so I will take solace in the sanctuary my ignorance as granted me and delude myself into thinking am are first or the best she as ever had.
As for the lock and key model I told ya it old but it still works though lol..

I hardly comment in peoples write up infact this could be my first actually. @op without being judgmental or harsh to you. From my perspective as a Medical doctor and a Christian I think its quite high. You just have to stop and at ur age make a future for Ur life and future family. Don't know if ds will help u though.....am a MAN(high libido), am a Doctor (see it all times) am 30 in 12days from today(adult), am not a gay(very complete man)....yet am STILL A VIRGIN. If I can abstain believe me u can.(again am not judging and not self praising just helping out). Be good.

Exc@libur:
15 di.k.k$ and still counting...
i wil warn ur husband to expect 14 men @ ur wedding wearing the same aso obi...

dem dey do aso ebi on top dating somebody?

KINGwax: thank u jare. I don't knw how u think it's normal to fucck more than 15men within than period of years. Maybe people have forgotten that nymphonania is a mental disease that needs urgent therapy! Google is your friend!

15 men in 4 years is about 3 or 4 men per year.

i think that might be the general average perhaps.

with all these one night stands, booty calls, konji, etc, who knows.

**shrugs**

tpia1:

15 men in 4 years is about 3 or 4 men per year.

i think that might be the general average perhaps.

Really? That's the average these days? I still think it's a high number especially in that time span. Oh well.

@OP, firstly you don't bring such topics to NL and not expect insults. You have to understand the rule of the game here first.

I don't think I'm a fan a 15 sexua.l partners in 4 years as a lady but I won't condemn you.
The fact that you think it might not be okay is a good start.

We are not saying you shouldn't be sexually active (since you have started already) but at least, caution the number of partners.

You already told him 5. Well, just move on with that line and hope he doesn't find out himself (altho that would be a little hard).
You are not getting any younger, so try to limit them please.

KINGwax: + one million likes

Let's sing it out loud.

Golden Lady:

Really? That's the average these days? I still think it's a high number especially in that time span. Oh well.

should be the average, i suppose, if someone is sexually active and not in a steady relationship or celibate.

say s/he goes to nightclubs, parties, etc, where s.ex is generally expected after meeting up with men there.

or even assuming most males will expect s.ex in any context anyway.

just guessing, dont really know.

I guess he is asking because ur p***y is lose.

Pele dear. Use alum n hot water 4 one month b4 ur wedding.

Anything more than 10 is too much for a lady. But I can't judge u, many women hv done worse, I knw I hv slept with more than 20 myself. It doesn't make d lady involved cheap or a slut. Shit happens and b4 u blink, u wud hv gone over the limit.

Number 1, i hate it when ppl criticize ppl. number 2, who re u to point fingers or bring people down for their mistakes? I bet u, all those imbeciles cursing the babe na u ppl do pass. And for all those men acting as though their mothers re still virgins should shut d heck up..... As for the poster jare, just look at it as one of those things in life. U can open up to your current man, if he is really understanding he would look pass it. Afterall, u did what u did b4 u guys met. Remember: Transparency is the KEY, If u two love each other.

you can say 15 is high but some of you have gone more than that.Men could have played on her intelligence then,probably she is too naive.what matters now is that you have a good relationship now that you are sincere in,just keep your sincerity intact with this your new found love. just tell him all,its your past and now you have met the right man so just stick to him and make sure no one else after him. tell him all you have done,he will love you for the rest of his life.as you expressed yourself it is obvious you have found the right man and as your heart desires to total sincerity,God will help you achieve it and i know your plan to marry this guy will work.

@op you try o,but as a woman,I think its not fair.

@op,don't panick my dear.You are still a virgin! y do men do that?Never ask a woman how many guys she has slept with because many will lie and swear with Ogun and amadiohia.Once my ex ask me that question and I refused at first so he questioned yet again so I gave him the numbers and details,locations.He nearly had an heart attack! .So when he finally softened and said he loves me no matter my past.I just smiled and told him the gospel truth which is"honey d main reason y I told u this is because I wud never marry you"cos I wud NEVER EVER tell my fiance hat.NEVER EVER!!!



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