HIAN!! WHY WOULD YOUR MAN ASK YOU SUCH? TO WHAT END, BIKONU??

But wait oo. 15men?? Chai u chop banana wella oo!

Mynd_44: Why should you concern yourself with you been better or worse that some people? Babe you are who you are and the sinner you start living for yourself, the better

This reinforces a similar debate we had on another thread a few days ago, and there seemed to be a consensus that marrying a virgin may be the best way out for men who worry themselves about such statistics.
Personally, I am one of those men, because I have seen many many bad and deceitful women who turn holy when it is time to get married.
You say 15, it's probably higher, and you lied to your dude cos you know the answer to the question you've asked here.
Though we CANNOT judge you, and for the fact that some of us guys have done more numbers, the cruel reality is that it is a man's world, and he gets to chose the kind of wife he wants in the end. I think women should always have this fact in the back of their minds when doing their own numbers.
Now, ask yourself, if your guy were to find out today that you have done 15 or more guys, would he still be loving up enough to embark on a lifetime contract of marriage with you??

a lady asked me some days ago how many ladies i ve been with, i listed dem and told her as welldat i know all of dem and we speak occassionaly,

and what about the ones you dont even remember.

no be all of them you go recollect nah.


i think issues like these should just be ignored or else a lot of men will get hbp.

the women are sexually active- i doubt anything can be changed about that.


just come to terms with it like the western world has done.

however, women do need to be careful however, because there are many men who will label you for the same, so if nothing else, dont broadcast your actions.

if you believe in s.exual emancipation, stick with men who are of like mind. (Although that's still not a guarantee they wont condemn you later).



doesnt mean i'm espousing casual s.ex though.

Alaafia l‘oro:

Man,are you serious? 20 men?
@op...In my opinion,you are too cheap to have slept with over 15 men in just 4 years and I won‘t be suprised if you eventually sleep with 7 or 8 more before marriage.
I will advise you to avoid more casual se.x or else you will be counting in tripple figure at age 40.

Oh ok! What about u, how many women have u slept with. U nigerian men need to stop this double standard. look at the kettle calling the pot black, abeg!
Yes she may not be a saint but as long as she has her standards and its not money inclined or she having leaky cunt and she is not cheap.

Some girls sleep with more than 3 men in a month, that's the reality. Even when they're in a relationship, they still go and meet men so as to get money for se.x . But who am I to judge? I can only tell you to have sex when you want to, not because of anyone. That way, you can avoid feeling cheap. I think the feeling of being cheap doesn't lie in the number of partners being with, but realising some of them were just not worth it. You will acknowledge that some of them were good to you and treated you right. Just practise safe sex because you owe nobody an explanation about your sex life, but you.

^^

Jehovah...15men..,nd u r in ur mid twenties...God please help me..I dey fear wella..seems d way forward is to go for virgins..but I don't fancy virgins jor...nawaoh..God please gimme d wife u hv destined for me...

@op..tell ur guy d truth..but u mean sha...15men is pretty high for a lady..don't allow people convince u otherwise..

^^
For a lady? Why is it that if a man does it, he is free but a lady gets frowned at? Who do those guys sleep with?

I thank God my girl is a virgin

eedrees: I thank God my girl is a virgin

How about you. Are you a virgin?

Mynd_44:
How about you. Are you a virgin?

Mynd_44:
How about you. Are you a virgin?

i think so

I can't call you a s.lut; I could remember my friend's girlfriend told him she bleeped over 35 guys before meeting him but he still married her, even after telling me! The point is my friend too was a crazy guy & had bleeped over 60, so he couldn't judge her coz he was no better so, don't mind some of these people that are calling you a s.lut!

Just try to slow down or stick to one person or get married so it can help you stay away from fornicating frequently!

How many girls has he slept with..did u ask him..?

^^
smart. I don't see how people can just judge like that

eedrees:
i think so

You are simply confused

Mynd_44:
You are simply confused

Actually am not...but does virginity matters to guys??

eedrees:
Actually am not...but does virginity matters to guys??

Have you ever had sex? Anal, Oral or the normal? If you have, you are not a virgin and it matters.
Stop being a bloody sexist

eedrees:
Actually am not...but does virginity matters to guys??

Oh, yes, by all means it does! And, yes again, it's kettle calling pot black. But it's a man's world. Na our choice be dat (well some of us at least)...

;D15 is not dat much now wen I hve nut mark my own register,snd ur address so dat we can start countin frm deir ;D15 is not dat much now wen I hve nut mark my own register,snd ur address so dat we can start countin frm deir

@OP
The fact that you felt bad and had to lie to him about the exact figure and also create this thread simply shows that you've got a beautiful heart, dont let the silly critics on this thread get to you cos you are not cheap or at fault

The male folks are the problem, when a man treats a girl so nice and makes her feel loved...if she's not a virgin? They are bound to consummate their relationship. If that man turns out to be a player and she eventually meets more of his type......what happens

She's not at fault, Just an innocent girl seeking love!
All the men on here should also desist from deceiving vulnerable young ladies

Double standard is the order of the day now

tpia@:



and what about the ones you dont even remember.

no be all of them you go recollect nah.
.

Oga, dd u even read me at all, note dat i ddnt write the number of ladies here, it coul 5, 25, 65, if u use yur glasses well, yu will see were i said dat i rememeber all, abi u think say i no fit rememember 58 ladies if so.

my point is in dis present day, she may actually be a saint,

those people talkin abt virgins, a female friend told me sat, dere is some stuff a friend gave to her and she used it and she was supprised to see her puss.sy crazily tight dat de boyfriend had to pass tru as if itss her 1sst time....so virgins aint de solution

Hypocrites on the loose here. Girl,just make sure you use protection,if he actually loves you,he wouldn't care the number of sex mates you have had in the past.

deshclones: ..God please gimme d wife u hv destined for me..

That's all.

pazienza: Hypocrites on the loose here. Girl,just make sure you use protection,if he actually loves you,he wouldn't care the number of sex mates you have had in the past.

That's what is invogue now. Everyone claiming holy

ArQueBusieR: lol...the Stiffmeister was right after all: "When a girl tells you she's slept with x no. of men, multiply x by 3, and you'll get something close to the real figure."

Check this out:

5 x 3 = 15.

Tada! Rocket science...lol

i'm dead!!
my current galfrnd told me 6 went we started dating. but i'm sure shez telling d truth cuz shez jst 19...

mawojuuche:

i'm dead!!
my current galfrnd told me 6 went we started dating. but i'm sure shez telling d truth cuz shez jst 19...

Does the number of people she has slept with matter at all?

Jojo Armani: @OP seems u re doing it to make or break a record, dis one u re counting, U try anyway some girls have lost count.


As in 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15. Hmmmm.

And am sure non of de men nyashed u once, lets assume each of dem did it 4 or 5 times.
Somebody help me get de actual nyashing *my calculator is bad*

atleast 75 times b4 d husband found ha...

NO U ARE NT CHEAP.at least u are beta dan ur bf dat slept wit over 100gals makin u d 101gals dat e as slept wit on his list.ur name mamaxxx is a porn name already(xx)if u kan sleep wit more dan 15 and ur bf more dan 100 hw mani people wuld urchildren hv sex wit.d sex gene 2 wuld b in dhr blud and d wuld follnw ur foot steep

nooo!
u're not cheap o.
ur jst xploring ursef